ryan odyssey: milkded disciple
oh, the irony!
ryan odyssey, a member of gone_fishinq’s paycheck gang and a moderator of his server, gone_fishinq hell, abused and manipulated his now ex-girlfriend into staying in the the relationship by love bombing them, excessively spending on them, and gaslighting them into thinking that they had done something seriously wrong when in reality the situation of conflict was being exaggerated to create a false sense of guilt and onus to keep her in the relationship. when confronted, ryan odyssey refused to address his wrongdoing, instead opting to use false allegations spread by paycheck gang against those investigating him, and later tried to contact his ex-gf very inappropriately to half-heartedly apologize for what he had done, only so that he could try and avoid his reputation being ruined. in this apology, he admitted to love bombing and all other forms of manipulation, and furthermore tried to defend it as somehow a good thing. gone_fishinq and paycheck gang have been well aware of this for months now, and have opted for a coverup where ryan odyssey silently disappears instead of publicly acknowledging his wrong doings.
this document is meant to raise awareness, publicly hold ryan odyssey accountable, and criticise gone_fishinq for handling this situation horribly.
let it be known that this is only a small excerpt of a much larger document, that we believed had to come out sooner because of certain urgencies. ryan odyssey has done much more besides this, all of which will be made public in tandem with many other collaborators. get ready.
ryan did this thing where he randomly dumped money into his ex for no reason as a love bombing tactic under the pretext of “good charity”. it seems sweet on the surface, but it ended up making the victim feel indebted to him, which kept her in the relationship despite being mistreated, and made her feel guilty for breaking up with him even though he was abusive because she felt like she was paying back his lavish gifts with a break up. plus, he sent her way too much money in the relationship, to the point where it was obvious that it wasn’t genuine.
in this instance, he apologizes for forgetting the victims birthday and tries to cashapp her money to make up for it. the problem isnt forgetting the birthday, but rather the “i need to send you money to show my appreciation of you”, which is a pretty bad freudian slip. if the only way that you can show your appreciation to your partner is fancy gifts, you should rethink the way you show love in a relationship, because materialism is far from what the central tenant should be.
sent $20 and $30 within 3 weeks, first $20 were 2 nitro gifts ryan sent to his ex INSTANTLY after seeing the messages. the victim suspects he spent over $250 on her from the start of the relationship up to this point. its also worth mentioning that both of these were AFTER they broke up, which suggests he may be trying to stay in her good graces with the same love bombing tactic despite the amount of bullshit he’s put her thru.
in this instance, ryan odyssey gaslights his ex into believing she has a communication and trust problem because she “said you were okay even though you’re clearly not”. ryan tries to paint this as a serious issue that “makes me question when i should trust you and when i should not”, when it is literally a single moment in a game. he claims to “understand her issues” and offers to “help” her by forcing her to communicate with him about everything that happens in her life, which is obviously an poorly disguised attempt attempt to know more about her, thus gain more control over her, thus incline to her to stay into the relationship. this is also the infamous “beeswarm simulator crashout” incident, where ryan makes a big deal of her not noticing him leaving beeswarm simulator, again suggesting that she has some sort of communication issue because shes not giving him attention 24/7. very manipulative attempt at trying to gain control over her that eventually worked.
again, another attempt to try and gaslight his ex into giving him more control over her day. in this one, ryan complains about how he didnt get a text OR get noticed when he left vc and, again, tries to guilt trip her into feeling bad for not prioritizing “playing together” like he does, whatever that means. he again questions her trustworthiness just because of one incident, and even questions how high of a priority he is to her in her life, which is a shameless way to try and get more control over her time by making her feel guilty about placing him higher, even when she has summer school. he finishes by coating it in a “help me help you” routine which, as explained earlier, is a disguised attempt into taking control in her life. also note that when she apologizes for not giving as much attention to him, he frantically corrects her and “clarifies” that “this isnt about just asking for more attention from you”, obviously fearing that his true intentions have been caught and trying to deny them.
in this instance, when she finally realizes how bad he is for her and breaks it off, ryan tries to squeeze his way back into the relationship by mentioning that he “will still have those feelings for you when we talk” and that he “can’t exactly kill those feelings”, which is not just an attempt to try and guilt trip her into feeling bad for his hurt feelings and taking him back, but is also just crazy inappropriate to say to someone right after they break up with you. he seems to realize this, as he quickly follows up with “im not going to let these feelings kill this relationship”, trying to act like he can tolerate it for her, further guilt tripping her, but he later “slips up” again and again brings up how he’s “been hurting a bit”, while again clarifying that “the pain is necessary”. a shameful attempt at getting back with her. also worth mentioning that most of the monetary love bombing showcased in this doc happened after the breakup, which shows he was still trying to lure her with lavish gifts into being his gf again, which is itself a manipulative thing to do.
when confronted about this in good faith (shoutout baloneyab), instead of actually addressing the wrongs that he did and trying to make a case for himself, he deflects to an offensive image that was posted by baloneyab on twitter in an attempt to invalidate the very real allegations against him by saying “look! you’re a racist nazi!” as a false allegation and then immediatley blocks him. even though this is the most unserious thing of all time and has nothing to do with this, but because this has also been spread around by thoras and onionbred, we will address it anyway. it pains me to clarify this, but yes, baloneyab is black (if it wasnt obvious already), and thus, he can say it. as for the rest of it, baloneyab has joked multiple times about being a soyteen, or a poster on soyjak.party, and likes sending soyjaks (like this one) to “play into” the joke. he’s already apologized for this one multiple times, but if you are seriously taking one osaka reaction image as an accurate reflection of his social and political beliefs, you are probably too young to be reading this.
after over a month of him just knowing that these allegations are floating around about him without caring, he suddenly remembers that he actually has a responsibility to fix his mistakes and panickedly messages his ex victim asking if she has anything to do with what baloneyabs been saying. already a horrible opener.
he starts by going into depth on random unrelated paycheck schizo conspiracy theories that baloneyab is some evil lying boogeyman who is looking for incriminating evidence on all of paycheck (not true in the slightest lmao), but then remembers that he’s supposed to be talking about what he did to her and pretends like he wants to fix his behavior towards her instead of beg her not to trust the sadistic conniving dictator baloney so he can brush this off without worrying about his reputation being ruined. believe it or not, if you open up a conversation with your ex about some completely random guy and then transition to talking about you and your ex, its obvious that the conversation is about said random guy. in other words, he’s not genuine about apologizing.
and here’s the kicker! ryan odyssey both admits to lovebombing and begging for her attention in the relationship and seeing nothing wrong with either of these manipulation tactics. nuff said.
here ryan shows disdain for her taking her time and wants this very delicate resolution to be short and “sweet” so that he doesn’t have to worry about her anymore. should be obvious that this is the farthest thing from a genuine apology
the final nail in the coffin. ryan odyssey “pulls his leverage”, mentioning all the “care and effort” he put into his ex in the form of monetary gifts and claims he shouldn't broken up with because of it, despite his obviously abusive love bombing and gaslighting, which he also references by again somehow insinuating that his ex is the one with the communication issue instead of him, further trying to deceive her into believing everything is her fault. even mentions how hurt his feelings are again. literally exploiting his ex gf’s fears of onus to try and convince her she needs to apologize and make up to him for his love bombing. actually despicable.
the private friend group gc with multiple fishinqcord moderators, on the other hand, had full knowledge about this incident right away after ryan frantically dmed them about it, and not only did they scold her and get mad with her for talking to baloneyab about something very maturely and reasonably, one of them kicked her out of the gc for just discussing with him in the first place. eventually, when she explained to them why she made the choice to tell him, the mods realized that she was within her rights and that the sadistic conniving dictator baloney posed no threat to them, but for some reason just decided to do nothing about it. didn’t kick ryan odyssey out of paycheck gang or fishinqcord, didn’t make a statement explaining everything, and just let this very incriminating information stay where it was instead of taking action, letting the very dangerous and manipulative ryan just continue moderating and talking with people in fishinqcord like nothing ever happened. seriously questionable conduct on the moderators parts that may be a deliberate coverup to keep everything looking smooth in fishinqcord, even when it isnt.
on top of that, baloneyab also tried reaching out to the mods multiple times before making the evidence public, to give them a chance to resolve the incident with ryan in private before making a short announcement about what happened. as baloneyab himself says, almost all of the mods ignored him or blocked him, including this one. again, this shows that moderators were aware of what ryan had done, and instead of following up and cooperating with those trying to help them root out an abuser in their midst, they ignored all attempts to reach them and continued to do nothing with the damning info they had.
ryan odyssey has been absent from the server for a few months now, which is usually a tell tale sign that there’s some drama going on related to him that he doesn’t want drifting into the gone_fishinq fanbase. disc did it when he was exposed for keeping ties with multiple groomers, and bluewcfy did it when his jewtopia looked like it was gonna be leaked (sneak peeks for the main doc!). whether he was advised to do it by remaining paycheckers or he acted alone, this is an attempt to detract attention from himself and avoid this info just in case it gets leaked in the future, which is by definition a coverup.
here’s proof that ryan odyssey is still in their roblox friend group, which proves that he probably hasnt been booted from paycheck gang despite knowledge of what he’s done, further showing either their idiocracy or maliciousness. also worth noting that disc is in here too, despite publicly saying that he would distance himself from tyler and paycheck gang. another lie?
ryan odyssey is not a good person. he’s not a good boyfriend, either. hell, he’s not even a good moderator.
gone_fishinq and paycheck gang have taken the route to silently advise ryan odyssey to leave fishinq hell, allowing him to still be present within their inside friend group on roblox and discord instead of publicly holding him accountable for the long list of wrongs he’s committed, some of which aren’t even mentioned here. i am calling on paycheck gang now to fix this already terrifying situation by kicking ryan out of gone_fishinq’s inner circle permanently, making sure he can never return to the server as a mod or anything else, and publicly acknowledge what has transpired in this document.
again, i must remind you that this is only a small taste of what the 200+ page document has to offer. i would advise mod team to grow some senses and start cleaning up your messes before we have to step in and do it for you again.
shoutout to dumpstream for helping me get this section of the document extracted in under a week i love you bro
thank you to anonymous for bringing this incident to our attention and supplying us with all of the incriminating evidence used here. you know who you are, and we salute you.
edit log
- 2/11/25
- added “pulling the leverage” evidence
- 2/12/25
- removed “gone_fishinq knows” para. looked at some comments on the doc in fishinqcord and realized people were focusing on the uncertainness of that piece of evidence instead of what ryan has done. i dont want anything to take away from the authenticity of this real story and allow bad actors to deflect to that.
- added second testimony of anonymous being kicked from the mod gc
nvm they didnt agree to it being made public
2/17/25
- added proof of baloneyab going to a mod about this months before it was made public