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Ally Parents IS A GROUP OF
PARENTS WHO HAVE
COME TOGETHER
BECAUSE WE HAVE A
TRANSGENDER CHILD.
We live all across the United
States. Our children are at
different ages and at different
stages along their journeys.
Some are just 		CONTACT US IF YOU
ARE TRANSGENDER*
and you need a friendly
ear to just listen? Do you
just want to ask a question
or say “hello”? It is so
important to us that
anyone who is transitioning
CONTACT US IF YOU ARE
A FAMILY MEMBER. We
can provide an empathic
ear, share resources, offer
camaraderie and mentorship,
and community for parents and
caregivers who may be
experiencing anxiety, isolation,
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Name of Ally
Parent
- Volunteer		Ally
Parent's
gender
identity		StateCell Phone
(for text or calls)		EmailChild's
gender identity		CHILD'S AGE
AT DISCLOSURE
preschool 0-4-
elementary 5-10-
middle 11-13-
HS 14-17-
18+		CHILD'S
CURRENT AGE
preschool 0-4-
elementary 5-10-
middle 11-13-
HS 14-17-
18+		beginning to transition, some
are living authentically as
adults already. We come
from different backgrounds.
What we have in common is
an unconditionalLOVE for
our children. We are allies to
the transgender community.

or thinking about disclosing
has the tools they need.
What we can offer is a kind
word, a loving, virtual hug,
or perhaps a suggestion
or two about helping you
connect with your parents,
or finding groups in your area
with people your age.
confusion, or a host of other
emotions. Whether you are
looking for guidance from a
parent who is further along on
the journey, trying to make
sense of your new reality, or
seeking to connect with
someone who “gets it,” Ally
Parents is a phone call or a
text away.
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GLOSSARY OF TERMS AT BOTTOM
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DanielleArizona623-219-6154mtfpreschoolelementary sch
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DebArizona480-540-8968ftm
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Jannacis womanCalifornia415-250-3194janna@standwithtrans.orgftm
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Kimcis womanCaliforniakimberly1211@msn.commtf18+18+
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Lynettecis womanCalifornia949-378-5607LynetteLedbetter1@gmail.comftm18+18+
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Susancis womanCalifornia760-271-1001susiecloudtwo@icloud.comftm18+
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Antoinettecis womanColorado303-505-8755goodrant@gmail.commtf11-1314-17
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DanetteColorado608-792-3023danettetritch@gmail.comftm
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LolitaColorado720-773-0724lollypop2935@gmail.comftm14-1818+
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MarionFlorida386-931-6006mtf
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Michelle cis womanFlorida908-392-7517MichelleinFlorida@yahoo.com afab-trans masculine18+18+
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Megancis womanWashington State412-568-3968weirdmombarbie@gmail.comftm14-17
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TobiFlorida352-448-8847allymomtobi@gmail.com1. mtf, 2. gender fluid, 3. gender fluid18+18+
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AnneIowa 563-495-0363 Anoonan2@yahoo.comtransgender woman, transgender girl18+, 218+, 11-14
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PeggyLouisiana504-919-3153peggyfabra@yahoo.commtf18+18+
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Raydracis womanLouisiana318-618-9060raydrah@gmail.comftm14-1718+
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JenMaine207-289-4125Jen92876@live.commtfHS18+
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LindaCis womanMaryland240-353-6949lxourias@yahoo.comtransgender woman18+18+
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TessMaryland443-848-7956MDAllyMom@gmail.comftm
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Marycis womanMassachusetts972-523-7255Mary.reticker58@gmail.comnon-binary trans male
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Amandacis womanMichigan313-451-3011Moretreesplease04@yahoo.comMale11-13
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Jenniecis womanMichigan646-325-0805jenniferhallan@yahoo.commtfpreschoolelementary school
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Judiecis womanMichigan313-466-2584tjudie265@gmail.comftm13-1718+
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Rachelcis womanMichigan734-623-9737rafparent1519@gmail.commale11-13
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Rachelcis womanMichigan248-379-8064rnixon7921@yahoo.comtrans female14-17
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Rosalindcis womanMichigan248-739-9254roz@standwithtrans.orgftm
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MaureenMississippi662-255-2539ftm18+18+
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Arisshe/herNew York917-620-8612arishrosh@gmail.com
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SheriNew York516-448-3386sheri.weisz@gmail.commtf17
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Bethshe/herNorth Carolina330-208-8788chuckandbethjones@yahoo.commalemiddle school
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CherylNorth Carolina919-656-8759ftm
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JenniferNorth Carolina336-541-5799bookbelle@gmail.commtf14-1718+
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Reneeshe/herNorth Carolina828-696-6265mamasmurf79@icloud.comtrans mtf18+18+
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KarenCis womanOhio330-447-5431izzi1957@gmail.comftmmiddle school18+
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JillOregon Portland area with family in Eugene-503-423-7103mtf11-1418+
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AlinaPennsylvania603-397-7140alina@tz42.commtf
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AllieSouth Carolina843-338-5830mtf
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TerrieTexas956-251-5632mtf
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LauraUtah801-449-1839limitlesslaura@gmail.comftm18+
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Heathershe/herWashington State360-442-9196azzureRain@gmail.commtfhigh schoolhigh school
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Lynettecis woman
Washington State
949-378-5607LynetteLedbetter1@gmail.comftm18+18+
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GLOSSARY
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af/affirmed femaleaffirmed identity is female
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am/affirmed maleaffirmed identity is male
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ag/agendernot identifying with a gender
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ally
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amab/assigned male at birth
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afab/assigned female at birth
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bi genderhaving two genders in one person
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binary
two genders and a person identifies as one or the other
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cm/cis man
gender of male same as presumed at birth
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cw/cis woman
gender of female same as presumed at birth
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cisnormativity
assumption that all or almost all are cis gender
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ftm/female to male
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mtf/male to female
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gc/gender creative
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gcb/gender creative boy
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gcg/gender creative girl
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gcs/gender confirming surgery
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ga/gender affirmation
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gas/gender affirmation surgery
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ge/gender expression
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gender expansive
does not identify with gender assigned at birth in gender expression
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gender identity
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gf/gender fluid
change over time in a person's gender expression, identity, or both
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gnc/gender non-conforming
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gq/gender queer
a person whose gender identity does not correspond to conventional binary gender distinctions
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grs/gender reassignment surgery
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gs/gender spectrum
meaning there are many gender identities (male, female, non-binary, two-spirit..)
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heteronormativity
the false assumption that everyone is heterosexual and that is the ideal
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LGBTQIA+
lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer, intersex, asexual
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mtf/male to female
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nb/non-binary
gender identities not solely male or female, outside the gender binary
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ps/pan sexual
attraction toward people regardless of their sex or gender identity
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SAAB/sex assigned at birth
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they/them/theirs
pronouns used to describe neutral gender identity (non-binary)
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tf/trans feminine
assigned male at birth but identifies with femininity
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tm/trans masculine
assigned female at birth but identifies with masculinity
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trans maleman assigned female at birth
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trans femalewoman assigned male at birth
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transgender
an umbrella term that includes different types of gender variant people
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transsexual
person who physically transitions from male to female or vice versa
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two spirit
person who identifies as having both a masculine and feminine spirit
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