The biggest red flags/green flags/beige flags on a first date revealed Data


1	Frequency Table
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3	1. What is your age
4			Frequency	Percent	Valid Percent	Cumulative Percent
5	Valid	a. 16-25	391	17.8	17.8	17.8
6		b. 25-40	624	28.4	28.4	46.1
7		c. 40-55	648	29.5	29.5	75.6
8		d. 55+	537	24.4	24.4	100.0
9		Total	2200	100.0	100.0
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11	2.What is your gender
12			Frequency	Percent	Valid Percent	Cumulative Percent
13	Valid	a. Male	968	44.0	44.0	44.0
14		b. Female	1182	53.7	53.7	97.7
15		c. Other	50	2.3	2.3	100.0
16		Total	2200	100.0	100.0
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18	3. Where do you live?
19			Frequency	Percent	Valid Percent	Cumulative Percent
20	Valid	Birmingham	265	12.0	12.0	12.0
21		Bolton	32	1.5	1.5	13.5
22		Bournemouth and Poole	44	2.0	2.0	15.5
23		Bradford	34	1.5	1.5	17.0
24		Brighton and Hove	32	1.5	1.5	18.5
25		Bristol	50	2.3	2.3	20.8
26		Coventry	37	1.7	1.7	22.5
27		Hull	30	1.4	1.4	23.8
28		Leeds	87	4.0	4.0	27.8
29		Leicester	38	1.7	1.7	29.5
30		Liverpool	96	4.4	4.4	33.9
31		London	958	43.5	43.5	77.4
32		Manchester	201	9.1	9.1	86.5
33		Newcastle	32	1.5	1.5	88.0
34		Nottingham	35	1.6	1.6	89.6
35		Plymouth	30	1.4	1.4	91.0
36		Sheffield	64	2.9	2.9	93.9
37		Stoke-on-Trent	42	1.9	1.9	95.8
38		Teesside	55	2.5	2.5	98.3
39		Wirral	38	1.7	1.7	100.0
40		Total	2200	100.0	100.0
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44			Count	Column N %
45	Q4. Which of these would you consider a green flag for a potential date (positive traits and signals about the other person)	a. Showing enthusiasm	617	28.1
46		b. Attentive listener	1313	59.7
47		c. Shared sense of humour	851	38.7
48		d. Has lots of hobbies	440	20.0
49		e. Passionate about career/work	455	20.7
50		f. Family orientated	634	28.8
51		g. Gamer	144	6.6
52		h. Is spontaneous	762	34.7
53		i. Generous with gifts	528	24.0
54		j. Remembers your likes/dislikes	647	29.4
55		k. Organises dates	934	42.5
56		l. Talks about their emotions	548	24.9
57		m. Responsive/good communication	593	27.0
58		n. Good manners	676	30.8
59		o. Open to new things and experiences	500	22.7
60		p. Not judgemental	130	5.9
61		q. Offers to pay the bill	1028	46.8
62		r. Sticks to plans, is on time	253	11.5
63		Total	2198	100.0
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67			Count	Column N %
68	Q5. Which of these would you consider a beige flag for a potential date (odd traits that show lack of character)	a. Uses too many pop culture references	678	30.8
69		b. Makes cliche statements	898	40.8
70		c. Agrees with everything you say	1017	46.2
71		d. Gives indecisive answers	1220	55.5
72		e. Never been abroad	1193	54.3
73		f. Doesn’t want to leave their home town	817	37.2
74		g. Not adventurous with food	1356	61.7
75		h. Doesn’t know their left and right	955	43.4
76		i. Only likes one genre of music	1151	52.3
77		j. Makes a food or drink their personality (coffee, craft beer)	817	37.2
78		k. Talks about themselves in the third person	780	35.5
79		l. Non-specific/genuine compliments	1129	51.3
80		m. Keeps their phone on loud	549	25.0
81		n. Oversharing	788	35.8
82		o. Double texting	446	20.3
83		Total	2199	100.0
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87			Count	Column N %
88	Q6. Which of these would you consider a red flag? (negative traits and signals about the other person)	a. Talks about ex-partners too much	1666	75.7
89		b. Doesn’t tip	1250	56.8
90		c. Excessive phone use	1362	61.9
91		d. Only talks about themselves	1676	76.2
92		e. Can't drive	760	34.5
93		f. Is too forward	847	38.5
94		g. Gets your name wrong	1555	70.7
95		h. Too reclusive/doesn’t like the outdoors	1043	47.4
96		i. Rude to others	1428	64.9
97		j. Just got out of a long term relationship	1091	49.6
98		k. No fashion sense	1640	74.5
99		l. Uses slang such as yeet, cop or bussin’	1271	57.8
100		m. Follows high numbers of the opposite sex on social media	1238	56.3
101		o. Not independent	1735	78.9
102		p. Bad spelling or grammar	934	42.5
103		q. Too obsessed with the gym	551	25.0
104		r. Doesn’t like animals	856	38.9
105		s. Lazy	1543	70.1
106		Total	2200	100.0
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108
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110
111			1. What is your age
112			a. 16-25	b. 25-40	c. 40-55	d. 55+
113			Count	Count	Count	Count
114	Q4. Which of these would you consider a green flag for a potential date (positive traits and signals about the other person)	a. Showing enthusiasm	117	185	173	142
115		b. Attentive listener	230	367	392	324
116		c. Shared sense of humour	154	226	264	207
117		d. Has lots of hobbies	84	124	119	113
118		e. Passionate about career/work	82	130	146	97
119		f. Family orientated	112	185	185	152
120		g. Gamer	17	46	37	44
121		h. Is spontaneous	124	211	235	192
122		i. Generous with gifts	99	122	172	135
123		j. Remembers your likes/dislikes	122	194	183	148
124		k. Organises dates	163	273	264	234
125		l. Talks about their emotions	93	147	178	130
126		m. Responsive/good communication	96	167	167	163
127		n. Good manners	133	195	181	167
128		o. Open to new things and experiences	84	140	152	124
129		p. Not judgemental	19	44	29	38
130		q. Offers to pay the bill	198	281	312	237
131		r. Sticks to plans, is on time	36	69	89	59
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133
134
135			1. What is your age
136			a. 16-25	b. 25-40	c. 40-55	d. 55+
137			Count	Count	Count	Count
138	Q5. Which of these would you consider a beige flag for a potential date (odd traits that show lack of character)	a. Uses too many pop culture references	125	195	211	147
139		b. Makes cliche statements	164	247	265	222
140		c. Agrees with everything you say	187	291	302	237
141		d. Gives indecisive answers	216	348	362	294
142		e. Never been abroad	208	330	367	288
143		f. Doesn’t want to leave their home town	134	253	237	193
144		g. Not adventurous with food	232	389	411	324
145		h. Doesn’t know their left and right	168	281	273	233
146		i. Only likes one genre of music	198	316	366	271
147		j. Makes a food or drink their personality (coffee, craft beer)	141	243	245	188
148		k. Talks about themselves in the third person	143	241	204	192
149		l. Non-specific/genuine compliments	197	327	306	299
150		m. Keeps their phone on loud	83	148	174	144
151		n. Oversharing	146	232	218	192
152		o. Double texting	71	128	129	118
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155
156			1. What is your age
157			a. 16-25	b. 25-40	c. 40-55	d. 55+
158			Count	Count	Count	Count
159	Q6. Which of these would you consider a red flag? (negative traits and signals about the other person)	a. Talks about ex-partners too much	283	471	510	402
160		b. Doesn’t tip	232	371	357	290
161		c. Excessive phone use	251	376	397	338
162		d. Only talks about themselves	296	469	511	400
163		e. Can't drive	146	204	229	181
164		f. Is too forward	162	245	246	194
165		g. Gets your name wrong	266	448	455	386
166		h. Too reclusive/doesn’t like the outdoors	187	289	316	251
167		i. Rude to others	252	389	420	367
168		j. Just got out of a long term relationship	188	295	342	266
169		k. No fashion sense	293	463	485	399
170		l. Uses slang such as yeet, cop or bussin’	229	344	387	311
171		m. Follows high numbers of the opposite sex on social media	226	368	346	298
172		o. Not independent	312	490	512	421
173		p. Bad spelling or grammar	181	257	281	215
174		q. Too obsessed with the gym	106	160	149	136
175		r. Doesn’t like animals	160	215	261	220
176		s. Lazy	269	443	457	374
177
178
179
180			2.What is your gender
181			a. Male	b. Female	c. Other
182			Count	Count	Count
183	Q4. Which of these would you consider a green flag for a potential date (positive traits and signals about the other person)	a. Showing enthusiasm	265	341	11
184		b. Attentive listener	581	704	28
185		c. Shared sense of humour	393	441	17
186		d. Has lots of hobbies	195	232	13
187		e. Passionate about career/work	205	240	10
188		f. Family orientated	261	360	13
189		g. Gamer	70	71	3
190		h. Is spontaneous	331	416	15
191		i. Generous with gifts	232	283	13
192		j. Remembers your likes/dislikes	296	336	15
193		k. Organises dates	398	515	21
194		l. Talks about their emotions	241	295	12
195		m. Responsive/good communication	252	330	11
196		n. Good manners	299	362	15
197		o. Open to new things and experiences	224	266	10
198		p. Not judgemental	68	60	2
199		q. Offers to pay the bill	430	572	26
200		r. Sticks to plans, is on time	117	131	5
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203
204			2.What is your gender
205			a. Male	b. Female	c. Other
206			Count	Count	Count
207	Q5. Which of these would you consider a beige flag for a potential date (odd traits that show lack of character)	a. Uses too many pop culture references	301	359	18
208		b. Makes cliche statements	398	477	23
209		c. Agrees with everything you say	454	538	25
210		d. Gives indecisive answers	544	652	24
211		e. Never been abroad	510	658	25
212		f. Doesn’t want to leave their home town	354	449	14
213		g. Not adventurous with food	586	733	37
214		h. Doesn’t know their left and right	414	530	11
215		i. Only likes one genre of music	517	611	23
216		j. Makes a food or drink their personality (coffee, craft beer)	391	409	17
217		k. Talks about themselves in the third person	357	408	15
218		l. Non-specific/genuine compliments	477	620	32
219		m. Keeps their phone on loud	248	286	15
220		n. Oversharing	372	405	11
221		o. Double texting	195	248	3
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224
225			2.What is your gender
226			a. Male	b. Female	c. Other
227			Count	Count	Count
228	Q6. Which of these would you consider a red flag? (negative traits and signals about the other person)	a. Talks about ex-partners too much	738	889	39
229		b. Doesn’t tip	556	666	28
230		c. Excessive phone use	630	700	32
231		d. Only talks about themselves	737	906	33
232		e. Can't drive	341	401	18
233		f. Is too forward	383	442	22
234		g. Gets your name wrong	692	830	33
235		h. Too reclusive/doesn’t like the outdoors	475	547	21
236		i. Rude to others	644	756	28
237		j. Just got out of a long term relationship	474	595	22
238		k. No fashion sense	715	889	36
239		l. Uses slang such as yeet, cop or bussin’	550	695	26
240		m. Follows high numbers of the opposite sex on social media	559	653	26
241		o. Not independent	753	944	38
242		p. Bad spelling or grammar	420	495	19
243		q. Too obsessed with the gym	226	312	13
244		r. Doesn’t like animals	376	456	24
245		s. Lazy	680	830	33
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248
249			3. Where do you live?
250			Birmingham	Bolton	Bournemouth and Poole	Bradford	Brighton and Hove	Bristol	Coventry	Hull	Leeds	Leicester	Liverpool	London	Manchester	Newcastle	Nottingham	Plymouth	Sheffield	Stoke-on-Trent	Teesside	Wirral
251			Count	Count	Count	Count	Count	Count	Count	Count	Count	Count	Count	Count	Count	Count	Count	Count	Count	Count	Count	Count
252	Q4. Which of these would you consider a green flag for a potential date (positive traits and signals about the other person)	a. Showing enthusiasm	70	6	10	13	8	11	10	9	22	7	27	264	71	10	11	7	21	12	19	9
253		b. Attentive listener	156	20	27	22	18	27	23	20	50	22	60	576	128	17	19	18	36	23	32	19
254		c. Shared sense of humour	91	14	17	12	8	21	12	15	35	20	37	379	76	13	10	12	26	16	17	20
255		d. Has lots of hobbies	41	7	11	12	4	9	7	2	21	9	17	192	45	8	5	9	11	9	13	8
256		e. Passionate about career/work	48	6	7	8	8	9	7	6	14	9	18	204	34	5	13	8	17	9	14	11
257		f. Family orientated	59	6	12	9	6	13	13	11	23	16	33	284	55	12	6	10	19	11	19	17
258		g. Gamer	22	2	1	3	5	4	1	3	6	3	7	55	10	2	4	4	3	3	4	2
259		h. Is spontaneous	92	8	20	14	11	12	12	7	28	12	24	326	83	13	18	10	26	13	21	12
260		i. Generous with gifts	80	7	14	7	5	10	9	8	17	4	30	229	45	8	6	6	13	10	13	7
261		j. Remembers your likes/dislikes	80	4	14	8	9	12	11	9	33	13	32	270	51	13	8	8	23	12	23	14
262		k. Organises dates	117	16	22	16	15	20	19	15	38	17	41	394	84	18	9	14	23	22	19	15
263		l. Talks about their emotions	61	10	11	5	6	13	9	8	25	3	29	241	51	6	12	7	9	11	17	14
264		m. Responsive/good communication	63	14	14	10	10	11	11	5	24	9	19	260	60	7	8	11	18	11	15	13
265		n. Good manners	87	4	12	9	13	16	9	5	25	13	25	313	59	6	9	7	21	12	19	12
266		o. Open to new things and experiences	59	9	9	12	16	12	11	7	22	15	24	201	46	9	4	4	11	10	10	9
267		p. Not judgemental	16	2	4	2	1	3	5	3	6	4	4	57	11	1	2	1	3	2	1	2
268		q. Offers to pay the bill	114	15	19	18	18	29	18	10	38	15	45	442	100	17	18	14	37	15	22	24
269		r. Sticks to plans, is on time	31	3	7	5	1	7	7	1	12	3	11	103	23	3	1	4	11	5	10	5
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272
273			3. Where do you live?
274			Birmingham	Bolton	Bournemouth and Poole	Bradford	Brighton and Hove	Bristol	Coventry	Hull	Leeds	Leicester	Liverpool	London	Manchester	Newcastle	Nottingham	Plymouth	Sheffield	Stoke-on-Trent	Teesside	Wirral
275			Count	Count	Count	Count	Count	Count	Count	Count	Count	Count	Count	Count	Count	Count	Count	Count	Count	Count	Count	Count
276	Q5. Which of these would you consider a beige flag for a potential date (odd traits that show lack of character)	a. Uses too many pop culture references	90	14	12	9	8	17	7	12	28	16	29	291	58	8	9	14	17	14	14	11
277		b. Makes cliche statements	110	11	19	20	13	17	14	13	34	13	37	389	83	11	15	10	36	17	25	11
278		c. Agrees with everything you say	126	15	19	14	20	18	17	13	47	16	46	430	98	14	20	7	35	24	23	15
279		d. Gives indecisive answers	145	18	33	22	15	30	23	19	42	19	54	516	115	18	22	15	39	23	30	22
280		e. Never been abroad	147	20	22	23	13	25	21	18	48	20	49	530	107	12	24	16	28	21	31	18
281		f. Doesn’t want to leave their home town	91	11	18	15	10	20	14	7	34	17	44	357	64	13	14	13	23	14	24	14
282		g. Not adventurous with food	150	16	27	16	18	30	24	23	51	23	59	617	121	17	26	14	41	25	35	23
283		h. Doesn’t know their left and right	102	20	18	21	12	24	19	11	37	11	53	413	88	14	11	10	35	20	23	13
284		i. Only likes one genre of music	148	19	22	20	12	21	17	14	44	20	53	509	106	18	17	18	30	19	29	15
285		j. Makes a food or drink their personality (coffee, craft beer)	105	10	16	10	17	16	15	13	33	14	31	353	60	14	18	12	22	17	26	15
286		k. Talks about themselves in the third person	97	9	17	13	13	19	10	12	29	16	30	329	66	15	14	9	29	13	23	17
287		l. Non-specific/genuine compliments	126	11	20	13	19	24	18	15	43	24	49	493	107	14	21	17	37	24	33	21
288		m. Keeps their phone on loud	68	14	11	9	9	10	7	8	25	13	29	239	42	6	6	6	12	15	10	10
289		n. Oversharing	101	11	18	13	13	19	14	13	32	14	32	330	73	12	11	9	21	15	19	18
290		o. Double texting	51	11	3	6	7	15	10	7	19	8	19	187	37	3	6	3	16	13	15	10
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293
294			3. Where do you live?
295			Birmingham	Bolton	Bournemouth and Poole	Bradford	Brighton and Hove	Bristol	Coventry	Hull	Leeds	Leicester	Liverpool	London	Manchester	Newcastle	Nottingham	Plymouth	Sheffield	Stoke-on-Trent	Teesside	Wirral
296			Count	Count	Count	Count	Count	Count	Count	Count	Count	Count	Count	Count	Count	Count	Count	Count	Count	Count	Count	Count
297	Q6. Which of these would you consider a red flag? (negative traits and signals about the other person)	a. Talks about ex-partners too much	207	23	35	29	25	36	27	23	59	27	73	740	145	24	31	25	51	29	35	22
298		b. Doesn’t tip	141	18	28	18	21	36	21	22	53	23	57	541	114	16	19	17	29	24	30	22
299		c. Excessive phone use	167	24	22	22	19	35	25	21	58	25	54	579	123	18	22	21	42	27	32	26
300		d. Only talks about themselves	203	20	32	28	28	44	27	20	62	25	78	743	148	22	27	22	49	32	36	30
301		e. Can't drive	91	11	16	15	12	17	9	7	31	17	37	330	62	8	14	8	29	14	17	15
302		f. Is too forward	120	12	19	19	9	22	17	9	28	13	38	353	81	9	15	9	27	15	21	11
303		g. Gets your name wrong	198	26	29	24	23	35	27	22	58	25	67	679	143	23	26	23	36	26	36	29
304		h. Too reclusive/doesn’t like the outdoors	126	12	17	12	10	20	24	14	46	14	47	451	99	12	19	15	32	24	28	21
305		i. Rude to others	173	20	27	22	20	37	26	16	54	23	59	621	128	21	22	21	45	26	37	30
306		j. Just got out of a long term relationship	128	18	20	23	21	28	20	8	43	15	46	478	100	14	24	12	34	25	22	12
307		k. No fashion sense	194	25	30	31	23	34	24	23	65	29	73	730	136	27	28	20	46	31	39	32
308		l. Uses slang such as yeet, cop or bussin’	140	18	28	20	21	24	19	14	56	27	51	569	128	16	20	14	33	22	29	22
309		m. Follows high numbers of the opposite sex on social media	151	21	26	14	22	26	21	18	51	19	56	529	112	14	15	20	38	23	34	28
310		o. Not independent	215	25	32	25	26	38	34	23	64	31	77	751	159	29	26	24	51	34	41	30
311		p. Bad spelling or grammar	124	11	20	16	19	23	13	12	30	21	41	392	84	16	22	11	31	15	18	15
312		q. Too obsessed with the gym	64	12	9	13	3	16	6	5	21	8	24	240	52	7	10	10	16	10	14	11
313		r. Doesn’t like animals	116	17	12	16	16	22	19	8	29	17	44	350	76	13	9	16	23	20	23	10
314		s. Lazy	181	20	26	26	24	37	27	21	61	18	72	692	143	21	22	19	41	26	39	27