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ConsiderationsPartner 1 Concern LevelPartner 2 Concern LevelPartner 1 Thoughts Partner 2 ThoughtsAction Item(s) Partner 1Action Item(s) Partner 2
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These are just to get you started, you'll want to figure out what considerations are relevant for your situation.1 is not a concern at all, 10 is totally freaking out about it.Provide your partner some context for your rating, why are you concerned or not concerned? What factors are contributing to your rating? How could you revise it down if it's high? What are you doing to do about it? If a rating is really high for one or both of you are there things you can do to help alleviate that stress? Would it help to make a budget together if money is a concern? Maybe schedule an appointment with a therapist to help with the decision and possible transition? The concern rating is a starting point, a check-in, now it's time for the real work.
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Emotional
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Financial
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Relationship stability
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Rental market
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Communication styles
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Community (friendship)
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Future
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Decorating preferences
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Employment
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Household responsibilities
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Family of origin
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Break up scenario
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Pets
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How to Use this Document
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This is meant to be a template for you to craft your own risk assessment. Go up to "File" and select, "Make Copy." This will allow you to edit your own version of this document. Add as many considerations as you can think of and schedule a specific time to discuss your findings as a couple. It's ok if certain things are a very concerning. It's better to discuss it before you make a big decious and problem solve together, than ignore it and hope it goes away. Spoiler: that never works. Thanks for reading my post and using my spreadsheet. I hope it helps you.
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