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DescriptionURLAuthorSourceOriginal Publication DateWho added hereNotes
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"Porn Star Accuses Famed ‘Sex and Relationship Expert’ Reid Mihalko of Sexual Misconduct" original article
https://www.thedailybeast.com/porn-star-accuses-famed-sex-and-relationship-expert-reid-mihalko-of-sexual-misconduct?ref=home
Aurora SnowDaily Beast1/17/18Aida M.
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AV Flox's deconstruction of Reid's comments in the Daily Beast article
https://twitter.com/avflox/status/954149843970043905
AV FloxTwitter1/18/18Aida M.
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Gwen's public post about article deconstructing Reid's comments in the Daily Beast Article
https://www.facebook.com/gwen.warman/posts/10156114929674394?hc_location=ufi
Gwen WarmanFacebook1/19/18Aida M.
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Eva's public post about article, doing some argument deconstruction and drawing parallels to situation with Charlie Glickman
https://www.facebook.com/eva.blake.4/posts/10156993436748572?hc_location=ufi
Eva BlakeFacebook1/19/18Aida M.
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Facebook Live video mostly focusing on the need for people to process/digest this information and how it's not the same as condoning harassment to not speak up immediately
https://www.facebook.com/semona.baston/videos/10215807996858635/?hc_ref=ARR9typm2PNJvZ7GR5SajeCYk0viHcwtBj_C16nDN2H_R4wrAUhLIdbh2pGcOYLcPeA
Semona BastonFacebook1/20/18Aida M.
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Erin's public post about the situation overall and ways she may have contributed to Reid finding out about all this before the Daily Beast article dropped
https://www.facebook.com/erinjbasler/posts/901560290005602
Erin BaslerFacebook1/20/18Aida M.Valuable context in the comments, including another story of someone who is naming Reid's pattern of sexualizing interactions and not attending to various cues of discomfort and disinterest
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Kelly Shibari naming possible support action, specifically regarding Bawdy Storytelling Event Reid Roast Edition
https://twitter.com/KellyShibari/status/955130324668710912
Kelly ShibariTwitter1/21/18Aida M.
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Eve Rickert's link roundup and some commentary
https://www.facebook.com/everickert/posts/10160178480670508?
Eve RickertFacebook1/21/18Aida M.
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Mollena's public post about article
https://www.facebook.com/mollena/posts/10156061276044181
Mollena WilliamsFacebook1/22/18Aida M.
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Public apology to Kelly Shibari
https://www.facebook.com/ReidMihalko/posts/10156621224105476
Reid MihalkoFacebook1/22/18Aida M.This post is continuing to get updated, also!
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Alex Morgan's public post about situation and being on Reid's accountability pod
https://www.facebook.com/morganalexs/posts/10159896378125055
Alex MorganFacebook1/22/18Aida M.
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Alex Morgan's update about accountability process post-call with Reid
https://www.facebook.com/morganalexs/posts/10159898345970055
Alex MorganFacebook1/22/18Aida M.
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Eve Rickert's public post about situation overall with offer to help processing
https://www.facebook.com/everickert/posts/10160184076405508
Eve RickertFacebook1/22/18Aida M.Valuable context in the comments, including information about how the "sex geek" brand evolved after someone else that Reid followed had been using the term on their blog for many years, pointing to a pattern other educators have mentioned of him coopting concepts without attribution and sometimes for full-on marketing potential.
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"#Consent, #Community, and the Importance of Leadership Part II" focusing on the situation with Reid
http://friskyfairy.com/wp/blog/2018/01/23/consent-community-and-the-importance-of-leadership-part-ii/?fb_action_ids=10215502736189550&fb_action_types=news.publishes
Rebecca HilesBlog1/23/18Aida M.
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Kelly calling for true accountability chat and people to be involved
https://twitter.com/KellyShibari/status/955834927227944960
Kelly ShibariTwitter1/23/18Aida M.
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Aida Manduley's public post about this
https://www.facebook.com/permalink.php?story_fbid=10211614262134496&id=1304250324
Aida ManduleyFacebook1/23/18Aida M.
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Eva's post about cries of infighting when naming abuse, asking big questions to the field, and connecting Reid Mihalko's and Charlie Glickman's behaviors
https://www.facebook.com/eva.blake.4/posts/10157008031543572
Eva BlakeFacebook1/23/18Aida M.
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Kelly naming she has been reached out to by the pod, but hasn't been asked to be ON the pod or appoint anyone to it
https://twitter.com/KellyShibari/status/956106719192469505
Kelly ShibariTwitter1/24/18Aida M.
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AV Flox sharing Eva Blake's 1/19 post with her own summary and commentary
https://www.facebook.com/anaiis/posts/10160091201845314
AV FloxFacebook1/24/18Eve R.
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Asking sexuality professionals about hipocrisy and cognitive dissonance in relation to Reid's conduct in relation to their reactions about celebrities with similar allegations against them
https://www.facebook.com/erinjbasler/posts/904277539733877
Erin BaslerFacebook1/25/18Aida M.
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Note acknowledging how they'll make mistakes in this process as pod leader, but being open to all critique, suggestions, feedback,etc.
https://www.facebook.com/morganalexs/posts/10159911936510055
Alex MorganFacebook1/25/18Aida M.
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Thorough analysis of issues in language used in the apology Reid put out
https://www.facebook.com/ReidMihalko/posts/10156621224105476?comment_id=10156629612755476&comment_tracking=%7B%22tn%22%3A%22R9%22%7D
AV FloxFacebook1/25/18Aida M.
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Short public post about this whole situation
https://www.facebook.com/marciab/posts/10215181158743922
Marcia Baczynski
Facebook1/26/18Aida M. via Amy Jo Goddard
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Update on accountability process, including announcement that Angel Adeyoha and Alex Morgan are spearheading it, and the announcement of an anonymized reporting system for stories that the pod will be collecting.
https://www.facebook.com/ReidMihalko/posts/10156621224105476?comment_id=10156634855625476&comment_tracking=%7B%22tn%22%3A%22R%22%7D
Reid MihalkoFacebook1/26/18Aida M.
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Reaction by someone who has hosted Reid for events, offering an apology, repair and a TJ process if needed for anyone who may have been harmed by Reid at these events.
http://www.sugartheshop.com/blogs/sugar-blog/consent-reid-mihalko-and-accountability/
Jacq JonesBlog1/29Eve R.
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Regarding Kelly Shibari and Reid Mihalko
http://www.intimatehealthconsulting.com/2018/01/regarding-kelly-shibari-and-reid-mihalko/
Bianca Palmisano
Blog1/31Eve R.
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Public statement about being part of Reid's pod, including the reasoning why and values informing participation
https://www.facebook.com/angeladeyoha/posts/10212905289001872?pnref=story
Angel AdeyohaFacebook2/1/18Aida M.
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Transparency on pod delays and story collection process
https://www.facebook.com/morganalexs/posts/10159949754090055?pnref=story
Alex MorganFacebook2/2/18Aida M.
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Update on Kelly's support pod, the story collection process from that pod (not just Reid's), and more.
https://www.facebook.com/permalink.php?story_fbid=10211843783552388&id=1304250324
Aida ManduleyFacebook2/20/18Aida M.
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Heather Elizabeth announcing role on Reid's pod
https://www.facebook.com/misshc/posts/10155512723152568?pnref=story
Heather Elizabeth
Facebook2/21/18Aida M.
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Cassandra Perry announcing role on Reid's pod
http://cazkilljoy.com/2018/02/26/transparency-im-on-reids-accountability-pod/
Cassandra PerryWordpress2/26/18Aida M.
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