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1 | Note: only listing PUBLIC SOURCES and links. People can comment to add any further context/notes/etc. | ||||||||
2 | Description | URL | Author | Source | Original Publication Date | Who added here | Notes | ||
3 | "Porn Star Accuses Famed ‘Sex and Relationship Expert’ Reid Mihalko of Sexual Misconduct" original article | https://www.thedailybeast.com/porn-star-accuses-famed-sex-and-relationship-expert-reid-mihalko-of-sexual-misconduct?ref=home | Aurora Snow | Daily Beast | 1/17/18 | Aida M. | |||
4 | AV Flox's deconstruction of Reid's comments in the Daily Beast article | https://twitter.com/avflox/status/954149843970043905 | AV Flox | 1/18/18 | Aida M. | ||||
5 | Gwen's public post about article deconstructing Reid's comments in the Daily Beast Article | https://www.facebook.com/gwen.warman/posts/10156114929674394?hc_location=ufi | Gwen Warman | 1/19/18 | Aida M. | ||||
6 | Eva's public post about article, doing some argument deconstruction and drawing parallels to situation with Charlie Glickman | https://www.facebook.com/eva.blake.4/posts/10156993436748572?hc_location=ufi | Eva Blake | 1/19/18 | Aida M. | ||||
7 | Facebook Live video mostly focusing on the need for people to process/digest this information and how it's not the same as condoning harassment to not speak up immediately | https://www.facebook.com/semona.baston/videos/10215807996858635/?hc_ref=ARR9typm2PNJvZ7GR5SajeCYk0viHcwtBj_C16nDN2H_R4wrAUhLIdbh2pGcOYLcPeA | Semona Baston | 1/20/18 | Aida M. | ||||
8 | Erin's public post about the situation overall and ways she may have contributed to Reid finding out about all this before the Daily Beast article dropped | https://www.facebook.com/erinjbasler/posts/901560290005602 | Erin Basler | 1/20/18 | Aida M. | Valuable context in the comments, including another story of someone who is naming Reid's pattern of sexualizing interactions and not attending to various cues of discomfort and disinterest | |||
9 | Kelly Shibari naming possible support action, specifically regarding Bawdy Storytelling Event Reid Roast Edition | https://twitter.com/KellyShibari/status/955130324668710912 | Kelly Shibari | 1/21/18 | Aida M. | ||||
10 | Eve Rickert's link roundup and some commentary | https://www.facebook.com/everickert/posts/10160178480670508? | Eve Rickert | 1/21/18 | Aida M. | ||||
11 | Mollena's public post about article | https://www.facebook.com/mollena/posts/10156061276044181 | Mollena Williams | 1/22/18 | Aida M. | ||||
12 | Public apology to Kelly Shibari | https://www.facebook.com/ReidMihalko/posts/10156621224105476 | Reid Mihalko | 1/22/18 | Aida M. | This post is continuing to get updated, also! | |||
13 | Alex Morgan's public post about situation and being on Reid's accountability pod | https://www.facebook.com/morganalexs/posts/10159896378125055 | Alex Morgan | 1/22/18 | Aida M. | ||||
14 | Alex Morgan's update about accountability process post-call with Reid | https://www.facebook.com/morganalexs/posts/10159898345970055 | Alex Morgan | 1/22/18 | Aida M. | ||||
15 | Eve Rickert's public post about situation overall with offer to help processing | https://www.facebook.com/everickert/posts/10160184076405508 | Eve Rickert | 1/22/18 | Aida M. | Valuable context in the comments, including information about how the "sex geek" brand evolved after someone else that Reid followed had been using the term on their blog for many years, pointing to a pattern other educators have mentioned of him coopting concepts without attribution and sometimes for full-on marketing potential. | |||
16 | "#Consent, #Community, and the Importance of Leadership Part II" focusing on the situation with Reid | http://friskyfairy.com/wp/blog/2018/01/23/consent-community-and-the-importance-of-leadership-part-ii/?fb_action_ids=10215502736189550&fb_action_types=news.publishes | Rebecca Hiles | Blog | 1/23/18 | Aida M. | |||
17 | Kelly calling for true accountability chat and people to be involved | https://twitter.com/KellyShibari/status/955834927227944960 | Kelly Shibari | 1/23/18 | Aida M. | ||||
18 | Aida Manduley's public post about this | https://www.facebook.com/permalink.php?story_fbid=10211614262134496&id=1304250324 | Aida Manduley | 1/23/18 | Aida M. | ||||
19 | Eva's post about cries of infighting when naming abuse, asking big questions to the field, and connecting Reid Mihalko's and Charlie Glickman's behaviors | https://www.facebook.com/eva.blake.4/posts/10157008031543572 | Eva Blake | 1/23/18 | Aida M. | ||||
20 | Kelly naming she has been reached out to by the pod, but hasn't been asked to be ON the pod or appoint anyone to it | https://twitter.com/KellyShibari/status/956106719192469505 | Kelly Shibari | 1/24/18 | Aida M. | ||||
21 | AV Flox sharing Eva Blake's 1/19 post with her own summary and commentary | https://www.facebook.com/anaiis/posts/10160091201845314 | AV Flox | 1/24/18 | Eve R. | ||||
22 | Asking sexuality professionals about hipocrisy and cognitive dissonance in relation to Reid's conduct in relation to their reactions about celebrities with similar allegations against them | https://www.facebook.com/erinjbasler/posts/904277539733877 | Erin Basler | 1/25/18 | Aida M. | ||||
23 | Note acknowledging how they'll make mistakes in this process as pod leader, but being open to all critique, suggestions, feedback,etc. | https://www.facebook.com/morganalexs/posts/10159911936510055 | Alex Morgan | 1/25/18 | Aida M. | ||||
24 | Thorough analysis of issues in language used in the apology Reid put out | https://www.facebook.com/ReidMihalko/posts/10156621224105476?comment_id=10156629612755476&comment_tracking=%7B%22tn%22%3A%22R9%22%7D | AV Flox | 1/25/18 | Aida M. | ||||
25 | Short public post about this whole situation | https://www.facebook.com/marciab/posts/10215181158743922 | Marcia Baczynski | 1/26/18 | Aida M. via Amy Jo Goddard | ||||
26 | Update on accountability process, including announcement that Angel Adeyoha and Alex Morgan are spearheading it, and the announcement of an anonymized reporting system for stories that the pod will be collecting. | https://www.facebook.com/ReidMihalko/posts/10156621224105476?comment_id=10156634855625476&comment_tracking=%7B%22tn%22%3A%22R%22%7D | Reid Mihalko | 1/26/18 | Aida M. | ||||
27 | Reaction by someone who has hosted Reid for events, offering an apology, repair and a TJ process if needed for anyone who may have been harmed by Reid at these events. | http://www.sugartheshop.com/blogs/sugar-blog/consent-reid-mihalko-and-accountability/ | Jacq Jones | Blog | 1/29 | Eve R. | |||
28 | Regarding Kelly Shibari and Reid Mihalko | http://www.intimatehealthconsulting.com/2018/01/regarding-kelly-shibari-and-reid-mihalko/ | Bianca Palmisano | Blog | 1/31 | Eve R. | |||
29 | Public statement about being part of Reid's pod, including the reasoning why and values informing participation | https://www.facebook.com/angeladeyoha/posts/10212905289001872?pnref=story | Angel Adeyoha | 2/1/18 | Aida M. | ||||
30 | Transparency on pod delays and story collection process | https://www.facebook.com/morganalexs/posts/10159949754090055?pnref=story | Alex Morgan | 2/2/18 | Aida M. | ||||
31 | Update on Kelly's support pod, the story collection process from that pod (not just Reid's), and more. | https://www.facebook.com/permalink.php?story_fbid=10211843783552388&id=1304250324 | Aida Manduley | 2/20/18 | Aida M. | ||||
32 | Heather Elizabeth announcing role on Reid's pod | https://www.facebook.com/misshc/posts/10155512723152568?pnref=story | Heather Elizabeth | 2/21/18 | Aida M. | ||||
33 | Cassandra Perry announcing role on Reid's pod | http://cazkilljoy.com/2018/02/26/transparency-im-on-reids-accountability-pod/ | Cassandra Perry | Wordpress | 2/26/18 | Aida M. | |||
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