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Date Me Directory: USE THIS ONE INSTEAD. It's better in most ways, except for that it's for a broader audience. You can still say whether you're an EA or rationalist though and search for EAs there.

People can still add themselves here if they prefer to only be seen in the EA community or don't want to make a dating doc specifically.
InstructionsGenderSeekingCityAgeNotes (anything potentially relevant)
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Ishaan Koratkarhttps://docs.google.com/document/d/16MDF7Gh3cWWHOrum6YUbxu7OzXuBQVB-mkqT3H0GzfI/edit?usp=sharingManWomenMinneapolis, MN16Monogomous. Very autistic, socially incompatible. Looking to verify marriability.
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Marek Sklenkahttps://www.okcupid.com/profile/7094397239282936672ManWomenAmsterdam25Don't want kids. Based in Amsterdam, open to long-distance relationships, both monogamous and non-monogamous. Screenshot of dating profile. Calendly
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Dony ChristieDating docManBoth/AnyBay Area27Bisexual. Cofounding an EA org (https://impactmarkets.io/). Can travel. Calendly
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Nathan YoungDate Nathan Young - written by his exManWomenLondon28Monogamish. Mainly looking for a longterm relationship or something casual.
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Vlad Sitalohttp://date.vlad.sitalo.org/ManWomenSan Francisco; Prague (till mid Dec)28Bet on https://manifold.markets/vlad/how-many-milliamours-will-my-dating on how effective this doc will end up being!
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Pat Myrongeneral internet presence:
https://patmyron.com/
ManWomenSeattle / Pittsburgh
(open to a few other cities, mostly near the coasts w/ good public transportation)
28active health-conscious financially independent non-religious EA seeking similar
similar hobbies (soccer, tennis, volleyball, climbing, biking, reading, coding) a plus
leaning against having kids
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Rai (Michael Pokorny)agentydragon.com - TODO make better thingManBoth/AnySan Francisco2929, prefer poly/open, currently single. Pan, furry, EA, working on AI alignment. One important thing I'm looking for is emotional support.
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Robert MushkatblatRobert MushkatblatManWomenBerkeley, CA2929, monogamous, looking for LTR (and do want kids). Like: ballroom dance, food, karaoke. Working on LessWrong.
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Quinn Doughertyhttps://quinnd.net/date ManWomenPhiladelphia29poly, yes childrearing, also yes casual
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David MearsDate me docManBoth/AnyLondon30Poly. Mainly interested in women.
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Cornelis Dirk HauptHave been too lazy/busy to update my dating profiles that are all 6+ years out of dateManWomenVancouver, BC30Casual short-term dating and close friendships. Let's optmize for crazy fun memorable adventures without sacrificing deep romance. You can find me at UBC's Latin Dance clubs dancing Salsa/Bachata or at Richmond's Crossfit gym or at virtually any and all Vancouver EA meetups since I'm a community organizer. Look forward to meeting you! (^_^)/
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Aron MillHere is my date-me-docManWomenBerlin, Germany30
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Max Carpendalehttps://www.okcupid.com/profile/1348664478081483708ManWomenLondon/Vancouver31Poly, long-term or casual, don't want kids, gym rat, metalhead, vegan. Open to relocating/nomadism, 07543481123
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Jason Xuhttps://www.facebook.com/JasonXuRocksManWomenSF Bay Area, CA32Interested in meditation and mental health. Looking for long-term monogamous relationships.
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Katriel FriedmanManWomenWashington, DC32American, work on global development, hedonic negative utilitarian. Mono or poly are both fine. Doc to come soon
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Kevin Wheelerhttps://docs.google.com/document/d/e/2PACX-1vSWfKLoUtWYRlp-rHYGy2Bht2PDqHlFIaeInBuY7tL1S9w6D5t3sLyqCb5XQJlRv7C2v8Dijoc7Koqm/pubManWomenWill move someday, but Lubbock, Texas currently.32
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Olin Thakurfb.com/thakurolin ManWomenNepal/Cambodia/US/Europe33Monogamous; looking for long-term; open to long-distance relationships; want kids.
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Tyler Alterman
https://tyleralterman.com/Tyler-is-looking-for-his-lady-4ff34119d4f1412eb7f1cbd75c33ccbc
ManWomenNew York City33
What Iā€™m looking for: First take: a partner-in-crime to raise kids with. Second take: I am open to __________ (as a general way of life).
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Brian TomasikDating profileManWomennear Albany, NY35No kids, probably not willing to move, but open to indefinite long-distance.
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Joseph LemienOkCupid profileManWomenno city at the moment, but I will probably base myself somewhere in the USA35Looking for long-term, committed, monogamous relationship. Open to children, but also open to not having children. Interested in yoga, rock climbing, dance, and other physical activities. My father described me as "cerebral." An former girlfriend emphasized how "sweet" and considerate I was. I think that being considerate/warmhearted/kind is really important. I like being able to be playful and silly with my partner. I like doing communication well, so things like authentic relating or using will/want/won't are things that I enjoy. As on November 2022: I'm just moved back to the USA after 10 years in China.
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Damon Pourtahmaseb-Sasihttp://daystareld.com/blog/date-me/ManWomen35Therapist/writer/teacher/etc looking for nerdy mono or poly primary girl who wants bio kids.
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Juma Al-JouJouOKCupid, FBManWomenBerlin36Rather poly, entrepreneur, board game geek, bouldering fanatic and drug-free health nut. My 6-year old daughter is with me 50% of the time. I do not to want more kids (at least for now). Into sporty and intellectual women.
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Dan Wahlhttps://danwahl.net/pages/date-meManWomenChicago, IL38
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Liav KorenDate me!ManWomenToronto4242, cis, str8. Available for women and femine NBs, maybe open to long distance. Dedicated EA, looking for someone to get real exponential with. Currently single, Monogamy/non-monogamy flexible, by I lean non-mono.
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Rob BensingerFriendship / Dating / Ineffable-But-Deeply-
Meaningful-Connection Doc
ManBoth/AnyBerkeley, CAšŸ¦©
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Mati RoyMy dating profile Carissa & I's dating profileManBoth/AnyMontreal (but can easily relocate)I might go to the EA Mexico City fellowship from November 1st to January 31st (TBC). My dating profile is a bit old, but still roughly accurate. Note: Carissa and I were looking for another person to join our family and raise children with us, but we're now leaning towards not raising children together, so we're also independently dating (ref.: Carissa's public post about it).
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Linch ZhangDating docManWomenBay Area
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Tristan HumeDating docManWomenBay Area (SF) & NYCStably happy person who enjoys making things, growth mindset, conversation, dancing, oxytocin. Reverse engineering AI at Anthropic.
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Jeffrey LadishJeffrey LadishManWomenBerkeley, CAKids
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Dan EltonWebsite, OKCupid, Twitter ManWomenCambridge, MAMost likely want kids in next 5 years. Looking for LTR.
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Gustavo Lacerdahttps://docs.google.com/document/d/1khmwYjPD7cjIC6ssSdH2pYB9BfGCsKvjbrvZoGThkzc/edit?usp=drivesdkManWomenFlexible (Bay Area, Asheville)
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Jack MaldeJack Malde Dating profileManWomenLondon
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Aaron Goldzimerfb.com/goldzim ManWomenSomewhat nomadic, but in DC a lotI used to do international environmental and human rights work; now I advise large philanthropists and political donors on how to try to save (and strengthen) liberal democracy. Into kindness, community, hiking/outdoors, meditation, yoga, friends, and fun.
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Lars HansenOKCupid, Facebook, ManWomenZurich, SwitzerlandLooking for woman interested in long term relationship, living in Europe, and having children.
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Effective Dating Facebook group.
FB group where EAs and rationalists also post dating docs.
This is a quick side project of Kat Woods (Nonlinear & Superlinear), who gets a warm fuzzy feeling when she sees two really well-matched EAs together. šŸ’˜ But there's currently no way to systematically find EAs on dating sites, and certainly no way to find all of the people who have the awesome "dating documents" that's becoming a thing in the community. This spreadsheet is here to help fix that.Men
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Anisha Sensa MauzeOn Dating SquidsOtherBoth/AnyBay Area, CA31genderfluid (rounds down to woman) pan poly therapist looking for nesting partner, marriage, possibly kids.
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Isabel Hassehttps://docs.google.com/document/d/1BRn18Mz0J4i8z_Q0exFswE8H-lBGYph7gJJJAX8ZNhY/editWomanBoth/Any Portland, OR (willing to relocate)24ace/aro spec, looking for long term, open to monog or poly. Data science student wanting to work in meat alternatives.
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Kathy GarciaKathy GarciaWomanBoth/AnyCambridge MA29Kids
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AellaDating DocWomanMenAustin, TX30Poly, life partner slot open
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Laura Poldinghttps://www.okcupid.com/profile/201725525725412308WomanMenStanford, CA (but might move in 2023)30Looking for monog partner who: is kind, warmhearted & good with people; values mindfulness/meditation; has some nerdy interests; would enjoy being in a fiction/nonfiction book club for two (-- or more!); might be down for hiking/tennis/volleyball/kayaking/cats; does not want kids but could be interested in youth mentorship +/- fostering someday
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Samiratinyurl.com/samiradatingdocWomanBoth/AnyBerkeley, CA31Looking for a life partner, wants kids
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Habiba Islamwww.tinyurl.com/datehabibaWomanWomenLondon31Monog, looking for long term relationship, don't want kids. Very affectionate :)
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Agnieszka Jekothttps://docs.google.com/document/d/1nw8cqbuHReb18hT9_hdbxre7jGQak-ICXPzTlfiNh-c/edit?usp=sharingWomanMenLondon34
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Rasa Petrauskaitehttps://docs.google.com/document/d/1DnZGlzgpml67D0tJ-ARcRhkfio0uhjg5CQZ5bTkcUu8/editWomanMenNear San Francisco36Interested in animal welfare
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Nell WatsonOKCupidWomanWomenBelfast39Marooned in Northern Ireland somewhat due to a need to take care of my mom. Relatively flexible with regards to dating. Frequent trips to the BeNeLux.
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Kayla Lewishttps://t.co/AV8wVWvnhJWomanWomenNew York City48Monog, looking for long term relationship
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Cody WildCody WildWomanBoth/AnyBerkeley, CANesting partnership, possibly marriage, someone to build a life and possibly raise kids with
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