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1 | Timestamp | What part of the adoption constellation do you identify as? | What city and state do you live in? | Are you a part of any adoption-related organizations? | If yes, please list them here: | On a scale of 1 to 5, how satisfied are you with how adoption is reported on in the news? | Which of the following issues related to adoption do you most think need to be reported on more in the news? (Please choose no more than 3) | Which of the following do you most feel as though you are lacking information on?(Please choose no more than 3) | If you are a birth parent, an adoptive parent and/or an adoptee, what year did the adoption take place? | Name: | Contact information (email and/or phone number): | If you are willing to participate in monthly Zoom feedback sessions, please list your availability below: | Is there anything else you would like to add? | ||||||
2 | 4/23/2022 17:08:02 | Birth/First/Original Parent | Garfield, Minnesota | Yes | Concerned United Birthparent's (CUB) | 3 | Adoptees trying to unseal birth certificates, The mental health issues caused by adoption, Family preservation | Mental health issues adoptees may face during adoption and how to address them, Family preservation options | 1965 | Pat Glisky | pmglisky@gmail.com | anytime | Thank you for your interest | ||||||
3 | 3/23/2022 12:54:37 | Birth/First/Original Parent | Delray Beach FL | Yes | Access Connecticut, Catholic Mothers for Truth and Transparency, Concerned United Birthparents | 1 | The business and money that affects adoption, The mental health issues caused by adoption, Open adoption navigation, Coercion tactics in adoption, Family preservation | Legal information regarding open adoption agreements, Mental health issues adoptees may face during adoption and how to address them, Mental health issues birth parents may face during adoption and how to address them, Family preservation options | 1966 | Eileen McQuade | Eileen2155@gmail.com | ||||||||
4 | 3/27/2022 11:49:19 | Birth/First/Original Parent, Adoption-competent therapist | Asheville, NC | Yes | Concerned United Birthparents, Nat'l Association of Parents & Adoptees, Adoption Knowledge Associates, myriads of FB communities | 1 | The business and money that affects adoption, Adoptees trying to unseal birth certificates, The mental health issues caused by adoption, Coercion tactics in adoption, Family preservation, The request for apologies from adoption organizations and/or state legislatures | 1966 | Leslie Pate Mackinnon | 404-452-6963 | I'm available during the day on Eastern Standard Time. Prefer weekdays but can do wkends | I'm am anxious to get the media involved in sharing the reality of adoption versus what gets shared now which is the marketing campaigns of the billion dollar adoption industry. | |||||||
5 | 3/23/2022 14:37:23 | Birth/First/Original Parent | Hollis, NH | Yes | CUB | 1 | The business and money that affects adoption, Adoptees trying to unseal birth certificates, Coercion tactics in adoption | How to obtain original birth certificates and other identifying information, Family preservation options, Counseling for first mothers | 1967 | Mary Jeffery | maryjeffery@gmail.com | I’m retired so most any time would work if I have enough advance notice | Coerced Adoption wrecked my connection to my son and grandchildren | ||||||
6 | Birth/First/Original Parent | 1967 | |||||||||||||||||
7 | 3/23/2022 15:51:51 | Adoptee | Ashburn, VA | Yes | Adoptees Connect, National Association of Adoptees and Parents, Adoptees for Justice | 1 | The business and money that affects adoption, Adoptees trying to unseal birth certificates, The mental health issues caused by adoption, The history of adoption, Coercion tactics in adoption, Family preservation, The request for apologies from adoption organizations and/or state legislatures, Education for adoptive parents | Education for adoptive parents on parenting adopted children, Mental health issues adoptees may face during adoption and how to address them, Family preservation options | 1968 | ANN MIKESKA | annsqrd@aol.com | Every weekday evening but Wednesday | |||||||
8 | 3/27/2022 3:08:16 | Birth/First/Original Parent, Adoption activist (unsealing original birth certificates, requesting an apology, etc.), Foster parent who raised 4 foster kids | Bonney Lake, WA | Yes | Saving Our Sisters | 1 | The business and money that affects adoption, Adoptees trying to unseal birth certificates, The mental health issues caused by adoption, Open adoption navigation, The history of adoption, Coercion tactics in adoption, Family preservation, The request for apologies from adoption organizations and/or state legislatures, Solutions-oriented pieces (ex. What would adoption look like if it were free?), Education for adoptive parents, LGBT+ adoption issues (ex. Trans birth parents, same-sex adoptive parents, etc.) | How to obtain original birth certificates and other identifying information, Education for adoptive parents on parenting adopted children, Education on navigating an open adoption, Legal information regarding open adoption agreements, Mental health issues adoptees may face during adoption and how to address them, Mental health issues birth parents may face during adoption and how to address them, Infertility and adoption, Family preservation options, LGBT+ adoption issues (ex. trans birth, second-parent adoption, etc.), Adoption coercion and illegal tactics | 1968 | Kathleen M Chafin | 253-347-9550 | Yeswhile other counteies, Canada, Ireland, Australia have issed national apologies, there is silence in the USA. And almost no one has heard of Baby Scoop Era but there are 2-3 millions of us in the USA alone..biggest secret ever of a human rights abuse | Thank you for your efforts. | ||||||
9 | 3/23/2022 14:57:10 | Adoptee | Eugene oregon | No | 1 | The business and money that affects adoption, The mental health issues caused by adoption, Family preservation | Mental health issues adoptees may face during adoption and how to address them | 1969 | Kristen Fadich | kfadich@hotmail.com | |||||||||
10 | 3/26/2022 12:15:37 | Birth/First/Original Parent | Ventura Ca | Yes | Concerned United Birthparents and many adoption Facebook groups | 2 | The mental health issues caused by adoption, Coercion tactics in adoption, Family preservation | Legal information regarding open adoption agreements, Mental health issues adoptees may face during adoption and how to address them, Family preservation options | 1969 | Betsey Holt | BetseyCa@gmail.com | I am open a lot of times Wednesday can be bad for me. | |||||||
11 | 3/31/2022 13:06:42 | Birth/First/Original Parent | Houghton MI | No | 2 | The business and money that affects adoption, Adoptees trying to unseal birth certificates, Coercion tactics in adoption | How to obtain original birth certificates and other identifying information, Education for adoptive parents on parenting adopted children, Mental health issues adoptees may face during adoption and how to address them, Mental health issues birth parents may face during adoption and how to address them | 1969 | Virginia Schaller | vschalle@mtu.edu. 906-370-7866 | I’m retired so availability is liberal | ||||||||
12 | 5/2/2022 8:04:51 | Birth/First/Original Parent | Chicago Illinois | Yes | CUB and Catholic Mothers for Truth | 2 | The mental health issues caused by adoption, Coercion tactics in adoption, Family preservation | Mental health issues adoptees may face during adoption and how to address them, Mental health issues birth parents may face during adoption and how to address them, Family preservation options | 1969 | Janice Gallagher Lau | Jcglau@gmail.com | Evenings | |||||||
13 | 3/24/2022 8:44:18 | Birth/First/Original Parent | Topeka, KS | Yes | American Adoption Congress, Adoption Concerns Triangle of Topeka | 2 | The business and money that affects adoption, Adoptees trying to unseal birth certificates, Coercion tactics in adoption | How to obtain original birth certificates and other identifying information, Mental health issues adoptees may face during adoption and how to address them, Mental health issues birth parents may face during adoption and how to address them | 1970 | Marilyn Waugh | waugh5@cox.net | ||||||||
14 | 3/31/2022 15:47:27 | Birth/First/Original Parent | Belchertown MA | No | 1 | The business and money that affects adoption, The mental health issues caused by adoption, Coercion tactics in adoption | How to obtain original birth certificates and other identifying information, Mental health issues birth parents may face during adoption and how to address them | 1970 | Becky Martin | Becky01007@gmail.com. Text:4133482826 | Most days | ||||||||
15 | 3/23/2022 23:42:14 | Birth/First/Original Parent | New York | Yes | Episcopal Mothers For Truth & Transparency, Catholic Mothers for Truth and Transparency, Origins America, CUB, Voices from the Baby Scoop Era, etc.. | 1 | The business and money that affects adoption, Coercion tactics in adoption, The request for apologies from adoption organizations and/or state legislatures | 1971 | Francine Gurtler | Bsemothers@gmail.com | Sure | I think we exchanged emails briefly last week. I would love to know how to get our message I. Press | |||||||
16 | 3/23/2022 17:24:43 | Birth/First/Original Parent | Denver, Colorado | Yes | Adoption Search Resource Connection; Catholic Mothers for Truth & Transparency; Coalition for Adoption Truth and Transparency | 2 | The business and money that affects adoption, The mental health issues caused by adoption, Coercion tactics in adoption, The request for apologies from adoption organizations and/or state legislatures, LGBT+ adoption issues (ex. Trans birth parents, same-sex adoptive parents, etc.) | Mental health issues adoptees may face during adoption and how to address them, Mental health issues birth parents may face during adoption and how to address them, LGBT+ adoption issues (ex. trans birth, second-parent adoption, etc.) | 1972 | Kathy Aderhold | foundcorry@gmail.com | Yes. Depends on the date/time | No | ||||||
17 | 3/25/2022 11:36:33 | Adoptee, Adoption activist (unsealing original birth certificates, requesting an apology, etc.) | Wellsburg WV | No | 2 | The business and money that affects adoption, Adoptees trying to unseal birth certificates, The mental health issues caused by adoption, Open adoption navigation, The history of adoption, Coercion tactics in adoption, Family preservation, Education for adoptive parents | How to obtain original birth certificates and other identifying information, Legal information regarding open adoption agreements, Mental health issues adoptees may face during adoption and how to address them, Family preservation options | 1972 | Jen Matthews | caawilfupodcast@gmail.com | Maybe | ||||||||
18 | 3/25/2022 21:58:23 | Adoptee | kamloops CANADA | No | 1 | The business and money that affects adoption, Adoptees trying to unseal birth certificates, The mental health issues caused by adoption | How to obtain original birth certificates and other identifying information, Mental health issues adoptees may face during adoption and how to address them, Family preservation options | 1972 | Susan Wright | sueof72@yahoo.ca | no | ||||||||
19 | 3/24/2022 4:19:24 | Adoptee | Rolla, Missouri | No | 1 | The business and money that affects adoption, Adoptees trying to unseal birth certificates, The mental health issues caused by adoption, Open adoption navigation, The history of adoption, Coercion tactics in adoption, Family preservation, The request for apologies from adoption organizations and/or state legislatures, Solutions-oriented pieces (ex. What would adoption look like if it were free?), Education for adoptive parents, LGBT+ adoption issues (ex. Trans birth parents, same-sex adoptive parents, etc.) | Education for adoptive parents on parenting adopted children, Legal information regarding open adoption agreements, Mental health issues adoptees may face during adoption and how to address them, Mental health issues birth parents may face during adoption and how to address them, Family preservation options | 1973 | Cathy | cathylou1973@gmail.com | Late afternoons and evenings | ||||||||
20 | 4/27/2022 12:18:34 | Birth/First/Original Parent | Lafayette, Indiana | Yes | CUB, NAAP | 1 | The business and money that affects adoption, Adoptees trying to unseal birth certificates, Coercion tactics in adoption, The request for apologies from adoption organizations and/or state legislatures | How to obtain original birth certificates and other identifying information | 1976 | Eileen Drennen | 404-840-6722 | generally available | thank you! | ||||||
21 | 4/14/2022 19:49:27 | Birth/First/Original Parent | Freeland, Wa | Yes | Concerned United Birthparents, Adoption Truth & Transparency Network, NAAP, various Facebook groups | 1 | The business and money that affects adoption, The mental health issues caused by adoption, Coercion tactics in adoption, The baby fever of hopeful adoptive parents, entitlement, desperation, and other people’s human babies for a high price… | Mental health issues adoptees may face during adoption and how to address them, Mental health issues birth parents may face during adoption and how to address them, Infertility and adoption, Family preservation options | 1977 | Marina | 425-802-4933 | Flexible | When do we talk about adoption as human trafficking and the long term effects of separation on adult adoptees and the birth families? | ||||||
22 | 5/2/2022 4:16:39 | Birth/First/Original Parent | March, Cambridgeshire, UK | No | 1 | The mental health issues caused by adoption, Coercion tactics in adoption, Family preservation | How to obtain original birth certificates and other identifying information, Mental health issues adoptees may face during adoption and how to address them, Family preservation options | 1978 | Deb Larham | Britanniaview@hotmail.com | |||||||||
23 | Adoptee | 1981 | |||||||||||||||||
24 | 3/23/2022 19:19:01 | Adoptee | Minneapolis, Minnesota | No | 1 | The mental health issues caused by adoption, Family preservation, Education for adoptive parents | How to obtain original birth certificates and other identifying information, Education for adoptive parents on parenting adopted children, Mental health issues adoptees may face during adoption and how to address them | 1986 | Kristina Schiller | Ktsjostrom22@gmail.com | |||||||||
25 | 5/2/2022 3:12:24 | Birth/First/Original Parent | ABERDEENSHIRE, Scotland | No | 1 | The mental health issues caused by adoption, Education for adoptive parents | Mental health issues birth parents may face during adoption and how to address them | 1989 | Susan Hunter | susanduncan17@yahoo.com | Evenings or a Friday/Weekends | I am in reunion with my son, 8 months and although its totally amazing i am crying and upset most of the time. The loss of not bringing him up is immense and for him trying to juggle us all is hard im sure. He is a wonderful gorgeous young man that has found me, me being the piece for him that has always being missing. | |||||||
26 | 3/23/2022 18:00:01 | Birth/First/Original Parent | Denali, Alaska | Yes | On Your Feet Foundation, Concerned United Birthparents, multiple Facebook groups (first parent, adoptee, and triad groups | 1 | The business and money that affects adoption, The mental health issues caused by adoption, Education for adoptive parents | Education for adoptive parents on parenting adopted children, Mental health issues adoptees may face during adoption and how to address them, Mental health issues birth parents may face during adoption and how to address them | 1990 | Candace | candace_cahill@yahoo.com | I'm willing, but being in Alaska makes the timing difficult. | |||||||
27 | 5/1/2022 23:31:49 | Birth/First/Original Parent | Bridgeport CT | No | 1 | The business and money that affects adoption, The mental health issues caused by adoption, Coercion tactics in adoption | Legal information regarding open adoption agreements | 1990 | Cat Devald | Catdevald@gmail.com | |||||||||
28 | 3/23/2022 18:53:38 | Birth/First/Original Parent | Tacoma, Washington | No | 1 | Adoptees trying to unseal birth certificates, Coercion tactics in adoption, Family preservation | Family preservation options, LGBT+ adoption issues (ex. trans birth, second-parent adoption, etc.) | 1991 | Jennifer | ||||||||||
29 | 3/23/2022 16:14:38 | Birth/First/Original Parent | Boca Raton Florida | Yes | On your feet foundation | 1 | The business and money that affects adoption, Adoptees trying to unseal birth certificates, The mental health issues caused by adoption, Coercion tactics in adoption, Family preservation, The request for apologies from adoption organizations and/or state legislatures, Education for adoptive parents | Mental health issues birth parents may face during adoption and how to address them, Family preservation options | 1993 | Jane Ratcliffe | jratcliffe@kinproperties.com | no | |||||||
30 | Birth/First/Original Parent | 1994 | |||||||||||||||||
31 | Birth/First/Original Parent | 1997 | |||||||||||||||||
32 | Birth/First/Original Parent | 1999 | |||||||||||||||||
33 | 3/24/2022 20:22:32 | Birth/First/Original Parent | Fayetteville GA | Yes | Saving Our Sisters, The Family Preservation Project, Adoption Surveys | 1 | The business and money that affects adoption, Adoptees trying to unseal birth certificates, Open adoption navigation | Legal information regarding open adoption agreements, Mental health issues adoptees may face during adoption and how to address them, Family preservation options | 1999 | Katie Burns | thefamilypreservationproject@gmail.com | Monday-Friday 11 am- 1 pm | Thank you for doing this. | ||||||
34 | 3/25/2022 11:35:44 | Birth/First/Original Parent | Minneapolis, MN | Yes | Concerned United Birthparents (CUB), American Adoption Congress (AAC). | 1 | The business and money that affects adoption, The mental health issues caused by adoption, Coercion tactics in adoption | Mental health issues adoptees may face during adoption and how to address them, Mental health issues birth parents may face during adoption and how to address them | 2000 | Allisa Brunner | allisabrunner@gmail.com 612-804-6624 | Weekday evenings. | Thank you for doing this very important work! | ||||||
35 | 3/27/2022 23:29:08 | Birth/First/Original Parent | Greeley Co | No | 3 | The business and money that affects adoption, The mental health issues caused by adoption, Family preservation | Mental health issues adoptees may face during adoption and how to address them, Mental health issues birth parents may face during adoption and how to address them | 2001 | Kristine Silva | Kristine.silva@live.com | M-T-R-F evenings | ||||||||
36 | 5/2/2022 18:20:54 | Birth/First/Original Parent, Adoptee | STEGER | Yes | Concerned United Birthparents | 1 | The business and money that affects adoption, The mental health issues caused by adoption, Coercion tactics in adoption | Education for adoptive parents on parenting adopted children, How to help children who are mentally affected by losing a sibiling due to adoption | 2003 | FAITH CARLSON-FROELICH | fcarlson622@gmail.com | Everyday except Wednesday after 5pm CST | |||||||
37 | 5/1/2022 22:53:54 | Birth/First/Original Parent | Sacramento, CA | Yes | Mpower Alliance, On Your Feet Foundation | 1 | The business and money that affects adoption, Adoptees trying to unseal birth certificates, Coercion tactics in adoption | Mental health issues adoptees may face during adoption and how to address them, Mental health issues birth parents may face during adoption and how to address them, Family preservation options | 2005 | Debbie Koeberlein | Lildebbie916@hotmail.com | Yes, open availability | Adoption reform is needed | ||||||
38 | 3/26/2022 21:33:20 | Birth/First/Original Parent | Denver, co | No | 2 | The business and money that affects adoption, The mental health issues caused by adoption, Family preservation | Legal information regarding open adoption agreements | 2010 | Annie Jacobs | Tresario@gmail.com | Evenings MST | ||||||||
39 | 5/2/2022 6:13:33 | Birth/First/Original Parent | Pawtucket, Rhode Island | No | 1 | The business and money that affects adoption, The history of adoption, Coercion tactics in adoption | 2011 | Rachael | Rachaelalambert@gmail.com | ||||||||||
40 | 3/20/2022 22:30:38 | Birth/First/Original Parent | Los Angeles, CA | Yes | Sorta? I don't know if I'm "part" of Spence-Chapin but I do some volunteer and paid work with them from time to time. | 1 | The business and money that affects adoption, Coercion tactics in adoption, Family preservation | Education on navigating an open adoption, Mental health issues birth parents may face during adoption and how to address them, Family preservation options | 2012 | Jack MacCarthy | 5188796159 | My schedule is flexible. I want to do this. | |||||||
41 | 3/28/2022 14:01:42 | Birth/First/Original Parent | Edgerton, WI | Yes | Concerned United Birthparents | 1 | Adoptees trying to unseal birth certificates, Coercion tactics in adoption, Family preservation | How to obtain original birth certificates and other identifying information, Legal information regarding open adoption agreements, Mental health issues birth parents may face during adoption and how to address them | 2012 | Mandy Krahenbuhl | mandykrahenbuhl@hotmail.com | available most days - current online student | |||||||
42 | 3/24/2022 10:38:45 | Birth/First/Original Parent | Birmingham, Alabama | No | 1 | The business and money that affects adoption, Adoptees trying to unseal birth certificates, The mental health issues caused by adoption, Open adoption navigation, The history of adoption, Coercion tactics in adoption, Family preservation, The request for apologies from adoption organizations and/or state legislatures, Solutions-oriented pieces (ex. What would adoption look like if it were free?), Education for adoptive parents, LGBT+ adoption issues (ex. Trans birth parents, same-sex adoptive parents, etc.), Just everything that will happen as in mentally for birth mom and child after separation | How to obtain original birth certificates and other identifying information, Education for adoptive parents on parenting adopted children, Education on navigating an open adoption, Legal information regarding open adoption agreements, Mental health issues adoptees may face during adoption and how to address them, Mental health issues birth parents may face during adoption and how to address them, Infertility and adoption, Family preservation options, LGBT+ adoption issues (ex. trans birth, second-parent adoption, etc.) | 2018 | Shannon Johnson | Scjohnson1388@gmail.com | Mondays and Tuesdays | I hate adoption!! | |||||||
43 | 5/1/2022 22:57:25 | Birth/First/Original Parent | Dallas, Texasx | No | 1 | The business and money that affects adoption, Adoptees trying to unseal birth certificates, The mental health issues caused by adoption, Open adoption navigation, The history of adoption, Coercion tactics in adoption, Family preservation, The request for apologies from adoption organizations and/or state legislatures, Solutions-oriented pieces (ex. What would adoption look like if it were free?), Education for adoptive parents, LGBT+ adoption issues (ex. Trans birth parents, same-sex adoptive parents, etc.), Education and resources for first parents pre and post adoption | How to obtain original birth certificates and other identifying information, Legal information regarding open adoption agreements, Mental health issues adoptees may face during adoption and how to address them, Mental health issues birth parents may face during adoption and how to address them, Infertility and adoption, Family preservation options, LGBT+ adoption issues (ex. trans birth, second-parent adoption, etc.) | 2019 | Dee | Jacobsen.deidrianna@gmail.com | Sundays and Mondays | ||||||||
44 | 3/25/2022 11:41:50 | Adoptee | It doesn’t matter | Yes | Rather not | 1 | Adoptees trying to unseal birth certificates, The mental health issues caused by adoption, Family preservation | Education for adoptive parents on parenting adopted children, Mental health issues adoptees may face during adoption and how to address them | No | ||||||||||
45 | 5/12/2022 16:58:37 | Birth/First/Original Parent | Southwest Missouri | No | 1 | The business and money that affects adoption, Family preservation, Solutions-oriented pieces (ex. What would adoption look like if it were free?) | Mental health issues adoptees may face during adoption and how to address them, Family preservation options | 2008 | Emily Dalton | emily.dettmar.dalton@gmail.com | Most evenings, and more time on weekends | ||||||||
46 | 5/18/2022 22:59:20 | Adoptee | Pittsburgh, PA | No | 2 | Adoptees trying to unseal birth certificates, The mental health issues caused by adoption, Coercion tactics in adoption | Mental health issues adoptees may face during adoption and how to address them, LGBT+ adoption issues (ex. trans birth, second-parent adoption, etc.), Adoptee to adoptee counseling/mentoring/support | 1973 | Wendy Baxter | wendydarlingbaxter@gmail.com | I work in the live events industry so my schedule varies wildly depending on the month. I do usually have Wednesday evenings open the most. | Thank you for providing this. | |||||||
47 | 5/19/2022 22:30:49 | Adoptee | Rice Lake, Wisconsin | No | 1 | The mental health issues caused by adoption, Family preservation, Education for adoptive parents | Education for adoptive parents on parenting adopted children, Mental health issues adoptees may face during adoption and how to address them, Family preservation options | 1971 | Jill Bekkum | jmbekkum@mac.com | |||||||||
48 | 5/20/2022 6:15:22 | Adoptee, Adoption professional (therapist, lawyer, social worker, etc.), Adoption activist (unsealing original birth certificates, requesting an apology, etc.), Currently working towards degrees to allow me more of a “voice” and access to conduct mental health research to better advocate for adoptees and an understanding of the many traumas, types of losses (such as culture, identity, etc) and barriers adoptees face at all life stages. | Olympia, WA | No | 1 | The mental health issues caused by adoption, Coercion tactics in adoption, What life looks like for an adoptee when they turn 18, especially when being raised in an abusive household and the impacts of identity/culture loss as a youth and into adulthood when placed in a family of a different ethnicity. Also the impacts when an adoptee is stolen by adoptive parents and lack of recourse and therapies. | How to obtain original birth certificates and other identifying information, Mental health issues birth parents may face during adoption and how to address them, Rights and protections for adoptees in an unsafe home once the state has stepped out of the picture. | I’m not entirely sure. I was placed in guardianship as a newborn (as I’ve been told) in 1988. My adoption was officially finalized in 1999 when my birth mother relinquished her rights. I’ve recently learned a lot of things done between 1988 and 1999 were done illegally by my adopted parents, so I’m not to sure of exact years and circumstances before 1999. | Whitney | Yukiroo3206@gmail.com/ 702-488-0497 | Weekday mornings occasionally around 10-11 AM or evenings after 7PM, all day Saturday. | I would love to share my story and learn of more ways to advocate for adoptees while I continue in my schooling and bring awareness to communities of the need for continuous mental health services and programs for adoptees. I am currently working with some colleagues in starting a mental health organization that is more inclusive and accessible than what is already in place. We are at the very beginning stages in this process and doing research and team building to finalize our proposals, secure funding, understand legalities, fine tune our vision and mission statements, and be prepared to be up and running by the end of 2023. I am also looking for resources to obtain my adoption record and find out the truth behind my adoption and what accountability can be held to my adopted father and his family with the damages they have caused and recent “dismissing me as part of the family” because I am not the biological child. | |||||||
49 | 5/20/2022 8:41:44 | Adoptee | Tulsa, OK | No | 2 | The mental health issues caused by adoption, Coercion tactics in adoption, Family preservation | Education for adoptive parents on parenting adopted children, Mental health issues adoptees may face during adoption and how to address them, Family preservation options | 1966 | Lorah Gerald | Lorahwg@gmail.com | I have open availability | Thanks | |||||||
50 | 5/20/2022 9:15:43 | Adoptee | Norway | Yes | Utad | 1 | The business and money that affects adoption, The mental health issues caused by adoption, Solutions-oriented pieces (ex. What would adoption look like if it were free?) | Legal information regarding open adoption agreements, Family preservation options | 1986 | Sandra Vanessa Borhaug | sandra.borhaug@gmail.com | Yes | My brother was inflicted to my adopter's death due to psycosis. He was abused by her. She adopted away her biological son years before, this was her secret. | ||||||
51 | 5/20/2022 12:45:06 | Adoptee | Eau Claire, WI | No | 1 | The business and money that affects adoption, The mental health issues caused by adoption, Racism & transracial adoptions | Education for adoptive parents on parenting adopted children, Mental health issues adoptees may face during adoption and how to address them, Transracial adoptions | 1989 | Caitlin | Weekends/Evenings Central Standard time | |||||||||
52 | 5/20/2022 12:55:20 | Adoptee | Georgia | No | 1 | The business and money that affects adoption, Adoptees trying to unseal birth certificates, The mental health issues caused by adoption | Education for adoptive parents on parenting adopted children, Mental health issues adoptees may face during adoption and how to address them, Mental health issues birth parents may face during adoption and how to address them | 1966 | Lori Jones | mizzizzjones@gmail.com | The pre-verbal trauma that adoptees who were adopted at birth is real and common. It can cause a lifetime of mental, emotional and physical health problems. This hardly ever talked about and it seems that most everyone refuses to believe this. Adoptees talking about their pain and trauma is dismissed by society. We’re expected to be grateful. Adoption is seen as a beautiful thing with hardly any downsides. I’ve grown so weary trying to explain the reality that many of us are damaged. I’m met with disbelief and downright hostility. | ||||||||
53 | 5/20/2022 13:09:02 | Adoptee | Dogeville, WI | No | 2 | The business and money that affects adoption, Adoptees trying to unseal birth certificates, The mental health issues caused by adoption, Coercion tactics in adoption, Solutions-oriented pieces (ex. What would adoption look like if it were free?), Education for adoptive parents, LGBT+ adoption issues (ex. Trans birth parents, same-sex adoptive parents, etc.) | How to obtain original birth certificates and other identifying information, Legal information regarding open adoption agreements | 1977 | Jennifer Dixon | jennifer@renewyouth.com | Any time after 6pm during the week and weekends I am always free | Both my brother and I are adopted. We were always aware that we were adopted. Our adoptive parents did their best and we were lucky that our adoptive parents love us so much. While I was able to mentally navigate that I was adopted, and get my self to a "good place" with it all. My brother is the complete opposite. He has always felt out of place or like he didn't fit. So when he was able he went searching, and found out some not so great things about his birth parents and siblings, this caused his mental health to spiral, including suicide attempts and addiction problems. | |||||||
54 | 5/20/2022 14:41:11 | Adoptee | Dubuque IA | No | 3 | The business and money that affects adoption, The mental health issues caused by adoption, Coercion tactics in adoption, Family preservation, Solutions-oriented pieces (ex. What would adoption look like if it were free?), LGBT+ adoption issues (ex. Trans birth parents, same-sex adoptive parents, etc.) | Mental health issues adoptees may face during adoption and how to address them, Mental health issues birth parents may face during adoption and how to address them, Infertility and adoption | 1982 | Andrea Gomoll | andrea.gomoll1982@gmail.com | |||||||||
55 | 5/20/2022 15:00:10 | Adoption professional (therapist, lawyer, social worker, etc.), Bio child with two adopted siblings | Louisville, KY | No | 1 | The business and money that affects adoption, The mental health issues caused by adoption, Coercion tactics in adoption, Family preservation, Impact of foster care/group homes | Family preservation options, Adoption of children other than infants | siblings adopted in 1970 & 1972 | Virginia S Frazier, PsyD | virginiasfrazier@gmail.com; 502-609-6456 | M/T evenings | To clarify, my older siblings were adopted in 1970 & 1972 due to fertility issues, however, my parents achieved a viable pregnancy (me) in 1976. Our family dynamics were complicated because of these factors. | |||||||
56 | 5/20/2022 15:16:38 | Birth/First/Original Parent | Sydney, Australia | No | 1 | The business and money that affects adoption, Adoptees trying to unseal birth certificates, The mental health issues caused by adoption, Open adoption navigation, The history of adoption, Coercion tactics in adoption, Family preservation, The request for apologies from adoption organizations and/or state legislatures, LGBT+ adoption issues (ex. Trans birth parents, same-sex adoptive parents, etc.), Mothers rights, alternative care systems such as mother mentor support, stewardship, safe homes and support (think Montessori for mothers and their newborns), elucidation of brainwashing techniques used in adoption counselling and how trust and the counselling space is weaponized against mothers and their to be borns, the brain washing of adoption , the pathologisation of the single mother and the normalization of newborn trafficking, adoption as a form of mother rape, a study into the mental health issues of social workers, counsellors and adoption operators, eg Tara Lee, Sarah Packer, Adoption workers, narcissism and psychopathy, adoption abduction as a form of psychopathy, | How to obtain original birth certificates and other identifying information, Legal information regarding open adoption agreements, Mental health issues adoptees may face during adoption and how to address them, Mental health issues birth parents may face during adoption and how to address them, Family preservation options | My adoption assault, mother rape and legal kidnapping of my first born and legal entrapment happened in 1978 | Kim Taylor | kimtaylorwork@gmail.com | my evenings, your day (Sydney time) 8pm -2am | https://www.originsnsw.com http://www.originscanada.org http://www.originsamerica.org. Origins was set up by Diane Welfare who was drugged after giving birth and removed to another hospital where she was kept captive, drugged and forced to sign consent. This was forced adoption, it was done in various ways and normalised adoption into the fabric of society, suppressing the truth of forced and coercive control. Look into the use of drugging on mothers (see Crown Street hospital) and the technique of abuse and violence and violation used in removal of newborns for adoption and also the jack shit social work theories of past and present that enabled / enable newborn trafficking under the guise of 'care', including the clean slate theory which is inspired by nazi Germany and isa continuance of eugenics. Speak also with Lily Arthur ,who has just released a book https://www.facebook.com/lily.arthur1 , https://www.facebook.com/LilyArthurAuthor and also with journalist Alison O'Reilly who broke the Taum babies story in Ireland. https://www.linkedin.com/in/alison-o-reilly-9189a2129/ . Also Mirah Riben, who you will find on Facebook. https://www.facebook.com/mirah.riben who has written extensively on usa adoption baby market. Look also into how mental health patients were treated and how mothers are treated and seen as mental health issues because they are single mothers and how that informs the policy and treatment , now and traditionally, women's treatment by institutions and ownership laws, and who makes the laws (hint wealthy networked adopters and doctors and psychiatrists and politicians). do an intersectional analysis that looks at the class, social, economic and bias against poor mothers; families (eg Georgia Tann), look at how adoption agents are often adopters (and cons) eg Tara Lee (recently jailed), speak with Tara Lee victim / adoptee/mother Suzan Pleva, who was trafficked by Tara Lee. Neither adoptees of first families create the law, as they do not plan to be in these situations. Adopters however do . Look at the role of doctors in coercion and trafficking of newborns. Look at the media and how it is used to groom towards adoption while suppressing realities on adoption (an economic institution and power network using marketing and media to promote and brainwash culture and future clients ie mothers), look at how adoption exploited psychological trauma and the mothering instinct against the mother , etc. Good luck! | |||||||
57 | 5/20/2022 16:16:50 | Adoptee | Utah | No | 1 | The business and money that affects adoption, Adoptees trying to unseal birth certificates, The mental health issues caused by adoption, The history of adoption, Coercion tactics in adoption, Solutions-oriented pieces (ex. What would adoption look like if it were free?), Education for adoptive parents, LGBT+ adoption issues (ex. Trans birth parents, same-sex adoptive parents, etc.) | How to obtain original birth certificates and other identifying information, Education for adoptive parents on parenting adopted children, Education on navigating an open adoption, Legal information regarding open adoption agreements, Mental health issues adoptees may face during adoption and how to address them, Mental health issues birth parents may face during adoption and how to address them, LGBT+ adoption issues (ex. trans birth, second-parent adoption, etc.) | 1971 | Jill | Jndaley@hotmail.com | |||||||||
58 | 5/20/2022 16:28:52 | Adoptee | Chippewa Falls | No | 2 | The business and money that affects adoption, Adoptees trying to unseal birth certificates, The mental health issues caused by adoption | Mental health issues adoptees may face during adoption and how to address them, Mental health issues birth parents may face during adoption and how to address them | 1972 | Kimberly Broses | Kbroses5338@charter.net | |||||||||
59 | 5/20/2022 16:30:39 | Adoptee | Atlantic City, NJ | No | 1 | The business and money that affects adoption, The mental health issues caused by adoption, The history of adoption, LGBT+ adoption issues (ex. Trans birth parents, same-sex adoptive parents, etc.) | Mental health issues adoptees may face during adoption and how to address them, LGBT+ adoption issues (ex. trans birth, second-parent adoption, etc.) | 1994 | Lauren Berman | Butterflyswim8@aol.com | When checking “LGBT adoption”, it needs to be stated that I don’t believe that adoption is a family building tool. most (including Heteronormative parents ) believe adoption the only way for it to be a way to have a child.and that needs to be addressed.i find Those spaces are often very aggressive to adoptees who say adoption isn’t the best solution for the wellbeing of the child because adoption is the one of the only ways they are able to be parents | ||||||||
60 | 5/20/2022 16:33:27 | Adoptee | Cedar Rapids | No | 1 | The mental health issues caused by adoption, Family preservation, Education for adoptive parents | Education for adoptive parents on parenting adopted children, Education on navigating an open adoption, Mental health issues adoptees may face during adoption and how to address them | 2006(3years old) | Zoe | Zogazda03@gmail.com | |||||||||
61 | 5/20/2022 16:38:52 | Adoptee | Royal Oak, MI | No | 1 | The mental health issues caused by adoption, Coercion tactics in adoption, Education for adoptive parents | Education for adoptive parents on parenting adopted children, Mental health issues adoptees may face during adoption and how to address them, Mental health issues birth parents may face during adoption and how to address them | 1984 | Jessy Trudell | Sparkbeautydesign@gmail.com | I have a flexible schedule. | I want to use a bunch of inappropriate language towards the notion that there is a solution to abortion and that adoption might be one of them. | |||||||
62 | 5/20/2022 16:41:15 | Adoptee | Cheyenne, WY | No | 1 | The business and money that affects adoption, The mental health issues caused by adoption, Solutions-oriented pieces (ex. What would adoption look like if it were free?) | Education for adoptive parents on parenting adopted children, Mental health issues adoptees may face during adoption and how to address them, Mental health issues birth parents may face during adoption and how to address them | 1987 | Michelle Crenshaw | The amount of mental and physical abuse that adopted children are subjected to is something that no one likes to talk about. The woman who adopted me at 3 yrs old spent the next 16 years telling me and showing me how much no one wanted me around or even alive. I still struggle with the PTSD at 38 yrs old. | |||||||||
63 | 5/20/2022 16:51:39 | Adoptee | Columbus, ohio | No | 1 | The business and money that affects adoption, The mental health issues caused by adoption, How adopted kids are more likely to suffer abuse at the hands of their adopted parents and All of the gas lighting and everything that goes on with the white saviorism and the Christian saviorism and how you're basically forced to be one way or else they return you | How to obtain original birth certificates and other identifying information, Family preservation options, LGBT+ adoption issues (ex. trans birth, second-parent adoption, etc.) | My adoption took place in 1998 | Caroline Reetz Kloster | 614-935-6041 | Afternoons work good | ||||||||
64 | 5/20/2022 16:54:34 | Adoptive Parent | Yellow Springs Ohio | No | 1 | The mental health issues caused by adoption, The history of adoption, Coercion tactics in adoption, The request for apologies from adoption organizations and/or state legislatures, Education for adoptive parents, LGBT+ adoption issues (ex. Trans birth parents, same-sex adoptive parents, etc.) | Education for adoptive parents on parenting adopted children, Education on navigating an open adoption, Mental health issues adoptees may face during adoption and how to address them, Mental health issues birth parents may face during adoption and how to address them, Infertility and adoption, Family preservation options, LGBT+ adoption issues (ex. trans birth, second-parent adoption, etc.) | 2009 and 2010 | Cyndi Vincent | Cyndi_dv@yahoo.com | Yes | I'm so grateful you are doing this. | |||||||
65 | 5/20/2022 16:57:06 | Adoptee | New Albany, Indiana | No | 2 | The mental health issues caused by adoption, Coercion tactics in adoption, Education for adoptive parents, LGBT+ adoption issues (ex. Trans birth parents, same-sex adoptive parents, etc.) | Mental health issues adoptees may face during adoption and how to address them, Mental health issues birth parents may face during adoption and how to address them, LGBT+ adoption issues (ex. trans birth, second-parent adoption, etc.) | 2007 | Micah Yankey | micahcyankey@gmail.com; 812 844 5224 | I think it’s important to highlight that it can be traumatic for both the birth parents and the child when they have to give the child up for adoption. | ||||||||
66 | 5/20/2022 17:26:41 | Adoptee | Superior, MT | No | 1 | The mental health issues caused by adoption, Education for adoptive parents, Documented adoption done through organizations vs. cultured where next of kin adopt | How to obtain original birth certificates and other identifying information, Education for adoptive parents on parenting adopted children, Education on navigating an open adoption | 1985 | Ayme Krogstad | ayme.krogstad@gmail.com | Mondays any time between 9am and 5pm MST | I was adopted before birth through Catholic Social Services and it was open, though I learned later when I met my birth mother as an adult that she was forced by her family to place me for adoption. She wanted to keep me, but was coerced into adoption out of the families shame. Everyone talks about adoption as though it’s this amazing thing but no one bothers to understand what it’s like for the adoptee. I would say I have one of the less traumatic adoption stories as my adoption was celebrated and I was raised in a loving home. However, my adoptive mother has her own mental health issues that have never been addressed and, in addition to the trauma of being forcefully taken from my mother against her will, I also endured years of emotional abuse and chaos in my home growing up. I’m a therapist now myself and have been in therapy for the last decade working through my own trauma. I am grateful for my life but also have to live with the fact that I will never feel truly whole. I have many adopted friends and they feel the same. Adoption is not the amazing thing people think it is as it leaves the adoptee with an emptiness that can never be resolved, ever. Adoption should be a worst case scenario option only used in cases where it is impossible/not safe to keep a child with their mother or next of kin. It IS NOT an alternative to abortion and it enrages me how many people through it around so casually. | |||||||
67 | 5/20/2022 19:27:28 | Adoptee | Syracuse, NY | No | 1 | The business and money that affects adoption, The mental health issues caused by adoption, LGBT+ adoption issues (ex. Trans birth parents, same-sex adoptive parents, etc.) | 1980 | Tammy | Taurusgemini7@icloud.com | Wednesday or Thursday evenings, all day Saturday | Adoption is not a solution to abortion | ||||||||
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