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TimestampWhat part of the adoption constellation do you identify as?What city and state do you live in?
Are you a part of any adoption-related organizations?
If yes, please list them here:
On a scale of 1 to 5, how satisfied are you with how adoption is reported on in the news?
Which of the following issues related to adoption do you most think need to be reported on more in the news? (Please choose no more than 3)
Which of the following do you most feel as though you are lacking information on?(Please choose no more than 3)
If you are a birth parent, an adoptive parent and/or an adoptee, what year did the adoption take place?
Name:
Contact information (email and/or phone number):
If you are willing to participate in monthly Zoom feedback sessions, please list your availability below:
Is there anything else you would like to add?
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4/23/2022 17:08:02Birth/First/Original ParentGarfield, MinnesotaYesConcerned United Birthparent's (CUB)3
Adoptees trying to unseal birth certificates, The mental health issues caused by adoption, Family preservation
Mental health issues adoptees may face during adoption and how to address them, Family preservation options
1965Pat Gliskypmglisky@gmail.comanytime
Thank you for your interest
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3/23/2022 12:54:37Birth/First/Original ParentDelray Beach FLYesAccess Connecticut, Catholic Mothers for Truth and Transparency, Concerned United Birthparents 1
The business and money that affects adoption, The mental health issues caused by adoption, Open adoption navigation, Coercion tactics in adoption, Family preservation
Legal information regarding open adoption agreements, Mental health issues adoptees may face during adoption and how to address them, Mental health issues birth parents may face during adoption and how to address them, Family preservation options
1966Eileen McQuadeEileen2155@gmail.com
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3/27/2022 11:49:19Birth/First/Original Parent, Adoption-competent therapistAsheville, NCYes
Concerned United Birthparents, Nat'l Association of Parents & Adoptees, Adoption Knowledge Associates, myriads of FB communities
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The business and money that affects adoption, Adoptees trying to unseal birth certificates, The mental health issues caused by adoption, Coercion tactics in adoption, Family preservation, The request for apologies from adoption organizations and/or state legislatures
1966Leslie Pate Mackinnon404-452-6963
I'm available during the day on Eastern Standard Time. Prefer weekdays but can do wkends
I'm am anxious to get the media involved in sharing the reality of adoption versus what gets shared now which is the marketing campaigns of the billion dollar adoption industry.
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3/23/2022 14:37:23Birth/First/Original ParentHollis, NHYesCUB1
The business and money that affects adoption, Adoptees trying to unseal birth certificates, Coercion tactics in adoption
How to obtain original birth certificates and other identifying information, Family preservation options, Counseling for first mothers
1967Mary Jefferymaryjeffery@gmail.com
I’m retired so most any time would work if I have enough advance notice
Coerced Adoption wrecked my connection to my son and grandchildren
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Birth/First/Original Parent1967
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3/23/2022 15:51:51AdopteeAshburn, VAYesAdoptees Connect, National Association of Adoptees and Parents, Adoptees for Justice 1
The business and money that affects adoption, Adoptees trying to unseal birth certificates, The mental health issues caused by adoption, The history of adoption, Coercion tactics in adoption, Family preservation, The request for apologies from adoption organizations and/or state legislatures, Education for adoptive parents
Education for adoptive parents on parenting adopted children, Mental health issues adoptees may face during adoption and how to address them, Family preservation options
1968ANN MIKESKAannsqrd@aol.com
Every weekday evening but Wednesday
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3/27/2022 3:08:16
Birth/First/Original Parent, Adoption activist (unsealing original birth certificates, requesting an apology, etc.), Foster parent who raised 4 foster kids
Bonney Lake, WAYesSaving Our Sisters1
The business and money that affects adoption, Adoptees trying to unseal birth certificates, The mental health issues caused by adoption, Open adoption navigation, The history of adoption, Coercion tactics in adoption, Family preservation, The request for apologies from adoption organizations and/or state legislatures, Solutions-oriented pieces (ex. What would adoption look like if it were free?), Education for adoptive parents, LGBT+ adoption issues (ex. Trans birth parents, same-sex adoptive parents, etc.)
How to obtain original birth certificates and other identifying information, Education for adoptive parents on parenting adopted children, Education on navigating an open adoption, Legal information regarding open adoption agreements, Mental health issues adoptees may face during adoption and how to address them, Mental health issues birth parents may face during adoption and how to address them, Infertility and adoption, Family preservation options, LGBT+ adoption issues (ex. trans birth, second-parent adoption, etc.), Adoption coercion and illegal tactics
1968Kathleen M Chafin253-347-9550
Yeswhile other counteies, Canada, Ireland, Australia have issed national apologies, there is silence in the USA. And almost no one has heard of Baby Scoop Era but there are 2-3 millions of us in the USA alone..biggest secret ever of a human rights abuse
Thank you for your efforts.
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3/23/2022 14:57:10AdopteeEugene oregonNo1
The business and money that affects adoption, The mental health issues caused by adoption, Family preservation
Mental health issues adoptees may face during adoption and how to address them
1969Kristen Fadichkfadich@hotmail.com
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3/26/2022 12:15:37Birth/First/Original ParentVentura CaYesConcerned United Birthparents and many adoption Facebook groups2
The mental health issues caused by adoption, Coercion tactics in adoption, Family preservation
Legal information regarding open adoption agreements, Mental health issues adoptees may face during adoption and how to address them, Family preservation options
1969Betsey HoltBetseyCa@gmail.com
I am open a lot of times Wednesday can be bad for me.
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3/31/2022 13:06:42Birth/First/Original ParentHoughton MINo2
The business and money that affects adoption, Adoptees trying to unseal birth certificates, Coercion tactics in adoption
How to obtain original birth certificates and other identifying information, Education for adoptive parents on parenting adopted children, Mental health issues adoptees may face during adoption and how to address them, Mental health issues birth parents may face during adoption and how to address them
1969Virginia Schaller
vschalle@mtu.edu. 906-370-7866
I’m retired so availability is liberal
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5/2/2022 8:04:51Birth/First/Original ParentChicago IllinoisYesCUB and Catholic Mothers for Truth2
The mental health issues caused by adoption, Coercion tactics in adoption, Family preservation
Mental health issues adoptees may face during adoption and how to address them, Mental health issues birth parents may face during adoption and how to address them, Family preservation options
1969Janice Gallagher LauJcglau@gmail.comEvenings
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3/24/2022 8:44:18Birth/First/Original ParentTopeka, KSYesAmerican Adoption Congress, Adoption Concerns Triangle of Topeka2
The business and money that affects adoption, Adoptees trying to unseal birth certificates, Coercion tactics in adoption
How to obtain original birth certificates and other identifying information, Mental health issues adoptees may face during adoption and how to address them, Mental health issues birth parents may face during adoption and how to address them
1970Marilyn Waughwaugh5@cox.net
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3/31/2022 15:47:27Birth/First/Original ParentBelchertown MANo1
The business and money that affects adoption, The mental health issues caused by adoption, Coercion tactics in adoption
How to obtain original birth certificates and other identifying information, Mental health issues birth parents may face during adoption and how to address them
1970Becky Martin
Becky01007@gmail.com. Text:4133482826
Most days
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3/23/2022 23:42:14Birth/First/Original ParentNew YorkYes
Episcopal Mothers For Truth & Transparency, Catholic Mothers for Truth and Transparency, Origins America, CUB, Voices from the Baby Scoop Era, etc..
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The business and money that affects adoption, Coercion tactics in adoption, The request for apologies from adoption organizations and/or state legislatures
1971Francine Gurtler Bsemothers@gmail.comSure
I think we exchanged emails briefly last week. I would love to know how to get our message I. Press
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3/23/2022 17:24:43Birth/First/Original ParentDenver, ColoradoYes
Adoption Search Resource Connection; Catholic Mothers for Truth & Transparency; Coalition for Adoption Truth and Transparency
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The business and money that affects adoption, The mental health issues caused by adoption, Coercion tactics in adoption, The request for apologies from adoption organizations and/or state legislatures, LGBT+ adoption issues (ex. Trans birth parents, same-sex adoptive parents, etc.)
Mental health issues adoptees may face during adoption and how to address them, Mental health issues birth parents may face during adoption and how to address them, LGBT+ adoption issues (ex. trans birth, second-parent adoption, etc.)
1972Kathy Aderholdfoundcorry@gmail.com
Yes. Depends on the date/time
No
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3/25/2022 11:36:33
Adoptee, Adoption activist (unsealing original birth certificates, requesting an apology, etc.)
Wellsburg WVNo2
The business and money that affects adoption, Adoptees trying to unseal birth certificates, The mental health issues caused by adoption, Open adoption navigation, The history of adoption, Coercion tactics in adoption, Family preservation, Education for adoptive parents
How to obtain original birth certificates and other identifying information, Legal information regarding open adoption agreements, Mental health issues adoptees may face during adoption and how to address them, Family preservation options
1972Jen Matthews
caawilfupodcast@gmail.com
Maybe
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3/25/2022 21:58:23Adopteekamloops CANADANo1
The business and money that affects adoption, Adoptees trying to unseal birth certificates, The mental health issues caused by adoption
How to obtain original birth certificates and other identifying information, Mental health issues adoptees may face during adoption and how to address them, Family preservation options
1972Susan Wrightsueof72@yahoo.cano
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3/24/2022 4:19:24AdopteeRolla, Missouri No1
The business and money that affects adoption, Adoptees trying to unseal birth certificates, The mental health issues caused by adoption, Open adoption navigation, The history of adoption, Coercion tactics in adoption, Family preservation, The request for apologies from adoption organizations and/or state legislatures, Solutions-oriented pieces (ex. What would adoption look like if it were free?), Education for adoptive parents, LGBT+ adoption issues (ex. Trans birth parents, same-sex adoptive parents, etc.)
Education for adoptive parents on parenting adopted children, Legal information regarding open adoption agreements, Mental health issues adoptees may face during adoption and how to address them, Mental health issues birth parents may face during adoption and how to address them, Family preservation options
1973Cathy
cathylou1973@gmail.com
Late afternoons and evenings
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4/27/2022 12:18:34Birth/First/Original ParentLafayette, IndianaYesCUB, NAAP1
The business and money that affects adoption, Adoptees trying to unseal birth certificates, Coercion tactics in adoption, The request for apologies from adoption organizations and/or state legislatures
How to obtain original birth certificates and other identifying information
1976Eileen Drennen404-840-6722generally availablethank you!
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4/14/2022 19:49:27Birth/First/Original ParentFreeland, WaYes
Concerned United Birthparents, Adoption Truth & Transparency Network, NAAP, various Facebook groups
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The business and money that affects adoption, The mental health issues caused by adoption, Coercion tactics in adoption, The baby fever of hopeful adoptive parents, entitlement, desperation, and other people’s human babies for a high price…
Mental health issues adoptees may face during adoption and how to address them, Mental health issues birth parents may face during adoption and how to address them, Infertility and adoption, Family preservation options
1977Marina425-802-4933Flexible
When do we talk about adoption as human trafficking and the long term effects of separation on adult adoptees and the birth families?
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5/2/2022 4:16:39Birth/First/Original ParentMarch, Cambridgeshire, UKNo1
The mental health issues caused by adoption, Coercion tactics in adoption, Family preservation
How to obtain original birth certificates and other identifying information, Mental health issues adoptees may face during adoption and how to address them, Family preservation options
1978Deb Larham
Britanniaview@hotmail.com
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Adoptee1981
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3/23/2022 19:19:01AdopteeMinneapolis, Minnesota No1
The mental health issues caused by adoption, Family preservation, Education for adoptive parents
How to obtain original birth certificates and other identifying information, Education for adoptive parents on parenting adopted children, Mental health issues adoptees may face during adoption and how to address them
1986Kristina Schiller
Ktsjostrom22@gmail.com
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5/2/2022 3:12:24Birth/First/Original ParentABERDEENSHIRE, ScotlandNo1
The mental health issues caused by adoption, Education for adoptive parents
Mental health issues birth parents may face during adoption and how to address them
1989Susan Hunter
susanduncan17@yahoo.com
Evenings or a Friday/Weekends
I am in reunion with my son, 8 months and although its totally amazing i am crying and upset most of the time. The loss of not bringing him up is immense and for him trying to juggle us all is hard im sure. He is a wonderful gorgeous young man that has found me, me being the piece for him that has always being missing.
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3/23/2022 18:00:01Birth/First/Original ParentDenali, AlaskaYes
On Your Feet Foundation, Concerned United Birthparents, multiple Facebook groups (first parent, adoptee, and triad groups
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The business and money that affects adoption, The mental health issues caused by adoption, Education for adoptive parents
Education for adoptive parents on parenting adopted children, Mental health issues adoptees may face during adoption and how to address them, Mental health issues birth parents may face during adoption and how to address them
1990Candace
candace_cahill@yahoo.com
I'm willing, but being in Alaska makes the timing difficult.
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5/1/2022 23:31:49Birth/First/Original ParentBridgeport CTNo1
The business and money that affects adoption, The mental health issues caused by adoption, Coercion tactics in adoption
Legal information regarding open adoption agreements
1990Cat DevaldCatdevald@gmail.com
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3/23/2022 18:53:38Birth/First/Original ParentTacoma, Washington No1
Adoptees trying to unseal birth certificates, Coercion tactics in adoption, Family preservation
Family preservation options, LGBT+ adoption issues (ex. trans birth, second-parent adoption, etc.)
1991Jennifer
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3/23/2022 16:14:38Birth/First/Original ParentBoca Raton FloridaYesOn your feet foundation1
The business and money that affects adoption, Adoptees trying to unseal birth certificates, The mental health issues caused by adoption, Coercion tactics in adoption, Family preservation, The request for apologies from adoption organizations and/or state legislatures, Education for adoptive parents
Mental health issues birth parents may face during adoption and how to address them, Family preservation options
1993Jane Ratcliffe
jratcliffe@kinproperties.com
no
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Birth/First/Original Parent1994
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Birth/First/Original Parent1997
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Birth/First/Original Parent1999
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3/24/2022 20:22:32Birth/First/Original ParentFayetteville GAYesSaving Our Sisters, The Family Preservation Project, Adoption Surveys1
The business and money that affects adoption, Adoptees trying to unseal birth certificates, Open adoption navigation
Legal information regarding open adoption agreements, Mental health issues adoptees may face during adoption and how to address them, Family preservation options
1999Katie Burns
thefamilypreservationproject@gmail.com
Monday-Friday 11 am- 1 pmThank you for doing this.
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3/25/2022 11:35:44Birth/First/Original ParentMinneapolis, MNYesConcerned United Birthparents (CUB), American Adoption Congress (AAC).1
The business and money that affects adoption, The mental health issues caused by adoption, Coercion tactics in adoption
Mental health issues adoptees may face during adoption and how to address them, Mental health issues birth parents may face during adoption and how to address them
2000Allisa Brunner
allisabrunner@gmail.com 612-804-6624
Weekday evenings.
Thank you for doing this very important work!
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3/27/2022 23:29:08Birth/First/Original ParentGreeley CoNo3
The business and money that affects adoption, The mental health issues caused by adoption, Family preservation
Mental health issues adoptees may face during adoption and how to address them, Mental health issues birth parents may face during adoption and how to address them
2001Kristine SilvaKristine.silva@live.comM-T-R-F evenings
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5/2/2022 18:20:54Birth/First/Original Parent, AdopteeSTEGERYesConcerned United Birthparents1
The business and money that affects adoption, The mental health issues caused by adoption, Coercion tactics in adoption
Education for adoptive parents on parenting adopted children, How to help children who are mentally affected by losing a sibiling due to adoption
2003
FAITH CARLSON-FROELICH
fcarlson622@gmail.com
Everyday except Wednesday after 5pm CST
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5/1/2022 22:53:54Birth/First/Original ParentSacramento, CAYesMpower Alliance, On Your Feet Foundation 1
The business and money that affects adoption, Adoptees trying to unseal birth certificates, Coercion tactics in adoption
Mental health issues adoptees may face during adoption and how to address them, Mental health issues birth parents may face during adoption and how to address them, Family preservation options
2005Debbie Koeberlein
Lildebbie916@hotmail.com
Yes, open availability
Adoption reform is needed
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3/26/2022 21:33:20Birth/First/Original ParentDenver, coNo2
The business and money that affects adoption, The mental health issues caused by adoption, Family preservation
Legal information regarding open adoption agreements
2010Annie JacobsTresario@gmail.comEvenings MST
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5/2/2022 6:13:33Birth/First/Original ParentPawtucket, Rhode Island No1
The business and money that affects adoption, The history of adoption, Coercion tactics in adoption
2011Rachael
Rachaelalambert@gmail.com
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3/20/2022 22:30:38Birth/First/Original ParentLos Angeles, CAYes
Sorta? I don't know if I'm "part" of Spence-Chapin but I do some volunteer and paid work with them from time to time.
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The business and money that affects adoption, Coercion tactics in adoption, Family preservation
Education on navigating an open adoption, Mental health issues birth parents may face during adoption and how to address them, Family preservation options
2012Jack MacCarthy5188796159
My schedule is flexible. I want to do this.
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3/28/2022 14:01:42Birth/First/Original ParentEdgerton, WIYesConcerned United Birthparents1
Adoptees trying to unseal birth certificates, Coercion tactics in adoption, Family preservation
How to obtain original birth certificates and other identifying information, Legal information regarding open adoption agreements, Mental health issues birth parents may face during adoption and how to address them
2012Mandy Krahenbuhl
mandykrahenbuhl@hotmail.com
available most days - current online student
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3/24/2022 10:38:45Birth/First/Original ParentBirmingham, Alabama No1
The business and money that affects adoption, Adoptees trying to unseal birth certificates, The mental health issues caused by adoption, Open adoption navigation, The history of adoption, Coercion tactics in adoption, Family preservation, The request for apologies from adoption organizations and/or state legislatures, Solutions-oriented pieces (ex. What would adoption look like if it were free?), Education for adoptive parents, LGBT+ adoption issues (ex. Trans birth parents, same-sex adoptive parents, etc.), Just everything that will happen as in mentally for birth mom and child after separation
How to obtain original birth certificates and other identifying information, Education for adoptive parents on parenting adopted children, Education on navigating an open adoption, Legal information regarding open adoption agreements, Mental health issues adoptees may face during adoption and how to address them, Mental health issues birth parents may face during adoption and how to address them, Infertility and adoption, Family preservation options, LGBT+ adoption issues (ex. trans birth, second-parent adoption, etc.)
2018Shannon Johnson
Scjohnson1388@gmail.com
Mondays and Tuesdays I hate adoption!!
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5/1/2022 22:57:25Birth/First/Original ParentDallas, TexasxNo1
The business and money that affects adoption, Adoptees trying to unseal birth certificates, The mental health issues caused by adoption, Open adoption navigation, The history of adoption, Coercion tactics in adoption, Family preservation, The request for apologies from adoption organizations and/or state legislatures, Solutions-oriented pieces (ex. What would adoption look like if it were free?), Education for adoptive parents, LGBT+ adoption issues (ex. Trans birth parents, same-sex adoptive parents, etc.), Education and resources for first parents pre and post adoption
How to obtain original birth certificates and other identifying information, Legal information regarding open adoption agreements, Mental health issues adoptees may face during adoption and how to address them, Mental health issues birth parents may face during adoption and how to address them, Infertility and adoption, Family preservation options, LGBT+ adoption issues (ex. trans birth, second-parent adoption, etc.)
2019Dee
Jacobsen.deidrianna@gmail.com
Sundays and Mondays
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3/25/2022 11:41:50AdopteeIt doesn’t matterYesRather not1
Adoptees trying to unseal birth certificates, The mental health issues caused by adoption, Family preservation
Education for adoptive parents on parenting adopted children, Mental health issues adoptees may face during adoption and how to address themNo
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5/12/2022 16:58:37Birth/First/Original ParentSouthwest MissouriNo1
The business and money that affects adoption, Family preservation, Solutions-oriented pieces (ex. What would adoption look like if it were free?)
Mental health issues adoptees may face during adoption and how to address them, Family preservation options
2008Emily Dalton
emily.dettmar.dalton@gmail.com
Most evenings, and more time on weekends
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5/18/2022 22:59:20AdopteePittsburgh, PANo2
Adoptees trying to unseal birth certificates, The mental health issues caused by adoption, Coercion tactics in adoption
Mental health issues adoptees may face during adoption and how to address them, LGBT+ adoption issues (ex. trans birth, second-parent adoption, etc.), Adoptee to adoptee counseling/mentoring/support
1973Wendy Baxter
wendydarlingbaxter@gmail.com
I work in the live events industry so my schedule varies wildly depending on the month. I do usually have Wednesday evenings open the most.
Thank you for providing this.
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5/19/2022 22:30:49AdopteeRice Lake, Wisconsin No1
The mental health issues caused by adoption, Family preservation, Education for adoptive parents
Education for adoptive parents on parenting adopted children, Mental health issues adoptees may face during adoption and how to address them, Family preservation options
1971Jill Bekkumjmbekkum@mac.com
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5/20/2022 6:15:22
Adoptee, Adoption professional (therapist, lawyer, social worker, etc.), Adoption activist (unsealing original birth certificates, requesting an apology, etc.), Currently working towards degrees to allow me more of a “voice” and access to conduct mental health research to better advocate for adoptees and an understanding of the many traumas, types of losses (such as culture, identity, etc) and barriers adoptees face at all life stages.
Olympia, WANo1
The mental health issues caused by adoption, Coercion tactics in adoption, What life looks like for an adoptee when they turn 18, especially when being raised in an abusive household and the impacts of identity/culture loss as a youth and into adulthood when placed in a family of a different ethnicity. Also the impacts when an adoptee is stolen by adoptive parents and lack of recourse and therapies.
How to obtain original birth certificates and other identifying information, Mental health issues birth parents may face during adoption and how to address them, Rights and protections for adoptees in an unsafe home once the state has stepped out of the picture.
I’m not entirely sure. I was placed in guardianship as a newborn (as I’ve been told) in 1988. My adoption was officially finalized in 1999 when my birth mother relinquished her rights. I’ve recently learned a lot of things done between 1988 and 1999 were done illegally by my adopted parents, so I’m not to sure of exact years and circumstances before 1999.
Whitney
Yukiroo3206@gmail.com/ 702-488-0497
Weekday mornings occasionally around 10-11 AM or evenings after 7PM, all day Saturday.
I would love to share my story and learn of more ways to advocate for adoptees while I continue in my schooling and bring awareness to communities of the need for continuous mental health services and programs for adoptees. I am currently working with some colleagues in starting a mental health organization that is more inclusive and accessible than what is already in place. We are at the very beginning stages in this process and doing research and team building to finalize our proposals, secure funding, understand legalities, fine tune our vision and mission statements, and be prepared to be up and running by the end of 2023. I am also looking for resources to obtain my adoption record and find out the truth behind my adoption and what accountability can be held to my adopted father and his family with the damages they have caused and recent “dismissing me as part of the family” because I am not the biological child.
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5/20/2022 8:41:44AdopteeTulsa, OK No2
The mental health issues caused by adoption, Coercion tactics in adoption, Family preservation
Education for adoptive parents on parenting adopted children, Mental health issues adoptees may face during adoption and how to address them, Family preservation options
1966Lorah GeraldLorahwg@gmail.comI have open availability Thanks
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5/20/2022 9:15:43AdopteeNorwayYesUtad1
The business and money that affects adoption, The mental health issues caused by adoption, Solutions-oriented pieces (ex. What would adoption look like if it were free?)
Legal information regarding open adoption agreements, Family preservation options
1986Sandra Vanessa Borhaug
sandra.borhaug@gmail.com
Yes
My brother was inflicted to my adopter's death due to psycosis. He was abused by her. She adopted away her biological son years before, this was her secret.
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5/20/2022 12:45:06AdopteeEau Claire, WINo1
The business and money that affects adoption, The mental health issues caused by adoption, Racism & transracial adoptions
Education for adoptive parents on parenting adopted children, Mental health issues adoptees may face during adoption and how to address them, Transracial adoptions
1989Caitlin
Weekends/Evenings Central Standard time
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5/20/2022 12:55:20AdopteeGeorgia No1
The business and money that affects adoption, Adoptees trying to unseal birth certificates, The mental health issues caused by adoption
Education for adoptive parents on parenting adopted children, Mental health issues adoptees may face during adoption and how to address them, Mental health issues birth parents may face during adoption and how to address them
1966Lori Jones
mizzizzjones@gmail.com
The pre-verbal trauma that adoptees who were adopted at birth is real and common. It can cause a lifetime of mental, emotional and physical health problems. This hardly ever talked about and it seems that most everyone refuses to believe this. Adoptees talking about their pain and trauma is dismissed by society. We’re expected to be grateful. Adoption is seen as a beautiful thing with hardly any downsides. I’ve grown so weary trying to explain the reality that many of us are damaged. I’m met with disbelief and downright hostility.
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5/20/2022 13:09:02AdopteeDogeville, WINo2
The business and money that affects adoption, Adoptees trying to unseal birth certificates, The mental health issues caused by adoption, Coercion tactics in adoption, Solutions-oriented pieces (ex. What would adoption look like if it were free?), Education for adoptive parents, LGBT+ adoption issues (ex. Trans birth parents, same-sex adoptive parents, etc.)
How to obtain original birth certificates and other identifying information, Legal information regarding open adoption agreements
1977Jennifer Dixon
jennifer@renewyouth.com
Any time after 6pm during the week and weekends I am always free
Both my brother and I are adopted. We were always aware that we were adopted. Our adoptive parents did their best and we were lucky that our adoptive parents love us so much. While I was able to mentally navigate that I was adopted, and get my self to a "good place" with it all. My brother is the complete opposite. He has always felt out of place or like he didn't fit. So when he was able he went searching, and found out some not so great things about his birth parents and siblings, this caused his mental health to spiral, including suicide attempts and addiction problems.
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5/20/2022 14:41:11AdopteeDubuque IANo3
The business and money that affects adoption, The mental health issues caused by adoption, Coercion tactics in adoption, Family preservation, Solutions-oriented pieces (ex. What would adoption look like if it were free?), LGBT+ adoption issues (ex. Trans birth parents, same-sex adoptive parents, etc.)
Mental health issues adoptees may face during adoption and how to address them, Mental health issues birth parents may face during adoption and how to address them, Infertility and adoption
1982Andrea Gomoll
andrea.gomoll1982@gmail.com
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5/20/2022 15:00:10
Adoption professional (therapist, lawyer, social worker, etc.), Bio child with two adopted siblings
Louisville, KYNo1
The business and money that affects adoption, The mental health issues caused by adoption, Coercion tactics in adoption, Family preservation, Impact of foster care/group homes
Family preservation options, Adoption of children other than infants
siblings adopted in 1970 & 1972
Virginia S Frazier, PsyD
virginiasfrazier@gmail.com; 502-609-6456
M/T evenings
To clarify, my older siblings were adopted in 1970 & 1972 due to fertility issues, however, my parents achieved a viable pregnancy (me) in 1976. Our family dynamics were complicated because of these factors.
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5/20/2022 15:16:38Birth/First/Original ParentSydney, AustraliaNo1
The business and money that affects adoption, Adoptees trying to unseal birth certificates, The mental health issues caused by adoption, Open adoption navigation, The history of adoption, Coercion tactics in adoption, Family preservation, The request for apologies from adoption organizations and/or state legislatures, LGBT+ adoption issues (ex. Trans birth parents, same-sex adoptive parents, etc.), Mothers rights, alternative care systems such as mother mentor support, stewardship, safe homes and support (think Montessori for mothers and their newborns), elucidation of brainwashing techniques used in adoption counselling and how trust and the counselling space is weaponized against mothers and their to be borns, the brain washing of adoption , the pathologisation of the single mother and the normalization of newborn trafficking, adoption as a form of mother rape, a study into the mental health issues of social workers, counsellors and adoption operators, eg Tara Lee, Sarah Packer, Adoption workers, narcissism and psychopathy, adoption abduction as a form of psychopathy,
How to obtain original birth certificates and other identifying information, Legal information regarding open adoption agreements, Mental health issues adoptees may face during adoption and how to address them, Mental health issues birth parents may face during adoption and how to address them, Family preservation options
My adoption assault, mother rape and legal kidnapping of my first born and legal entrapment happened in 1978
Kim Taylor
kimtaylorwork@gmail.com
my evenings, your day (Sydney time) 8pm -2am
https://www.originsnsw.com http://www.originscanada.org http://www.originsamerica.org. Origins was set up by Diane Welfare who was drugged after giving birth and removed to another hospital where she was kept captive, drugged and forced to sign consent. This was forced adoption, it was done in various ways and normalised adoption into the fabric of society, suppressing the truth of forced and coercive control. Look into the use of drugging on mothers (see Crown Street hospital) and the technique of abuse and violence and violation used in removal of newborns for adoption and also the jack shit social work theories of past and present that enabled / enable newborn trafficking under the guise of 'care', including the clean slate theory which is inspired by nazi Germany and isa continuance of eugenics. Speak also with Lily Arthur ,who has just released a book https://www.facebook.com/lily.arthur1 , https://www.facebook.com/LilyArthurAuthor and also with journalist Alison O'Reilly who broke the Taum babies story in Ireland. https://www.linkedin.com/in/alison-o-reilly-9189a2129/ . Also Mirah Riben, who you will find on Facebook. https://www.facebook.com/mirah.riben who has written extensively on usa adoption baby market. Look also into how mental health patients were treated and how mothers are treated and seen as mental health issues because they are single mothers and how that informs the policy and treatment , now and traditionally, women's treatment by institutions and ownership laws, and who makes the laws (hint wealthy networked adopters and doctors and psychiatrists and politicians). do an intersectional analysis that looks at the class, social, economic and bias against poor mothers; families (eg Georgia Tann), look at how adoption agents are often adopters (and cons) eg Tara Lee (recently jailed), speak with Tara Lee victim / adoptee/mother Suzan Pleva, who was trafficked by Tara Lee. Neither adoptees of first families create the law, as they do not plan to be in these situations. Adopters however do . Look at the role of doctors in coercion and trafficking of newborns. Look at the media and how it is used to groom towards adoption while suppressing realities on adoption (an economic institution and power network using marketing and media to promote and brainwash culture and future clients ie mothers), look at how adoption exploited psychological trauma and the mothering instinct against the mother , etc.
Good luck!
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5/20/2022 16:16:50AdopteeUtahNo1
The business and money that affects adoption, Adoptees trying to unseal birth certificates, The mental health issues caused by adoption, The history of adoption, Coercion tactics in adoption, Solutions-oriented pieces (ex. What would adoption look like if it were free?), Education for adoptive parents, LGBT+ adoption issues (ex. Trans birth parents, same-sex adoptive parents, etc.)
How to obtain original birth certificates and other identifying information, Education for adoptive parents on parenting adopted children, Education on navigating an open adoption, Legal information regarding open adoption agreements, Mental health issues adoptees may face during adoption and how to address them, Mental health issues birth parents may face during adoption and how to address them, LGBT+ adoption issues (ex. trans birth, second-parent adoption, etc.)
1971JillJndaley@hotmail.com
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5/20/2022 16:28:52AdopteeChippewa FallsNo2
The business and money that affects adoption, Adoptees trying to unseal birth certificates, The mental health issues caused by adoption
Mental health issues adoptees may face during adoption and how to address them, Mental health issues birth parents may face during adoption and how to address them
1972Kimberly Broses
Kbroses5338@charter.net
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5/20/2022 16:30:39AdopteeAtlantic City, NJNo1
The business and money that affects adoption, The mental health issues caused by adoption, The history of adoption, LGBT+ adoption issues (ex. Trans birth parents, same-sex adoptive parents, etc.)
Mental health issues adoptees may face during adoption and how to address them, LGBT+ adoption issues (ex. trans birth, second-parent adoption, etc.)
1994Lauren BermanButterflyswim8@aol.com
When checking “LGBT adoption”, it needs to be stated that I don’t believe that adoption is a family building tool. most (including Heteronormative parents ) believe adoption the only way for it to be a way to have a child.and that needs to be addressed.i find Those spaces are often very aggressive to adoptees who say adoption isn’t the best solution for the wellbeing of the child because adoption is the one of the only ways they are able to be parents
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5/20/2022 16:33:27AdopteeCedar Rapids No1
The mental health issues caused by adoption, Family preservation, Education for adoptive parents
Education for adoptive parents on parenting adopted children, Education on navigating an open adoption, Mental health issues adoptees may face during adoption and how to address them
2006(3years old)ZoeZogazda03@gmail.com
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5/20/2022 16:38:52AdopteeRoyal Oak, MINo1
The mental health issues caused by adoption, Coercion tactics in adoption, Education for adoptive parents
Education for adoptive parents on parenting adopted children, Mental health issues adoptees may face during adoption and how to address them, Mental health issues birth parents may face during adoption and how to address them
1984Jessy Trudell
Sparkbeautydesign@gmail.com
I have a flexible schedule.
I want to use a bunch of inappropriate language towards the notion that there is a solution to abortion and that adoption might be one of them.
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5/20/2022 16:41:15AdopteeCheyenne, WY No1
The business and money that affects adoption, The mental health issues caused by adoption, Solutions-oriented pieces (ex. What would adoption look like if it were free?)
Education for adoptive parents on parenting adopted children, Mental health issues adoptees may face during adoption and how to address them, Mental health issues birth parents may face during adoption and how to address them
1987Michelle Crenshaw
The amount of mental and physical abuse that adopted children are subjected to is something that no one likes to talk about. The woman who adopted me at 3 yrs old spent the next 16 years telling me and showing me how much no one wanted me around or even alive. I still struggle with the PTSD at 38 yrs old.
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5/20/2022 16:51:39AdopteeColumbus, ohioNo1
The business and money that affects adoption, The mental health issues caused by adoption, How adopted kids are more likely to suffer abuse at the hands of their adopted parents and All of the gas lighting and everything that goes on with the white saviorism and the Christian saviorism and how you're basically forced to be one way or else they return you
How to obtain original birth certificates and other identifying information, Family preservation options, LGBT+ adoption issues (ex. trans birth, second-parent adoption, etc.)
My adoption took place in 1998
Caroline Reetz Kloster 614-935-6041Afternoons work good
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5/20/2022 16:54:34Adoptive ParentYellow Springs Ohio No1
The mental health issues caused by adoption, The history of adoption, Coercion tactics in adoption, The request for apologies from adoption organizations and/or state legislatures, Education for adoptive parents, LGBT+ adoption issues (ex. Trans birth parents, same-sex adoptive parents, etc.)
Education for adoptive parents on parenting adopted children, Education on navigating an open adoption, Mental health issues adoptees may face during adoption and how to address them, Mental health issues birth parents may face during adoption and how to address them, Infertility and adoption, Family preservation options, LGBT+ adoption issues (ex. trans birth, second-parent adoption, etc.)
2009 and 2010Cyndi Vincent Cyndi_dv@yahoo.comYes
I'm so grateful you are doing this.
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5/20/2022 16:57:06AdopteeNew Albany, Indiana No2
The mental health issues caused by adoption, Coercion tactics in adoption, Education for adoptive parents, LGBT+ adoption issues (ex. Trans birth parents, same-sex adoptive parents, etc.)
Mental health issues adoptees may face during adoption and how to address them, Mental health issues birth parents may face during adoption and how to address them, LGBT+ adoption issues (ex. trans birth, second-parent adoption, etc.)
2007Micah Yankey
micahcyankey@gmail.com; 812 844 5224
I think it’s important to highlight that it can be traumatic for both the birth parents and the child when they have to give the child up for adoption.
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5/20/2022 17:26:41AdopteeSuperior, MTNo1
The mental health issues caused by adoption, Education for adoptive parents, Documented adoption done through organizations vs. cultured where next of kin adopt
How to obtain original birth certificates and other identifying information, Education for adoptive parents on parenting adopted children, Education on navigating an open adoption
1985Ayme Krogstad
ayme.krogstad@gmail.com
Mondays any time between 9am and 5pm MST
I was adopted before birth through Catholic Social Services and it was open, though I learned later when I met my birth mother as an adult that she was forced by her family to place me for adoption. She wanted to keep me, but was coerced into adoption out of the families shame. Everyone talks about adoption as though it’s this amazing thing but no one bothers to understand what it’s like for the adoptee. I would say I have one of the less traumatic adoption stories as my adoption was celebrated and I was raised in a loving home. However, my adoptive mother has her own mental health issues that have never been addressed and, in addition to the trauma of being forcefully taken from my mother against her will, I also endured years of emotional abuse and chaos in my home growing up. I’m a therapist now myself and have been in therapy for the last decade working through my own trauma. I am grateful for my life but also have to live with the fact that I will never feel truly whole. I have many adopted friends and they feel the same. Adoption is not the amazing thing people think it is as it leaves the adoptee with an emptiness that can never be resolved, ever. Adoption should be a worst case scenario option only used in cases where it is impossible/not safe to keep a child with their mother or next of kin. It IS NOT an alternative to abortion and it enrages me how many people through it around so casually.
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5/20/2022 19:27:28AdopteeSyracuse, NYNo1
The business and money that affects adoption, The mental health issues caused by adoption, LGBT+ adoption issues (ex. Trans birth parents, same-sex adoptive parents, etc.)
1980Tammy
Taurusgemini7@icloud.com
Wednesday or Thursday evenings, all day Saturday
Adoption is not a solution to abortion
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