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2 | Unspoken Stories podcast from March of Dimes | Podcast dedicated to opening up conversations about pregnancy loss, hosted by actress and advocate Tatyana Ali https://unspokenstories.org/podcasts/ | ||||||||||||||||||||||||
3 | Sisters in Loss: Miscarriage, Pregnancy Loss, & Infertility Stories | Spotlights black women have experienced pregnancy loss. Black women experience miscarriage and stillbirth two times more than white women according to the National Institutes of Health. | ||||||||||||||||||||||||
4 | CBC's Out in the Open podcast episode "The invisibility of late term pregnancy loss" | A personal essay from Siri Agrell, on the unique pain of losing a fetus after five months, and the misconceptions around late term pregnancy loss https://www.cbc.ca/radio/outintheopen/pregnancy-loss-1.3856844/the-invisibility-of-late-term-pregnancy-loss-1.3857745 | ||||||||||||||||||||||||
5 | Krystal, Samantha | Stillbirth Matters from the Star Legacy Foundation | Podcast of interviews with leading experts in stillbirth research/prevention and perinatal loss bereavement | |||||||||||||||||||||||
6 | Krystal | Terrible, Thanks For Asking <— this! | ||||||||||||||||||||||||
7 | Jenni L-O’L | The silence around early pregnancy and waiting to tell anyone until you can be more sure that ‘it will stick’ has always bugged me. So when I found out I was having a miscarriage I did the exact opposite of be quiet - I shared what had happened with friends and family on Facebook. And strangely enough, it helped. It was like their kind words of support and knowledge of what happened helped us carry the burden for a while. | I did the same when I miscarried. I even shared about it in my annual Christmas letter, becaus I wanted to break the stigma. Most people never commented, some people emotionally reached out, and others were relieved to know so they could send love and support. Overall, I found my miscarraige to be an empowering experience because I was able to hold my head up despite the sadness. | I had a miscarriage 8 days ago at 11 weeks gestational age. I'm still in the grief of it but I can feel myself returning to the world. it's a hard thing to let go of all our hopes for our tiny babies when they've stopped growing inside us. it's been so helpful for me to have friends who have shared about their own experiences in the past. I'm grateful for the knowledge I have that miscarriage is common and, at this early stage, even healthy. I'm grateful to my body for doing all it could to support my pregnancy, even after the tiny baby stopped growing. I'm grateful to my body for releasing the pregnancy so efficiently and gracefully after we found out. I'm grateful we had told everyone about the pregnancy so that we were able to celebrate it while we could, and also so that now our community knows what we're going through. I shared my experience on Instagram, and it has been so helpful to come back to that post and reread the kind words people have left. thanks for helping to end the silence around this common experience! | Ironic to see this all today. I’ve just miscarried today, my first time being pregnant at 38. Ironic because I considered posting this on Facebook but allowed myself to talk myself out of it. Still so raw but all of these links and podcasts are exactly what I need in this moment. -Alison | I had a missed miscarriage at 12 weeks with my first pregnancy. These comments reflect my experience as well--I unthinkingly followed the advice to not tell anyone (even family) about my pregnancy until I was sure things were "ok." Then when they weren't...I had to have super painful conversations with close family and friends to explain why I wasn't ok. I realized that this is terrible advice (at least for me). With my second pregnancy, which resulted in a healthy birth that I am so grateful for, I told close family and friends who could share in my joy, and be there for me if things went wrong again. Also, I've made a point to mention my miscarriage to my extended friend circle so that they can know they are not alone if they have a similar experience. I had a friend who was open with me, and it was a huge relief to know I could talk to her after I went through the same thing. Sending lots of love to everyone out there who is going through (or has gone through) this pain. - Anna | I have very openly posted about my stillbirth and subsequent ectopic pregnancy on facebook- and everytime I've shared something that wasn't the usual pregnancy announcments and happy first day of school photos women have come out of the woodwork to privately message me whispering.. me too. me too. - Grace | |||||||||||||||||||
8 | Elizabeth | Life after miscarriage podcast | Features interviews with women who have experienced miscarriages. It may seem like a bad idea to listen to traumatic stories but I have felt less alone listening to them, and many have happy endings as well which gives me hope. | |||||||||||||||||||||||
9 | Emma | Griefcast podcast has some good episodes | It is a general podcast about grief, but the specific episodes that deal with pregnancy loss are: #93. Zoe Clark-Coates from Saying Goodbye Ep. 67 Anna Whitehouse (Mother Pukka) Ep. 19 Lou Conran | |||||||||||||||||||||||
10 | Lani | https://stillstandingmag.com/ http://www.glowinthewoods.com/ Notes From the Everlost by Kate Inglis | 2 websites with writing from those who have lost babies and a beautifully written book by a Mama who lost one of her twins shortly after birth. | came here to share these three as well. i couldn't picture myself in real life therapy or talking at the support group at the hospital but i read and wrote at Glow in the Woods. also the forum was great when i was trying to conceive and pregnant. | Love Notes from the Everlost- Grace | |||||||||||||||||||||
11 | Stacy | InfertileAF podcast | The host, Ali Prato, went through a string of miscarriages before finding success through IVF. She interviews a different person on each episode to talk about their fertility journeys. A lot of different stories and outcomes — some make you feel hopeful, but all make you feel a little less alone. | |||||||||||||||||||||||
12 | Rebekah | The podcast, "Terrible, Thanks for asking." | https://www.ttfa.org/ | |||||||||||||||||||||||
13 | Amy | The Shortest Day | Episode of the Longest Shortest Time about giving birth to a stillborn son. It's brutal but affirming. | |||||||||||||||||||||||
14 | Typhaine | The Disappearance (This American Life) : http://www.thisamericanlife.org/radio-archives/episode/193/stories-of-loss?act=1#play The Long Shadow (Strangers) : http://www.kcrw.com/news-culture/shows/strangers/the-long-shadow Unconditional (Strangers) : http://www.kcrw.com/news-culture/shows/strangers/unconditional Picturing Her (The Longest Shortest Time) : http://longestshortesttime.com/2014/07/23/podcast-35-picturing-her/ | A few podcast episodes i found myself going back to as in the months following my son's death at 4 weeks | |||||||||||||||||||||||
15 | Typhaine | An Exact Replica of a Figment of My Imagination: A Memoir, by Elizabeth McCracken Ghostbelly, by Elizabeth Heineman The year of Magical Thinking, by Joan Didion | Some books exploring the complex aspects of grief. The first and second are about neonatal losses. | I loved the Elizabeth McCracken book too -Emily | I also loved the Elizabeth McCracken book and gave it to lots of friends to read to help them understand what I was going through. -Tiffany | |||||||||||||||||||||
16 | Robin | A heartbreaking choice discussion forum; donating his remains to a Duke research study about neural tube defects | I ended my pregnancy due to severe complications. These resources saved me | |||||||||||||||||||||||
17 | Emily | Glow In The Woods website: www.glowinthewoods.com | This community of writers and babyloss parents was so important to me after my son's sillbirth | |||||||||||||||||||||||
18 | Emily | Anything by writer Kate Inglis especialy her book Notes For The Everlost | Kate is a beautiful writer and founder of Glow in The Woods. She lost one of her 2 twin boys 6 weeks after they were born. Reading her work may be especialy helpful for those of us parenting living and deceased children. | |||||||||||||||||||||||
19 | Emily | www.refugeingrief.com | not babyloss specific but Megine Devine, her book and especially her writing workshops were a lifesaver for me | |||||||||||||||||||||||
20 | Emily | http://crazyhorse.cofc.edu/featured/lebenslauf/ | This beautiful essay is a true memoir from my friend Molly Bashaw who experienced a stillbirth in Aug, 2016 | |||||||||||||||||||||||
21 | Fleabag Season 2 Ep 1 | like the rest of the series, this is quite brash, but covers a woman choosing to hide the fact she is having a miscarriage and her sister's attempt to reach her in her denial. not for early in the grieving process but was extremely cathartic for me as the loved one of someone who had recently lost a baby | ||||||||||||||||||||||||
22 | Patient Stories podcast episode, Trisomies, Pregnancy Loss—and Options Counseling! | Patient Stories is about patients' stories related to genetics. This is the only Patient Stories episode to date that focuses specifically on miscarriage - but there are other episodes related to mothers who gave birth and later had their babies die (of a genetic condition) and mothers with children with developmental delays/genetic diagnoses - https://www.greygenetics.com/podcast/ | ||||||||||||||||||||||||
23 | Sheridan | This modern Jewish resource with translations and Hebrew which is meant to go alongside a traditional ritual | Pages 3 onward are poetry and wisdom from the Jewish tradition. This guide was created to go along with Jewish ritual immersion, and if you want to emulate that aspect, you can do it in a bath, lake, or pool. | |||||||||||||||||||||||
24 | Alex | Tori Amos' album 'from the choirgirl hotel' | Tori's not for everyone, but after I had a miscarriage this summer, listening to this album - much of it inspired by her own miscarriage - has helped me out, particularly the songs "Spark" and the devastating and beautiful "Playboy Mommy". | |||||||||||||||||||||||
25 | Terrible, Thanks For Asking <— I second Nora's book and podcast are both amazing | |||||||||||||||||||||||||
26 | Eva | Glow In The Woods website: www.glowinthewoods.com | website that has public forums available to post your story in, to give love, encouragement and empathy to all who have had this type of loss in their lives | |||||||||||||||||||||||
27 | Eva | Two support groups I joined: HAND-Healing After Neonatal Death The Compassionate Friends- for parents whose children have died | http://handonline.org/ | https://www.compassionatefriends.org/ | ||||||||||||||||||||||
28 | Georgie | Cheryl Johnson has a heartbreaking day job. She photographs babies who are stillborn or die shortly after birth. For bereaved parents, her photographs are more than precious. They are often the only memories they will have of a much loved child. In this podcast interview, we discuss the families she'll never forget, how to support our friends at this time and what this work has taught her about love. | https://www.deadhonest.com/dead-honest-podcasts/gone-too-soon | |||||||||||||||||||||||
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