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Original The Duchy copy here.
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You can fill this out as a top, bottom, or vers -- use the comments to indicate whether you like these activities in one or both roles.
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Partner 1Partner 2
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Bondage and Suspension
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Activity ExperienceLimits/InterestWhere I Like ItComments ExperienceLimits/InterestWhere I Like ItComments
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Blindfolds4 - Some Experience5 - Love It4 - Some Experience5 - Love It
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Bondage (heavy)1- No Experience/No Interest2 - May try for partner1- No Experience/No Interest2 - May try for partner
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Bondage (light)3 - A Little Experience4 - Like It3 - A Little Experience4 - Like It
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Immobilisation 2 - No Experience/Interested3 - Willing to Try2 - No Experience/Interested3 - Willing to Try
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Bondage (multi-day) 1- No Experience/No Interest1 - Neutral/Uninterested1- No Experience/No Interest1 - Neutral/Uninterested
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Bondage (public, under clothing)1- No Experience/No Interest0 - Hard Limit (Not willing at all)1- No Experience/No Interest0 - Hard Limit (Not willing at all)
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Leather restraints 1- No Experience/No Interest2 - May try for partner1- No Experience/No Interest2 - May try for partner
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Chains1- No Experience/No Interest2 - May try for partner1- No Experience/No Interest2 - May try for partner
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Ropes2 - No Experience/Interested2 - May try for partner2 - No Experience/Interested2 - May try for partner
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Intricate (Japanese) rope bondage 2 - No Experience/Interested2 - May try for partner2 - No Experience/Interested2 - May try for partner
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Rope body harness 1- No Experience/No Interest1 - Neutral/Uninterested1- No Experience/No Interest1 - Neutral/Uninterested
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Arm & leg sleeves (armbinders) 1- No Experience/No Interest1 - Neutral/Uninterested1- No Experience/No Interest1 - Neutral/Uninterested
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Harnesses (leather) 1- No Experience/No Interest1 - Neutral/Uninterested1- No Experience/No Interest1 - Neutral/Uninterested
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Harnesses (rope)2 - No Experience/Interested2 - May try for partner2 - No Experience/Interested2 - May try for partner
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Cuffs (leather)2 - No Experience/Interested2 - May try for partner2 - No Experience/Interested2 - May try for partner
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Cuffs (metal)1- No Experience/No Interest1 - Neutral/Uninterested1- No Experience/No Interest1 - Neutral/Uninterested
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Manacles & Irons1- No Experience/No Interest0 - Hard Limit (Not willing at all)1- No Experience/No Interest0 - Hard Limit (Not willing at all)
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Gags (cloth) 1- No Experience/No Interest1 - Neutral/Uninterested1- No Experience/No Interest1 - Neutral/Uninterested
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Gags (rubber)1- No Experience/No Interest1 - Neutral/Uninterested1- No Experience/No Interest1 - Neutral/Uninterested
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Gags (tape)1- No Experience/No Interest1 - Neutral/Uninterested1- No Experience/No Interest1 - Neutral/Uninterested
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Gags (phallic)1- No Experience/No Interest1 - Neutral/Uninterested1- No Experience/No Interest1 - Neutral/Uninterested
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Gags (ring)1- No Experience/No Interest1 - Neutral/Uninterested1- No Experience/No Interest1 - Neutral/Uninterested
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Gags (ball)2 - No Experience/Interested1 - Neutral/Uninterested2 - No Experience/Interested1 - Neutral/Uninterested
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Mouth bits1- No Experience/No Interest3 - Willing to Try1- No Experience/No Interest3 - Willing to Try
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Full head hoods 1- No Experience/No Interest0 - Hard Limit (Not willing at all)1- No Experience/No Interest0 - Hard Limit (Not willing at all)
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Mummification/saran wrapping1- No Experience/No Interest0 - Hard Limit (Not willing at all)1- No Experience/No Interest0 - Hard Limit (Not willing at all)
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Straight jackets1- No Experience/No Interest0 - Hard Limit (Not willing at all)1- No Experience/No Interest0 - Hard Limit (Not willing at all)
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Suspension (upright) 3 - A Little Experience3 - Willing to Try3 - A Little Experience3 - Willing to Try
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Suspension (horizontal) 1- No Experience/No Interest1 - Neutral/Uninterested1- No Experience/No Interest1 - Neutral/Uninterested
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Suspension (inverted)1- No Experience/No Interest1 - Neutral/Uninterested1- No Experience/No Interest1 - Neutral/Uninterested
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Impact/Percussion
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Activity ExperienceLimits/InterestWhere I Like ItComments ExperienceLimits/InterestWhere I Like ItComments
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Spanking2 - No Experience/Interested2 - May try for partner2 - No Experience/Interested2 - May try for partner
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Flogging 1- No Experience/No Interest3 - Willing to Try1- No Experience/No Interest3 - Willing to Try
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Single-tail whips 1- No Experience/No Interest0 - Hard Limit (Not willing at all)1- No Experience/No Interest0 - Hard Limit (Not willing at all)
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Canes 1- No Experience/No Interest0 - Hard Limit (Not willing at all)1- No Experience/No Interest0 - Hard Limit (Not willing at all)
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Belts1- No Experience/No Interest0 - Hard Limit (Not willing at all)1- No Experience/No Interest0 - Hard Limit (Not willing at all)
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Leather straps1- No Experience/No Interest1 - Neutral/Uninterested1- No Experience/No Interest1 - Neutral/Uninterested
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Riding crops2 - No Experience/Interested2 - May try for partner2 - No Experience/Interested2 - May try for partner
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Hairbrushes1- No Experience/No Interest2 - May try for partner1- No Experience/No Interest2 - May try for partner
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Wooden paddles1- No Experience/No Interest3 - Willing to Try1- No Experience/No Interest3 - Willing to Try
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Slapping (back, buttocks, breasts, genitals) 2 - No Experience/Interested2 - May try for partner2 - No Experience/Interested2 - May try for partner
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Strapping (full body beating)1- No Experience/No Interest0 - Hard Limit (Not willing at all)1- No Experience/No Interest0 - Hard Limit (Not willing at all)
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Hair pulling2 - No Experience/Interested4 - Like It2 - No Experience/Interested4 - Like It
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Face slapping 1- No Experience/No Interest2 - May try for partner1- No Experience/No Interest2 - May try for partner
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Sexual Activity
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Activity ExperienceLimits/InterestWhere I Like ItComments ExperienceLimits/InterestWhere I Like ItComments
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Fellatio/Cunnilingus5 - A Lot of Experience5 - Love It5 - A Lot of Experience5 - Love It
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Swallowing semen2 - No Experience/Interested2 - May try for partner2 - No Experience/Interested2 - May try for partner
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Cumming on Partner2 - No Experience/Interested2 - May try for partner2 - No Experience/Interested2 - May try for partner
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Hand jobs5 - A Lot of Experience4 - Like It5 - A Lot of Experience4 - Like It
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Anal sex2 - No Experience/Interested3 - Willing to Try2 - No Experience/Interested3 - Willing to Try
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Anal plugs (small)4 - Some Experience5 - Love It4 - Some Experience5 - Love It
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Anal plugs (large)2 - No Experience/Interested4 - Like It2 - No Experience/Interested4 - Like It
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Anal plug (public, under clothes)2 - No Experience/Interested4 - Like It2 - No Experience/Interested4 - Like It
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Anal beads2 - No Experience/Interested3 - Willing to Try2 - No Experience/Interested3 - Willing to Try
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Vibrator on genitals5 - A Lot of Experience5 - Love It5 - A Lot of Experience5 - Love It
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Masturbation5 - A Lot of Experience5 - Love It5 - A Lot of Experience5 - Love It
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Vaginal Fisting4 - Some Experience5 - Love It4 - Some Experience5 - Love It
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Oral/anal play (rimming)1- No Experience/No Interest0 - Hard Limit (Not willing at all)1- No Experience/No Interest0 - Hard Limit (Not willing at all)
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Double penetration (oral and anal)1- No Experience/No Interest0 - Hard Limit (Not willing at all)1- No Experience/No Interest0 - Hard Limit (Not willing at all)
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Double penetration (anal and vaginal)1- No Experience/No Interest2 - May try for partner1- No Experience/No Interest2 - May try for partner
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Triple (oral/anal/vaginal)1- No Experience/No Interest0 - Hard Limit (Not willing at all)1- No Experience/No Interest0 - Hard Limit (Not willing at all)
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Forced masturbation2 - No Experience/Interested3 - Willing to Try2 - No Experience/Interested3 - Willing to Try
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Phone sex (with partner)4 - Some Experience4 - Like It4 - Some Experience4 - Like It
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Phone sex (with others)1- No Experience/No Interest2 - May try for partner1- No Experience/No Interest2 - May try for partner
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Group Sex2 - No Experience/Interested3 - Willing to Try2 - No Experience/Interested3 - Willing to Try
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Outdoor sex2 - No Experience/Interested3 - Willing to Try2 - No Experience/Interested3 - Willing to Try
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Orgasm control2 - No Experience/Interested3 - Willing to Try2 - No Experience/Interested3 - Willing to Try
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Sensation Play
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Activity ExperienceLimits/InterestWhere I Like ItComments ExperienceLimits/InterestWhere I Like ItComments
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Abrasion1- No Experience/No Interest1 - Neutral/Uninterested1- No Experience/No Interest1 - Neutral/Uninterested
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Scratching4 - Some Experience4 - Like It4 - Some Experience4 - Like It
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Biting4 - Some Experience5 - Love It4 - Some Experience5 - Love It
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Tickling4 - Some Experience5 - Love It4 - Some Experience5 - Love It
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Kissing5 - A Lot of Experience5 - Love It5 - A Lot of Experience5 - Love It
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Zapping (e.g. elecric fly swatter)2 - No Experience/Interested3 - Willing to Try2 - No Experience/Interested3 - Willing to Try
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Ice cubes3 - A Little Experience1 - Neutral/Uninterested3 - A Little Experience1 - Neutral/Uninterested
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Wax Play2 - No Experience/Interested3 - Willing to Try2 - No Experience/Interested3 - Willing to Try
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Clothespins1- No Experience/No Interest1 - Neutral/Uninterested1- No Experience/No Interest1 - Neutral/Uninterested
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Breath Play
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Activity ExperienceLimits/InterestWhere I Like ItComments ExperienceLimits/InterestWhere I Like ItComments
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Asphyxiation1- No Experience/No Interest0 - Hard Limit (Not willing at all)1- No Experience/No Interest0 - Hard Limit (Not willing at all)
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Breath control1- No Experience/No Interest1 - Neutral/Uninterested1- No Experience/No Interest1 - Neutral/Uninterested
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Choking2 - No Experience/Interested4 - Like ItBig strong lady with hands on me... OK. :) 2 - No Experience/Interested4 - Like ItBig strong lady with hands on me... OK. :)
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Humiliation
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Activity ExperienceLimits/InterestWhere I Like ItComments ExperienceLimits/InterestWhere I Like ItComments
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Teasing3 - A Little Experience3 - Willing to Try3 - A Little Experience3 - Willing to Try
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Humiliation (private)2 - No Experience/Interested3 - Willing to Try2 - No Experience/Interested3 - Willing to Try