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Form 4334Debts and Returns in Long Term Relationships
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Filing Status:Single, filing jointlyCouple, filing jointlySeparated, filing jointlyFamily, filing jointlyQualifying bereaved, filing jointly
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(check one box)
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First name, middle initial:Last name:ID number:
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If filing jointly,
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Co-filer's first name and middle initial:Co-filer's last name:Co-filer's ID number:
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Home or usual meeting place address:Other meeting places:Check if you or your co-filer would like to increase the stock of happiness in the world.You
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Co-filer
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Your choice will not affect your relationship status.
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City, town or post office:State, country or province:
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At any time during the last year, were you and your co-filer intimate?YesNo
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Would you have liked to be more or less intimate in this time period?MoreLess
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Standard complications:Someone can claim:You as a dependentYour co-filer as a dependentYou aren't realYour co-filer isn't real
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Co-filer itemizes on a separate returnRomantic or hateful attachmentGenerational gap
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Dependents:First nameLast nameID numberRelationship to youRelationship to co-filerCheck if qualifies for:
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Material dependencyEmotional dependency
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If more than four, check below:
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then fill out Schedule 1
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(estimate in words or, if possible, precise units)
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1aTime span of history together1a1bTime span of history in current relationship configuration:1b
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2First armed conflict that both of you can remember2
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3Lean times3aLean times spent together3a
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3bLean times spent separately3b
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3cHow much can you rely on each other in lean times?3
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4aMistakes made together4a4bMistakes made together (more honestly)4b
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5aOne word summary of your youth5a5bOne word summary of co-filer's youth5b
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6aOne word summary of your future6a6bOne word summary of co-filer's future6b
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7Plans and promises idly made that you have not seriously thought about delivering on (attach Schedule 2 if necessary)7
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8Things that remind you of one another8
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9Average length of time you don't see each other for9
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10Your expectations10aInitial expectations10a
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10bUnfulfilled expectations10b
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10cAdjusted expectations10c
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11aMost common excuse for yourself11a11bMost common excuse for co-filer11b
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12aThat thing the co-filer does (derogatory)12a12bThat thing the co-filer does (complimentary)12b
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13aThat thing you do (adorable)13a13bThat thing you do (self-effacing)13b
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14Circumstances that have kept you together so far14
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15One thing the two of you will never agree on15
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16Images of you and co-filer16aIn spring16a
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16bIn summer16b
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16cIn autumn16c
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16dIn winter16d
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17aTransgressions you've forgiven17a17bTransgressions you've forgotten (until now)17b
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18Provable instances of feelings shown to co-filer and reciprocated18
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19Unreciprocated feelings demonstrated and rejected, betrayed or ignored19
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20Summary of overall zeitgeist during your relationship20
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21Estimated quantity of years still left in this relationship21
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22Space afforded22aSpace given to you22a
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22bSpace given to co-filer22b
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22cSpace given by you and co-filer to others22c
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22dSpace needed but never given22d
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23Things your co-filer needs from you23aRarely23a
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23bRegularly23b
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23cRight now23c
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24Things you need from your co-filer24aToo often24a
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24bSporadically24b
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24cNever24c
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25aMonetary costs incurred by you due to co-filer25a25bMonetary costs incurred by co-filer due to you25b
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26Difference in social status between you and co-filer26
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27The perfect life for both of you27
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28The difference between your co-filer's answer to the preceding question and yours28
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29aYour shared responsibilities29a29bYour unshared responsibilities29b
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30The secrets you've kept from each other (attach Schedule 3 if necessary)30
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31Your co-filer's total contribution to your personal development31
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32Miscellaneous regrets not covered by the previous categories32
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33Summary of relationship33
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What you are owed34Total of things you are entitled to34
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35How do you intend to collect?35
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What you owe36Total of things the co-filer is entitled to36
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37How much do you intend to give?37
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38Intentions for the next year38
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Third Party DesignationI would like a third party to intervene in this relationship:YesNo
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If yes, note down their necessary qualities:
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Your signatureUnder penalty of desolation, I confirm that the above information is accurate:(signature)
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Relationship preparer use onlyI think these two might make it:YesNoPrefer not to say
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Preparer's first name, last name, ID number(signature)
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