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1 | Love Map - from the "Love Nudge" app by Gary Chapman. Note - This doesn't work well on a phone. Please use your laptop or desktop. Instructions: 1) Sign in to your google account, then "make a copy" of this for your own use (click on "File") 2) Check your top 10 to 20 actions (including what you write in). These are the clearest paths to your heart. 3) Pick 1 to 3 items from your top picks as suggestions for your spouse's Habit Tracker 4) You and your spouse can also each print eachother's love map as (this entire doc) for a regular, overarching review. | |||||||||
2 | Acts of Service | Quality Time | Gifts | Physical Touch | Words of Affirmation | |||||
3 | Make the bed | Road trip | Homemade gift | Hold hands | Compliment outfit | |||||
4 | Help with errands | Go to bed at the same time | Surprise gift | Sit close | Encouraging text | |||||
5 | Walk the dog | Volunteer for something together | Create coupon book | Look into each other's eyes | Secret love not | |||||
6 | Watch the kids | Watch the game together | Gift card | Hold face in hands | Say "I Love You" | |||||
7 | Take out trash | Read a book together | "Chore Free Day" card | Hand on knee while driving | Thank you for working hard | |||||
8 | Make dinner | Movie night | Surprise with lunch | Touch arm | Compliment cooking | |||||
9 | Fold and put away laundry | Time without phones | "Kids Free Day" card | Touch shoulder | Celebrate effort, not just results | |||||
10 | Clean out car | Distraction free listening | Surprise love note | Stoke or brush hair | Call to say goodnight | |||||
11 | Get groceries | Go see a play | Surprise gift or card under pillow | Put your arm(s) around | Send flowers with a note | |||||
12 | Get groceries together | Coordinate lunch breaks | Surprise flowers | Initiate sex | Stay in touch while traveling | |||||
13 | Clean bathroom | Take a class together | Surprise event tickets | Rest head on shoulder | Verbalize things you appreciate | |||||
14 | Empty dishwasher | Run errands together | Gift at work | Surprise hug | Compliment on social media | |||||
15 | Vacuum | Go to a sporting event | Surpise with favorite treat. | Long hug | Give card for no reason | |||||
16 | Pack partner's lunch | Get lunch together | Play footsie | Say "I'm proud of you for __" | ||||||
17 | Mow lawn | Board game, cards, video game etc. | Cuddle on couch | Encourage to try again | ||||||
18 | Fill car up with gas | Bike Ride | Rest hand on back | Compliment in group setting | ||||||
19 | Breakfast in bed | Try a new restaurant | Massage | Thank for everyday things | ||||||
20 | Pick up Dry Cleaning | Picnic | Not being too busy for a hug | Listening vs. fixing | ||||||
21 | Do the worst chore | Not being late | Not interupting me | |||||||
22 | Not leaving socks on ground | Not giving unenrolled feedback | ||||||||
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28 | Based on the above, top 1 to 3 love languages for spouse's habit tracker and/or as prime reiteration possibilities for "Your Wish is My Command" | |||||||||
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