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New (2024/OCT):

šŸ”„ MYMEETINGS.rd.rocks ā† Get your local In-Person Meetings List (as a glorious trifold for newcomers).

Brand New Trifolds (2024/OCT):
ā– Starting a Meeting:
STARTINGAMEETING.rd.rocks
ā– Starting an Intersangha:
INTERSANGHA.rd.rocks
ā– Mentorship Guidelines:
MENTORSHIP.rd.rocks
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12-steppers: "undecided on a higher power? We'll give you 3 tangible HP's right off the bat! The wakening (buddha), The Way (dharma), The We (sangha). Recovery Dharma** works in harmony with any program!
(**no higher power required.)
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"Trauma-Informed meditation meetings, for all addictions."
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šŸ™Œ so, you're a NEWCOMER to Recovery Dharma? (welcome, welcome!)šŸ§‘ā€šŸ’» so, you're a FACILITATOR? (these help me with facilitating)
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šŸ“„[Tri-fold] "What is RD?" (PRINT these excellent 1-Page Intro to RD) recoverydharma.org/WHATISITšŸ„³SLIDES.rd.rocks ā‡Ŗ [ScreenShare] The Practice ā– 4 Noble Truths ā– 8-Fold Path (etc)
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šŸŖ‘[Meetings] Complete meetings list: recoverydharma.org/meetingsšŸ“•BOOK.rd.rocks ā‡Ŗ [Scrolling Still?] This Table of Contents is *clickable*šŸ™€
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šŸŖ‘[Meetings] See just the Topic+Identity meetings: AFFINITY.rd.rocks
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šŸ§˜ā€ā™€ļø GUIDED RD MEDITATIONS (for sound/screensharing:)
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NEED THE BOOK?
šŸ“–MEDITATIONSCRIPTS.rd.rocks 13 RD Meditation Scripts in 1 PDF!
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šŸ“•[2.0] Clickable Edition (PDF) Perfect for Facilitating: šŸ‘‰BOOK.rd.rocksšŸ“ŗMEDITATIONS.rd.rocks Youtube meditations by various narrators
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šŸ“•[2.0] Dyslexia Edition (PDF) Super easy on the eyes: šŸ‘“ DYSLEXIA.rd.rocksšŸ””insighttimer.com/ang Insight Timer meditations I've recorded
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šŸ“•[2.0] Treesaver 18-Page Edition (PDF) Save paper: šŸŒ² TREESAVER.rd.org
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šŸ—„ļø ALL THE BEST RD FILES I'VE COLLECTED/CREATED THRU THE YEARS
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OR PREFER LISTENING TO THE AUDIOBOOK?
šŸŽfiles.rd.rocks
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šŸ—£ļø[2.0] Stream the audiobook on YOUTUBE šŸ—£ļøAUDIOBOOK.rd.rocks
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šŸ—£ļø[2.0] Save the audiobook as MP3's (!) šŸ—£ļøMP3.rd.rocks
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the practice. ā‘¤ inquiry & investigation ā€¢ We inquire & heal by "writing and sharing in-depth, detailed inquiries."
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inquiryfaq.rd.rocks
āœļø[Inquiry FAQ Tri-fold] Startup your own Inquiry Circle groups (official RD approved tri-fold )
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ORGANIZE an INQUIRY CIRCLE!
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inquiryFAQ.rd.rocks
[inquiry] Definitive FAQ for Inquiry Circles (inventory workgroups). How to start your own Inquiry Circle. (Based on the meticulous work of 20+ inquiry groups.)
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inquirysheet.rd.rocks
[inquiry] 6-Month Schedule. Tested, well-paced, less burnout. BONUS: 20 Weeks of super important Trauma-Informed Grounding Tips (as brief exercises)
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inquiryscript.rd.rocks
[inquiry] Meeting Script for Inquiry Circles (example)
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guidelines.rd.rocks
[inquiry] Core Guidelines for Inquiry Circles (example)
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whyinquire.rd.rocks[inquiry] 6 science-backed reasons to work in Inquiry Circle groups (a 15 minute youtube.)
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ALTERNATE SETS OF INQUIRY QUESTIONS. (You got choices!)
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reordered.rd.rocks
āœļø[set of inquiry questions] (2023) Skillfully reordered for trauma-safety & has essential grounding exercises. HIGHLY RECOMMENDED.
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innerchild.rd.rocks
āœļø[set of inquiry questions] Trauma-informed, explores childhood, also with grounding exercises for each week.
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awesome.rd.rocks
āœļø[set of inquiry questions] Take caution with this blossom of the awesome inquiries. (An evolution of the "reordered" inquiries above.)
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inquirysheet.rd.rocks
āœļø[set of inquiry questions] Compare all question sets (side-by-side). Best part? Weekly Grounding Tips to sooth Trauma-Activation
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3realms.rd.rocksšŸŖ“ How do we "identify and commit to wise boundaries around our harmful behaviors?" Does recovery from your Process Addiction feel like a moving target?

In Process Addictions, lapses are common ā€” unlike in Substance Addictions where the focus is continuous cleantime. The clash of these worlds impacted my recovery. Daycounting, often expected in other programs, made me feel like a failure after each lapse, despite legitimate progress. I needed a perspective that celebrated my growth rather than resetting to day zero. When asked, ā€œHow many days do you have?ā€ I now respond, ā€œHow do you renounce technology, people, food, love?ā€ For process addictions, itā€™s about reducing harmful behavior, not daycounts.

Here's a thought: Iā€™ve gone from 365 lapses/year down to 12 lapses/year. Despite Mara's harsh story keeping me in a monthly shame-loop about my 12 yearly failures, my Buddha Nature perceives the exact same events as 353 yearly successes. (!) The cup isn't just half-full ā€” with right mindfulness my cup in life is overflowing, with undeniable & authentic progress.

In Buddhist Recovery we acknowledge holistic healing, and we understanding that past traditions of the focus daycounting doesnā€™t tell the full story (especially for the fuzziness of Process Addictions). We need a new approach that incorporates healthier, enjoyable replacement behaviors with "I have a list of things I love to do that are healthy." And not just saying to myself, "Gotta stop [using porn], Gotta stop using porn. Gotta stop using porn." When i would much rather say to myself, "I want True Intimacy. I'm deserving of True Intimacy. I can attain True intimacy, and I have an awesome list of ways to make progress towards true intimacy." Thatā€™s why I developed the Three Realms ā€” a simple, effective approach with a powerful framework that incorporates motivational interviewing, harm reduction model, etc.

Finally, the Three Realms provides direct instructions on how to "Set wise boundaries around our [process addictions]."

If youā€™re ready to explore new boundaries in your recovery, give it a try. Your recovery is worth it.

šŸŖ“ garden.rd.rocks | šŸ“ŗ presented with BRN: https://youtube.com/watch?v=bOABFDnmeHI
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the practice ā€¢ ā‘¢ meetings & service: "[We offer] our own experiences and service wherever possible."
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ORGANIZE your SANGHA!
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flyer.rd.rocks/
Customize your own RD Flyer (easy template .JPEG .PNG)
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logo.rd.rocks/
Customize your own RD Logo (easy template .JPEG .PNG)
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ORGANIZE your MEETING! (Just submit your new meeting to: http://add.rd.rocks)
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slides.rd.rocks
From anywhere instantly access Meeting Readings-in-1-Slide (Practice, 4Truths, 8Path, Merit) Edit it @ editslides.rd.rocks
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zoom.script.rd.rocks2022 RD Zoom Meeting Script
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meditations.rd.rocks
RD Meditation Recordings. (28 in 1 Youtube Playlist)
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bitly.com/meditations-pdf
All 13 RD Meditation Scripts-1-PDF (Save time, space, headache ā€” with just 1 file, instead of 13.)
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šŸ‘‹(ABOUT āŸ¢ Contact rd.rocks)
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šŸ“§EMAIL:šŸ‘‹ABOUT rd.rocks:
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recoverydharmarocks@gmail.comrd.rocks started as my personal spreadsheetā€”I needed to organize everything I learned about Recovery Dharma & Buddhism. I wanted to keep track of Buddhist lists, favorite meetings, links to meditation scripts, etc. Then I showed admirable friends, who basically said, "dude, this rocks. can I reshare it?" So I made it public.

rd.rocks is a trip. it's simply made of a bunch of bookmarks. this page itself (even though it says RD.rocks at the top) is just a bookmark of a Google Sheet. It works by simply typing in whatever you want, like "book" followed by ".rd.rocks" and it takes you to a corresponding bookmark.

ā€¢ if I needed meeting slides? slides.rd.rocks āŽ (I type it, hit enter, and *SHAZAM* I got slides!)
ā€¢ if I needed the RD book? book.rd.rocks āŽ
ā€¢ if I need the facebook group? facebook.rd.rocks āŽ
ā€¢ if I wanted the audiobook? audiobook.rd.rocks āŽ
ā€¢ if I wanted the meetings list? meetings.rd.rocks | affinity.rd.rocks
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Yeehaw is right. For anything I constantly access, I just type it and add .rd.rocks. It takes me straight there, from any tablet/laptop/phone, I don't gotta rummage through old emails/DMs, looking for "that one link they sent me..." Peep the complete list of bookmarks on the next tab, SITEMAP.rd.rocks
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šŸ‘• Dear friends! You asked for it. RD swag is on sale (at-cost/no-profit prices): tinyurl.com/rdswag
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The latest trifold. A lot of work went into these. Get it for your local area, print them, share them with newcomers. MYMEETINGS.rd.rocks
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