Enneagram Chart

	A	B	C	D	E	F	G	H	I	J
1		One	Two	Three	Four	Five	Six	Seven	Eight	Nine

2	General
3	Basic Fear	Of being corrupt	Of being unworthy of love	Of being worthless	Of being without identity	Of being incapable	Of lacking support	Of being deprived	Of being controlled by others	Of loss and separation
4	Basic Desire	To have integrity	To feel loved	To be valued	To be themselves	To be competent	To be secure	To be happy	To be independent	To have peace of mind
5	Lost Childhood Message	You are good	You are wanted	You are loved for who you are	You are seen for who you are	Your needs are not a problem	You are safe	You will be taken care of	You will not be betrayed	Your presence matters
6	Manipulates by	Correcting others	Creating dependencies	Charming others	Being temperamental	Staying preoccupied	Testing others	Distracting others	Dominating others	Checking out
7	Attention	Correctness	Love	Performance	Meaning	Observation	Doubts	Possibilities	Power dynamics	Well-being
8	Avoids	Impropriety	Feeling useless	Failure	Feeling disconnected	Attachments	Threats	Emotional pain	Weakness	Conflict
9	Vice	Resentment	Pride	Vanity	Envy	Avarice	Fear	Gluttony	Lust	Inaction
10	Virtue	Integrity	Relationships	Industriousness	Creativity	Objectivity	Support	Vision	Protection	Harmony
11	Personal
12	Obsessed With	Standards	Relationships	Winning	What is missing	Facts	Threats	Possibilities	Action	Nature
13	Overdo	Regiments	Hospitality	Appearances	Art/music	Hobbies	Group affiliations	Fun activity	Fixations	Comforts
14	Energized by	Improvements	Helping People	Aesthetic Details	Aesthetic Details	Minutiae	Crisis	Shortcuts	Crisis	Mindless tasks
15	Guilty Pleasure	Giving feedback	Attention	Alone time	Violating convention	Arguing radical ideas	Giving feedback	Storytelling	Violating convention	Attention
16	Secretly	Adore innocence	Don't always care	Don't always care	Seek similar people	Tuned out	Rebellious	Push people away	Adore innocence	Tuned out
17	Entertainment	Education	Guilty pleasures	Competition	Depth	Exploration	Informational	Distraction	Challenges	Integration
18	Experience "Desired Effect"	Self-improvement	Self-indulgence	Self-improvement	Self-expression	Self-immersion	Self-soothing	Self-indulgence	Self-immersion	Self-soothing
19	Content	Enriching	Others' lives	Starring roles	Creative	Complex	Analytical	Novel	Intense	Grounded
20	Theme "Type of Experience"	Growth	Social	High-Profile	Meaningful	Solo	Planned	Exciting	Self-driven	Self-nurturing
21	Socially	Appropriate	Adept	Adept	Unconventional	Awkward	Appropriate	Engaging	Unconventional	Easygoing
22	Vibe	Thoughtful	Warm	Dynamic	Artistic	Quirky	Prepared	Upbeat	Confident	Relaxed
23	Fashion Style	Modest	Adaptable	Attention-grabbing	Bold	Geeky	Safe	Comfortable	Consistent	Modest
24	Humor	Dry wit	Quips	Jokes	Cleverness	Observational	Jokes	Playfulness	Shocks	Cleverness
25	Catch-phrases	Judge	Encourage	Persuade	Express	Explain	Hedge	Exclaim	Amplify	Facilitate
26	Dinner party	Collaborator	Director	Driver	Connoisseur	Encyclopedia	Guardian	Energizer	Nonconformist	Harmonizer
27	Birthday (their own)	Secretly care	Secretly care	Secretly care	Ambivalent	Ambivalent	Secretly care	Excuse for a party	Ambivalent	Secretly care
28	Romance
29	First Date	Polished	Attentive	Engaging	Intriguing	Guarded	Guarded	Engaging	Raw	Easygoing
30	Woo by	Well-roundedness	Seduction	Charm	Mystery	Competence	Loyalty	Quick Thinking	Confidence	Attentiveness
31	Excited By	Spontaneity	Intimacy	Feeling Seen	Feeling Seen	Feeling Understood	Feeling Supported	Novelty	Feeling Understood	Drive
32	Turnoff	Apathy	Neediness	Mediocrity	Superficiality	Dimwittedness	Indecisiveness	Invasiveness	Weakness	Invasiveness
33	Stay for	Compassion	Openness	Vitality	Strength	Depth	Reliability	Groundedness	Strength	Vitality
34	Can be overly	Formal	Intrusive	Showy	Intrusive	Eccentric	Jealous	Avoidant	Intense	Avoidant
35	Often	Overthink	Sentimentalize	Abstract	Fantasize	Observe	Question	Idealize	Dominate	Idealize
36	Sign of affection	Generosity	Eye contact	Focus	Inquiry	Generosity	Confide	Focus	Focus	Presence
37	Pet peeve	Thoughtlessness	Thoughtlessness	Complacency	Being Trivialized	Petty Drama	Public Criticism	Boringness	Phoniness	Public arguments
38	Competition	Compete	Manipulate	Compete	Ruminate	Withdraw	Interrogate	Show off	Demand	Linger
39	Demeanor	Analytical	Warm	Adaptable	Instinctual	Analytical	Analytical	Enthusiastic	Instinctual	Adaptable
40	Energy	Sweet	Affectionate	Alluring	Sweet	Intense	Affectionate	Flirtatious	Intense	Mirroring
41	Under-express	Affection	Personal Needs	Vulnerability	Affection	Feelings	Uncertainty	Negativity	Vulnerability	Problems
42	Over-express	Rationale	Interest	Achievements	Feelings	Information	Confidence	Positivity	Independence	Agreeableness
43	Commitment	Commit	Commit	Over-commit	Non-committal	Commit	Over-commit	Non-committal	Commit	Non-committal
44	Boundaries	Well-boundaries	Cross boundaries	Well-boundaries	Inconsistent	Strong boundaries	Inconsistent	Cross boundaries	Cross boundaries	Strong boundaries
45	Supporting	Guide	Anticipate needs	Encourage	Guide	Listen	Protect	Encourage	Protect	Listen
46	Conflict Orientation	Avoidant	Avoidant	Embrace	Passive-aggressive	Avoidant	Passive-aggressive	Avoidant	Embrace	Avoidant
47	In Conflict	Uncompromising	Engaged	Demanding	Dramatic	Argumentative	Provoking	Frenetic-	Provoking	Withdrawn
48	Reason for Cheating	Pride	Appreciated	Revenge	Idealization	Feeling understood	Validation	Spur-of-the-moment	Aliveness	Comfort
49	Breaking Up	Composed	Deflect	Waver	Push/pull	Detach	Dwell	Sabotage	Composed	Glacial
50	Work
51	Seek	Correctness	Appreciation	Admiration	Uniqueness	Expertise	Community	Novelty	Independence	Stability
52	Organizationally attuned to	Goals	Relationships	Goals	Agency	Ideas	Ecosystem	Ideas	Agency	Ecosystem
53	Goal	Quality	Reciprocity	Recognition	Identity	Mastey	Predictability	Stimulation	Power	Cohesion
54	Focus on	Standards	People	Action	Truth	Knowledge	Problems	Possibilities	Action	Alignment
55	Psychological Gain	Validation	Closeness	Victory	Self-expression	Clarity	Clarity	Fulfillment	Self-expression	Balance
56	Energized by	Teaching	Connecting	Winning	Creating	Inventing	Solving	Teaching	Overcoming challenges	Routine
57	Dislike	Disorder	Exclusion	Stagnation	Censorship	Imposition	Exclusion	Maintenance	Oversight	False urgency
58	Pet Peeve	Sloppiness	Excessive neediness	Not getting credit	Jargon	Misinformation	Uncertainty	Nitpicking	Micromanagement	Showiness
59	Method	Improve	Help	Strive	Long	Inform	Prepare	Fix	Lead	Accommodate
60	Language	Proper	Tactful	Proper	Oversensitive	Complex	Questioning	Unfiltered	Blunt	Tactful
61	Decision-making	Analyze then decide	Defer	Decisive	Indecisive	Analyze then decide	Gather input	Gather input	Decisive	Delay decision
62	Directness	Instruct	Sugar-coat	Political	Dramatize	Reticent	Manipulates	Evasive	Direct	Indirect
63	Communication Style	Hedge	Meander	Overconfident	Oblique	Esoteric	Over-explain	Over-hype	Over-assert	Understate
64	Authority	Comply	Ingratiate	Ingratiate	Indifferent	Indifferent	Devil's advocate	Equalize	Oppose	Accommodate
65	Rules	Abide	Abide	Bend	Question	Question	Complain	Complain	Disregard	Abide
66	Compliments	Earned	Rapport	Validate	Genuine	Uncomfortable	Reassure	Genuine	Uncomfortable	Genuine
67	Peers	Relate	Relate	Mobilize	Ambivalent	Ambivalent	Disarm	Befriend	Ambivalent	Amicable
68	Managing Down	Clarify	Mentor	Motivate	Inspire	Clarify	Support	Mentor	Empower	Reassure
69	Managing Up	Over-communicate	Follow	Impress	Question	Comply	Accept then resist	Impress	Resist	Accept then divert
70	Disagreement	Competitive	Appeasing	Competitive	Envious	Argumentative	Skeptical	Argumentative	Defiant	Wishful thinking
71	Criticism	Corrective	Soft	Direct	Circuitous	Detailed	Vacillate	Avoidant	Direct	Subtle
72	Can be overly	Detailed	Involved	Salesy	Detailed	Isolated	Analytical	Frenetic	Aggressive	Impressionable
73	Risk	Risk-averse	Risk-averse	Calculated risk-taker	Risk-averse	Calculated risk-taker	Risk-averse	Risk-taker	Risk-taker	Risk-averse
74	Cautiousness	Cautious	Cautious	Cautious	Impulsive	Cautious	Cautious	Impulsive	Impulsive	Cautious
75	Friends & Family
76	Oriented To	Future (idealize)	Present (worry)	Future (success)	Past (ruminate)	Future (preparations)	Present (worry)	Future (planning)	Future (planning)	Past (idealizes)
77	Social Perspective	Black and white	See all perspectives	See context and adapt	Self-centered	Self-centered	See all perspectives	Self-centered	Black and white	See all perspectives
78	Optimism	Realistic	Optimistic	Optimistic	Idealistic	Pessimistic	Pessimistic	Optimistic	Realistic	Idealistic
79	Predictability	Like predictability	Like predictability	Like predictability	Unpredictable	Like predictability	Like predictability	Unpredictable	Unpredictable	Like predictability
80	Role	Referee	Glue	Coordinator	Mystic	Expert	Teammate	Spark plug	Rock	Mediator
81	Often	Assess	Sense	Promote	Connect	Inform	Check in	Analyze	Protect	Soothe
82	Most Likely To	Advise	Support	Rally	Broadcast	Disappear	Unite	Entertain	Escalate	Go with the flow
83	Can Give Others	Integrity	Unconditional love	Motivation	Emotional insights	Expertise	Preparation	Lightheadedness	Assertiveness	Empathy
84	Social Approach	Personable	Personable	Impersonal	Open	Private	Skeptical	Open	Personable	Private
85	Where To Find At A Party	Mingling	Hosting	Center (charming)	Wallflower	Not attending	Mingling	Center (enlivening)	Center (spicing up)	Blending in
86	Drawn To	Adventurousness	Emotional openness	Prestige	Depth	Truth	Loyalty	Intrigue	Authenticity	Energy
87	Canceled Plans	Annoyed	Disappointed	Disappointed	Ambivalent	Annoyed	Annoyed	Ambivalent	Ambivalent	Happy
88	In Conflict Dislike	Accusations	Ignoring	Humiliation	Minimization	Interruption	Accusations	Meta-conversations	Containment	Arrogance
89	Fight	Battles they believe in	Only personal battles	Battles they can win	Every battle	Battles they believe in	Battles they can win	No personal battles	Every battle	Few battles
90	Listening Focus	Problems	Helping	Action	Underlying issue	Problems	Risk analysis	Possibilities	Action	Path of least resistance
91	Pet Peeve	Selfishness	Exclusion	Inattention	Small talk	The spotlight	Fibs	Naysayers	Conformity	Exclusion
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