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(exit search by clicking x in top right corner)		Also check outIf you are an EA looking for a relationship, just add a link (or more) to any dating profiles or documents you have.
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WomenEffective Dating Facebook group.
FB group where EAs and rationalists also post dating docs.
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MenReciprocity. Popular app for dating among EAs and rationalistsIf you end up in a relationship in part thanks to this spreadsheet, please let me know! It'll make me so happy. If you see somebody abusing the system or otherwise want to report something about this spreadsheet, also let me know
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Link(s) to dating profiles or documentsGenderNameCityWilling to RelocateRelationship StyleWant Kids?Notes (anything potentially relevant)
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OKCupid (example listing)WomanHelen HywaterBay Area
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Document (example listing)		OtherBennie FactorNew York CityNon-binary looking for same
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My dating profile
Carissa & I's dating profile		ManMati RoyMontreal (but can easily relocate)I might go to the EA Mexico City fellowship from November 1st to January 31st (TBC). My dating profile is a bit old, but still roughly accurate.

Note: Carissa and I were looking for another person to join our family and raise children with us, but we're now leaning towards not raising children together, so we're also independently dating (ref.: Carissa's public post about it).
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Dating profileManBrian Tomasiknear Albany, NYProbably not willing to move, but open to indefinite long-distance.
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Dating docManTristan HumeBay Area (SF) & NYCStably happy person who enjoys making things, growth mindset, conversation, dancing, oxytocin. Reverse engineering AI at Anthropic.
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Dating docManLinch ZhangBay Area
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https://docs.google.com/document/d/1khmwYjPD7cjIC6ssSdH2pYB9BfGCsKvjbrvZoGThkzc/edit?usp=drivesdkManGustavo LacerdaFlexible (Bay Area, Asheville)
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Date me docManDavid MearsLondonPoly. Mainly interested in women. This doc is 10 months old.
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Date me!ManLiav KorenTorontoAvailable for women and femine NBs, maybe open to long distance. Dedicated EA, looking for someone to get real exponential with. Currently single, Monogamy/non-monogamy flexible, by I lean non-mono.
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Date Nathan Young - written by his exManNathan YoungLondonMonogamish. Mainly looking for a longterm relationship or something casual.
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OKCupidManLars HansenZurich, Switzerland
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