Sex and Kink Resources for People with Disabilities

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1	Sex and Kink Resources for People with Disabilities
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5	Gemeral Resources for People with Disabilities
6	SF.gov: Disability		https://www.sf.gov/topics--disability			Useful info and links
7	SF Gov list of agencies supporting people with disabilities		https://www.sf.gov/resource--2022--community-based-agencies-supporting-people-disabilities			Community agencies list
8	SF Department of Disability and Aging Services		https://www.sfhsa.org/departments/department-disability-and-aging-services-das			Government services
9	Independent Living Resource Center San Francisco (ILRCSF)		https://www.ilrcsf.org/			A disability rights advocacy and support organization.
10	UCSF Disability Resource Center		https://disability.ucsf.edu/disability-resource-center			Programs for students,and educational materials for everyone.
11	Autism & Safety Toolkit		https://autisticadvocacy.org/policy/toolkits/safety	Autistic Self Advocacy Network		Helping people with autism stay safe.
12	Wheelchair Accessible Routes (Google Maps)		https://blog.google/products/maps/introducing-wheelchair-accessible-routes-transit-navigation/			How to adjust google maps to show wheelchair-ready buses/
13	Ability Now		https://abilitynowbayarea.org/			Offers adults with developmental and physical disabilities comprehensive and cutting-edge services.
14	The ARC		https://www.thearcsf.org/			Remote learning, plus programs in South of Market SF.
15	First Aid for Free		https://www.firstaidforfree.com/			Offers Free Online First Aid, CPR and AED Courses
16	Accessible Event Planning		https://autisticadvocacy.org/wp-content/uploads/2019/05/Accessible-Event-Planning.pdf			Holding Inclusive Events: A Guide to Accessible Event Planning (Physical Accessibility:, Sensory Accessibility, Cognitive Accessibility)
17	Senior and Disabiliy Action		https://www.sdaction.org/			Advocacy group.
18	Chronic Creatives		https://www.instagram.com/chroniccreatives/?hl=en or https://www.facebook.com/groups/chroniccreatives/			Community sharing resources and support for creative people with chronic illness.
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22	Chronically Kinky	PupStarOrion (organizer)		chronicallykinkysg@gmail.com	Email for an invitation to their Discord server	Chronically Kinky is a social support space for chronically ill and disabled players with a monthly online munch
23	Dating Apps for People With Disabilities		https://abilitymt.org/blog/dating-sites-for-people-with-disabilities			Article, with links to several sites. including Special Bridge, Hiki, Dateability, and Dating4disabled,
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25	Sexuality and Kink
26	Kink and Chronic Pain		https://xanwest.wordpress.com/2014/07/10/a-few-resources-on-kink-and-chronic-pain/			A few resources on kink and chronic pain
27	Sexuality and Disability		https://sexualityanddisability.org/#			A website addressing questions a woman with a disability might have
28	Sexuality and Disability Resource List		https://www.sexualityintransition.com/resource-list			Part of a website maintained by a sex therapist and educator with a special interest in sexualiuty and disability
29	Kink and Disability (FetLife Group)		https://fetlife.com/groups/129			A safe and inclusive space to talk about being a kinky person with a disability and to offer support for those with disabilities. Open to all people who live with a disability (cognitive, physical, psychological, social) and those who love and/or support a person with a disability.
30	Broken Toys: Submissives with Mental Illness and Neurological Dysfunction By Raven Kaldera & Del Tashlin		https://alfredpress.com/broken-toys/	See also other books by Alfred Press, https://alfredpress.com/		Broken Toys explores the brave stories of people in dominant/submissive or master/slave relationships who are struggling with imperfect brains and nervous systems, and the ways they can use the dynamic to keep everyone going.
31	Intersections of Sexual Communication in BDSM and Disability		https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC9825129/			A scholarly aerticle.
32	How Practicing Kink Helps Keep People with Disabilities Connected to Their Desires		https://www.thebody.com/article/kink-managing-chronic-pain			Article in The Body, an HIV resources website/
33	How Queer, Disabled People Are Finding Pleasure and Community Through Kink		https://www.them.us/story/queer-disabled-kink-community-spaces			Article in them, a queer community webzine.
34	Disabled Sexuality and Pleasure Access		https://www.gbvlearningnetwork.ca/resource-spotlights/recorded-resource-spotlights/RS-14.html			Video, from That Sex Show on Canadian television.
35	Sexuality and Disability: Comprehensive Guide & Resource Directory		https://www.disabilityresources.org/sex.html			Part of a major guide to disabiliity-related resources. Website ownership is not clear.
36	Wheelchair Bound? Kink and Disability		https://www.scarleteen.com/read/sex-sexuality/wheelchair-bound-kink-and-disability			Article on Scarleteen, a website of sex and relationships information and support that centers young people.
37	Disability Studies Quarterly		https://dsq-sds.org/index.php/dsq/index			The journal of the Society for Disability Studies (SDS). often includes articles on sexuality, BDSM, etc.
38	Institute for Sexuality Education & Enlightenment (ISEE)		https://instituteforsexuality.com/			Professional Human Sexuality Education & Training (for profit)
39	Bay Area Sexuality and Disability Network		https://www.facebook.com/sexanddisabilitynetwork/			Sex educators in the Bay Area committed to broadening the conversation on sexuality and disability.
40	Disability in Kink		https://nikacherrelles.com/disability-in-kink/			Blog post by an educator and activist.
41	Elust		https://elustsexblogs.com/			A monthly review of sex-related writings, often including blogs on sexuality and disabilities.
42	Sexual Health and IDD Resource Handout		https://www.kennedykrieger.org/sites/default/files/library/documents/community/maryland-center-for-developmental-disabilities-mcdd/Sexual%20Health%20and%20IDD%20Resource%20Handout.pdf			A wide variety of resource links, published in 2021.
43	Resources on kink and chronic pain		https://xanwest.wordpress.com/2014/07/10/a-few-resources-on-kink-and-chronic-pain/			Blog post on the Kink Praxis website.
44	Kinky and Living with Chronic Pain		https://fetlife.com/groups/6754			A place for kinksters to discuss the challenges of chronic pain (not the good kind): how it affects how you play, how you serve, or how you live your kink.
45	Disability-Accessible Sex Toys, Gear, and Sexual Aids Masterlist		https://www.tumblr.com/gender-freaked/722498162533810176/disability-accessible-sex-toys-gear-and-sexual			Long list of resources, with comments and links.
46	Sex Toys and Furniture for People who Live with Disabilities		https://yourkinkyfriends.com/2018/07/04/sex-toys-and-furniture-for-people-who-live-with-disabilities/			Article with links to toys, books, ets.
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48	Send addtions or corrections to diversity-chair@sflcd.org					last updated 5/23/2025
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