A | B | C | D | E | F | G | H | I | J | K | L | M | N | O | P | Q | R | S | ||
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1 | Fetish | As Dom | As sub | Done | Notes | |||||||||||||||
2 | Age Play | 0 | 0 | No interest | ||||||||||||||||
3 | Ball gags | 2 | 1 | Yes | Very sensitive gag reflex with anything inside the mouth | Number | Meaning | |||||||||||||
4 | Bathroom Restrictions | 2 | 2 | 2 | Yes, yes and yes please | |||||||||||||||
5 | Bit gags | 2 | 2 | Yes | Effective and don't cause the same problems as ball gags | 1 | I'll try it if you want/I'm not experienced enough to do this safely | |||||||||||||
6 | Biting | 1 | 2 | Yes | Softer is better | 0 | Nope. Probably not gonna happen. | |||||||||||||
7 | Blindfolds | 2 | 2 | Yes | ||||||||||||||||
8 | Body Worship | 2 | 2 | Yes | Pits, nips, ears, fingers etc etc | Grey colored rows are general fetishes, clothing etc | ||||||||||||||
9 | Body Worship (Ass) | 0 | 0 | Hard red | This list is by no means exhaustive. | |||||||||||||||
10 | Boot Worship (Cleaning/Polishing) | 0 | 0 | Yes | Meh... | Items with a 0 are things I either have no interest in, or things I want to try with a trusted partner | ||||||||||||||
11 | Boot Worship (Licking) | 2 | 2 | Yes | Always, ALWAYS down for this | Generally, lighter pain (and the threat of MORE pain) is more of a turnon than actual pain. | ||||||||||||||
12 | Breath control (Heavy) | 1 | 2 | Yes | Missing fetish (Col. A)? Drop a comment and let me know! | |||||||||||||||
13 | Breath control (Light) | 2 | 2 | Yes | If you have a relevant link for a given item, leave it in a comment. | |||||||||||||||
14 | Casting | 0 | 2 | Very keen to try this | Fill out your own! There's a blank one for you right here! | |||||||||||||||
15 | Cages | 2 | 2 | |||||||||||||||||
16 | CBT | 1 | 2 | Yes | Lighter is better. | |||||||||||||||
17 | Chains | 2 | 2 | Yes | ||||||||||||||||
18 | Chair ties | 2 | 2 | |||||||||||||||||
19 | Chemical Play (Icyhot, tiger balm etc) | 2 | 2 | Yes | Icy hot = OK, except on balls | |||||||||||||||
20 | Choking | 1 | 2 | Yes | ||||||||||||||||
21 | Choking (K/O) | 0 | 0 | Hard red | ||||||||||||||||
22 | Clothed Male/Nude Male (CMNM) | 2 | 2 | Yes | ||||||||||||||||
23 | Collars | 2 | 2 | Yes | I'm a collar whore | |||||||||||||||
24 | Costumes | 2 | 2 | Yes | ||||||||||||||||
25 | Crossdressing | 1 | 2 | Yes | ||||||||||||||||
26 | Cuddling | 2 | 2 | Yes | I mean, come on. | |||||||||||||||
27 | Cutting | 0 | 0 | Kinda scary | ||||||||||||||||
28 | Diapers | 0 | 1 | Yes | Curious to try. | |||||||||||||||
29 | Discipline | 2 | 2 | Yes | ||||||||||||||||
30 | Ducttape Bondage | 2 | 2 | Yes | Stupid hairy arms... | |||||||||||||||
31 | Ducttape Gags | 2 | 1 | Ineffective without stuffing and gag reflex makes that impossible | ||||||||||||||||
32 | Ducttape Mummification | 1 | 2 | Yes | Pad the legs, restrain wrists prior to wrapping | |||||||||||||||
33 | Dungeon Irons | 2 | 1 | Yes | Too thin, hurts ankles | |||||||||||||||
34 | Edging/Teasing | 2 | 2 | Yes | I am very, very sensitive and can get off in the blink of an eye. | |||||||||||||||
35 | Electro | 2 | 2 | Yes | Oh my that was fun... | |||||||||||||||
36 | Eye Contact Restrictions | 2 | 2 | Yes | ||||||||||||||||
37 | Exhibitionism (Private, kink-friendly Space) | 2 | 2 | Yes | ||||||||||||||||
38 | Exhibitionism (Public Space) | 0 | 0 | Not at all | ||||||||||||||||
39 | Fighting Back (trying to escape, refusing orders) | 1 | 2 | Yes | ||||||||||||||||
40 | Fist mitts | 2 | 2 | Yes | Yes yes yes yes yes yes | |||||||||||||||
41 | Fisting | 0 | 0 | Not yet anyways | ||||||||||||||||
42 | Flogging | 1 | 1 | Yes | Lighter is better. Would prefer to skip altogether | |||||||||||||||
43 | Following Orders | 2 | 2 | Yes | ||||||||||||||||
44 | Foot Worship | 1 | 1 | Yes | Only with trusted partners | |||||||||||||||
45 | Forced Chastity (long term) | 2 | 2 | Yes | ||||||||||||||||
46 | Forced Chastity (short term) | 1 | 2 | Yes | ||||||||||||||||
47 | Forced Nudity | 2 | 2 | (Especially clothed male/nude male) | ||||||||||||||||
48 | Forced Position | 2 | 2 | Yes | ||||||||||||||||
49 | Forced Shoe Sniffing | 2 | 2 | Yes | ||||||||||||||||
50 | Forced Workout | 2 | 2 | This needs to be taken slowly | ||||||||||||||||
51 | Gags | 1 | 2 | Yes | Anything that doesn't fill the mouth is OK | |||||||||||||||
52 | Handcuffs | 2 | 2 | Yes | Of course | |||||||||||||||
53 | Hogties | 2 | 2 | Yes | ||||||||||||||||
54 | Hoods (heavy) | 2 | 2 | Yes | ...and now I want my own :D | |||||||||||||||
55 | Hoods (light) | 2 | 2 | Yes | ||||||||||||||||
56 | Humiliation | 1 | 2 | Yes | Of the role, not the person | |||||||||||||||
57 | Impact Play | 1 | 2 | Yes | ||||||||||||||||
58 | Interrogation | 1 | 2 | |||||||||||||||||
59 | Kidnapping | 1 | 2 | |||||||||||||||||
60 | Leather (heavy (jackets, chaps, suits)) | 2 | 2 | Yes | Do they make stuff in "miniscule" size? | |||||||||||||||
61 | Leather (light (vests, harnesses etc)) | 2 | 2 | Yes | Yes please | |||||||||||||||
62 | Legcuffs | 2 | 2 | Yes | *Only if I'm wearing pants or something that covers my ankles. Shackle digs in too much otherwise | |||||||||||||||
63 | Light bondage | 2 | 2 | Yes | Chained a pole, handcuffed, etc etc | |||||||||||||||
64 | Locked on Clothes | 2 | 2 | Never enough | ||||||||||||||||
65 | Long term bondage (+1 day) (heavy) | 1 | 0 | |||||||||||||||||
66 | Long term bondage (+1 day) (light) | 1 | 2 | (Chained to a pole by one ankle? Yes please.) | ||||||||||||||||
67 | Making Out | 2 | 2 | Yes | ||||||||||||||||
68 | Medical Restraints | 2 | 2 | Yes | Yes yes yes yes yes | |||||||||||||||
69 | Milking | 1 | 2 | Yes | Don't let the screams fool you... | |||||||||||||||
70 | Mind Games (Mental humiliation) | 0 | 0 | "You're worthless"/"You're a filthy bitch" stuff like that is a RED | ||||||||||||||||
71 | Muzzles | 2 | 2 | Yes | Yes yes yes yes yes | |||||||||||||||
72 | Muzzles (wire cage) | 2 | 2 | |||||||||||||||||
73 | Nipple torture | 2 | 2 | Yes | Lighter is better | |||||||||||||||
74 | Needles | 0 | 0 | Not my bag... | ||||||||||||||||
75 | Objectification | 0 | 0 | Yes | Being used as footstool. Prefer to skip, it's boring | |||||||||||||||
76 | Pony play | 0 | 2 | Exceptionally curious | ||||||||||||||||
77 | Poppers | 0 | 0 | Absolutely not. Hard red. | ||||||||||||||||
78 | Power Exchange | 2 | 2 | Yes | ||||||||||||||||
79 | Predicament Bondage | 2 | 2 | Yes | ||||||||||||||||
80 | Prisoner Transport Chains | 2 | 2 | Great for a car trip! | ||||||||||||||||
81 | Public (hidden under clothes etc) bondage | 2 | 2 | |||||||||||||||||
82 | Pup Play | 2 | 2 | Yes | Yes yes yes yes yes | |||||||||||||||
83 | Roleplay | 1 | 1 | Color me curious | ||||||||||||||||
84 | Rope | 1 | 2 | Yes | ||||||||||||||||
85 | Rubber | 1 | 1 | Eh... | ||||||||||||||||
86 | Semi-permanent bondage | 1 | 2 | Yes | Bondage that takes a screwdriver/hammer to get out of | |||||||||||||||
87 | Sensation Play | 1 | 2 | Yes | ||||||||||||||||
88 | Sensory Deprivation | 1 | 2 | Yes | ||||||||||||||||
89 | Service Sub (Houseboy) | 2 | 2 | Yes | ||||||||||||||||
90 | Sex (Anal) | 0 | 0 | Yes | I'm an absolutely terrible bottom, don't really care to top (Bondage is sex for me) | |||||||||||||||
91 | Sex (Oral) | 2 | 2 | Yes | Beware the gag reflex | |||||||||||||||
92 | Short term bondage | 2 | 2 | (11 hours? ish?) | ||||||||||||||||
93 | Simple Restraints | 2 | 2 | Yes | ||||||||||||||||
94 | Sissification | 0 | 0 | Yes | Not my thing | |||||||||||||||
95 | Slapping (Back) | 0 | 0 | Yes | This will go from zero to "red" in a heartbeat | |||||||||||||||
96 | Slapping (Face) | 1 | 1 | Yes | Lighter is better | |||||||||||||||
97 | Sleepsack (overnight) | 1 | 0 | I get way too stiff way too quickly | ||||||||||||||||
98 | Sleepsack (short term) | 1 | 2 | Yes | More fun than I expected | |||||||||||||||
99 | Smells | 2 | 2 | Yes | Pits, shoes, socks, jocks etc. Milder preferred to hardcore :) | |||||||||||||||
100 | Sounding | 0 | 0 | Yikes |