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GROWING UP AND YOUR BODY� BECOMING A HEALTHY YOUNG WOMAN

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AGREEMENTS

• Respect Everyone�• Ask Questions�•Don’t Gossip

• Give Me Five

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GROUNDING AND CENTERING

  • Why Do We Breathe?
  • Did You Know that Taking A Deep Breath Calms the Brain and Helps You Make Better Decisions?

  • Feet on the Floor and Wriggle Your Toes
  • Take Three Deep Breaths

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WHAT KIND OF WOMAN DO YOU WANT TO BE?

Caring

Loving

Smart

Respectful

Generous

Kind

Successful

Wise

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HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS

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A State of Complete Physical, Mental and Social Well-being

What is Health?

What is a Relationship?

A Relationship is the State of Being Connected and Can Refer to Friends, Family, Classmates and Others

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HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS

Mutual Respect, Care and Consideration

Trust in Each Other

Depend on One Another

Contribute to the Relationship Being Fun and Healthy

You Feel Valued for Being YOURSELF

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UNHEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS

Bossy or Controlling

Lies, Disrespectful, Selfish, Blaming

Emotionally, Physically or Sexually Abuses You

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HOW CAN YOU AVOID UNHEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS?

1. Ask the Person to Stop Doing the Unhealthy Behavior

2. Avoid the Person

3. Ask a Trusted Adult for Help

  • Parent
  • Teacher
  • Counselor
  • Police Officer

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TRUSTED ADULT

Who Is A Trusted Adult?

What Kinds Of Things Can You Tell A Trusted Adult About?

What Would A Trusted Adult Do If You Told Them That Something Bad Or Dangerous Had Happened To You Or You Were Worried That Something Might Happen To You?

Do I Only Need One Trusted Adult In My Life?

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PRACTICE CONSENT

Consent Means Giving Permission to Do Something

Ask the person beside you, “Do you Want a High-Five, Handshake or a Hug?”

Listen for the Response

Practice Consent

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YOUR BODY

How Does it Make You Feel to Talk About Your Body?

What Helps You Feel Connected to Your Body?

What Makes You Feel Disconnected From Your Body?

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PUBERTY VOCABULARY

Adolescence=Time during a child’s life when she/he experiences puberty and begins to change into an adult

Puberty=Changes that happen anywhere between 8 years of age and the teenage years that both girls and boys experience

  • Physical Changes (Your Body)
  • Emotional Changes (Your Feelings)
  • Social Changes (Your Friends)
  • Cognitive Changes ( Your Thinking)

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PHYSICAL CHANGES FOR GIRLS

  • Body Grows Taller
  • Breast Buds Develop
  • Pubic Hair Grows (body hair that grows in genital area)
  • Leg Hair Grows
  • Underarm Hair Grows
  • Hips Widen

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PHYSICAL CHANGES FOR GIRLS

  • You May Sweat More and Have Body Odor
  • You May Develop Pimples or Acne
  • Ovulation
  • Menstruation…You start your period!

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EMOTIONAL CHANGES SOCIAL CHANGES

  • Feeling Self Conscious

  • Feeling Moody-Feeling Great One Moment and Then Feeling Sad or Mad

  • Feeling Independent

  • Playing Sports, Joining Clubs

  • Meeting New Friends

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COGNITIVE CHANGES

Impulsive/Risk-taking

Parts Of The Brain Develop More Rapidly Than The Self-control/Decision-making Parts

Taking Deep Belly Breaths Supports the Self-control/Decision-making Parts of the Brain

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HOW DO I TAKE CARE OF MY BODY AS IT CHANGES?

Shower or Take a Bath Each Day

Use Deodorant

Wash your Hair and Face

Brush and Floss Your Teeth Every Day

Get Sleep 9 to 12 Hours of Sleep Each Night…You Are Growing!

Exercise Daily…..Yes, You Can!

Remember to Relax : Talk to Friends and Family, Enjoy Alone Time, Be Creative, Learn, Breathe Deeply

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EVERYTHING IS CHANGING, WHAT DO I DO!?

  • Talk to Your Friends or a Trusted Adult
  • Go for a Walk or Run
  • Play Soccer, Basketball or Another Sport
  • Listen To Music
  • Read a Book
  • Write in Your Journal
  • Paint, Draw be Creative
  • Quiet Your Mind and Take Five Slow

Deep Breaths

  • Think About What Makes You Feel Healthy

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YOU ARE PERFECTLY� NORMAL!

Boys and Girls Experience Puberty at Different Times and It is all Normal

Puberty can Take Three to Five Years to Complete

Puberty Begins Between Eight and Sixteen Years of Age

Usually Girls Begin and Complete Puberty About

Two Years Earlier than Boys

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DON’T LOOK TO MEDIA TO TELL YOU THAT YOU ARE PERFECT AND WONDERFUL BECAUSE �THAT IS NOT ITS JOB

What is the Purpose of Commercials and Advertisements?

Do They Influence How You Feel about Yourself?

What Influences the Decisions you Make About Your Body and Health?

What Should a Boy’s Body Look Like? What Should a Girl’s Body Look Like?

  • Why Do You Think That?
  • Is it True?

Be Curious About What Makes You Beautiful and Let It Shine Through!

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THE REPRODUCTIVE SYSTEM DEVELOPS� DURING PUBERTY

The Brain Releases Hormones (Chemical Messengers) into the Body that Start Puberty

In Girls, The Hormone Estrogen is Released and Sends a Message to the Ovaries

In Boys, the Hormone Testosterone is Released and Sends a Message to the Testicles

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FEMALE REPRODUCTIVE SYSTEM

Urethra

Vulva

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MENSTRUAL CYCLE�YOU START YOUR PERIOD

  • You Are Becoming a Woman
  • Prepares the Body to Have a Baby (Reproduction)
  • Respect Your Life, Health, Education and Future by Not Having a Baby Now
  • Menstrual Cycle Happens About Every 28 Days
  • Keep Track of Your Period with a Calendar or an App

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MALE REPRODUCTIVE SYSTEM

  • Pubic Hair Grows
  • Voice Deepens
  • Muscles Develop

  • Testes and Penis Grow

  • Testes Develop Sperm

  • Experience Erections (Penis Fills with Blood and Becomes Hard or Erect)

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YOU STARTED YOUR PERIOD, NOW WHAT?

  • Talk to a Trusted Adult like Mom, Step-Mom, Aunt, Sister or Dad
  • Ask for Feminine Hygiene Products to Absorb Menstrual Flow
  • What is Toxic Shock Syndrome?
  • Your Period Will Last 3-5 Days on Average
  • You Will Bleed About 3-5 Tablespoons of Blood
  • You Can Still Be Active and Exercise
  • If You Have Cramps, Use a Hot Water Bottle

SELF CARE-When You Have Your Period, It is a Good Time to Reflect on If You Are Making Healthy Decisions About Your Body, Mind and Heart

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CHANGING YOUR PAD

Change Your Pad About At Least Every 3 to 4 Hours

Sometimes You Will Need to Change it More Often if You Have A Heavy Flow

Sometimes You Will Need to Change it Less Often if You Have a Lighter Flow

Keep A Little Bag of Supplies in Your Book Bag

What Should You Do If You Start Your Period but Don’t Have Supplies?

What Do You Do If You Stain Your Pants?

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BREAST DEVELOPMENT

  • Breasts are Fully Developed by 17-18 years of Age

  • Breasts can Be Different Sizes

  • Breast Can Be Sore

  • If Needed, Get a Sports Bra

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TIPS FOR A HEALTHY PUBERTY

Eat Balanced Meals and Don’t Diet

Limit Device Time…Put the Phone Down

Drink 7 to 10 Glasses of Water a Day

Spend Time with Family and Friends and Share Your Feelings

Stay Away From Alcohol, Tobacco and Other Drugs

Don’t Drink Caffeine

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REVIEW

Puberty=changes That Happen Anywhere Between 8 Years Of Age And The Teenage Years That Both Girls And Boys Experience

Adolescence=time During A Child’s Life When She/He Experiences Puberty And Begins To Change Into An Adult

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REVIEW

Menstruation = A monthly cycle where there is a release of blood and the lining of the uterus in a girl’s body which starts during puberty

Estrogen = Hormone In Females That Is Released and Sends a Message to the Ovaries

Testosterone = Hormone in Males That is Released and Sends a Message to the Testes

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ANY QUESTIONS?�&�WHERE DO I GET MORE INFORMATION?

Parent or Caregiver

Trusted Adult

Teacher or Principal

Counselor, Nurse or Doctor

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