Inclusion Wellbeing & Equalities Professional Learning Framework
Being Restorative – Part 1A
Level – Informed
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Interconnectivity
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Being Restorative��Part 1A
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Why be restorative?
“Every day, in lots of different ways, our students ask do I matter to you, do you notice me, do I belong here? And, if we aren’t careful – because actions speak louder than words – the answer will be seen in the behaviours that play out. It’s not always what we say or what we do, but how we do it and how students end up feeling.”
Mark Finnis, 2021
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Developing a restorative mindset
Starter Activity - Picture the scene
David arrived at school 15 minutes late and wearing white trainers. He was greeted with a pointy finger to the chest.
“Why are you late and where are your black shoes?”
“F@*$ off” was the response.
How would you respond?
David was sent to his PT Pupil Support and along the way he told 3 more people to do the same.
David was excluded for 3 days.
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Developing a restorative mindset
David’s story cont. – This is a lesson in knowing our learners well
Knowing what you know now - How would you respond?
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Developing a restorative mindset
Key Principles:
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Activity – How do I…?
In pairs discuss:
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Culture: Social Discipline Window
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Culture: Social Disciple Window
A restorative culture involves:
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Culture & Relationships
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Adult Behaviour – being restorative!
We can all behave in a restorative way by demonstrating that we can:
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Culture & Relationships
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Every child needs a champion
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The Restorative Hierarchy of Approaches
Restorative
responses to
more serious issues
A range of restorative responses to
day to day situations, conflicts and
anti-social behaviour.
Restorative pedagogy: Social skills learning.
Building social confidence and a sense of social responsibility.
Identifying and addressing what everyone needs.
Restorative values, thinking, and language evident in practice
Focus on relationships and social/community cohesion
INTENSIVE (Repairing harm)
Restorative Justice Forums
Conferences (Eg. Family Group, Community, Mediation)
Restorative Meetings (in a range of contexts)
TARGETED (Managing difficulties and disruption)
Restorative conversations: informal and formal
Problem-solving circles
UNIVERSAL (Developing social and emotional capacity)
At Home
In Classrooms and Educational Settings
In Community Settings
Adapted from Restoring Safe School Communities (Morrison, 2007) and Implementing Restorative Practices in Schools (Thorsborne & Blood, 2013)
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Restorative Values, Thinking & Language
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Restorative Values – building the foundations
Values Behaviour
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What does the behaviour driven by restorative values look like? Some ideas. We:
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Restorative Thinking: 5 key themes
Theme 1 Understanding that everyone has their own unique and equally valued perspective
Theme 2 Knowing that thoughts influence emotions and emotions influence actions
Theme 3 Having and showing empathy and consideration
Theme 4 Identifying needs and unmet needs
Theme 5 Supporting a culture of collective responsibility for problem solving and decision making
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Theme 4: Needs – Why I’m rude?
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NURTURE - All Behaviour is Communication & �the TRAUMA Link
NB. Inappropriate behaviour can be a response to trauma
A few point to remember from Trauma Informed Practice:
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Language Matters
‘The language we use creates the reality we experience’
Whittaker, 2021: 66
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Restorative Language – words work!!
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How to speak in a restorative and relational way:
Please stop running | | I need you to walk in the corridor, thanks |
If you don’t finish your work now, you’ll have to do it at break | You can choose to finish your work in 5 minutes or now | |
Stop doing that | What should you be doing? |
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Activity:
How could you change these sentences/statements so that they become relationship/need/restorative focussed?
You’re late, see me at the end | | |
Don’t talk when I’m talking | | |
Tell me the truth | |
Don’t forget:
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Possible responses:
You’re late, see me at the end | |
Glad you are here, I was concerned when I didn’t see you, I’ll catch up with you during |
Don’t talk when I’m talking |
I’m glad you want to contribute and I’ll definitely give you a chance but first I’ll finish explaining this to everyone, hopefully you can hold on until then | |
Tell me the truth | I’m keen to know what happened from your perspective. I’m listening |
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Language matters…
When talking about, or in front of, a child, a class, a parent, a family or even colleagues….
Challenging behaviour | | Distressed behaviour (what’s causing the distress?) |
Attention seeking | Attention needing (what do they need?) | |
Won’t behave | Can’t behave (do they know how to behave?) |
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Activity:
How could you change these sentences/statements so that they become relationship/need/restorative focussed?
Don’t forget to be as neutral as possible and to use non-judgemental language
They are a difficult class | | |
They are kicking off again | | |
There was no reason why they did that | | |
They are just plain lazy | | |
Their behaviour is unacceptable | | |
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Language matters… - possible responses!
When talking about, or in front of, a child, a class, a parent, a family or even colleagues….
They are a difficult class | | Some pupils in the class need help to stay on task at times but they are making progress |
They are kicking off again | | At the moment the class is struggling to settle to the work of the day. I’m hopeful that we can all get back on track soon |
There was no reason why they did that | | I know there will be a reason behind this but at the moment I’m not sure what it was. I’m sure when they are able we’ll be able to talk about it |
They are just plain lazy | | They sometimes need a prompt or some help to make get started with their work. We’ll need to have a chat about what would help them better progress |
Their behaviour is unacceptable | | They need help at times to know what behaviour is helpful for learning and what isn’t. Perhaps as a class we should talk about what things help everyone in the class be able to get on with their work and what they find doesn’t help |
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Three Step Process -> Thoughts to Relationships
What’s in a word? Everything!
‘Changing one piece of language might not change the world but it might change the world for one student.’ (Whittaker, 2021: 67)
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We can all try to be restorative in:��our values��our thinking��our language
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And Finally,�Get to know your learners�Try to understand what their behaviour means�Try to identify underlying needs
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Reflection
From what you have learned so far, think about:
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