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Words are Forest Fires

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James 3:1-12

1 Not many of you should become teachers, my brothers, for you know that we who teach will be judged with greater strictness. For we all stumble in many ways. And if anyone does not stumble in what he says, he is a perfect man, able also to bridle his whole body. If we put bits into the mouths of horses so that they obey us, we guide their whole bodies as well.Look at the ships also: though they are so large and are driven by strong winds, they are guided by a very small rudder wherever the will of the pilot directs. So also the tongue is a small member, yet it boasts of great things.

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James 3:1-12

How great a forest is set ablaze by such a small fire! And the tongue is a fire, a world of unrighteousness. The tongue is set among our members, staining the whole body, setting on fire the entire course of life, and set on fire by hell. For every kind of beast and bird, of reptile and sea creature, can be tamed and has been tamed by mankind, but no human being can tame the tongue. It is a restless evil, full of deadly poison. With it we bless our Lord and Father, and with it we curse people who are made in the likeness of God. 10 From the same mouth come blessing and cursing.

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James 3:1-12

My brothers, these things ought not to be so.11 Does a spring pour forth from the same opening both fresh and salt water? 12 Can a fig tree, my brothers, bear olives, or a grapevine produce figs? Neither can a salt pond yield fresh water.

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Our WORDS are WORKS that display our faith in God.

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  •  Our words can seem insignificant, but their impact is far greater than we recognize.

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James 3:1-12

How great a forest is set ablaze by such a small fire! And the tongue is a fire, a world of unrighteousness. The tongue is set among our members, staining the whole body, setting on fire the entire course of life, and set on fire by hell. For every kind of beast and bird, of reptile and sea creature, can be tamed and has been tamed by mankind, but no human being can tame the tongue. It is a restless evil, full of deadly poison. With it we bless our Lord and Father, and with it we curse people who are made in the likeness of God. 10 From the same mouth come blessing and cursing.

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James 3:1-12

How great a forest is set ablaze by such a small fire! And the tongue is a fire, a world of unrighteousness. The tongue is set among our members, staining the whole body, setting on fire the entire course of life, and set on fire by hell. For every kind of beast and bird, of reptile and sea creature, can be tamed and has been tamed by mankind, but no human being can tame the tongue. It is a restless evil, full of deadly poison. With it we bless our Lord and Father, and with it we curse people who are made in the likeness of God. 10 From the same mouth come blessing and cursing.

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Small part.

BIG impact….

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Small part.

BIG impact….

…Cannot be stopped.

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Paradise Fire. 2018.

  • killed 85 people
  • destroyed nearly 19,000 homes
  • covered an area of 153,336 acres

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Paradise Fire. 2018.

  • killed 85 people
  • destroyed nearly 19,000 homes
  • covered an area of 153,336 acres

…caused by failure of a worn and neglected piece of PG&E equipment on a transmission tower…bankruptcy/pleaded guilty to 84 counts of involuntary manslaughter involving victims of the fire.

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“We found that falsehood diffuses significantly farther, faster, deeper, and more broadly than the truth, in all categories of information, and in many cases by an order of magnitude,”

  • Sinan Aral, a professor at the MIT Sloan School of Management

The result? “We saw a different emotional profile for false news and true news,” Vosoughi says. “People respond to false news more with surprise and disgust,” he notes, whereas true stories produced replies more generally characterized by sadness, anticipation, and trust.

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Our Words Examined…

Lying - - - - - - - - - - - - - -

Truthful

Mis-stating - - - - - - - - - -

Regulating

Gossiping - - - - - - - - - - -

Calibrating

Cursing - - - - - - - - - - - - -

Glorifying

Swearing - - - - - - - - - - -

Punctuating

Name Calling - - - - - - - -

Being Appropriately Figurative

Omitting - - - - - - - - - - - -

Speaking Up

Nagging - - - - - - - - - - - -

Reminding

Comparing - - - - - - - - - -

Encouraging

Veiled Accusations - - - - -

Candidly Confronting

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Omitting – Deliberately choosing not to speak in order for others to keep a more favorable view of us.

Speaking up – Deliberately choosing to speak in order to bring needed clarity to a given context.

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  •  Our words can seem insignificant, but their impact is far greater than we recognize.

  • Our words far too often do major damage.

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James 3:1-12

How great a forest is set ablaze by such a small fire! And the tongue is a fire, a world of unrighteousness. The tongue is set among our members, staining the whole body, setting on fire the entire course of life, and set on fire by hell. For every kind of beast and bird, of reptile and sea creature, can be tamed and has been tamed by mankind, but no human being can tame the tongue. It is a restless evil, full of deadly poison. With it we bless our Lord and Father, and with it we curse people who are made in the likeness of God. 10 From the same mouth come blessing and cursing.

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James 3:1-12

How great a forest is set ablaze by such a small fire! And the tongue is a fire, a world of unrighteousness. The tongue is set among our members, staining the whole body, setting on fire the entire course of life, and set on fire by hell. For every kind of beast and bird, of reptile and sea creature, can be tamed and has been tamed by mankind, but no human being can tame the tongue. It is a restless evil, full of deadly poison. With it we bless our Lord and Father, and with it we curse people who are made in the likeness of God. 10 From the same mouth come blessing and cursing.

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James 3:1-12

How great a forest is set ablaze by such a small fire! And the tongue is a fire, a world of unrighteousness. The tongue is set among our members, staining the whole body, setting on fire the entire course of life, and set on fire by hell. For every kind of beast and bird, of reptile and sea creature, can be tamed and has been tamed by mankind, but no human being can tame the tongue. It is a restless evil, full of deadly poison. With it we bless our Lord and Father, and with it we curse people who are made in the likeness of God. 10 From the same mouth come blessing and cursing.

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James 3:1-12

How great a forest is set ablaze by such a small fire! And the tongue is a fire, a world of unrighteousness. The tongue is set among our members, staining the whole body, setting on fire the entire course of life, and set on fire by hell. For every kind of beast and bird, of reptile and sea creature, can be tamed and has been tamed by mankind, but no human being can tame the tongue. It is a restless evil, full of deadly poison. With it we bless our Lord and Father, and with it we curse people who are made in the likeness of God. 10 From the same mouth come blessing and cursing.

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James 3:1-12

How great a forest is set ablaze by such a small fire! And the tongue is a fire, a world of unrighteousness. The tongue is set among our members, staining the whole body, setting on fire the entire course of life, and set on fire by hell. For every kind of beast and bird, of reptile and sea creature, can be tamed and has been tamed by mankind, but no human being can tame the tongue. It is a restless evil, full of deadly poison. With it we bless our Lord and Father, and with it we curse people who are made in the likeness of God. 10 From the same mouth come blessing and cursing.

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James 3:1-12

How great a forest is set ablaze by such a small fire! And the tongue is a fire, a world of unrighteousness. The tongue is set among our members, staining the whole body, setting on fire the entire course of life, and set on fire by hell. For every kind of beast and bird, of reptile and sea creature, can be tamed and has been tamed by mankind, but no human being can tame the tongue. It is a restless evil, full of deadly poison. With it we bless our Lord and Father, and with it we curse people who are made in the likeness of God. 10 From the same mouth come blessing and cursing.

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James 3:1-12

How great a forest is set ablaze by such a small fire! And the tongue is a fire, a world of unrighteousness. The tongue is set among our members, staining the whole body, setting on fire the entire course of life, and set on fire by hell. For every kind of beast and bird, of reptile and sea creature, can be tamed and has been tamed by mankind, but no human being can tame the tongue. It is a restless evil, full of deadly poison. With it we bless our Lord and Father, and with it we curse people who are made in the likeness of God. 10 From the same mouth come blessing and cursing.

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James 3:1-12

How great a forest is set ablaze by such a small fire! And the tongue is a fire, a world of unrighteousness. The tongue is set among our members, staining the whole body, setting on fire the entire course of life, and set on fire by hell. For every kind of beast and bird, of reptile and sea creature, can be tamed and has been tamed by mankind, but no human being can tame the tongue. It is a restless evil, full of deadly poison. With it we bless our Lord and Father, and with it we curse people who are made in the likeness of God. 10 From the same mouth come blessing and cursing.

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  •  Our words can seem insignificant, but their impact is far greater than we recognize.

  • Our words far too often do major damage.
    • Damage that can be done…

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  •  Our words can seem insignificant, but their impact is far greater than we recognize.

  • Our words far too often do major damage.
    • Damage that can be done…
      • Frustrate to negative degree (communication is hard).

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  •  Our words can seem insignificant, but their impact is far greater than we recognize.

  • Our words far too often do major damage.
    • Damage that can be done…
      • Frustrate to negative degree (communication is hard).
      • Discourage (parents cripple our kids).

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  •  Our words can seem insignificant, but their impact is far greater than we recognize.

  • Our words far too often do major damage.
    • Damage that can be done…
      • Frustrate to negative degree (communication is hard).
      • Discourage (parents cripple our kids).
      • Destroy reputations and relationships

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  •  Our words can seem insignificant, but their impact is far greater than we recognize.

  • Our words far too often do major damage.
    • Damage that can be done…
      • Frustrate to negative degree (communication is hard).
      • Discourage (parents cripple our kids).
      • Destroy reputations and relationships (fired, expelled, divorce, murder, war).

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  •  Our words can seem insignificant, but their impact is far greater than we recognize.

  • Our words far too often do major damage.

  • Our words are too often rooted in evil.

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James 3:1-12

How great a forest is set ablaze by such a small fire! And the tongue is a fire, a world of unrighteousness. The tongue is set among our members, staining the whole body, setting on fire the entire course of life, and set on fire by hell. For every kind of beast and bird, of reptile and sea creature, can be tamed and has been tamed by mankind, but no human being can tame the tongue. It is a restless evil, full of deadly poison. With it we bless our Lord and Father, and with it we curse people who are made in the likeness of God. 10 From the same mouth come blessing and cursing.

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James 3:1-12

How great a forest is set ablaze by such a small fire! And the tongue is a fire, a world of unrighteousness. The tongue is set among our members, staining the whole body, setting on fire the entire course of life, and set on fire by hell. For every kind of beast and bird, of reptile and sea creature, can be tamed and has been tamed by mankind, but no human being can tame the tongue. It is a restless evil, full of deadly poison. With it we bless our Lord and Father, and with it we curse people who are made in the likeness of God. 10 From the same mouth come blessing and cursing.

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James 3:1-12

How great a forest is set ablaze by such a small fire! And the tongue is a fire, a world of unrighteousness. The tongue is set among our members, staining the whole body, setting on fire the entire course of life, and set on fire by hell. For every kind of beast and bird, of reptile and sea creature, can be tamed and has been tamed by mankind, but no human being can tame the tongue. It is a restless evil, full of deadly poison. With it we bless our Lord and Father, and with it we curse people who are made in the likeness of God. 10 From the same mouth come blessing and cursing.

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James 3:1-12

How great a forest is set ablaze by such a small fire! And the tongue is a fire, a world of unrighteousness. The tongue is set among our members, staining the whole body, setting on fire the entire course of life, and set on fire by hell. For every kind of beast and bird, of reptile and sea creature, can be tamed and has been tamed by mankind, but no human being can tame the tongue. It is a restless evil, full of deadly poison. With it we bless our Lord and Father, and with it we curse people who are made in the likeness of God. 10 From the same mouth come blessing and cursing.

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James 3:1-12

How great a forest is set ablaze by such a small fire! And the tongue is a fire, a world of unrighteousness. The tongue is set among our members, staining the whole body, setting on fire the entire course of life, and set on fire by hell. For every kind of beast and bird, of reptile and sea creature, can be tamed and has been tamed by mankind, but no HUMAN BEING can tame the tongue. It is a restless evil, full of deadly poison. With it we bless our Lord and Father, and with it we curse people who are made in the likeness of God. 10 From the same mouth come blessing and cursing.

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James 3:1-12

How great a forest is set ablaze by such a small fire! And the tongue is a fire, a world of unrighteousness. The tongue is set among our members, staining the whole body, setting on fire the entire course of life, and set on fire by hell. For every kind of beast and bird, of reptile and sea creature, can be tamed and has been tamed by mankind, but no human being can tame the tongue. It is a restless evil, full of deadly poison. With it we bless our Lord and Father, and with it we curse people who are made in the likeness of God. 10 From the same mouth come blessing and cursing.

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Matthew 5:21-22

21 “You have heard that it was said to those of old, ‘You shall not murder; and whoever murders will be liable to judgment.’ 22 But I say to you that everyone who is angry with his brother will be liable to judgment; whoever insults his brother will be liable to the council; and whoever says, ‘You fool!’ will be liable to the hell of fire.

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  •  Our words can seem insignificant, but their impact is far greater than we recognize.

  • Our words far too often do major damage.

  • Our words are too often rooted in evil.

  • Our words ought to be a consistent expression of our faith in God (in fact they are).

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James 3:1-12

How great a forest is set ablaze by such a small fire! And the tongue is a fire, a world of unrighteousness. The tongue is set among our members, staining the whole body, setting on fire the entire course of life, and set on fire by hell. For every kind of beast and bird, of reptile and sea creature, can be tamed and has been tamed by mankind, but no human being can tame the tongue. It is a restless evil, full of deadly poison. With it we bless our Lord and Father, and with it we curse people who are made in the likeness of God. 10 From the same mouth come blessing and cursing.

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James 3:1-12

My brothers, these things ought not to be so.11 Does a spring pour forth from the same opening both fresh and salt water? 12 Can a fig tree, my brothers, bear olives, or a grapevine produce figs? Neither can a salt pond yield fresh water.

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Matthew 15:11;18-19

11 it is not what goes into the mouth that defiles a person, but what comes out of the mouth; this defiles a person.”

18 But what comes out of the mouth proceeds from the heart, and this defiles a person.

19 For out of the heart come evil thoughts, murder, adultery, sexual immorality, theft, false witness, slander.

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Control.

Death.

Anger.

. Anxiety.

Defensiveness.

Bitterness.

“I couldn’t care less about meeting you!”

“How can I get away from this bore?”

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Implications:

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Implications:

  • Set your Alarm. 3:12 each day. Pray with desperate dependence for God to….

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Implications:

  • Set your Alarm. 3:12 each day. Pray with desperate dependence for God to….
  • Reflect on someone's words to bring life to you.

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Implications:

  • Set your Alarm. 3:12 each day. Pray with desperate dependence for God to….
  • Reflect on someone's words to bring life to you.
  • Is there anyone with whom you have used words destructively? Don’t explain. Don’t excuse. Own it. Seek them out.

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Implications:

  • Set your Alarm. 3:12 each day. Pray with desperate dependence for God to….
  • Reflect on someone's words to bring life to you.
  • Is there anyone with whom you have used words destructively? Don’t explain. Don’t excuse. Own it. Seek them out.
  • Look for opportunities to use words to encourage others this week.

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Words are Forest Fires