The Winners Manual
Chapter One: The Journey of Success!
Goals and Purposes
Success
" Success is peace of mind which is a direct result of self-satisfaction in knowing you did your best to become the best you are capable of becoming."
The Goal Sheet
Each year Coach Tressel had his team fill out a goal sheet to give them guidance in obtaining their goals and reaching their full potential
Chapter Two: The Block O of Life
Purpose Components of The Block O
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The Goals Components of The Block O
Chapter Three: Attitude
"The greatest discovery of my generation is that human beings can alter their lives by altering their attitudes of mind." William James
"Most people are about as happy as they make up their minds to be." Abraham Lincoln
Be where you are
Attitude is your choice
Gratitude
Chapter Four: Discipline
"Those who work the hardest, who subject themselves to the strictest discipline, who gives up certain pleasurable things in order to achieve a goal, are the happiest." Brutus Hamilton
"Start by doing what is necessary, then what is possible, and suddenly you are doing the impossible." St. Francis of Assisi
What is Discipline?
Focus
Be Your Best Where You Are!
Chapter 5: EXCELLENCE
"Everybody thriving to reach their full potential."
EXCELLENCE IN OUR PERSONAL & FAMILY LIVES
EXCELLENCE IN OUR SPIRITUAL & MORAL LIVES
EXCELLENCE IN OUR CARING & GIVING
EXCELLENCE IN ACADEMICS
INCREASE IN EXCELLENCE
COUNTING THE COST OF EXCELLENCE
COUNTING THE COST OF EXCELLENCE
1. Willingness to learn/work hard
2. Humble attitude
3. Passion
4. Timeless effort
REFLECTION
Chapter 6:
FAITH AND BELIEF
Sharon Salzberg
Hebrews 11:1
1.) The faith people have in something bigger than themselves.
2.) The belief they have in themselves and what they are doing.
THE MAIN EVENT
BELIEF
YOUNGSTOWN STATE UNIVERSITY
FAITH IN THE
PUBLIC ARENA
REFLECTION
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CH 7
Work
•“Success doesn’t come to you… you go to it” –Marva Collins
•No matter what you want to do in life, if you want to be successful, you have to work at it
•Football players come in not understanding how much work they actually have to put in
His grandfather
•Was a dairy farmer and never took a day off
•Died at 87, sitting in his rocking chair. He had a heart issue but it didn’t scare him at all
•Continued farming until he couldn’t anymore because he loved what he did
•Although he worked well over 40hrs a week he found the balance between work and family
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“You need something to believe in, someone to love, and something to do”- Tom Landry (Dallas Cowboys)
•Tied his grandfather’s story with how he wanted to continue working for as long as he could
•His grandfather as well as other coaches taught him what it means to work
•He admires other coaches and players for their abilities to work and their passions for what they do
Work is a gift from God
•God gave people meaningful work to do from the beginning
•Anything good in life takes effort
•None of the elements in the Block O can be accomplished without work
•Work is required in all phases of life
OSU Winners Manual
•Provide an in-season weekly schedule
•Outline rules of personal conduct
•One guideline:
–Not to stay out after 10pm (nothing good is going to happen after 10pm; no plan, no idea, nothing.)
•No drug use- the only thing that can help improve performance is hard work
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Persistence
•“Whatever you do, do it passionately. Failure is an event, not a person. Every obstacle presents an opportunity…if you’re looking for it. Relax! You only fail when you quit.”
•Persistence is a quality possessed by people who want to achieve
•Focus on the performance, not the performer
•Many people think their lives are defined by what they accomplish or the positions they hold
•Wants players to receive criticism as coming from someone who loves them and wants to help them improve
•Not intended to make players think less of themselves- its all about their performance
•Admits to being wrong when in Ch 4 he told a player “You’re not worth fifteen yards!”
–Still can’t believe he said that
Two types of persistence:
–1. start having doubts and aren’t sure about ourselves or the plan we’ve set but we press on anyway
–2. comes from something deep inside, it’s a part of who you are
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•Told the story of Antonio Smith
–Good in h.s.
–Barely played at OSU his first couple of years
–Worked hard
–Gave him a starting shot & ended up having a storybook year
–Candidate for the Thorpe Award
–Awarded best defensive back
–Named first-team All-Big Ten
–Starting cornerback on NCAA video game
Toughness
•Mental toughness
•Physical toughness
•Moral and ethical challenges
•Doing the right thing when pressured
•Toughness off the field will affect their lives more than the decisions they make on the field
January 1996
•Jermaine Hopkins- Youngstown State
•Altercation outside of his house, he walked outside and got shot and killed
•Very popular, All-American defensive end, set school records, helped team to two national championships
•Was preparing to graduate
•Everyone was very upset by this
•Most difficult and toughest thing he had to deal with but he had to stay strong for his players and Jermaine’s family
•Retired his number- 58
Spring 2006
•Tyson Gentry- OSU
•Punter and wide receiver got hurt on a passing drill, landed funny after catching a pass
•Fractured C4 vertebra; doctors had to fuse C3 and C5 vertebra together
•Has movement in his arms and some upper body but has a goal to walk again
•These situations forced him to handle every day with persistence and toughness
Reflection Questions
•How many people do you know who have fallen into the trap of defining themselves by what they do rather than by who they are?
•What has been the toughest experience of your life?
•How is persistence linked with passion?
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CH 8
Adversity and Success
•Learned more from defeats than he ever has from victories
•The takeaway value of losses is so much greater
•Same for every team he has ever coached
•The knowledge he has gained from losing has helped him be more successful with winning
Handling it
•More difficult to handle success than adversity because human nature tells us to rest on our glory when we have done well
•“if we get punched in the nose, we have an instinctual desire to fight back”
•Doesn’t work the same when we’ve been successful
–More ripe for a fall when you get puffed up
Be Prepared for Adversity
•Learn to embrace learning and growing so adversity, when it comes, will be used as a stepping stone to the success we desire
•If you don’t know how, adversity will be taken defensively and will miss the opportunity to develop from it
•When we are successful, it is not uncommon to bask in the glory
•Put great quotes and reminders in The Winners Manual to help encourage his players and help keep them humble
Potential Pitfalls of Success
•“Success is a lousy teacher. It makes smart people think they can’t lose”- Bill Gates
•When success clouds our heads, this is usually when “David beats Goliath”
•Can distract you from your goals and plans
•Sometimes losing can be seen as a breath of fresh air, for you to realize what you need to improve on and come back stronger
Learning from Adversity
3-step process to ensure they respond positively to adversity on the field
1.Learn from it
2.Learn specifically what the right way is
3.Practice visualizing the right way until your consciousness accepts a picture of yourself performing correctly
•2005 season started the season off with 3-2 record, which he was disappointed with
•However the team came together and proved themselves the rest of the season
•Ended up beating Miami in the BCS national-championship because of their dedication and hard work that year
Reflection Questions
•Do you believe you can learn more from a loss than a win?
•What life situations pop into your mind when you think about adversity and success?
•Has there ever been a situation where you wanted to give up but hung in there?
Chapter 9: Love
"Concern for man and his fate must form the chief interest of all technical endeavors....Never forget that in the midst of your diagrams and equations." -Albert Einstein
Commitment
Commitment is the key to every relationship. Whatever team you're on, whether it's a marriage, a family, a work team, or a sports team, in order to achieve whatever goals you've set, you must be bound together by a love that exhibits itself in extreme commitment and the laying down of one's life for the common good.
The failure to commit ourselves is evident in so many aspects of our society. People want to be "cool" rather than committed.
What do you think?
Do you agree with Dr. Spurgeon when he says that there is a lack of commitment in our society? How do you personally deal with this issue?
Play better than you are
One of Doc Spurgeon's favorite sayings to players:
"All I ask is that you play better that you are. As an individual and as a team, play better than you are. You may not win. But that's all I'm asking. And for you to play better than you are means you're not playing just for yourself. you're playing for the man on each side of you, on ther other side of the ball, your coaches, the people cheering you on. You will forget being tired. You will not be tired. You will play better than you are. But you cannot do that unless you have love."
Love Must be a lifestyle
What do you think?
Loving and caring seem to be easier for some people than for others? Do you think it is difficult as an athlete to demonstrate and believe in these emotions/chacteristics?
Chapter 10: Responsibility
Integrity and Truth
"There is a choice you have to make in everything you do. So keep in mind that in the end, the choice you make, makes you." -John Wooden
Class
What do you think?
What athlete's today show the most class? Why?
Guarding your Tongue
"Watch your tongue and keep your mouth shut, and you will stay out of trouble" -Proverbs 21:23
The Honor Code
The truth of the matter is that you always know the right thing to do. The hard part is doing it. As a member of the Ohio State football team/family, I will abide by this quote at all times in order to represent myself, my family, my teammates with the highest degree of class and dignity.
What do you think?
Do you think that the honor code is important and actually reflects the players attitudes and actions?
The Winners Manual�Chapter 11�Team
“Don’t be concerned for your own good but for the good of others”
Human Knot- Activity
GREAT TEAMS ARE UNSELFISH
RELATING YOUR GOALS TO THE TEAM
YOUR NOT JUST PLAYING FOR YOURSELF OR YOUR TEAM BUT FOR EVERYONE WHO SUPPORTS YOU.
�Hope
-VACLAV HAVEL, DISTURBING THE PEACE
Hope
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THERE IS A CHOICE YOU HAVE TO MAKEIN EVERYTHING YOU DO.
SO KEEP IN MIND THAT IN THE END,
THE CHOICE YOU MAKE, MAKES YOU