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Cassi Gray

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Who are we: What is a church?

do I like?

What do I get?

am I comfortable?

Is the mission right?

do captain and staff take orders from God?

will I have significant opportunities to contribute?

At Hillcrest, every guest becomes a connected, serving member.

Greater Connection 🡪 Greater Joy

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We desire to increasingly model and give our faith away to future generations, so they have what we have.

  • Impacts our Campus. Our campus team will reengage Building God’s Way.

  • Impacts our Staffing. Jack will be stepping into vacant Communications director role.

  • Impacts our Ministry Structures. Multi-generational community and God’s heart for human sexuality.

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A STUDY THROUGH

THE BOOK OF JAMES

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What James has said thus far…

  • Count it all joy when you meet trials…
  • If we lack wisdom, ask God…
  • Be doers of the word, not hearers only…
  • If we don't bridle our tongue our religion is worthless…
  • Faith without works is dead…
  • Tongue can create a forest fire…
  • Wisdom flows from faith…
  • Don't speak evil against one another…
  • …guilty of judging God…
  • Focus on Jesus' return-be patient…

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James 5:7-12

Be patient, therefore, brothers, until the coming of the Lord. See how the farmer waits for the precious fruit of the earth, being patient about it, until it receives the early and the late rains. You also, be patient. Establish your hearts, for the coming of the Lord is at hand. Do not grumble against one another, brothers, so that you may not be judged; behold, the Judge is standing at the door. 10 As an example of suffering and patience, brothers, take the prophets who spoke in the name of the Lord. 

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James 5:7-12

11 Behold, we consider those blessed who remained steadfast. You have heard of the steadfastness of Job, and you have seen the purpose of the Lord, how the Lord is compassionate and merciful.

12 But above all, my brothers, do not swear, either by heaven or by earth or by any other oath, but let your “yes” be yes and your “no” be no, so that you may not fall under condemnation.

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  • Are all oaths improper?

  • What kind of oaths is James talking about?

  • What's wrong with these oaths?

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The prevalence of lying.

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Starts early – Eden fake cries

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Men lie more about themselves

– women lie

more to protect others

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What types of lies do people tell the most?  

People mainly tell little white lies. 88.6 % of reported lies in the study were described as “little white lies,” and 11.4 % were characterized as “big lies.” An example of a “little white lie” would be saying you like a gift you really don't, and an example of a “big lie” would be insincerely declaring "I love you" to someone.

https://www.uwlax.edu/currents/how-often-do-people-lie/ 

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How often to people lie?  

it is estimated that 60% of adults can not have a ten minute conversation without lying at least once. 

https://brandongaille.com/24-nose-growing-statistics-on-lying/

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Why do people lie?

  • To hurt another person and shift blame.
  • To protect another person and be nice.
  • To impress or appear more favorable.
  • For personal benefit or gain in order to get my way.
  • To avoid others/confrontation.

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Why do people lie?

Culture says, “If you’re really going to be happy, be free from any commitments.”

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James 5:7-12

12 But above all, my brothers, do not swear, either by heaven or by earth or by any other oath, but let your “yes” be yes and your “no” be no, so that you may not fall under condemnation.

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  • Are all oaths improper?

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James 5:7-12

12 But above all, my brothers, do not swear, either by heaven or by earth or by any other oath, but let your “yes” be yes and your “no” be no, so that you may not fall under condemnation.

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  • Are all oaths improper?
    • God makes oaths

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Deuteronomy 4:31

31 For the Lord your God is a merciful God. He will not leave you or destroy you or forget the covenant with your fathers that he swore to them.

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Deuteronomy 7:7-8

7 It was not because you were more in number than any other people that the Lord set his love on you and chose you, for you were the fewest of all peoples, 8 but it is because the Lord loves you and is keeping the oath that he swore to your fathers, that the Lord has brought you out with a mighty hand and redeemed you from the house of slavery, from the hand of Pharaoh king of Egypt.

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  • Are all oaths improper?
    • God makes oaths
    • God commands oaths

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Exodus 22:10-11

10 “If a man gives to his neighbor a donkey or an ox or a sheep or any beast to keep safe, and it dies or is injured or is driven away, without anyone seeing it, 11 an oath by the Lord shall be between them both to see whether or not he has put his hand to his neighbor's property. The owner shall accept the oath, and he shall not make restitution.

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  • Are all oaths improper?
    • God makes oaths
    • God commands oaths
    • Forbidden to make false oaths

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Leviticus 19:12

12 You shall not swear by my name falsely, and so profane the name of your God: I am the Lord.

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  • Are all oaths improper?
    • God makes oaths
    • God commands oaths
    • Forbidden to make false oaths
    • Jesus asked to make an oath

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Matthew 26:63-65

63 But Jesus remained silent. And the high priest said to him, “I adjure you by the living God, tell us if you are the Christ, the Son of God.” 64 Jesus said to him, “You have said so. But I tell you, from now on you will see the Son of Man seated at the right hand of Power and coming on the clouds of heaven.” 65 Then the high priest tore his robes and said, “He has uttered blasphemy. What further witnesses do we need? You have now heard his blasphemy.

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  • Are all oaths improper?
    • God makes oaths
    • God commands oaths
    • Forbidden to make false oaths
    • Jesus asked to make an oath
    • Paul makes oaths

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1 Thessalonians 2:3-5

3 For our appeal does not spring from error or impurity or any attempt to deceive, 4 but just as we have been approved by God to be entrusted with the gospel, so we speak, not to please man, but to please God who tests our hearts. 5 For we never came with words of flattery, as you know, nor with a pretext for greed—God is witness.

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Philippians 1:8

8 For God is my witness, how I yearn for you all with the affection of Christ Jesus.

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  • Are all oaths improper?

  • What kind of oaths is James talking about?

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James 5:7-12

12 But above all, my brothers, do not swear, either by heaven or by earth or by any other oath, but let your “yes” be yes and your “no” be no, so that you may not fall under condemnation.

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James 5:7-12

12 But above all, my brothers, do not swear, either by heaven or by earth or by any other oath, but let your “yes” be yes and your “no” be no, so that you may not fall under condemnation.

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Matthew 23:16-22

16 “Woe to you, blind guides, who say, ‘If anyone swears by the temple, it is nothing, but if anyone swears by the gold of the temple, he is bound by his oath.’ 17 You blind fools! For which is greater, the gold or the temple that has made the gold sacred? 18 And you say, ‘If anyone swears by the altar, it is nothing, but if anyone swears by the gift that is on the altar, he is bound by his oath.’

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Matthew 23:16-22

19 You blind men! For which is greater, the gift or the altar that makes the gift sacred? 20 So whoever swears by the altar swears by it and by everything on it. 21 And whoever swears by the temple swears by it and by him who dwells in it. 22 And whoever swears by heaven swears by the throne of God and by him who sits upon it.

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Matthew 5:33-37

33 “Again you have heard that it was said to those of old, ‘You shall not swear falsely, but shall perform to the Lord what you have sworn.’ 34 But I say to you, Do not take an oath at all, either by heaven, for it is the throne of God, 35 or by the earth, for it is his footstool, or by Jerusalem, for it is the city of the great King. 36 And do not take an oath by your head, for you cannot make one hair white or black. 37 Let what you say be simply ‘Yes’ or ‘No’; anything more than this comes from evil. 

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What kind of oaths is James talking about?

  • I swear on all that is holy…
  • To tell you the truth
  • To be honest with you…
  • Swear on my grandmother's grave
  • Swear on my child's life
  • I didn't promise
  • I didn't sign my name

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What kind of oaths is James talking about?

  • I promised Hudson I’d print off Among us characters.
  • I promised the kids I would make smores with them Sunday night.
  • When I don’t know the answer, but I manipulate and blabber on vs simply saying, “I don’t know.”
  • I promised a friend I’d help them move, but in my heart, I do not want to do that.
  • I promised that I would go to dinner Saturday night, but BETTER plans came up last minute.
  • I’ve promised God I won’t (BLANK) and yet to continue…

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What kind of oaths is James talking about?

“SAYING one thing and DOING another. DOING one thing and THINKING another.”

- Tim Keller.

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  • Are all oaths improper?

  • What kind of oaths is James talking about?

  • What's wrong with these oaths?

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Why do people lie?

  • To hurt another person and shift blame.
  • To protect another person and be nice.
  • To impress or appear more favorable.
  • For personal benefit or gain in order to get my way.
  • To avoid others/confrontation.

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What's wrong with these oaths?

  • Using them comes with a variety of costs.
    • Identity theft
    • Education system
    • Legal system
    • Personal and professional relationships
    • Spiritually

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James 5:7-12

12 But above all, my brothers, do not swear, either by heaven or by earth or by any other oath, but let your “yes” be yes and your “no” be no, so that you may not fall under condemnation.

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What's wrong with these oaths?

  • Using them comes with a variety of costs…
  • Using them implies that it is appropriate to speak with different degrees of truthfulness.
  • Using them illustrates that others ought to assume we speak less truthfully.
  • Using them conveys we don't ultimately trust God.

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What's wrong with these oaths?Using them conveys we don't ultimately trust God.

Insecurity 🡪 lying = blame/defensive

Security 🡪 integrity = vulnerability

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Take-aways:

  • Is there is a relationship in which you have shaded the truth?

  • Confess and address and commit to living with integrity in all of life where your yes is yes and your no is no as a reflection of your faith.

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