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CA NITIN PATHAK

Past PRESIDENT ISACA CHAPTER AHMEDABAD

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Gujarat Samachar : Cooling period in separation not mandatory.

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Gujarat Samachar : Cooling period in separation not mandatory.

Points covered:

  1. Where to File the Case (Jurisdiction)
  2. Mutual consent v/s contested separation
  3. Provision of act

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Where to File the Case (Jurisdiction)

A divorce petition must be filed in the Family Court where�

  • The marriage was solemnized (where the wedding took place).
  • The couple last lived together as husband and wife
  • The respondent (the other spouse) currently resides.
  • The wife currently resides (often a common choice for convenience)�

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Option A: Mutual Consent Divorce (The Faster Route)

Mutual Consent:

This is the most amicable way to separate.

It generally takes 6 to 18 months, though recent Supreme Court rulings allow the "cooling-off" period to be waived in specific cases.

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Option A: Mutual Consent Divorce (The Faster Route)

Step-by-Step Process:

  • Joint Petition: Both spouses file a joint petition stating they have been living separately for at least one year and cannot live together anymore.
  • First Motion: Both parties appear before the judge to record their statements. If satisfied, the court passes the "First Motion.“
  • Cooling-Off Period: A mandatory 6-month waiting period is given for potential reconciliation.
  • Second Motion: After 6 months (and before 18 months), both parties appear again to confirm their decision.
  • Final Decree: The judge grants the divorce decree, legally dissolving the marriage

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Option B: Contested Divorce (One-Sided)

  • Filing the Petition: One spouse files a petition through a lawyer detailing the grounds and facts.
  • Court Notice (Summons): The court sends a formal notice to the other spouse to appear and respond.
  • Response/Written Statement: The other spouse filed a reply, either admitting or denying the allegations.
  • Mandatory Mediation: Most Family Courts refer the couple to a mediation center to see if a settlement (or mutual divorce) is possible.
  • Evidence & Trial: If mediation fails, both sides present evidence, documents, and�witnesses. This includes cross-examination by lawyers.
  • Final Arguments & Judgment: After hearing both sides, the judge decides whether to grant the divorce decree.

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Essential Documents Required

  • Marriage Proof: Original Marriage Certificate or wedding invitation card/photographs.
  • Identity Proof: Aadhaar Card, PAN Card, or Passport of both parties.
  • Address Proof: Utility bills or rent agreements.
  • Financial Records: Salary slips, Income Tax Returns (last 3 years), and details of assets (for alimony/maintenance calculations).
  • Photographs: Recent passport-sized photos and 2-3 wedding photos.
  • Children’s Documents: Birth certificates (if custody is an issue).

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Key Considerations for 2026

  • Alimony & Maintenance: Courts now emphasize "Standard of Living." Both spouses may be required to file an Affidavit of Assets and Liabilities at the start of the case.
  • Child Custody: The "Welfare of the Child" is the supreme factor. Joint custody and visitation rights are becoming more common than sole custody.
  • Irretrievable Breakdown: While not yet a standalone "ground" in the Act, the Supreme Court frequently uses its powers to grant divorces where the marriage is "dead" beyond repair.

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Strategy and Feasibility

  • Case Assessment: Based on my specific situation, do you recommend filing for Mutual Consent or a Contested Divorce?
  • Grounds for Divorce: If we proceed with a contested divorce, which legal grounds (cruelty, desertion, etc.) are strongest in my case?
  • Mediation: How does the court-mandated mediation process work in this specific Family Court, and how should I conduct myself during those sessions?
  • Waiver of Waiting Period: Given our timeline of separation, can we move an application to waive the 6-month "cooling-off" period?

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Financial and Asset Matters

  • Alimony/Maintenance: Based on the Affidavit of Assets and Liabilities, what is the likely range of interim maintenance or permanent alimony?
  • Asset Division: How will joint assets (bank accounts, lockers, real estate) and streedhan (gifts/jewelry given to the wife) be handled by the court?
  • Tax Implications: What are the tax treatments for a lump-sum alimony settlement versus monthly maintenance payments?
  • Interim Orders: Can we apply for an interim order for maintenance or protection of assets while the case is pending?

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Child Custody (if applicable)

  • Custody Type: Given the current judicial trends, is the court likely to grant Joint Custody or Sole Custody with Visitation?
  • Visitation Rights: What does a typical "visitation schedule" look like (weekends, holidays, school vacations)?
  • Child Support: How does the court calculate the financial contribution required from each parent for the child’s education and upbringing?
  • Physical Custody: The child shall reside primarily with [Party Name].
  • Legal Custody: Both parents shall have Joint Legal Custody, meaning both must agree on education, major medical decisions, and international travel.
  • Visitation Rights: [Party Name] shall have visitation every [e.g., 2nd and 4th Saturday from 10 AM to 6 PM].
  • Child Support: Party 1/2 shall pay ₹[Amount] per month toward the child's education and welfare until the child reaches the age of 18/21.

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Procedural and Logistical

  • Timeline: Realistic expectations—how long does this specific court usually take to reach a final decree for cases like mine?
  • Personal Appearance: How many times will I be required to physically appear in court versus my lawyer appearing on my behalf?
  • Virtual Hearings: Does this Family Court allow for VC (Video Conferencing) for recording statements if I or my spouse are traveling or in another city?

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Chronological Summary of Marriage

Date / Period

Event / Milestone

Brief Description / Details

DD/MM/YYYY

Date of Marriage

Solemnized at (City/Venue) as per (Hindu/Special) Marriage Act.

DD/MM/YYYY

Cohabitation

Moved into (Address of the matrimonial home).

DD/MM/YYYY

Birth of Child(ren)

(Name/Age) - Mention if applicable.

Period

Key Disputes

Brief mention of major turning points or instances of friction.

DD/MM/YYYY

Date of Separation

The date you or your spouse moved out or stopped living as a couple.

DD/MM/YYYY

Legal Notices

Mention if any police complaints or lawyer notices were previously sent.

Current

Present Status

Current residence of both parties and the child.

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Comprehensive Statement of Assets & Liabilities

Part A: Personal Income

  • Annual Income: Gross and Net (after tax) for the last 3 financial years.
  • Source of Income: Professional practice, salary, rental income, or dividends.
  • Monthly Expenses: Rent, insurance premiums, household staff, and lifestyle costs.

Part B: Immovable Assets

  • Self-Owned Property: Location, current market value, and ownership share (e.g., 50% joint).
  • Ancestral Property: Any interest in HUF (Hindu Undivided Family) properties or inherited land.
  • Liabilities: Outstanding Home Loan balances and EMI details.

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Comprehensive Statement of Assets & Liabilities

Part C: Movable Assets (The "Financial Portfolio")

  • Bank Balances: Current and Savings account balances.
  • Investments: Value of Stocks, Mutual Funds, FDs, and PPF.
  • Gold/Jewelry: Weight and approximate value (specifically track Streedhan).
  • Vehicles: Make, model, and year of purchase.
  • Insurance: Surrender value of LIC or other life insurance policies.�

Part D: Child-Related Expenses (If applicable)

  • Education: School/College fees and extracurricular costs.
  • Medical: Regular health insurance or ongoing medical needs.�

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Evidence Checklist (To Attach)

  • Financials: Last 3 years of ITRs, Form 16s, and 6 months of Bank Statements.
  • Identity: Copy of Marriage Certificate, Aadhaar, and PAN.
  • Communications: Relevant screenshots of messages or emails (if filing for a contested divorce).

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For Mutual Consent Divorce

  • Section 13B(1) of HMA: To file the initial joint petition (First Motion). It requires you to state that you have lived separately for at least one year.
  • Section 13B(2) of HMA:To file the Second Motion after the 6-month cooling-off period.
  • Waiver of Period: There is no specific "section" for a waiver, but you apply for it based on the Supreme Court judgment in Amardeep Singh v. Harveen Kaur (2017).

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For Contested Divorce (One-Sided)

  • Section 13(1): This is the "header" section for all contested divorces.
  • Section 13(1)(ia): Cruelty (Mental or Physical).
  • Section 13(1)(ib): Desertion (Separated for at least 2 continuous years).
  • Section 13(1)(i): Adultery.
  • Section 13(1)(ii): Conversion to another religion.
  • Section 13(1)(iii): Unsoundness of mind/mental disorder.

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. Financial Support (Alimony & Maintenance)

  • Section 24 of HMA: Interim Maintenance (Maintenance Pendente Lite). This is for support while the case is still going on. Both husbands and wives can apply for this if they lack independent income.
  • Section 25 of HMA: Permanent Alimony. This is the final settlement amount (lump sum or monthly) decided at the time of the decree.
  • Section 125 of CrPC (now BNSS): A separate provision for maintenance that can be filed even without filing for divorce.

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Children and Property

  • Section 26 of HMA: For the Custody, Maintenance, and Education of minor children.
  • Section 27 of HMA: For the disposal of property presented at or about the time of marriage (Joint property or Streedhan).

Comparison: If Married under Special Marriage Act, 1954:

  • Section 28: Mutual Consent Divorce.
  • Section 27: Grounds for Contested Divorce.
  • Section 36: Interim Maintenance (only the wife can claim this under this specific Act).
  • Section 37: Permanent Alimony.

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Mandatory Identity & Residency Proofs

  • Aadhaar Card (Updated with current address).
  • PAN Card (Mandatory for financial disclosures).
  • Passport / Voter ID (Secondary identification).
  • Recent Passport-Sized Photographs (Carry at least 4-6 copies).

Proof of Marriage:

  • Marriage Certificate: The original issued by the Registrar of Marriages.
  • Wedding Photographs: 2-3 clear photos showing the couple performing marriage rites
  • Wedding Invitation Card: The original physical card or a printed digital copy.
  • Affidavit of Marriage: Only required if no certificate is available.

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Evidence for Grounds (For Contested Divorce)

  • Medical Records: Any hospital records or psychiatric evaluations if mental/physical cruelty is alleged.
  • Police Records: Copies of any FIRs or complaints filed at a local station (e.g., NC - Non-Cognizable reports).
  • Digital Evidence: Printed copies of relevant WhatsApp chats, emails, or call logs (Note: These may later require a Section 65B Certificate under the Evidence Act).

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STATEMENT OF CASE:

General Profile

  • Petitioner (You): [Name, Age, Occupation/Firm Name, Current City]
  • Respondent (Spouse): [Name, Age, Occupation, Current City]
  • Marriage Date: [DD/MM/YYYY] | Marriage Place: [City, State]
  • Marriage Law: [e.g., Hindu Marriage Act / Special Marriage Act]
  • Children: [Name, Age] | Currently residing with: [You/Spouse]

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Timeline of Separation

  • Date of Physical Separation: [DD/MM/YYYY] (The date you stopped living together).
  • Duration of Separation: [e.g., 14 Months]
  • Current Living Arrangement: [e.g., Petitioner is in Ahmedabad; Respondent is in Mumbai].

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Core Issues & Conflict (Briefly)

  • Primary Conflict: [e.g., Irreconcilable differences regarding lifestyle, financial disputes, or specific instances of cruelty].
  • Previous Attempts at Resolution: [e.g., Attended 3 family counseling sessions in 2025; Elders' mediation failed on Oct 2025].
  • Legal Standing: [e.g., We have mutually agreed to separate / I wish to file for contested divorce based on desertion].

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Financial Position (High-Level)

  • Petitioner’s Income: [Annual Gross Income]
  • Respondent’s Income: [Approximate Annual Income, if known]
  • Major Joint Assets: [e.g., Flat in Ahmedabad (Jointly owned), Joint Savings Account at SBI].
  • Alimony/Maintenance Preference: [e.g., Seeking one-time lump sum settlement / Willing to pay X amount / No alimony claimed].

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Desired Outcome & Objectives

  • Status: [Mutual Consent Divorce / Contested Decree].
  • Child Custody: [e.g., Seeking Joint Custody with weekend visitation rights].
  • Property: [e.g., Transfer of the respondent's 50% share in the house to the petitioner].
  • Timeline: [e.g., Aiming for a fast-track resolution via waiver of the cooling-off period].

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The Mandatory "Affidavit of Disclosure"

  • Standardized Format: You cannot use a random letter; the court provides a specific 10-15 page proforma (Annexure A, B, or C depending on whether you are salaried, self-employed, or an agriculturist).
  • Duty of Full Disclosure: You must disclose all sources of income, including global assets, crypto, and interest in family businesses.
  • Consequences of Hiding: If a party is found to be suppressing income, the court can draw an "adverse inference" and may strike off their defense or even initiate perjury proceedings.

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Criteria for Determining Quantum

  • The "Standard of Living": The court aims to ensure the dependent spouse lives in a manner similar to what they enjoyed during the marriage.
  • The "Rajnesh Factor": The court balances the capacity to pay (husband's income) vs. the genuine needs (wife/child's expenses).
  • Education & Employability: If a spouse is highly qualified but chose not to work to support the family, the court considers their "earning capacity" but doesn't force them to work immediately.

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Process: Child vs. No Child

Feature

Divorce with No Children

Divorce with Children

Primary Focus

Division of assets and alimony.

Child custody, visitation, and maintenance.

Court Involvement

Usually limited to verifying the grounds/consent.

High. The court may appoint a Child Counselor or Welfare Officer.

Key Document

Separation Agreement / MoU.

Parenting Plan (detailing education, health, and holidays).

Custody Types

Not applicable.

Physical (living with), Legal (decision-making), or Joint.

Maintenance

Only for the spouse.

Spousal Alimony + Child Support (separate calculations).

Timeline

Generally faster (especially in Mutual Consent).

Can be longer if custody is contested; court needs "Social Investigation Reports."

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Alimony: Working vs. Non-Working Wife

If the Wife is Working:�Income Disparity: If the wife earns ₹50,000 but the husband earns ₹5,00,000, she is still entitled to alimony. The court's goal is to bridge the gap so she can maintain the lifestyle she was accustomed to during the marriage.

  • Not a Bar to Alimony: Just because a woman is "earning" doesn't mean she isn't entitled to support. However, her income will be "set off" against her total needs.
  • Capacity vs. Actual Earning: If a highly qualified wife (e.g., a CA or Engineer) is intentionally staying unemployed to claim more money, the court may consider her "earning capacity" and grant a lower amount.

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Alimony: Working vs. Non-Working Wife

If the Wife is Not Working:�Standard of Living: This is the "Gold Standard." If the matrimonial home was a luxury bungalow and the husband has a high income, the alimony will be substantial to ensure she doesn't face a sudden drop in lifestyle.��Rehabilitative Alimony: The court may grant higher maintenance for a fixed period to help her get back on her feet, update her skills, or find employment.��Sacrifice Factor: The court considers whether she gave up her career to raise the family or support the husband's professional growth.

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The Legal Standing of Notarized Divorce

  • Ministry of Law & Justice Directive (Oct 2024): The Government of India issued a specific memorandum warning Notaries that executing divorce deeds is "professional misconduct.“
  • Judicial View: The Supreme Court and various High Courts (including the Gujarat High Court) have repeatedly held that "Notary Divorce" is not a valid legal divorce. The marriage remains 100% legally intact in the eyes of the law.

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Serious Risks of "Notary Divorce"

  • Bigamy Charges: If either of you remarries, it is legally considered Bigamy (a criminal offense under the BNS/IPC), as the first marriage was never legally dissolved.
  • Passport & Visa Issues: Government authorities (like the Passport Office) and foreign embassies will reject notarized deeds. They strictly require a "Decree of Divorce" from a Family Court.
  • Succession & Inheritance: If one spouse passes away, the other still retains legal heirship rights (as a widow/widower), which can lead to massive litigation for your children or other heirs.
  • Alimony Enforcement: A notarized agreement for alimony is difficult to enforce. If the payer stops paying, you cannot easily move the court for "contempt" as you could with a court order.

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The "Fast-Track" Legal Route:

  • File under Section 13B: Convert your mutual agreement into a Joint Petition for Mutual Divorce in the Family Court.
  • Refer to the Agreement: Attach your notarized document to the petition to show the judge that alimony and assets are already settled.
  • Waiver Application: Since you have already reached a settlement, your lawyer can move a "Waiver Application" to skip the 6-month cooling-off period (based on the Amardeep Singh judgment), potentially getting your legal decree in just a few weeks.

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Financial Settlement (Alimony)

  • Lump-sum Alimony: Party 1 shall pay a total of ₹[Amount] to Party 2 as full and final settlement towards past, present, and future alimony/maintenance.
  • Payment Schedule: [e.g., 50% on filing the First Motion, and 50% at the time of the Final Decree].
  • Waiver of Further Claims: Both parties hereby waive their rights to any further maintenance or alimony under the HMA, 1955, or Section 125 of CrPC/BNSS.

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Distribution of Assets (The "Financial Audit")

  • Immovable Property: [e.g., The flat located at (Address) shall remain the sole property of Party 1. Party 2 shall sign the release deed within 15 days of this MoU].
  • Movable Assets: All joint bank accounts, lockers, and investments (Mutual Funds/Stocks) have been liquidated and divided as follows: [Detail the split].
  • Streedhan/Jewelry: Party 2 confirms she has received all her jewelry and personal belongings, and no claims remain.

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Withdrawal of Pending Litigations

  • Both parties agree to withdraw all pending civil or criminal cases (if any) filed against each other or their family members, including but not limited to [list any FIRs or Domestic Violence cases].

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Section 13(1)(ia): Cruelty (Mental or Physical)

  • Physical Cruelty: Direct bodily harm, assault, or threats to life.
  • Mental Cruelty (The modern focus): * False Allegations: Making baseless accusations of adultery or filing false police complaints (498A) against the spouse or their family.
  • Financial Cruelty: Withholding basic financial support or intentionally sabotaging a spouse’s professional career.
  • Social Humiliation: Publicly insulting the spouse or using derogatory language in front of relatives/colleagues.
  • Denial of Intimacy: Persistent and unjustified refusal of sexual intercourse (unless for medical reasons).

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Section 13(1)(ib): Desertion (2 Continuous Years)

  • The Fact of Separation: You must have lived in separate houses (or separate parts of the house with no interaction) for at least 2 continuous years immediately before filing.
  • Animus Deserendi (Intention): You must prove the other spouse intended to abandon the marriage permanently.
  • Lack of Consent: The separation was not a mutual "trial separation" but was forced by one side.
  • No Reasonable Cause: The spouse left without any valid reason (e.g., they weren't forced out by domestic violence).

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Section 13(1)(i): Adultery

  • Burden of Proof: Since direct evidence (like photographs of the act) is rare, courts accept Circumstantial Evidence.
  • Evidence Examples: * The birth of a child when there was "non-access" between the husband and wife for over a year.
  • Frequent visits to hotels or private residences with a "paramour" without a valid explanation.
  • DNA Tests: As of 2026, courts more readily allow DNA tests of a child to prove non-paternity as a way to establish adultery.

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. Section 13(1)(ii): Conversion

  • The Rule: If a spouse ceases to be a "Hindu" (which includes Sikhs, Jains, and Buddhists under the Act) by converting to a religion like Islam, Christianity, etc.
  • The Catch: Only the non-converting spouse can file for divorce on this ground. The person who converted cannot use their own conversion as a reason to seek divorce.

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. Section 13(1)(iii): Unsoundness of Mind

  • The Degree: The spouse must be "incurably of unsound mind" or suffering from a "mental disorder" (like Schizophrenia) to such an extent that the other spouse cannot reasonably be expected to live with them.
  • Medical Evidence: You need a board of government-approved doctors to testify to the severity and "incurability" of the condition.

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Comparison of Proof Required

Ground

Primary Type of Evidence

Ease of Proof (1-5)

Cruelty

WhatsApp Chats, Call Logs, Witness Testimony, Police NCs.

3/5 (Subjective)

Desertion

Rent Agreements, Society Letters, 24-month Timeline.

4/5 (Objective)

Adultery

DNA Tests, Hotel Bills, Private Investigator Reports.

2/5 (Difficult)

Conversion

Conversion Certificate, Public Notices.

5/5 (Very High)

Mental Health

Hospital Discharge Summaries, Expert Witness.

2/5 (Highly Technical)

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Section 24 HMA: Interim Maintenance (The "Short-Term Bridge")

  • Key Feature: It is "Pendente Lite" (during the suit). The order automatically expires once the main divorce/separation case is decided.
  • Who can apply: Both Husband and Wife (gender-neutral).

Case Law: Sukhdev Singh v. Sukhbir Kaur (Supreme Court, Feb 2025):

  • The Ruling: The SC clarified that even if a marriage is technically "Void" (e.g., bigamy or prohibited degrees), the court has the discretion to grant interim maintenance under Section 24.

Case Law: Ankit Suman v. State of UP (Allahabad HC, Aug 2025):

  • The Ruling: The court held that if the main divorce proceedings are stayed by a higher court, the husband's liability to pay interim maintenance does not stop. It continues as long as the case is "pending" in the system.

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Section 25 HMA: Permanent Alimony (The "Final Settlement")

  • Key Feature: It can be a lump-sum amount or a monthly payout. The order remains in force until the recipient remarries or there is a significant change in circumstances.
  • Factors: The court considers "Conduct of the parties" and "Income/Property of both parties.“�

Case Law: Sukhdev Singh v. Sukhbir Kaur (Supreme Court, 2025):

  • The Ruling: Reinforced that Section 25 is a "social welfare provision." Even in a void marriage (Section 11), a spouse can claim permanent alimony. The SC emphasized that the term "any decree" in Section 25 includes a decree of nullity

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Section 25 HMA: Permanent Alimony (The "Final Settlement")

Case Law: Aditi @ Mithi v. Jitesh Sharma (Supreme Court, 2023/24)

The Ruling: The SC set aside a High Court order that reduced maintenance without detailed reasoning. It mandated that courts must strictly follow the disclosure guidelines for assets and liabilities to ensure the final amount is not arbitrary.

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Section 144 of BNSS (Formerly Sec 125 CrPC): The "Social Security Net"

The 2026 Legal Change: Since July 2024, Section 125 CrPC is now Section 144 of the BNSS.

Key Feature: It is a faster, quasi-criminal proceeding. Failure to pay can lead to a warrant for arrest and jail time. It is used exclusively for Wives, Children, and Parents (Husbands cannot claim under this section).

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Section 144 of BNSS (Formerly Sec 125 CrPC): The "Social Security Net"

Case Law: Rajnesh v. Neha (Supreme Court, 2020/21) — The "Bible" of Maintenance:

This judgment remains the gold standard in 2026. It established:

  • Mandatory Disclosure: Both parties must file an "Affidavit of Assets and Liabilities" (the standard format you should use).
  • Date of Application: Maintenance must be awarded from the date of filing, not the date of the order.
  • Overlapping Jurisdiction: If you get money under Sec 144 BNSS and then apply for Sec 24 HMA, you must disclose the previous award. The second court will "set off" (adjust) the amount to avoid double payment.

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Comparison for Professional Reference

Provision

Law

Nature

Who can claim?

Section 24

Hindu Marriage Act

Interim / Temporary

Husband or Wife

Section 25

Hindu Marriage Act

Final / Permanent

Husband or Wife

Section 144

BNSS (New CrPC)

Social Security

Wife, Child, Parents only

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A Strategic Framework for 2026

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Financial Settlement

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Divorce is a complex project. A structured approach

is critical for a fair outcome.

The Goal

To achieve a legally final, financially equitable, and emotionally sustainable dissolution of marriage.

2026

The 2026 Context

Courts are more efficient (digital filings), but also more stringent on financial disclosure. The Bharatiya Nagarik Suraksha Sanhita (BNSS), 2023, has updated key procedural laws.

"New procedural framework " for streamlined processes.

The Foundation

A divorce decree can only be granted by a Family Court.

Jurisdiction is key: where the marriage was solemnized, where you last lived together, or where the respondent resides.

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The first decision point: Choosing between a collaborative or an adversarial process.

Feature

MutualConsent Divorce (Sec. 13B, HMA)

Contested Divorce (Sec. 13, HMA)

Premise

Collaborative agreement; no fault assigned.

Adversarial; one party must prove fault.

Typical Timeline

6-18 months (can be fast-tracked).

2-5+ years, involving trial and evidence.

Key Requirement

1+ year of separation and a signed MoU.

Proving grounds like Cruelty or Desertion.

Control

Parties control the outcome and terms.

Judge controls the final decision.

Cost & Stress

Lower

Significantly higher

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A step-by-step process for a collaborative separation.

First Motion

File a joint petition in Family Court (under Sec. 13B HMA). Both parties record their consent before the judge.

Draft MoU

Settle all terms on alimony, assets, and child custody

comprehensive Memorandum of Understanding.

Waiver Option

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6 month period for potential reconciliation.

Second Motion & Decree

Appear again to confirm consent. The court passes the final decree,

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Alimony and maintenance are now determined by a data-driven process.

Standard of Living

The primary goal is to ensure the dependent spouse can maintain the lifestyle they were accustomed to during the marriage.

Earning Capacity & Disparit

The court considers not just actual income, but potential earning capacity. A working wife is still entitled to maintenance if there's a large income disparity.

Child Support is Separate

Child maintenance is a distinct and mandatory obligation, calculated independently of spousal alimony.

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The Rajnesh v. Neha judgment transformed maintenance cases into a financial audit.

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ITRs

Lifestyle

Liabilities

Affidavit of Assets and Liabilities

Bank Statements

PAYCHECK

Salary Slips

Assets

  • The Mandate: Both spouses must file a comprehensive, standardized Affidavit of Assets

and Liabilities. Non-disclosure can lead to striking off the case or perjury charges.

  • Scope of Disclosure:
    • Last 3 years of Income Tax Returns (ITRs).
    • Bank statements (often 12-24 months).
    • Salary slips and professional income details.
    • All assets (property, investments, vehicles, digital assets).
    • All liabilities (loans, EMIs).
    • Lifestyle and expenses.

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Analyst Note: Reconciling your ITR with bank statements and clearly itemizing business vs. personal expenses is crucial to present an accurate 'net disposable income’ to the court. For digital evidence like bank statements, a certificate under Sec. 63 of the Bharatiya Sakshya Adhiniyam (BSA), 2023 is now required.

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Understanding the right legal instrument for each financial need.

Provision

Purpose

° Who Can Claim?

Key Feature (2026)

Sec. 24 HMA

Interim Maintenance: Covers living and litigation costs during the case.

Husband or Wife

Continues even if the main case is stayed by a higher court (Ankit Suman v. State)

Sec. 25 HMA

Permanent Alimony: A final settlement (lump-sum or monthly) at the time of the decree.

Husband or Wife

Can be claimed even if the marriage is declared void (Sukhdev Singh v. Sukhbir Kaur).

Sec. 144 BNSS

Social Security: A fast-track proceeding to prevent destitution. Independent of divorce.

Wife, Child, Parents

Replaces the old Sec. 125 CrPC. Failure to pay can lead to a warrant.

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When children are involved, the court acts as the ultimate guardian.

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Custody Types

  • Physical Custody: Who the child lives with day-to-day.
  • Legal Custody: The right to make major decisions (school, medical). Courts increasingly favor Joint Legal Custody.

Paramount Consideration

The ’Welfare of the Child’ overrides all other factors. The court acts as Parens Parr/ae.

The Parenting Plan

A detailed agreement covering visitation schedules (weekends, holidays), communication protocols, and expense sharing. This is a critical document for the court.

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A notarized agreement does not constitute a legal divorce.

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  • Legal Status: A notarized ’divorce deed’ is legally void and has zero standing. Your marriage remains 100% intact.

Severe Consequences:

  • Bigamy: Remarrying based on this deed is a criminal

offense.

  • Inheritance Rights: Your spouse remains your legal heir.
  • Passport/Visa Rejection: Authorities require a court

decree, not a notarized paper.

Best Practice: Use your notarized agreement as the basis for a Memorandum of Understanding (MoU) to be filed in court for a quick Mutual Consent Divorce under Sec. 13B HMA.

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successful case is built on a foundation of

organized evidence.

  • Financial Disclosure
  • (Rajnesh v. Neha file)
  • 3 years of lTRs with income computation.
  • 12-month bank statements for all accounts.
  • Investment portfolio statements (Stocks, MFs).
  • Loan and liability statements.

  • Evidence for Grounds
  • (for Contested)
    • Relevant emails, messages (with Sec. 63 BSA certificate).
    • Police reports (FIRs/NCs) or medical records, if any.

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Identity & Marriage

  • Aadhaar, PAN, Passport-size Photos.
  • Original Marriage Certificate, Wedding Photos/Invitation.

Proof of Separation (for Mutual

Consent)

  • Separate rent agreements or utility bills.

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first legal consultation should be a strategic assessment.

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Case Strategy: Based on my facts, what is the strongest

path—Mutual or Contested?

Which grounds

are most viable?

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Financial Assessment: What is the likely

range for alimo-

iny/maintenance? How will joint assets and Streedhan be treated?

Child Custody: Is joint or sole custody more likely?

What does a typical visitation schedule from this court look like?

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Timelines & LO/lstics: What is a realistic

timeline? How

many personal appearances will be required?

Professional

Fees:

ls the fee structure flat-rate or per- appearance?

What are the

estimated

ancillary costs?

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Key principles for a professionally managed divorce process.

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Prioritize the MoU

For mutual consent, a detailed Memorandum of Understanding is your single most important document.

It is the blueprint for your divorce decree and prevents future disputes.

Embrace Financial Transparency

The Rajnesh v. Neha affidavit is not optional. Be thorough and honest. Organized financial data gives you a strategic advantage in settlement negotiations.

Always Secure a Court Decree

The final legal document from a Family Court is the only instrument that legally dissolves your marriage and makes your settlement terms enforceable.

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