HEALTH
A Healthy Person is…
…someone who is in shape and beautiful…
Their outsides look fantastic!
onslaught
talk to your daughter before the beauty industry does...
evolution
every girl deserves to feel beautiful just the way she is
no wonder our perception
of beauty is distorted...
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* on a piece of paper, number from 1 - 10 twice,
in two columns, just like this...
in 2 minutes & in any order...
write 10 things you like
about your physical appearance
and 10 things
you wish you could change
about your physical appearance
10 things I like about my appearance
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10 things I wish I could change about my appearance
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- which side was easier to fill?
the “like” side or the “change” side
- generally speaking, who found it easier to fill the “change” side, guys or girls?
why?
many girls struggle with...
liking themselves...
so they put on a false self
maybe you can relate to this song...
or just maybe you need to hear the
words to this song...
Beautiful
by Bethany Dillon
I was so unique
Now I feel skin deep
I count on the make-up to cover it all
Crying myself to sleep cause I cannot keep their attention
I thought I could be strong
But it's killing me
Does someone hear my cry?
I'm dying for new life
[Chorus]
I want to be beautiful
Make you stand in awe
Look inside my heart,
and be amazed
I want to hear you say
Who I am is quite enough
Just want to be worthy of love
And beautiful
Sometimes I wish I was someone other than me
Fighting to make the mirror happy
Trying to find whatever is missing
Won't you help me back to glory
[Chorus]
I want to be beautiful
Make you stand in awe
Look inside my heart,
and be amazed
I want to hear you say
Who I am is quite enough
Just want to be worthy of love
And beautiful
You make me beautiful
You make me stand in awe
You step inside my heart, and I am amazed
I love to hear You say
Who I am is quite enough
You make me worthy of love and beautiful
If being physically healthy doesn’t mean looking like
super model, then what does it mean?
A Healthy Person is…
someone who is popular…lots of friends liked by
others. Right!? Socially, they have it going on!
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If being socially healthy doesn’t mean being popular,
then what does it mean?
A Healthy Person is…
someone who is smart, intelligent, never stressed, great at school!
...an early bout with scarlet fever left him with hearing difficulties in both ears, a malady that would eventually leave him nearly deaf as an adult....
..a hyperactive child, prone to distraction, he was deemed “difficult” by his teacher. His mother quickly pulled him from school and taught him at home...
“Our greatest weakness lies in giving up. The most certain way to succeed is always to try just one more time.”
“The three great essentials to achieve anything worth while are: Hard work, Stick-to-itiveness, and Common sense.”
“I have not failed. I've just found 10,000 ways that won't work.”
“Tthe boy was, and remained, a reluctant talker for quite some years, and, until the age of about seven, used to repeat his sentences to himself softly, a habit which contributed to the impression he might be somewhat dull.”
“After one year of homeschooling, he was sent to primary school, entering second grade already at age 6 ½. He may not easily have accommodated himself to the school’s expected mindless obedience and discipline aimed at instilling authoritarian civic virtues. Unable – or unwilling - to provide quick automatic responses, the boy was considered only moderately talented by his teachers.”
“an unsympathetic teacher predicted that he would never get anywhere...”
...he flunked the entrance exam at the Zurich Polytechnic. He left his Munich Gymnasium in the middle of the seventh of nine obligatory high-school years, at the age of 15...
If being mentally healthy doesn’t mean being smart,
then what does it mean?
A Healthy Person is…
I know, I know!!
It must be someone who knows what they believe in, has strong convictions… Right!!!
People who know who or
what to put their FAITH in!
If being spiritually healthy doesn’t mean having a strong belief or does it? What does it mean?
A Healthy Person is…
a well balanced person…
they take care of all four areas...
not focusing on just one or two aspects of their life!
To be healthy, you can’t just focus on one area!
Physically Healthy
Mentally Healthy
Spiritually Healthy
Socially Healthy
A Well Balanced Person
What does your �square look like?
Physical
Spiritual
Social
Mental
PHYSICAL
ME
body
MENTAL
mind
SOCIAL
ability to get along with others
PHYSICAL
body
MENTAL
mind
SOCIAL
ability to get along with others
ME
Emotional
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PHYSICAL
ME
body
MENTAL/emotional
mind
SOCIAL
ability to get along with others
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body
MENTAL
mind
SOCIAL
ability to get along with others
ME
SPIRITUAL
beliefs
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OTHERS
CAREER
DATING
HOBBIES
FRIENDS
FAMILY
COLLEGE
WELLNESS
What is it like to be� physically healthy?
What is it like to be� physically healthy?
Body Types
3 Main Categories of Body Frames
There are other categories such as extra small, extra large…but most people fall into one of these three categories
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Formula to find IDEAL Weight for height and body type
Males
Males
1st 5’ = 106 lbs
Every inch > 5’ + 6 lbs
Small frame = - 10%
Medium frame = Total
Large frame = +10%
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Formula to find IDEAL Weight for height and body type
Females
Females
1st 5’ = 100 lbs
Every inch > 5’ + 5 lbs
Small frame = - 10%
Medium frame = Total
Large frame = +10%
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What is it like to be� physically healthy?
What is it like to be� socially healthy?
What is it like to be� socially healthy?
1. List 3 things you most admire about this friend.
2. Do you feel close to this friend even if you don’t see him or her every day? Explain why or why not.
3. Can you trust this friend? Give 2 examples of times you’ve trusted her or him.
4. Has this friend ever let you down? Give examples of times this has happened.
5. Could you forgive this friend for letting you down or disappointing you. Explain.
What is it like to be� mentally healthy?
What is it like to be� spiritually healthy?
What is it like to be� spiritually healthy?
What is it like to be� spiritually healthy?
Answer three questions:
(question of origin)
2. What am I doing here?
(question of purpose)
3. Where am I going?
(question of destiny)
How stable is your table?
BODY
BELIEFS
MIND
OTHERS
CAREER
DATING
HOBBIES
FRIENDS
FAMILY
COLLEGE
Finances
Assessing Your Health
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Strength
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