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From Mindfulness to Resilience: �I Know I’m Anxious, Now What?

Roxanne Farwick Owens, PhD

DePaul University

John P. Owens, R.N., MS-MENP, ONS/ONCC

Rosalind Franklin University

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Who Are We

Roxanne Owens:

  • DePaul College of Education

faculty member for 33 years

  • Chair of Teacher Education for 14 years
  • Literacy and Curriculum

courses

  • Terrible bowler

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Who We Are

  • John Owens:
    • Currently Assistant Clinical Professor at

Rosalind Franklin University,

    • Previously Inpatient Oncology Nurse during Covid 19.
    • Med Surgery floor nurse
    • Business career before that

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Does This Look Familiar?

Hi Professor,

I am in your Thursday class. I am in the process of moving and it is very stressful. I am also rushing for a sorority this week and that has also made me stressed because I really want to expand my circle of friends and be in this sorority because they do a lot of service work. So I will not be in class this week as I will need extra time to do my assignment and move. I know I told you I would have last week’s assignment ready this week but my cat was sick and that was very emotional for me since I have had her since middle school. Thank you for understanding. (name withheld)

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Or this

Dear Academic Advisor:

My classes are too hard. I have too much reading every week and the exams are very difficult. One professor thinks I have nothing else to do in my life but take her class. My mother wants to talk to her because it is making me not able to sleep at all. But I told her I have an advisor who will do it for her.

(name withheld).

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What We Want

Faculty want to provide a supportive learning environment in which students can meet educational goals and succeed

We want to avoid enabling unhealthy habits that dig the students into deep holes from which they can’t emerge.

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What we Know

An August 2022 study by Sodexo (1) found:

Of the approximately one-third of students who have considered dropping out, 60% cite physical and mental health as their number one reason, up significantly from 2020, replacing financial problems as the top reason.”

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What students think

  • Inside Higher Ed Student Voice Survey

3004 students at 128 institutions (2)

  • This is what students identified as preventing them from being successful
  • (Orange line is ALL STUDENTS)

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Inside Higher Ed/Student Voice Survey (External vs Internal Control)

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�Should we offer mental health days, extended deadlines, modified assignments, etc. when students are concerned about their performance in our class?

Maybe.

Maybe Not.

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What Do We Do?

We’re faculty members. Not Counselors.

How do we help them move forward from

"I have anxiety.”

to

“I have anxiety AND I can move toward resilience."

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Let’s build on an Information Processing Model such as

  • Cognitive Behavior Therapy (3)
    • Activating event → Behavior→ Consequence

    • “People are not disturbed by things themselves, but by the view they take of them.” (Epictetus)

    • “We are what we think. All that we are arises from our thoughts.” (Buddha)

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In other words…

  • There is stuff they control,
  • And there is stuff they don’t control.
  • But the life lesson is don’t sweat the stuff you can’t control.

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The Dichotomy of Control

Happiness and freedom begin with a clear understanding of one principle:

Some things are within our control, and some things are not. It is only after you have faced up to this fundamental rule and learned to distinguish between what you can and can’t control that inner tranquility and outer effectiveness become possible.”

--Epictetus

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Externals and Internals

  • “Trying to control or to change what we can’t control only results in torment.” (externals)

  • “Within our control are our own opinions, aspirations, desires, and our fears because they are directly subject to our influence.” (internals)
                  • Epictetus

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Anxiety has a role in our lives

  • The purpose of anxiety is to tell us when there is real danger around so we can take action to keep ourselves safe.

But FEAR of Anxiety does not!

(And Fear is an Internal we can learn to control)

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Five F’s (4)

FIGHT: can be a physical response to a dangerous situation.

FLIGHT: signal to flee from a dangerous situation

FREEZE: immobile reaction, unable to take action, paralyzed by fear.

FAWN people pleasing, indicating compliance, but doesn’t always follow through

FLOP: mentally and physically unresponsive, actual fainting

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Manifestations In the Classroom

Student may become combative

FIGHT

“Other professors have given me extensions, why won’t you?”

Student may try to get away from the situation

FLIGHT

“The work is too hard in class, I’ll be embarrassed if I give a wrong answer.”

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In the classroom

Student may be overwhelmed

FREEZE

  • “I don’t even know where to start. I should take a couple class sessions off to try to catch up.”
  • “I’ll get started on the work later.” (Never does)

Students has good intentions, but doesn’t have the skills to move ahead

FAWN

“This looks like a lot of work. I’ll meet with the professor and make a plan.”

(Meets with professor to make a plan, usually communicates with professor, is often very polite, but doesn’t turn work in.)

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Faculty response

  • Hello name withheld,

We have been missing you in class. I noticed your last two assignments have not been submitted.As you know I don’t accept late assignments. Let’s set up a time to meet to do some troubleshooting. Perhaps we could talk about how you have parceled out your time during the week for doing schoolwork. Do you have access to all of the course materials? Are there particular parts of the coursework that seem to be stumbling blocks? Let’s set up a meeting within the next week to problem solve together.

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Ultimately

  • We need students to recognize that individuals will ALWAYS face for the REST OF THEIR LIVES:
    • Anxiety
    • Sadness
    • Fear
    • Depression
    • Procrastination
    • Stress
  • And they must learn to deal with it in a healthy way

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Moving Forward

We need to do more than tell students do yoga! Eat well! exercise! Breathe! (though those are good things to do, too)

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In Summary

  • Keep Your Head, Heart, and Feet All in the

same place at the same time and rationally think about what is in your control and what is not in your control.

  • Consider the external and the internal and how

you choose to respond to the events that occur.

  • It is your judgments about events that determine

your happiness.

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Steps

Plan Ahead but don’t Worry Ahead

Take events to their LOGICAL conclusion

Do your honest best at all times, and if you don't, say you didn't; do better next time

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What is the Good Life

  • According to Epictetus, it is centered on 3 main themes
    • Master your desires and fears
    • Perform your duties to yourself and your community
    • Learn to think clearly about yourself and your relations within the larger community.

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Tips from various websites

Model learning from mistakes (yours and when students make mistakes in class)

01

Build community in the classroom

02

Take an interest in the students as people

03

Encourage responsible risks

04

Point out student strengths

05

Take opportunities to build confidence (a positive comment on an assignment, an acknowledgement about an insightful remark in class)

06

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Tips from various websites

Celebrate steps toward success

1

Celebrate perseverance

2

Encourage peer to peer connections during class.

3

Make sure students are aware of various campus resources. And encourage them to actually use the resources.

4

Model resilience by taking care of yourself, sharing (to the extent you are comfortable) how you get through anxious/difficult times.

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For our Philosophy Friends

  • You’ll notice the roots of Stoicism in this presentation.
  • Stoicism is a philosophy, not a religion.
  • Epictetus, Zeno, Aurelius, Seneca—just to name a few.
  • “The Obstacles in the Way” by Ryan Holiday has taken the sports world by storm. (5)

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For our Psychology Friends

  • You will of course notice the nods to

    • Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (Aaron Beck) and
    • Rational Emotive Behavioral Therapy (Albert Ellis)

both of which also have their roots in Stoicism.

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References

  1. 2022-2023 Sodexo Student Lifestyle Survey. Available https://us.sodexo.com/industry/campus/sls.html#contactform
  2. https://www.insidehighered.com/news/2023/03/24/survey-faculty-teaching-style-impedes-academic-success-students-say
  3. Ellis, A (2003)Similarities and differences between rational emotive behavior therapy and cognitive therapy. Journal of Cogitive Psychotherapy, 17(3) 225-240.
  4. https://apn.com/resources/fight-flight-freeze-fawn-and-flop-responses-to-trauma/
  5. https://www.si.com/nfl/2015/12/08/ryan-holiday-nfl-stoicism-book-pete-carroll-bill-belichick
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Thank you

  • Thank you for joining us!

  • Rowens@depaul.edu

  • John.Owens@Rosalindfranklin.edu