DO NOW: Recall from last lesson
Sort the following relationship behaviours into what you think is always, sometimes or never ok.
Always | Sometimes | Never |
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1. Texting to ask where you are
2. Saying you aren’t allowed to see you friends
4. Telling you what to wear
3. Shouting at you
5. Asking you to keep a secret
6. Telling you if you loved them, you’d do what they want
DO NOW: Correct responses
1. Texting to ask where you are
2. Saying you aren’t allowed to see you friends
4. Telling you what to wear
6. Shouting at you
5. Asking you to keep a secret
3. Telling you if you loved them, you’d do what they want
It’s very normal for your partner to want to know what you are up to or check where you are to see if you are safe. This can be a red flag if they are asking constantly though.
If you are in trouble, sometimes your parents can stop you seeing your friends as a punishment. Couples should feel equal though and no one should ever try to punish a partner or stop them seeing their friends.
This is coercive behaviour. If they really loved YOU, they would respect your decisions!
What you wear is up to you. Sometimes places like school and work have rules about what you can wear but healthy couples don’t. Your partner should respect your choice of what to wear.
In many ways, romantic partners are like close friends so it may be very normal for them to tell you something they only trust you with.
As always though if there is a risk to anyone you should speak to a trusted adult.
Just like friends and family, couples can fall out and argue with each other at times. Shouting at people isn’t a good idea when you fall out with anyone but being shouted at all the time isn’t normal or healthy in a relationship.
Arguments in a healthy relationship should end with a genuine apology and kind words to one another.
What do we mean by ‘Safe Sex?’
Politics, Philosophy and Ethics at TKS: Our SIX Knowledge Domains | ||
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Wellbeing & Morality | Navigating the Modern World | Respectful Relationships |
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Citizenship & Community | Social and Emotional Learning | Preparing for the Future |
OUR FOCUS
What do we mean by ‘Safe Sex?’�
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Date: Approximate Learning Time: 1 hour By the end of the lesson: | ||
The knowledge I will ACQUIRE (or recall will be): | I will APPLY this knowledge by: | The learning APPROACH I will reflect on today is: |
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Think-Pair-Share |
What do we mean by ‘Safe Sex?’�SHARING THE ‘BIG PICTURE’
THIS LESSON
Knowing the safety issues around having sex.
PRIOR LEARNING
What unhealthy relationships look like and the harm they cause.
LATER LEARNING
Understanding marriage, civil partnerships and other types of long-term relationships.
Your learning in context…
| CONTENT WARNING |
| This lesson contains discussion around sex and the potential harmful effects of having sex. Whilst this might make some people feel embarrassed, it is important information and we will discuss these issues maturely and with respect. |
What do we mean by ‘Safe Sex?’�
Your teacher is going to give each of you a piece of paper on which to write down any questions you have around this topic. At the end of the lesson, these will be collected in the collection box so that your teacher can read them and answer appropriate questions next lesson.
You do not need to write your name on the paper: it is completely anonymous.
What do we mean by ‘Safe Sex?’
Essential Knowledge | Visual Prompt |
Having sex is the process by which humans produce their offspring, but it is also something that people do with each other for pleasure. Sex can, however, have very serious consequences if not done safely and there is a lot of responsibility involved. Irresponsible or unsafe sex can lead to unplanned pregnancy as well as damaging your’s or other people’s physical health and emotional wellbeing. | |
What do we mean by ‘Safe Sex?’
Physical and Emotional impacts matching task – Think-Pair-Share
What are the risks? |
Pregnancy |
Sexually transmitted diseases/infections |
Emotional distress |
Getting in trouble with the law |
What do we mean by ‘Safe Sex?’
What can be done to prevent it? |
Contraceptives such as condoms, IUDs and the contraceptive pill can be used. |
Ensuring that sex only takes places between two consenting parties and that no one is coerced into doing anything they do not want to. |
Preventative measures such as wearing condoms and going for regular check-ups. |
Making sure both partners have thought about the decisions they are making and have not done so under the influence of drugs or alcohol. |
ACQUIRE A KEY WORD: | CONTRACEPTION |
DEFINITION: The deliberate use of artificial methods or other techniques to prevent pregnancy as a consequence of sexual intercourse. | ETYMOLOGY: From the late 19th century combining the prefix ‘Contra’ meaning against with ‘Conception’ the act of becoming pregnant. |
WRITE THE DEFINITION OF THIS WORD IN YOUR BOOK. | |
What do we mean by ‘Safe Sex?’
What do we mean by ‘Safe Sex?’
Essential Knowledge - STIs | Visual Prompt |
Sexually transmitted infections (STIs) are infections that are spread primarily through person-to-person sexual contact. You can‘t always tell if you or someone else has an STI. Some STIs can have serious consequences and leave you unable to have children. Sexually transmitted infections are a significant public health issue with almost 470,000 infections diagnosed in the UK in 2019. The age group at greatest risk of infections is 15 to 24 year olds. | |
What do we mean by ‘Safe Sex?’
Gonorrhoea
–Discharge (and unusual smell) –Pain when urinating –Swollen testicles –Pelvic pain
| Chlamydia
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HIV
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What do we mean by ‘Safe Sex?’
Genital Herpes
| Genital Warts
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Pubic Lice
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What do we mean by ‘Safe Sex?’
Snapshot Questioning Quiz
| Question | Y/N |
1. | Only 50% of females with gonorrhea will have symptoms | |
2. | Genital warts will appear as soon as you catch them. | |
3. | Chlamydia often doesn’t have any symptoms, making it an especially dangerous STI because you wouldn’t know you’d caught it. | |
4. | You can use head lice treatment to cure pubic lice. | |
5. | Although HIV is very serious, it can be treated so that those who contract it can live healthy lives. | |
What do we mean by ‘Safe Sex?’
Snapshot Questioning Quiz
| Question | Y/N |
1. | Only 50% of females with gonorrhea will have symptoms | Y |
2. | Genital warts will appear as soon as you catch them. | N |
3. | Chlamydia often doesn’t have any symptoms, making it an especially dangerous STI because you wouldn’t know you’d caught it. | Y |
4. | You can use head lice treatment to cure pubic lice. | N |
5. | Although HIV is very serious, it can be treated so that those who contract it can live healthy lives. | Y |
Essential Knowledge - Condoms | Visual Prompt |
Condoms are a protective covering for the penis that help to prevent exchange of bodily fluids during sex. They are incredibly useful as a way of preventing both the spread of STIs and as a form of contraception to prevent pregnancy. It is important to never:
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What do we mean by ‘Safe Sex?’
Oracy Focus Using Think-Pair-Share
Key Question | Oracy Approach |
The following slide has 8 excuses people might use for not wanting to use a condom. In pairs, pick two of the statements on the following slide and come up with a good response for it. | Think-Pair-Share:
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What do we mean by ‘Safe Sex?’
Oracy Focus Using Think-Pair-Share:
What response would you give?
What do we mean by ‘Safe Sex?’
Learning through Oracy: Success Criteria
Score: 1 - 2
Score: 3 - 4
Score: 5
IN FRONT BOOKS
Subtitle:
Rating My Oracy (think-pair-share)
My score out of 5:
One thing I did well:
One thing I will do differently:
What do we mean by ‘Safe Sex?’