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How To Deal With Hard Character�“Win the person”

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Pray ��How To Win The Person

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Intro Story

  • Location: Bamba mamba
  • Our Members:(Mariam, Maria, Fady, Mina George, Sandra, Sara and Peter)

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Mariam

Sara

Maria

Sandra

Fady

Mina

George

Peter

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Mariam

Mission leader

She is so kind “Yes person”

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Sara

So funny “avoid”

Sandra

Not easy “DMN”

Maria

careless

George

Show-off

Mina

Complainer

(I know it all)

Peter

Self Centered

Fady

Smart

Day 1 in our Mission

*Situations

  • Take breakfast together.
  • In the service at the mission.

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Intro Story

  • Location: Bamba mamba
  • Our characters: (Mariam, Maria, Fady, George, Mina, Sandra, Sara, Peter and Mark) – (day 1 in our mission).

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  • Q1: What are the characteristics of difficult personalities in service?
  • Q2: What is behind the scene ?

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The Problem when…

  1. I have no need for you.
  2. I can't see others.
  3. I don't belong to a big entity.
  4. Ego is the cause of problems.
  5. Avoid communication with others.

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Be careful:

  1. Difference between humans & animals.
  2. Resources are available but...
  3. Disclaimer of responsibility.
  4. Our Coptic church system: We need each other.
  5. Be one hand – Ephesians 4:1-7.

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THE POWER OF COMMUNICATION

Based on the excuses we mentioned before for each character

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Read: 1 Cor 12:12-25

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So, What shall I do!? Change !

people don’t resist change…they resist loss!

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Change means unknowns. Change means having to relearn something. Change requires you to face the reality that you’re not in control

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1- Acceptance & Tolerance

2- Constructive feedback

3- Start with the end of mind.

4- Proactivity.

5- No need for talents.

6- I Need u.

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�Galatians 6

1Brethren, if a man is overtaken in any

trespass, you who are spiritual restore such a one in a spirit of gentleness, considering yourself lest you also be tempted. 2 Bear one another’s burdens and so fulfill the law of Christ.

3 For if anyone thinks himself to be something, when he is nothing, he deceives himself. 4 But let each one examine his own work, and then he will have rejoicing in himself alone, and not in another. 5 For each one shall bear his own load.

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Thank you 😊

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