Backchanneling, body language, and praise in intergenerational conversation
Paolo Tayag
(advised by Professor Yoshiko Matsumoto)
VPUE Summer 2022 Linguistics Internship
Sharing Conversations Project
Previous Findings (Matsumoto, Maeda & Wan, 2022)
Asking open-ended questions
(e.g., Matsumoto, Liao, Xue, 2020)
Using the device of Mutual Revelation
Using physical objects in the immediate environment (Hamilton, 2011; 2020)
Main Goal
Backchanneling
Necessity of basis for engagement
[Excerpt 1]
1 OMP: Mine’s very contemplative, which is my approach to life. (…). I’m an old scientist, and I’m
2 working at an area that’s physics now=
3 YFP: =Uh-huh=
4 OMP: =Yeah (...) and, and we’re doing a hell of a lot of ((incomprehensible)) chemist basically, but,
5 we’re doing a lot of physics now, and developing whole new theories, like the theory of
6 everything which is one of the great physicists like Hawking who died very early (.), um so I’m
7 contemplative but I like to look ahead, kind of look ahead=
8 YFP: =Mm=
9 OMP: =A futurist in a way, and I kind of expressed that here (.) I- I think in today’s generation we’re-
10 we’ve gone through a lot of crap ((incomprehensible)) Trump among them, I’m a- I’m a
11 democrat by the way. But, uh, we- we- we’ve seen a lot of horrible things. We’ve had
12 COVID-19 which is terrible, we’ve had a lot of- we’ve had a lot of disappointment in life,
13 consider young people are not really enthusiastic about life, they’re not, like a lot of them
14 ((incomprehensible)) [knowledge ((incomprehensible))
15 YFP: [Mhm
16 OMP: I was energetic, I was just looking forward, very positive. I’m a positive person, I’m balanced. I
17 feel now that kid- the younger generation doesn’t see any future for themselves.
18 YFP: Mm.
19 OMP: And- and talking to people at, in- in Richmond here, you know, some of them really clearly
20 indicate that they’re pessimistic about the future. And that’s just totally opposite of what I am
21 in life. But again we had a lot going for us. We had GI bill, we had scholarships and
23 fellowships. Everything was falling in place.
Necessity of basis for engagement
[Excerpt 2]
1 YFP: That’s really pretty.
2 OMP: Yeah. Uh, (...) and I’ll-
3 I don’t know what to say about it though (+smiling) (..[.) um (.)
4 YFP: [(+laughs)
5 YFP: I feel like the nice thing is, you can say anything, I guess (+chuckles)
6 OMP: (...) Um (.)
(10 seconds)
7 YFP: You want me to read a little bit of mine?
8 OMP: Pardon?
9 YFP: You want me to read some of mine?
10 OMP: Okay.
Open body language
Open body language
Open body language
Praise
Ineffective uses of praise
[Excerpt 3]
1 MFP: You have to talk to- you have to talk to people, yep.
2 (7 seconds)
3 AFH: And (.)
4 MFP: I’m trying to Zoom in
5 AFH: I’m trying to Zoom in (.) how perfect! You just made a haiku, OMP!
6 OMP: ((unintel[ligible?))
7 MFP: [Yay
8 AFH: No ((except?))- Zoom can be scary, you have to talk to people, I’m trying to zoom in. Aww, [I like that
9 MFP: [(+laughs)
10 AFH: Wait, can we make one more, maybe?
11 OMP: (+very quietly) No((? Unsure if actually said))
12 MFP: What’s the topic?
13 AFH: What’s the topic? What do you wanna- do you wan-
14 (3 seconds)
15 OMP: “What is the topic” (.) uhh, I ((wouldn’t have?)) asked that question. I (+gibberish) I don’t know what the
16 topic is.
17 AFH: Anything, anything that comes to your mind I guess, now
18 OMP: (+shaking head back and forth)
19 (4 seconds)
20 OMP: Nothing.
Effective uses of praise
[Excerpt 4]
1 OFP: Little black and tan / eyes alight and smiling / my puppy joy brings. (+smile)
2 YMP: Aww, that’s so sweet, (+sm[ile) yeah, that’s awesome. Man ho-how did you-=
3 OFP: [(+smile)
4 YMP:=how many of those did you have before , because like it took me a long time to try to think of
5 [something to write
6 OFP: [The- the one with the pool, I did about six times.
7 YMP: I see, yes yes.
8 OFP: And the one with the dog um I think I did only three.
9 YMP: Okay, gotcha. Alright, so yeah lemme- lemme share mine now, I’ll-I’ll share my picture too here,
10 um (.) so yeah I-I-I did winter and I like sunsets a lot so I have this picture of like (+sharing his
11 photo on screen) maybe like a sunset on a winter day [and uh
12 OFP: [Oh wow=
13 YMP: =and yeah and then what I wrote was um A small lonely bench / cold bitter winds, warming
14 sun / I sit down and rest. [And um
15 OFP: [(+nod)=
16 YMP: =yeah! That’s- I don’t know it- I don’t know why it took me so long to like, it’s-it’s-it’s only like what like,
17 uhh, 17 syllables right? But it still takes so long to-uh think, think of them, But[ (.) yeah
18 OFP: [oh cause you had
19 thoughts first, and put your thoughts down [and you look at=
20 YMP: [yeah, yeah
21 OFP: =the picture (.) and you say “no, you know I can do- I can express this better”
Future extensions