A DISCUSSION ON CHILD MENTAL HEALTH DIAGNOSIS
Empowering Students
ADHD • Anxiety • Depression
Are We Helping Children, or Helping Labels?
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A DISCUSSION ON CHILD MENTAL HEALTH DIAGNOSIS
This discussion is intended to be thought provoking
Mental health conditions are real and personal, but complicated
Built with a mix of research and experience
Look beyond the DSM
ADHD • Anxiety • Depression
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TODAY'S JOURNEY
Six Acts, One Question
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The Landscape
Why diagnoses are rising
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The Science
What we know — and don’t
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The Cost of Labels
Identity, language, expectation
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Schools
Support without dependence
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Clinical Humility
Bias, systems, and pressure
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The Future
A both/and framework
INTRODUCTION
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ACT 1
The Landscape
Diagnoses of ADHD, anxiety, and depression in children have climbed for two decades. Before we ask what to do about it, we need to understand why.
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DISCUSSION
Why Are Diagnoses Increasing?
Greater Awareness
Parents, teachers, and clinicians recognize symptoms earlier and more consistently than a generation ago.
Broader Criteria
Each DSM revision has widened diagnostic thresholds, capturing milder and more varied presentations.
Access to Care
Insurance parity and school-based screening mean more children are evaluated at all.
Environmental Shift
Sleep, screen time, structured play, and academic pressure have all changed markedly since 2000.
ACT 1 — THE LANDSCAPE
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THE SCALE OF THE SHIFT
A Generation of New Diagnoses
7.1M
U.S. children diagnosed with ADHD (2026)
Up from 6.1 million in 2016 — about one million more children in six years
1 in 9
U.S. children carry an ADHD diagnosis
Ages 5–17, the highest rate on record
78%
of newly diagnosed children have a co-occurring condition
Anxiety, depression, or a learning disorder alongside ADHD
Source: CDC/NCHS Data Brief 499 (2024); CDC ADHD data reports, 2016–2022.
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THE NUMBERS
Current Prevalence Among U.S. Children
KEY TAKEAWAY
ADHD and anxiety now affect roughly one in nine to one in ten children — and most diagnosed children carry more than one label at once.
Pharmacology has a MAJOR role/ stake in diagnoses.
Illustrative estimates compiled from CDC/NSCH and NHIS surveys (2016–2022); methodology and survey years differ across conditions, so treat as directional rather than a single-year snapshot.
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THE TREND
The Direction of Travel, 2016–2022
KEY TAKEAWAY
The line moves one direction. Whatever forces are driving it — awareness, criteria, environment — they are accelerating, not leveling off.
Illustrative trend based on CDC ADHD diagnosis counts, U.S. children ages 3–17; intermediate years interpolated for display.
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THE FRAMEWORK
It’s Rarely One Cause
Rising
Diagnosis
Rates
Awareness
Criteria
Access
Environment
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ACT 1
“We saw DSM-IV as a guidebook, not a bible – a collection of temporarily useful diagnostic constructs , not a catalog of real diseases. We tried to make this abundantly clear in the introduction of the DSM-IV and at great length in the DSM-IV Guidebook. Unfortunately, I am not sure anyone ever read the Gudidebook. People shouldn’t worship the DSM categories, but it does make you a better clinician to know them.”
Dr. Allen Frances, Chair of the DSM-IV
Allen Frances, Saving Normal: An Insider’s Revolt against Diagnosis, DSM-5, Big Pharma, and the Medicalization of Ordinary Life (New York: HarperCollins, 2013), 73.
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REFLECTION
Have you ever had a student “own” their disability?
What about a parent “own” their child’s disability?
A story to share?
ACT 1 — THE LANDSCAPE
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The Science
These are real, studiable conditions with real neurobiology. They are also imprecise categories drawn around fuzzy, overlapping human experience.
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THE HONEST PICTURE
What We Know, What We Don’t
What We Know
What We Still Don’t
ACT 2 — THE SCIENCE
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THE HONEST PICTURE
What Some Experts Say
What An Expert Says on ADD
What An Expert Says on Depression and Anxiety
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THE DIAGNOSTIC DILEMMA
Where Symptoms Overlap
ADHD
Anxiety
Depression
restlessness • irritability
worry • avoidance
low mood • withdrawal
Sleep problems
Poor concentration
Sleep problems, poor concentration, and irritability appear across all three diagnoses. A single symptom rarely tells you which label — if any — fits.
ACT 2 — THE SCIENCE
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A CLOSER LOOK – when a team feels like a diagnosis is warranted
The Same Symptom, Three Possible Stories
Observed Behavior | Could Reflect |
Can’t sit still, fidgety | ADHD — or anxiety-driven restlessness or nothing |
Trouble concentrating in class | ADHD — or depression, or sleep deprivation or nothing |
Snaps at peers, seems irritable | ADHD impulsivity — or depressive irritability — or chronic anxiety or emotional maturity |
Avoids starting homework | Executive dysfunction — or anxiety avoidance — or low motivation from depression or nothing |
Frequent stomachaches, headaches | Anxiety — or depression — or an unrelated medical cause |
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AUDIENCE CASE
Two Students, Similar Behaviors
Girl, Age 9
Boy, Age 10
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SAME SYMPTOMS, DIFFERENT STORIES
What Changes the Diagnosis?
Factor | Girl | Boy |
Surface behavior | Inattentive, forgetful | Inattentive, forgetful |
Recent stressor | Parental separation | None reported |
Sleep | Disrupted, racing thoughts | Normal |
Working hypothesis | Adjustment reaction or anxiety | Possible ADHD — pending history |
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REFLECTION
What else could explain these symptoms?
Are we intervening long before the label?
Schools have13 eligibility categories (not everything fits nicely)
Before reaching for a diagnostic label, what questions would you ask first?
ACT 2 — THE SCIENCE
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MORE REFLECTION
What about YOU as a School Psychologist ?
Can you help a child by reshaping thinking prior to the label?
Before reaching for a diagnostic label, what questions would you ask first?
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MORE REFLECTION
Have you ever met someone who doesn’t have ADD?
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The Cost of Labels
A diagnosis can open doors to support. It can also quietly close doors to expectation, effort, and identity. Both happen at once.
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ACT 3
“Psychiatry has become deeply ingrained within the fabric of our culture, winding through our most prominent social institutions and coloring our mundane daily encounters. For better or worse, the DSM is not merely a compendium of medical diagnoses. It has become a public document that helps define how we understand ourselves and how we live our lives.”
Former President-elect APA
Jeffrey A. Lieberman, Shrinks: the Untold Story of Psychiatry (New York: Little, Brown and Company, 2015), 291.
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ACT 3
“Labels can also create self-fulfilling prophecies. If you are told you are sick, you feel and act sick, and others treat you as if you are sick. The sick role can be enormously useful when someone is truly sick and needs respite and care. But the sick role can be extremely destructive when it reduces expectations, truncates ambitions, and results in a loss of personal responsibility”
Frances, Saving Normal, 109.
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LANGUAGE MATTERS
Identity vs. Diagnosis
Our Role in cognitive reshaping is IMPORTANT
"He IS ADHD"
"He HAS ADHD or He HAS attentional issues"
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TRY THIS INSTEAD
Small Shifts in Everyday Language
Instead of… | Try… |
"He’s so ADHD today." | "He’s having a hard time focusing today." |
"She’s just anxious." | "She’s feeling really anxious right now." |
"He’s a behavior problem." | "He’s having a hard time with this behavior." |
"That’s just her diagnosis talking." | "Let’s figure out what she needs right now." |
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A QUIET RISK
The Learned Helplessness Cycle
Child struggles;
adults name it "can’t"
Adults lower
expectations
Fewer chances to
practice independently
Child internalizes
"I really can’t"
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THE FLIP SIDE
Expectations Shape Outcomes
The Pygmalion Effect
The Practical Question
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AUDIENCE POLL
Accommodation or Enablement?
A student is allowed to skip oral presentations indefinitely due to anxiety. Where’s the line?
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Schools
Classrooms sit at the center of this tension — asked to accommodate difference and build independence, often in the same fifty minutes.
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THE CORE TENSION
Support vs. Independence
Support
Independence
The goal isn’t balance at a single point in time — it’s a ratio that shifts deliberately as a child grows.
ACT 4 — SCHOOLS
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THE REAL TARGET
Executive Function Skills Worth Teaching
Planning
Breaking a task into steps and estimating how long each will take.
Working Memory
Holding instructions in mind long enough to act on them.
Self Regulation
Pausing before reacting; resisting a more tempting distraction.
Flexibility
Adjusting a plan when the first approach isn’t working.
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THE REAL TARGET
School Psychologist Role
Instill Belief
You can do this!
Nothing can hold you back.
I can manage this feeling!
Self Talk
I think I can.
I know I can.
I can.
Perseverance
Keep pressing onward.
Never say never.
If you don’t succeed try again.
Identify Support
I’m here for you.
Educate school team.
Your parents are on board.
Your teacher is on board.
Safe place.
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FROM ACCOMMODATION TO SKILL
Teaching the Skill Underneath
Accommodation Alone
Accommodation + Skill-Building
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TEACHER LANGUAGE
Responses That Build Capability
Instead of… | Try… |
"I’ll just do it for you." | "Let’s do the first step together, then you try the next." |
"You always forget your homework." | "What system could help you remember next time?" |
"Take a break, you don’t have to finish." | "Let’s figure out which part is hardest, and start there." |
"That’s okay, it’s hard for you." | "This is hard, and I know you can work through it." |
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REFLECTION
Do our plans prepare kids for adulthood —
or just for this classroom?
How do you MATTER every day?
No workplace will offer unlimited extensions or read instructions aloud twice.
ACT 4 — SCHOOLS
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Clinical Humility
Clinicians are not immune to the same shortcuts as anyone else — and the systems around them don’t always reward slowing down.
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THE HUMAN FACTOR
Cognitive Biases in Diagnosis (our intervention teams do this as well)
Anchoring
The first hypothesis heard — often from a worried parent — disproportionately shapes everything that follows.
Confirmation Bias
Once a label feels likely, evidence that fits gets noticed; evidence that doesn’t gets explained away.
Availability
A clinician who just diagnosed three ADHD cases is primed to see a fourth.
Time Pressure
A fifteen-minute visit rewards a fast, familiar label over a slower differential.
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BIAS IN PRACTICE
Anchoring: A Closer Look
How It Happens
What School Psychologist Can Do
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BIAS IN PRACTICE
Confirmation Bias: A Closer Look
How It Happens
What School Psychologist Can Do
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BEYOND THE INDIVIDUAL CLINICIAN
Does the System Shape the Diagnosis?
Structural Pressures
Questions Worth Asking
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THE PRESSURE POINT
What Converges on a 15-Minute Visit
The
Diagnostic
Decision
Insurance codes
Time limits
School requirements
Parent expectations
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THE PRESSURE POINT
A Look at Medical Testing
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TEST | ADHD | Anxiety | Depression |
MRI | X | X | X |
CT Scan | X | X | X |
EEG | X | X | X |
Blood Test | X | X | X |
Genetic Test | X | X | X |
Neuropsychological testing | Helpful but not diagnostic | Sometimes helpful | Sometimes helpful |
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Randon Thought Regarding Lack of Medical Testing
Without a definitive medical test, using an ever-changing DSM for diagnosis….
Is it too simple to say that ADHD, Anxiety and Depression are adverse feelings?
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TABLE DISCUSSION
Feelings?
I’m feeling hyper; anxious; or down
Feeling are real – we all have them….
Could feelings All or None be a disability?
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TABLE DISCUSSION
Fun with Feelings
Happy
Jealous
Confident
Overwhelmed
Bored
Shy
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TABLE DISCUSSION
Do children understand they have power over feelings?
Where do YOU help as a School Psychologist?
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Hypothesis
ADHD / Anxiety / Depression
– Cinematography
- Social Media
- Awareness
NEW NORMAL?
ACT 5 — CLINICAL HUMILITY
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The Future
Not diagnosis versus no diagnosis. A better question: how do we use tools so they serve the child in front of us?
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BEYOND EITHER/OR
A Both/And Framework
Diagnosis Can…
And We Must Still…
ACT 6 — THE FUTURE
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WHAT TO DO MONDAY MORNING
Five Practical Takeaways
Ask First
Generate two alternative explanations before reaching for a label.
Watch Language
Say "has ADHD or attentional difficulties," not "is ADHD" — in your own speech and others’.
Teach the Skill
Pair every accommodation with explicit instruction in the skill it stands in for.
Revisit Often
Treat every diagnosis and plan as a hypothesis to re-check, not a permanent verdict.
Loop in Families
Make the child’s own voice part of the conversation, not just the adults’.
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REMEMBER THE STAKES
What We’re Really Deciding
7.1M
children now carry an ADHD diagnosis
Each one a specific child, not a statistic
78%
have more than one label at once
The full picture rarely fits one category
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question worth asking every time
Does this diagnosis increase this child’s agency?
Source: CDC/NCHS Data Brief 499 (2024); CDC ADHD data reports.
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THE ULTIMATE QUESTION
Does this diagnosis increase the child’s agency — or diminish it?
If you remember one question from tonight, let it be this one.
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“The diagnosis should serve the child — not the other way around.”
— Closing thought
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“A diagnosis is a snapshot of current functioning, not a prophecy of human potential.”
Dr. Ross Greene
— One more closing thought
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Thank You
Questions & Discussion
Empowering Students with Anxiety, Depression and ADHD
�Nick.benge@beechwood.kyschools.us
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