Core and Circumference
Top Twenty Hangouts Bottom Eighty Hangouts
Star Qualities
Above the line
Curiosity
Zone Listening
Honoring the absent
Heart to Heart
Creating Value for others
Negative mental Habits
Below the Line
Blame and Procrastination
Tornadoes and thought circles
Harmful messages
Toe to Toe
What’s in it for me
The Core: YOUR TRUE SELF
Think of your core as like what’s inside a seed...its true identity and potential.
Seeds have worth and value because of what they are and what they can become...You have worth and value because of who you are and what you can become!
Your purpose is to become YOU..and share your unique gifts, talents, and abilities with others.
Circumference: The Land of OP (OTHER PEOPLE)
From birth we hang out in the land of OP..which can be both wonderful and dangerous. Other people’s influence can come in the form of
OPO’s Other People’s Opinions
OPE’s Other People’s Expectations
OPA’s Other People’s Agendas
*Others may want us to act and think in certain ways.
Danger of OPOs, OPEs, and OPAs:
If you pay too much attention to these you can forget your CORE..or true purpose. Instead you at risk to becoming a people pleaser...to satisfy their opinions, meeting their expectations, and accomplishing their agendas.
Important: There is nothing wrong with pleasing other people if you don’t forget your Core or neglect you actual purpose of being your TRUE SELF!
Good things about the land of OP:
We can have experiences in the land of OP that remind us of our true identity, worth and purpose. People and new experiences can awaken us to the potential that is in our CORE...They can encourage us to connect to our TRUE SELF and be who we are meant to be! They value us for who we are and encourage us to be ourselves.
Law of Attraction:
The positive or negative results I have in my life are attracted to me by the person I have become.
If you want a better Parent, then become a better Daughter.
If you want a better Friendship, then become a better Friend.
If you want a better Boss, then become a better Employee.
If you want a better Teacher, then become a better Student.
If you want a better Team, then become a better Player.
If you want a better Sibling, them become a better Sister,