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Skill: Being an Appropriate Role Model

What Does It Mean to “Set a Good Example”?

Today, we'll talk about when and how to make sure we're being a role model for peers or younger children.

Grades: 4-5

Benchmark(s): 4-5.RDM.1.1

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When was the last time you saw someone being a good role model?

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WHY BEING AN APPROPRIATE ROLE MODEL IS IMPORTANT:

👍 Your parents and teachers will think you're mature, responsible, and that you deserve more privileges.

👍 It helps you to get along with your teachers, parents, friends, brothers, and sisters.

👍 You help little kids and your younger brothers or sisters make good choices and feel better.

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Pretend you need to give advice to a friend about how to be a role model.

What would you tell them to do or not to do?

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  • Know when it's time to set a good example for other kids.
  • Follow the rules.
  • Be kind and polite to others.
  • If the other kids' behavior is unexpected, ask them to stop. Ask for help from a trusted adult.

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Step 1: Know when it's time to set a good example for other kids.

It's important to be a role model for younger kids, but you can also be a good role model for kids your age or even older kids.

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Step 2: Follow the rules.

What are some rules at school?

What are some rules at home?

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Step 3: Be kind and polite to others.

Say "please" and "thank you."

Use a friendly voice tone.

Use a calm body.

What are some other ways you can be kind and polite?

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Step 4: If the other kids' behavior is unexpected, ask them to stop. Ask for help from a trusted adult.

Even if you're doing your best to be a good role model, sometimes you need help from an adult.

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  • Know when it's time to set a good example for other kids.
  • Follow the rules.
  • Be kind and polite to others.
  • If the other kids' behavior is unexpected, ask them to stop. Ask for help from a trusted adult.

Kyle’s teacher told him to show the new student around during recess, but Kyle wanted to play with his friends instead.

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  • Know when it's time to set a good example for other kids.
  • Follow the rules.
  • Be kind and polite to others.
  • If the other kids' behavior is unexpected, ask them to stop. Ask for help from a trusted adult.

While Michelle’s family is getting ready for a big Thanksgiving dinner, she notices that her young cousin Ben is having a tantrum. Ben’s mom told him that she needed her phone back and that Ben could not use it to play video games anymore.

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  • Know when it's time to set a good example for other kids.
  • Follow the rules.
  • Be kind and polite to others.
  • If the other kids' behavior is unexpected, ask them to stop. Ask for help from a trusted adult.

Lily is spending the weekend at her friend Sara’s house, and Sara has a swimming pool. Sara’s younger brothers are running around by the pool.

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  • Know when it's time to set a good example for other kids.
  • Follow the rules.
  • Be kind and polite to others.
  • If the other kids' behavior is unexpected, ask them to stop. Ask for help from a trusted adult.

Julian has become friends with the new student in class, Ian. Julian’s buddy Chris says that Julian should not talk to Ian because “Ian is weird.”

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  • Know when it's time to set a good example for other kids.
  • Follow the rules.
  • Be kind and polite to others.
  • If the other kids' behavior is unexpected, ask them to stop. Ask for help from a trusted adult.

Aaron, a fourth grader, is sitting in an all-school assembly. Two nearby third graders start to speak loudly. Another third grader in their class says “shhhh” but the students continue to talk loudly.

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