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COPING WITH STRESS

Module 5.1b

LEARNING TARGETS:

  • Explain two ways in which people try to alleviate stress.
  • Explain how a perceived lack of control can affect health.
  • Explain why self-control is important and whether it can be depleted.
  • Explain how an optimistic outlook affects health & longevity.
  • Explain how social support promotes good health.

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DEALING WITH STRESS�COPING STRATEGIES

  • Problem-Focused Coping – When we believe stress is a problem to be solved
    • Directly challenge the stressor or the way we interact with it.
  • Emotion-Focused Coping – When we believe we cannot change a situation
    • Avoid or ignore the stressor and instead attend to our emotional needs (meditate, therapy, reach out to family/friends.

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PERSONAL CONTROL

  • Personal Control – Our sense that we control the events going on around us.
  • Learned Helplessness – Becoming hopeless and passive when faced with repeated bad events outside of your control.
  • Studies show that the more control in one’s life equates with better morale & health, HOWEVER…
  • Tyranny of Choice - If offered too many choices we can feel regret over what we didn’t choose.

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INTERNAL VS EXTERNAL LOCUS OF CONTROL

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SELF-CONTROL

  • Self-Control – Ability to control impulses and delay short-term gratification for longer-term rewards.
    • Predictor of good health, higher income, & better school performance.
    • Like a muscle, self-control weakens after use (depletion effect) and needs time to recover and rest. It can grow stronger with practice.

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OPTIMISM VS PESSIMISM

  • Optimists – Expect to be in control, cope better & as a result have better health.
    • “Nuns Study” – Nuns who were optimistic at 22 years old on average lived 7 years longer
    • Respond to setbacks with a hopeful attitude
  • Pessimists – Expect things to go badly.
    • Attribute poor performance to lack of ability (“I can’t do this.”) or situational factors outside of their control (“There is nothing I can do about it.”)

Ways to combat Pessimism:

    • Alternative Seeking – Develop alternative explanations that are more optimistic
    • Evidence Seeking – Cite evidence in your life that disputes pessimistic thoughts.
    • De-catastrophizing – Keep things in perspective. Don’t make it out to be more than it is.

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SOCIAL SUPPORT

  • Social Support – being liked by encouraged by family & friends.
    • People supported by close relationships tend to live longer
    • Lonely people had a 30% higher death rate
    • People with high marital quality are as healthy as those that maintain a healthy diet and exercise.
    • Support calms us in times of stress. (Holding spouse’s hand while getting shocked)
    • Support fosters a stronger immune system. (Cold virus study)
    • Those that share their grief or troubles have less issues later than those that go it alone. Even writing about it helps!