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The Modern Man project

Session 3 - Belonging

Dec 30th, 2020

Photo by Daan Stevens @ Unsplash

“Tell me with whom you walk with, and I will tell you who you are”

Goethe

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Belonging

Month 2

Vulnerability

Month 1

Integrity

Month 3

Community

Month 4

We are here

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Tim Marshall @ Unsplash

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Business

ADDING - social/informal Modern Man every other Wed (Jan 6th, 7:00-7:45 PM PST)

Long check - in - going deeper

How did it feel to share that?

What are you feeling in your body?

Would you want to talk more about ___?

...anything (business, events) from you?

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Short check-in

✓ ~00:60

✓ Breath

✓ Feel it

✓ Do it

Notice the Minimizers

“A little...”

“Kind of...”

“Sort of...”

Body:

I’m feeling __ in my __

My __ feels __

There’s __ in my __

Mind:

I’m feeling ___

I’m holding ____

I’m ____

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Short check-in breakout

4 men per group

~ 60 seconds each person

~ 5 min - group

Timer - role

Total time in breakout room 10 minutes

Optional prompt:

Describe the last time you felt like you didn’t belong.

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Visualization

Breathe

Create

Explore

Notice (w/compassion) any:

  • Judgement
  • Body sensations
  • Feelings
  • Resistance
  • Reactions

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Aaron Blanco Tejedor @ Unsplash

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Long check-in breakout

3-4 men per group

~ 10 minutes each person (5 min sharing / 5 min reflecting)

~ 15 minutes group share

Timer - role

Total time in breakout room ~50 minutes

Optional prompt:

Describe the first memory you had feeling like you didn’t belong.

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Closing