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THE PROBLEM OF EVIL & SUFFERING

“MISERABLE COMFORTERS ARE YOU ALL”

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1. SILENCE IS GOLDEN

Job (2:11-13; 4:1; 13:4-5; 21:2-5)

Others (Prov. 17:28; Ecc. 3:7)

Quotes

Examples?

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2. BEWARE OF FOOT-IN-MOUTH

Job (1:13-19; 5:17-19, 25; 8:3-4)

Others (Prov. 10:19; 12:18; Ecc. 5:2)

Quotes: Mark Twain – “The difference between the almost right word and the right word is really a large matter—‘tis the difference between the lightening bug and the lightening.”

Examples?

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3. SUFFERING PEOPLE SAY THINGS THEY DON’T MEAN (OR LATER REGRET)

Job (6:2-3, 24-26; 10:1; 2:9; 6:14 – trans.)

Others (Ps. 73:21-22; Prov. 19:11)

Quotes

Plutarch – “He who is in a passion is like a man in a fit of falling sickness; he has lost the use of his reason.”

Examples?

  • Matt. 7:12 (Golden Rule)

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4. SUFFERING PEOPLE DON’T EXPECT YOU TO FIX THEIR PROBLEM

Job (6:22-23; 11:13-15; 16:4-5)

Others (Prov. 25:20)

Quotes

Henri Nouwen – “The friend who can be silent with us in a moment of despair or confusion, who can stay with us in an hour of grief and bereavement, who can tolerate not knowing, not curing, not healing… that is a friend who cares.”

Examples?

  • Unsolicited medical advice

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5. BE AWARE OF YOUR OWN INSECURITIES

Job (2:7-8; 6:21)

Quotes

Carl Jung – “Knowing your own darkness is the best method for dealing with the darkness of other people.”

Examples?

  • “Oh man…I could never…”

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6. DON’T JUSTIFY GOD

Job (8:3; 22:5-6; *13:7-8; 42:7)

Others (Is. 55:8-9; Job 42:7)

Quotes

Charles Spurgeon – “When you cannot trace His hand, you must trust His heart.”

Examples?

  • This must be God’s will. God has a plan. God is testing your faith. Why is this happening to me?

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7. WEEP WITH THOSE WHO WEEP

Job (2:11-13; 19:21)

Others (Rom. 12:15; Gal. 6:2; Heb. 10:32-34; 13:3)

Quotes

Brene Brown – “Rarely can a response make something better. What makes something better is connection.”

Examples?

  • Hand tissues. Don’t rush pain.

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Things to remember when others are suffering

  1. Silence is golden
  2. Beware of foot-in-mouth
  3. Suffering people say things they don’t mean (or later regret)
  4. Suffering people don’t expect you to fix their problem.
  5. Be aware of your own insecurities.
  6. Don’t justify God.
  7. Weep with those who weep.
  8. Others?