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Course: Maternity Nursing�Topic: Empathetic and Mother Friendly Care�

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Module Goals

The learner will be able to:

  • Define Empathetic Care
  • Identify the significance of Empathetic Care
  • Define the elements of Empathetic Care
  • List the principles of mother friendly care related to pregnancy
  • Describe the mother friendly care in labour, delivery, and postpartum period
  • List seven ways that mothers can play a role in their own care

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What is Empathy?

  • Empathy is the ability to share and understand the feelings of others
  • Empathic communication:
    • Learning to listen to the whole person and not just their words
    • This type of communication makes one feel seen, heard, and understood
  • Types of Empathy
  • Feeling empathy
  • Thinking empathy

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Angry?

Happy?

Afraid?

Sad?

Upset?

Confused?

What is your initial feeling seeing this picture?

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Angry?

Happy?

Afraid?

Sad?

Upset?

Confused?

What is your initial feeling seeing this picture?

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Feeling Empathy

  • It is what we feel when we see someone else suffering
  • It is different from sympathy. In sympathy, we ‘feel sorry for’, where as in feeling empathy we ‘feel with’
  • Feeling empathy is innate. Some examples:
    • One baby starts to cry, other babies start to cry too
    • Rub your head when you see someone bump their heads
  • In feeling empathy we share or “feel” the feelings of others

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Feeling Empathy

  • We may not always notice what we are feeling if we are not aware
  • Some people have more empathy than others
  • Feeling empathy is automatic, but everyone gives different meanings to their feelings because of the differences in upbringing

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Thinking Empathy

  • Thinking empathy is understanding or appreciating what others are experiencing
  • It let’s one ‘walk in the shoes of others’ without actually doing it
    • It understands perspectives, intentions, and needs of the other before judging them
  • Thinking empathy is not automatic, it is an intentionally learned and focused skill
  • Without thinking empathy, it is easy to misunderstand others’ actions because people do not always behave in a way that we can relate

Example: someone may shout or break things when angry while others may cry, walk away or become silent

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Thinking Empathy

In Nepal, it is culturally accepted disciplinary action for parents to beat their children when they steal or break something. However, in the United Kingdom (UK), this is illegal.

As a result, a UK observer might share the feeling of anger when their child steals. However, in Nepal, the mother would see her action to be normal while UK observer would not consider the beating normal.

  • If you were to apply thinking empathy, what would you understand about the mother’s feelings/behavior?
  • How does thinking empathy help in this case?

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Responding to the Suffering of Others

  • We cannot control how we feel but we can choose how we respond
  • We usually respond by:
    • Detachment or distancing: we feel emotions but instead of being curious we find reasons why we should not help, become disinterested in helping others.
    • Sympathetic distress: feeling overwhelmed with sympathy; we only want to help so that we can stop feeling bad; we are unable to separate our own feelings from the feelings of others and fail to understand their experiences and needs (thinking empathy) so we really cannot help.

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Responding to the Suffering of Others

  • Compassion: it is having both feeling and thinking empathy together with a desire to help others
    • Showing compassion is being uncomfortable yet putting personal feelings/perspectives aside trying to understand others' needs, and not push them away or simply feel sorry for them
    • The compassionate person does not automatically think they understand the other person and do not attempt to judge the other person
    • It takes practice and self-awareness to develop compassion

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Significance of Empathetic Care

  • Care that encompasses empathetic communication through feeling empathy and thinking empathy
  • It bridges the gap – generational, cultural, religious, and socio-economical, between the care provider and the patient
  • Helps to connect with client emotionally and relate to them by understanding their experiences, perspectives, intentions, needs
  • Builds trust that fosters open communications from the clients which in return, helps provider to accurately diagnose/identify clients' needs

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Case Scenario

A pregnant mother had been waiting for an hour for her antenatal checkup. In the next hour she had to pick up her 4-year-old from daycare. The woman appeared restless and voiced her frustration to staff in the waiting area. When the nurse sat with her for the antenatal check up, the woman started to shout at the nurse angrily.

  • What might the nurse initially feel?
  • How can the nurse give empathetic care? (use thinking empathy)
  • What will happen if empathetic care is not practiced?

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What is Mother Friendly Care?

  • It is a method of caring for women during pregnancy, where the best interests of the woman and her fetus are considered above those of the hospital or clinic staff.
  • It is individualized care.
  • It is care that makes the mother feel good.

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Principles of Mother Friendly Care

  • Each woman is welcomed and given individualized care, paying special attention to her wishes and needs.
  • Always calling a mother by her name.
  • Women are treated with kindness, compassion, patience and gentleness.
  • Care is sensitive, responsive and supportive to the needs, values, and customs of each woman's culture and home background.
  • Women are encouraged and helped to play an important role in their own care and decision making.

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Principles of Mother Friendly Care (...continued)

  • The woman's physical and emotional needs are considered
  • Women are informed about their condition and that of the unborn infant in a way that they will understand
  • Health workers give women opportunities to voice their feelings, needs, and questions
  • Care is evidence-based

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Individualized Care

  • When possible, every effort is made to ensure that the same health workers see the same patient at each visit
  • Specific needs of each woman are considered when planning her care, being mindful that needs of all pregnant women are not same

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Individualized Care

  • Benefits:
    • A relationship of trust and respect develops between the patient and health worker
    • Care is individualized
    • Care is consistent
    • Patients feel they are receiving better care
    • Getting to know patients and engage with them in a meaningful way brings satisfaction to the health care workers

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Kindness, Compassion, Patience and Gentleness

  • Kindness means being friendly, welcoming and willing to help without wanting anything in return
  • Compassion, as discussed in previous slides, is feeling empathy and thinking empathy together with a desire to help others
  • Patience is the capacity to accept or tolerate delay, trouble, or suffering without getting angry or upset
  • Gentleness is showing a calm attitude that exhibits soft emotions

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Sensitive, Responsive and Supportive to the Needs, Values, and Customs of Each Woman's Culture and Home Background

  • Cultural values and beliefs have strong influence on one's perception and action
  • Providers need to be aware of needs, values, and customs of the woman's culture and home background, and customize the care accordingly
  • If this is not done:
    • The care is less likely to fulfill the needs of the mother
    • Mother is less likely to perceive and embrace the care
  • Needs of the women within same culture may vary

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Case scenario:

While counseling a pregnant mother about danger signs during pregnancy, the nurse suggests some health care centers that the mother should go to in case of emergency. The mother replied," We are poor people, Allah will help us; He will never give us any burden which goes beyond our capacity”.

  • Is providing information on danger signs and nearest healthcare facility enough to ensure safety of the mother? Why?
  • How can the nurse be sensitive, responsive, and supportive to the needs, values, and customs of the patient’s culture and home background?

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Encourage and Help Women to Play an Important Role in Their Own Care and Decision Making

  • Pregnant mothers have better pregnancy experience when they have confidence in themselves
  • Confidence develops and strengthens through making own decisions and competent self-care
  • Nurses should provide pregnant mothers with adequate and accurate information to help make informed decisions about their care, and to help them be successful in caring for themselves

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The Woman's Physical and Emotional Needs Are Considered

  • Women experience both physical changes and emotional changes during pregnancy and the postnatal period
  • Emotions can be related to physical changes or external factors such as social relationships, economic factors, etc.
  • Emotional state has a profound effect on pregnancy and its outcome
  • Emotional support from a friend or family member is essential for a healthy pregnancy
  • Healthcare providers need to address the emotional needs of the woman in additional to medical management. This fosters a relationship of trust

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Women Are Informed About Their Condition And That Of The Unborn Infant In A Way That They Will Understand

  • Research has shown that women are concerned about the health of their unborn infant and their own health
  • Therefore, when examinations or tests are done, the women should be informed of the findings
  • Avoid using medical jargon and use language familiar to the patient

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Give Women Opportunities To Voice Their Feelings, Needs, And Questions

  • Women might not voice their feelings, needs or ask questions for various reasons such as fear, shyness, or guilt
  • Their needs cannot be accurately identified and resolved if they cannot communicate their feelings and needs, or are unable to ask questions
  • Healthcare providers should create an environment where mothers find it comfortable to openly communicate their concerns and needs
  • The healthcare provider should never criticize a mother

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Care Should Be Evidence Based

  • Evidence-based care is the clinical management of a patient where the treatment is based on and connected to the results of research
  • Non-evidence-based care is based on prejudice, unconfirmed beliefs and traditions
  • Evidenced-based nursing practice promotes safe and effective patient care

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How Can Pregnant Mothers Play A Role In Their Own Care?

  • Being allowed and encouraged to speak about their needs and fears
  • Learning more about the physical and emotional changes that take place during pregnancy
  • Understanding the care they are being given
  • Understanding the importance of a good diet during pregnancy
  • Understanding that self-care will improve the health of their infant
  • Not smoking or drinking alcohol during pregnancy
  • Helping to monitor their own pregnancy

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Case Study:

A young woman who was just “thrown out of her home by her family,” attends an antenatal clinic where she sees a midwife that she has not met before. She is not greeted by name, but simply asked to lie on the examination table. Although asked about her health, she is not asked about her other needs. As a result, her anxieties about her home issues are not discussed. The midwife provides no information about the examination and gives her a date for the next appointment. The woman decides not to come back for her next appointment but to look for another clinic where she is not treated as ‘just another patient’.

  • Did the woman receive patient friendly care?
  • Why did the young woman decide to try another clinic for her next antenatal care visit?
  • What can the nurse do to provide mother friendly care in this situation?

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Mother Friendly Care In Antenatal, Intrapartum And Postpartum

  • The interests of the woman and her fetus/newborn infant are the main priority
  • Care is evidence-based
  • Principles of mother friendly care during pregnancy apply
  • Right to informed choices and consent regarding care and procedures such as vaginal exams, labor inductions, pain management, etc. is provided
  • Supportive companion of choice is allowed and considered important to patient care
  • The mother and baby bonding process is supported

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Case Study:

During a normal labour at a hospital, a woman is told she should stay in her bed and not walk around. Her clothes are taken away and she is given a hospital gown. She is allowed to have sips of water during early labour and instructed not to eat anything. She is not given any pain relief. She is afraid to ask questions and does not know whether analgesia is available at the clinic. She is worried that the fetal heart rate is not being monitored as she was taught during antenatal classes.

  • How would a nurse provide mother friendly care in this case?
  • How would a nurse help the mother take care of herself?

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Essential Factors In Mother Friendly Health Workers

  • Correct attitude and behaviour- kindness, friendliness, politeness, and respect
  • Acceptable appearance
  • Good communication skills
  • Team work
  • Providing good care
  • Ongoing education and training

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Correct Attitude and Behaviour

  • Healthcare provider shows kindness, friendliness, politeness, and respect
  • Non-friendly behaviors that should not be practiced by nurses:
    • Being rude, aggressive, sarcastic and insensitive and ignoring the mothers needs, feelings, and wishes
    • Emotionally, verbally or physically abusing women
    • Ignoring what the woman says or requests
    • Not respecting a woman's privacy
    • Not giving opportunity to ask questions

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Acceptable Appearance

Good Communications Skills

  • Professional appearance has following benefits:
  • Helps identify care providers as professionals
  • Shows self-respect
  • Shows respect for colleagues
  • Good communications skills are those that promote relationship of trust and respect between the care provider and the mother
  • Healthcare provider should be aware of both verbal and nonverbal communications
  • Must be empathetic (empathetic communication)

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Team Work

  • Members of a group share a common spirit of trust and support
  • Benefits:
    • Improves self-esteem
    • Improves staff morale and confidence
    • Creates a friendly and warm atmosphere in the clinic
    • Promotes loyalty to the institution and colleagues
  • Aids in implementation of activities that result in patient friendly services

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Ongoing Education and Training

  • Part of lifelong learning and professional development
  • Essential for nurses to maintain and update skills to remain competent in their work
  • Achieved through:
    • Self-learning- textbooks, online resources, seminars
    • Group training provided by health Institutes
    • Licensed training institutes

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Case study:

A teenage girl who has missed her menstrual period for two months, attends a local clinic to have a pregnancy test Her pregnancy is confirmed and she is told to return for an appointment for antenatal care when she reaches 20 weeks of gestation. However, when she returns to schedule an appointment, there is a long queue. After waiting all morning, she is asked to come back the next day. When she is finally seen, the staff are rude. She notices that their uniforms are dirty and they appear uninterested in the care of their patients.

  • List the actions that are non-mother friendly care
  • How can nurse provide mother friendly care to the teenage girl?

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Cultural Considerations

  • Calling woman by name may not always be appropriate in all cultures. The nurse should ask how the woman would liked to be addressed.
  • Using culture appropriate language promotes mother friendly care.

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Summary

Empathetic care helps health care workers to connect with patients emotions and relate with their situation practically while patients feel seen, heard and understood. This in turn helps build a relationship of trust between health care workers. Only then are they able to provide mother friendly care that is based on kindness, compassion, patience, gentleness and respect, manages woman as an individual, and addresses both physical and emotional needs of the mother. Mother friendly care is given throughout pregnancy and post childbirth.

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