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Gender Expansive Career Identity Mapping

A Workshop for LGBTQ+ Students Exploring Identity, Purpose & Possibility

In the Post-Secondary World

This mini-curriculum was designed by

Vaiva Velzis at Hazen Union School

who can be reached at Vvelzis@ossu.org

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Introduction

Welcome to Gender Expansive Career Identity Mapping

A mini-curriculum for LGBTQ+ Students Exploring Identity, Purpose & Possibility

This curriculum is designed for trans, nonbinary, and gender-expansive youth to explore how your identity connects to your future. Throughout this journey, we’ll reflect on your values, dreams, and the ways your gender may shape your experiences in school, work, and beyond. We’ll use creative tools like identity mapping and visioning to clarify your goals, honor your full self, and imagine what an affirming, meaningful path could look like.

You’ll also build skills to advocate for yourself and learn about your rights as you transition into the world of work and post-secondary life. This is a space to be curious, empowered, and supported.

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Session One:

Who Am I? Exploring Identity, Gender, and Self

Learning Objectives:

Deepen self-awareness by exploring how gender identity, personal values, and lived experiences influence career aspirations, personal strengths, and future goals.

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Activity 1:

🌀 1. Start with a Moment That Felt Like You

Think back to a time in your life when you felt deeply connected to yourself.

  • What were you doing?�
  • Who were you with?�
  • What made that moment feel true or powerful?�

🖊️ Write or draw out a sketch of this moment and how it felt for you?

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2. Create Your Story Timeline

On the next page, draw a line across the paper. That’s your journey. Along the line, mark:

  • Big or small moments that shaped who you are�
  • Challenges you’ve overcome�
  • People or places that changed you�
  • Any “aha!” moments�

🌱 These don’t have to be dramatic—quiet moments count too.

✏️ My Timeline (draw, doodle, or write in bullet points)

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🔍 3. What Patterns Do You Notice?

Now, look at your timeline. Ask yourself:

  • What are some things I really care about?�
  • What strengths helped me through hard times?�
  • What shows up more than once? (Like helping others, creating things, standing up for something…)�

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Activity 2: Bull's Eye Values Mapping

Instructions: Use a target (bull's eye) diagram with 4 sections labeled with your most important values (examples: kindness, freedom, creativity, justice).

Step 1: Write down your top 4 values in each quadrant. Step 2: Mark where you feel you are right now—closer to the center = living that value fully. Step 3: Reflect: What small step could you take to move closer to the center?

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Activity 3: Interest Inventory & Personality Tests

Instructions: Take one of the following free personality/interest tests online:

Reflection Questions:

  • What do you notice about your results?
  • What surprised you?
  • What careers or roles stood out to you?

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VIDEOS

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Session Two:

What’s in my way? Breaking down the barriers.

Learning Objectives: Identify and reflect on personal, social, and systemic barriers that may impact your journey into college, training programs, or the workforce—and explore tools, mindsets, and support systems that can help you navigate and overcome these challenges with confidence and self-compassion. Understand concepts of intersectionality and how it relate to power and privilege.

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Module 2: What’s In My Way?

Activity 1: Story of a Barrier

Instructions: Write or draw about a time you faced a challenge. It could be something personal, social, academic, or internal.

Prompts:

  • What was the barrier?
  • How did it make you feel?
  • What helped you get through it (if anything)?
  • What would you say now to someone going through something similar?

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Activity 3: Resilience Tree

Instructions: Draw a tree.

  • The roots are your strengths and support systems.
  • The trunk is who you are now.
  • The branches are how you’ve grown and what you’ve learned from challenges.

Label parts of the tree with words, symbols, or pictures.

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Understanding Intersectionality

Intersectionality is defined as “the interconnected nature of social categorizations such as race, class, and gender as they apply to a given individual or group, regarded as creating overlapping and interdependent systems of discrimination or disadvantage.”

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Understanding Power & Privilege

Power is the ability to make decisions, have your voice heard, or influence what happens in your life as well as the larger community. People can have more or less power depending on their identity and how society treats them. Power shows up in relationships, institutions, and systems—and not everyone has equal access to it.

Privilege is an advantage a person has because of parts of their identity—like their race, gender, class, or ability—that society values or treats more favorably. It means certain things might be easier or safer for them, not because they worked harder or deserved more, but because of how the world is set up. Privilege doesn't mean someone has an easy life; it just means that they don’t face certain barriers that others do.

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REFLECTION

Think about how different aspects of your identity (such as your gender, race, class, ability, etc.) intersect and shape your experiences. How do these intersections influence the power and privilege you may have in society? Reflect on how understanding intersectionality can help you recognize both challenges and opportunities in your own life and in the world around you.

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Session Three:

The Ever-Branching Path: Who Am I Becoming?

Exploring future possibilities rooted in purpose, imagination, and self-discovery.

Learning Objectives:

Envision multiple future paths that align with your identity, values, and strengths. Reflect on the kind of person you’re becoming and explore how your dreams, interests, and lived experiences can shape a future that feels true to you.

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Today we’re asking: Who am I becoming? What kind of life do I want to live—and how might my gender identity shape that path? Whether you know exactly what you want to do or you’re still figuring it out, this space is for reflecting on what matters most to you. Career development isn’t just about jobs—it’s about aligning your work with your truth, values, and identity.

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Just like a butterfly in its chrysalis, our identities often undergo quiet, unseen transformations. For many queer and gender-expansive people, the process of becoming is layered, nonlinear, and deeply personal. The chrysalis holds a sacred space where we can explore who we are becoming without needing all the answers. Identity mapping allows us to witness our own growth, name our changes, and imagine the wings we are still growing.

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QUEER

EMERGENCE

Queer emergence is the courageous act of self-creation—when a young person charts their own map, breaks free from the confines of imposed identity, and steps into the world as their whole, luminous self."

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Choose Your Own Adventure

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Fractal Futures Mapping

Goal: Visualize the many evolving versions of a future self.

Instructions:

  • On a large page, draw a tree or spiral. Label the center "ME NOW."�
  • Each branch or spiral ring represents a possible version of you in the future (e.g., activist, healer, artist, farmer, mentor).�
  • Add traits, interests, values, and what excites you about each one.�
  • Reflect: What do these futures have in common? What patterns do I see?

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5. Who Am I Becoming?

Based on your Fractal Futures responses, write a short “career identity statement.” This doesn’t have to be about a specific job—it’s about the kind of person you want to be in the world.

Try starting with:

  • I am someone who…�
  • I want to be known for…�
  • In the future, I hope to…�

You can write it like a poem, a few sentences, or a quote to hang on your wall.

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VIDEOS

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Session Four:

Gender at work– Representation, Safety and Expression

Learning Objectives:

Understand your rights and protections as a queer or gender-expansive person in the workplace. Explore strategies for self-advocacy, safety, and authentic gender expression on the job, and learn how to identify inclusive and affirming work environments.

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🌈 Know Your Rights at Work:

What Is Sexual Harassment?

Sexual harassment is unwanted behavior that’s sexual or based on gender or identity—and it’s illegal.

It can be:

  • 🚫 Someone making rude or sexual comments about your body or clothes�
  • 🗣 Jokes or texts that are sexual or offensive�
  • 🤢 Touching you when you don’t want it�
  • 👀 Creepy staring or invading your space�
  • 📲 Sending inappropriate messages or pictures online�
  • 🧍 Pressure to date someone, wear certain clothes, or “act” a certain way�

Harassment isn’t about flirting. It’s about power.

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🚩 Watch Out For These Situations:

  • “If you go out with me, I’ll give you more hours.” (That’s illegal.)�
  • “Lighten up, it’s just a joke.” (Nope—still harassment.)�
  • “You’d be hotter if you dressed more like a guy/girl.” (Not okay.)�
  • “I didn’t mean it like that.” (Intent doesn’t erase impact.)�

🌟 You Have Rights!

In Vermont, the law protects you no matter your gender identity or sexual orientation—even if you’re:

  • A part-time worker�
  • An intern (paid or unpaid)�
  • A contractor or working your first job

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🛑 What You Can Do If Something Feels Wrong:

  1. Trust your gut – If it feels uncomfortable, it probably is.�
  2. Write it down – Who, what, when, where. Save screenshots if it’s digital.�
  3. Talk to someone – A trusted adult, teacher, or supervisor.�
  4. Report it – Use your job’s complaint system, or go to one of the places listed below.�

You are not being dramatic. You have the right to feel safe and respected.

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💌 Where You Can Report Harassment:

📍 In Vermont:

  • Vermont Attorney General’s Office – Civil Rights Unit�
    • ago.vermont.gov�
    • Call: 888-745-9195�
  • Vermont Human Rights Commission�
    • hrc.vermont.gov�
    • Call: 800-416-2010�
  • Equal Employment Opportunity Commission (EEOC) (for big companies)�
    • eeoc.gov�
    • File a complaint online!

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🧠 Pro Tips for New Workers:

✅ Read your employee handbook� ✅ Know who to talk to if something feels off� ✅ Save important texts/emails somewhere safe� ✅ Support your co-workers if they’re being harassed� ✅ Ask questions—you don’t need to know everything yet!

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🏳️‍⚧️ Especially For You:

Being trans, nonbinary, queer, or gender-nonconforming can make workplace challenges harder—but YOU BELONG and you have backup. You never have to “tough it out” or “be chill” to keep a job.

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VIDEOS

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Session Five:

Thriving as a Gender-Expansive Student in College and Post-Secondary Ed

Learning Objectives:

Students will identify strategies and resources for navigating post-secondary education as a gender-expansive individual and develop skills for fostering a supportive and inclusive environment on campus.

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🧭 1. Know Your Rights

  • Title IX protects students from discrimination based on gender identity and sexual orientation.�
  • You have the right to access facilities (bathrooms, housing, etc.) that match your gender identity.�
  • Harassment, misgendering, or exclusion can be reported—and you have the right to support.�

💡 Tip: Search “[School Name] + Title IX Office” to find your campus’s specific protections and contact info.

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🏛️ 2. Find the Right Fit

When researching colleges or programs, look for:

  • ✅ Gender-inclusive housing & restrooms�
  • ✅ Active LGBTQ+ student organizations or resource centers�
  • ✅ Mental health or counseling services affirming of queer/trans identities�
  • ✅ Policies that allow you to use your chosen name and pronouns (on ID cards, class rosters, email, etc.)

💬 Ask Questions Like:

  • Do you have a pride center or LGBTQ+ support staff?�
  • How do you support trans and nonbinary students on campus?�
  • Can I change my name/pronouns in your student systems?

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🤝 3. Build Your Support Network

You don’t have to do this alone.

Possible support people:

  • LGBTQ+ center staff�
  • Peer mentors or affinity groups (like Queer Students of Color groups)�
  • Professors or advisors you trust�
  • Mental health counselors with LGBTQ+ training�
  • Online spaces and Discords for queer/trans students�

🌟 Your people are out there. You deserve connection, joy, and solidarity.

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💡 4. Practical Stuff to Look Into

  • Name & Gender Marker Changes: Does the school allow you to use your chosen name on documents like your ID, email, class lists, or diploma?�
  • Healthcare Access: Does your student health plan cover gender-affirming care, therapy, or HRT?�
  • Financial Aid & Scholarships: Look for LGBTQ+ scholarships (e.g., Point Foundation, Trans Student Educational Resources, local pride centers)�

📝 Pro tip: Make a checklist of what’s important to you—like safety, queer community, housing policies, or access to nature.

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💡 4. Practical Stuff to Look Into

  • Name & Gender Marker Changes: Does the school allow you to use your chosen name on documents like your ID, email, class lists, or diploma?�
  • Healthcare Access: Does your student health plan cover gender-affirming care, therapy, or HRT?�
  • Financial Aid & Scholarships: Look for LGBTQ+ scholarships (e.g., Point Foundation, Trans Student Educational Resources, local pride centers)�

📝 Pro tip: Make a checklist of what’s important to you—like safety, queer community, housing policies, or access to nature.

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📚 5. Awesome Resources to Know

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Best

Universities

for LGBTQIA+

Students

https://www.bestcolleges.com/resources/best-colleges-for-lgbt-students/

https://www.campuspride.org/2023bestofthebest/

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Queer in College Video Series

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💖 Final Words

This is your journey. It’s okay to take it step by step. You are powerful, you are becoming, and you belong—in every classroom, workshop, dorm, and dream.

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REFLECTIONS

“What we did today is a core part of career development: getting honest with ourselves about who we are, what we need, and what kind of future feels right. In work-based learning and beyond, being able to recognize your values and how your identity informs your choices can help you find work that’s both fulfilling and sustainable. This is how we build futures that fit us—not ones that ask us to shrink.”

💬 Exit slip: “One thing I’m learning about myself is…” or “One thing I want in a future job is…”

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WBL Coordinator Guide: Supporting Queer & Gender-Expansive Youth in Work-Based Learning

Purpose: Help WBL Coordinators design safe, affirming, and growth-oriented placements for LGBTQ+ youth.

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1. Start with Safety & Trust

  • Vet employers for inclusive practices and DEI commitment.
  • Ensure students have the right to use their chosen name/pronouns.
  • Ask employers about anti-harassment policies, inclusive training, and accommodations.

Sample Questions to Ask Employers:

  • How does your organization support LGBTQ+ employees or clients?
  • Have your staff received training on gender inclusivity?
  • What would a student do if they felt unsafe or disrespected at work?

2. Prioritize Affirming Partnerships

Look for or help cultivate:

  • Queer-owned businesses
  • Inclusive health, education, or arts organizations
  • Employers open to growth who welcome guidance

Tip: Build a list of "values-aligned" placement sites and let students choose from affirming options.

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3. Support Students Before, During, and After Placement

  • Offer check-ins before and during the WBL experience.
  • Help students set boundaries and clarify their goals.
  • Invite reflection after: What felt good? What could be better?

4. Provide Tools for Employers

  • 1-page guides on pronouns, chosen name use, and safe space principles
  • DEI resources or local trainings
  • Sample communication practices for feedback and support

5. Frame WBL as Empowerment

For LGBTQ+ youth, work-based learning is about:

  • Expanding possibility
  • Building confidence
  • Exploring identity through real-world experiences

Let students know: They deserve to be safe and celebrated everywhere.

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THANK YOU FOR PARTICIPATING!

This curriculum was created by Vaiva Velzis

At Hazen Union School

You can reach them at Vvelzis@ossu.org