MINDFULNESS STRATEGIES
Part 2
Mindfulness
INTRODUCTION
Last week we talked about strategies to pause, notice, and reflect, comparing our emotions and sensations to either weather or traffic. How’d that work out for you? Discuss with a partner.
In Summary
Pausing, Noticing, Resetting
Weather in Your Head
Traffic Patterns in Your Mind
These are the strategies we discussed last week.
It’s a mindful strategy to pause, notice how you are feeling, and then re-set, or begin again.
You can do this by stopping to notice how you are feeling and compare it to a weather pattern.
You could also do this by comparing your thoughts and feelings to different types of traffic patterns.
Why?
Debrief
Today, we are going to learn about two strategies that might help put some of these emotions and sensations into perspective: Thoughts in My Mind and Emotions of My Day
Thoughts in My Mind
Step 1
Step 2
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Step 4
Synthesis
For one minute, do nothing but think.
After a minute is up, jot down everything you were thinking of during that minute.
Now, give each one of those thoughts a label. Label them either P (pleasant), U (unpleasant) or N (neutral)
Look at your labels. Do you notice any patterns? What category did you have the most of? Did certain thoughts keep coming up for you? If you feel comfortable, share with a partner.
This exercise is another version of “Name it to Tame It”. It makes you aware of the thoughts that you are having and helps you put them in perspective. Remember that simply checking in with your thoughts and feelings is a mindful practice.
WHAT SHOULD I DO IF MY THOUGHTS TEND TO BE MORE NEGATIVE?
Here are 11 ideas to stop negative thought patterns and move on.
Which three ideas make the most sense to you?
Emotions of My Day
On a sheet of paper, use emotion words to describe the way you feel during each of these points in your day. Feel free to add other parts of your day.
Here are some emotion words to use:
anger envy
joy comfort
surprise happiness
disgust guilt
sadness excitement
fear dread
anxiety nervousness
love frustration
peacefulness sorrow
satisfaction regret
depression boredom
pride curiosity
shame accomplishment
embarrassment shyness
hope optimism
nervousness confusion
thankfulness trust
relief contentment
Time of Day | Emotion | Time of Day | Emotion |
Waking Up | | After School | |
Getting Ready for School | | At After School Activities | |
Arriving to School | | Running Errands | |
First Block | | Dinner Time | |
Advisement | | At Work | |
Second Block | | Seeing People I Don’t Care For | |
Third Block | | Household Chores | |
Lunch | | Accomplishing Tasks | |
Fourth Block | | Getting Ready for Bed | |
THOUGHTS IN MY MIND
Take a look at your emotions at different parts of the day. Do you feel more negative or positive emotions during specific times? Does anticipation of a certain event trigger a certain emotion? What might you do to prevent the negative triggers? For example, if getting ready for school always makes you feel frustrated, what might you be able to do to lessen that frustration (have clothes laid out, have lunch packed the night before, set your alarm for ten minutes earlier….) Share some ideas to prevent some common negative triggers.
In Summary
Thoughts in My Mind
Emotions of My Day
Two Strategies
Think for a minute, write down your thoughts, label.
Identify how you feel at different points of the day. What can you do to make negative parts of your day better?