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Expressing an Opinion/ Asking for Clarification

Building on

What Others Say

Agreeing/Disagreeing

  • I think/ believe/ predict/imagine that…
  • In my opinion…
  • It seems to me that…
  • Not everyone will agree with me, but…

  • Can you give me an example?
  • Can you tell me more about…?
  • How did you…?
  • So what you’re saying is…?
  • Where can I find that?
  • Why did you do that?
  • Another example is…
  • You bring up an interesting point, and I also think…
  • That’s an interesting idea. I wonder,...?
  • I thought about that also, and I’m wondering why...?
  • I hadn’t thought of that before. You make me wonder if…? Do you think…?
  • ____________ said that… I agree and also think…
  • Based on the ideas from__________, ____________, and ____________, it seems like we all think that…
  • That’s an excellent point, and I would add…
  • I agree with what _______ said because…
  • That’s true. I also think that…
  • That makes sense because…
  • That’s how I see it too, because…
  • I agree with the point that…

  • I disagree because…
  • I don’t think that’s right since…
  • That’s not how I see it. I think…
  • Another way to look at it is…
  • My idea is slightly different from yours. I believe that___________ I think that…
  • I have a different answer than you.

Speaking Like a Scholar

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Gather more information

Clarify your understanding

Show that you’re listening

Affirming Feelings

  • Would/could you tell me a little more?
  • Can you tell me what you need right now?
  • Is there anything else you’d like to share?
  • Would you like my help in figuring this out?
  • Let me see if I have this right….
  • I want to make sure I understand what you’re telling me. What I’m hearing is….
  • What I hear you saying is…. Is that right?

  • Let me see if I have this right….
  • I want to make sure I understand what you’re telling me. What I’m hearing is….
  • What I hear you saying is…. Is that right?
  • Thank you for sharing this with me.
  • I understand you feel that way.
  • That sounds like an [adjective] experience.
  • I hear you.
  • I’m not sure what to say right now, but I’m here to listen.

Speaking With Empathy