Blueprint Questions

For Past Conflicts

What happened?

• How did you feel?

• What caused the feelings?

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Next time, thinking of your best self, what might you do differently?

• How did the other person feel?

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You

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• What caused the feelings?

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Other Person

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Blueprint Questions

For Future Conflicts

What could happen?

• How might you feel?

• Why might you feel this way?

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Think of your best self:

How might you respond?

• How might the other person feel?

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You

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• Why might the other person feel this way?

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Other Person

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