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SEL Learning Goal 5: Responsible and Ethical Decision-making

Subgoal 5B: Engage in a reflective process to evaluate outcomes

Definitions: Evaluate and Reflect

Grade Bands Pre K to 6

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How to use this module…

Please print out a copy of this module to add to the others you have already done so that you can write on the pages when there is a reflection or activity to do.

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Universal Design for Learning (UDL) & SEL

ALL of the SEL skills, strategies, ideas, activities to do with students can be adjusted, adapted, and accommodated so that ALL students can ACCESS and PARTICIPATE in Social- Emotional Learning Goals and Competencies.

Through:

Multiple Means of Engagement

Multiple Means of Representation

Multiple Means of Action and Expression

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Let’s Review the New SEL Definition

CASEL’s (The Collaborative for Social Emotional Learning) New Definition describes SEL as: Social and emotional learning (SEL) is an integral part of education and human development. SEL is the process through which all young people and adults acquire and apply the knowledge, skills, and attitudes to develop healthy identities, manage emotions and achieve personal and collective goals, feel and show empathy for others, establish and maintain supportive relationships, and make responsible and caring decisions.”

“We’ve updated our definition and framework to pay close attention to how SEL affirms the identities, strengths and experiences of all children, including those who have been marginalized in our education systems.”

CASEL: https://casel.org/what-is-sel/

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A Closer Look at Responsible and Ethical Decision-Making

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Responsible and Ethical Decision-Making Includes...

  • Identifying problems
  • Analyzing situations
  • Solving problems
  • Evaluating
  • Reflecting
  • Ethical responsibility “I can be responsible.”

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SEL Learning Goal 5: Responsible and Ethical Decision-Making

MVSD Benchmark Skills and Strategies: Pre-K-K

Subgoal 5B: Engage in a reflective process to evaluate decision outcomes

Definition: Evaluate and reflect (strategies in red from MVSD SEL Curriculum)

Benchmark Skills

Strategies

When prompted and supported by a trusted adult:

  • I can begin to recognize how emotions are linked to behavior.
  • I can begin to think about my own actions and behavior.
  • I can reflect on my behavior with support.
  • Help students learn behaviors such as listening, paying attention, following directions, and ignoring distractions.
  • In class a meeting, have students compose a list of classroom and playground rules, consequences, and ways to help others follow them.
  • Allow students to choose where they would like to sit during quiet reading.
  • Teach students vocabulary words such as honesty, responsibility, and perseverance and the relationship to social and academic behaviors.

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Honesty is the Best Policy

Video stories to share with children when teaching them about honesty and consequences.

Discuss after… what does Ricky lie about? What does he want to do?

What is the consequence of Ricky’s lying?

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Don’t Cheat to Win

Vocabulary and concepts to focus on: cheating, honesty

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Ruthie and the Teeny Tiny Lie

Vocabulary and concepts to focus on: lying, telling the truth

How does your tummy feel when you tell a lie? Does it do flip flops? How does your thinking brain feel? So you feel worried? Do you think about the lie all the time and you can’t eat or sleep?

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The Honesty Song- Be Honest

Teach students The Honesty Song!

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The Power of Self- Reflection

The Empowered Educator Online offers 16 Ways Educators Can Help Young Children Self-Reflect and Why it’s Important

  • The skill of knowing how to self-reflect has to be taught.
  • “Young children need to feel comfortable asking questions, think about their own feelings, go over the actions and behaviors they take and make, and think about how their behavior affects others.”

Scroll down the article to the awesome list of 16 Ideas from the author on how to teach children about self-evaluating.

After viewing the list, find one idea you will try with your students.

Source: https://www.theempowerededucatoronline.com/2020/02/16-ways-educators-can-help-young-children-self-reflect.html/#:~:text=Ask%20the%20groups%20to%20brainstorm,down%20rather%20than%20using%20photos.

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Scholastic has an adaptable set of ideas to talk about with students when setting up classroom rules and consequences. If students are a part of creating the rules, they will be more likely to follow them. Scholastic suggests using this list to get started:

  1. Treat others as you would like to be treated.
  2. Respect other people and their property (e.g., no hitting, no stealing).
  3. Laugh with anyone, but laugh at no one.
  4. Be responsible for your own learning.
  5. Come to class and hand in assignments on time.
  6. Do not disturb people who are working.

Read on for details...here then read on about setting consequences…. here

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Why is it important to create the classroom expectations together?

The Art of Education offers 3 benefits:

  1. Your students will feel valued.
  2. Your students will begin to understand the value of collaboration (even at this young age).
  3. Your students will have a clear understanding of the expectations.

Read on to see HOW you can create these shared classroom expectations (adapt to the younger age group as needed).

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SEL Learning Goal 5: Responsible and Ethical Decision-Making

MVSD Benchmark Skills and Strategies: Grade 1 & 2

Subgoal 5B: Engage in a reflective process to evaluate decision outcomes

Definition: Evaluate and reflect (strategies in red from MVSD SEL Curriculum)

Benchmark Skills

Strategies

  • I can describe a “stop, think, act” review strategy in solving problems.
  • I can identify reliable sources of adult help in the immediate setting.
  • During morning meeting circles, have students identify problems that students their age may have. Pick one of the problems that you feel are most prevalent in your classroom and for round 2- ask for suggestions to solve the problem. After each suggestion, ask what might happen if you did that. Brainstorm all ideas.
  • You -Tube video “Simon the Self-Control Seal” teaches students a strategy for reflecting upon a situation to evaluate the best choice with a catchy song repeated over and over so students remember.
  • Create a pro/con poster to reflect on an identified problem.

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Simon the Self-Control Seal

What’s the best choice? Have students listen to the story and learn the song Simon Sings: “Stop, Think, and Breathe, and Make the Right Choice”

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STOP, THINK, and BREATHE…

and make the right choice!

Make copies and have each student keep this on their desks where they can remember and practice singing it when making choices- enlarge to hang a big sign in the classroom!

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STOP, THINK, and ACT!

Here is another picture example to use to teach children what to do before they act or behave in certain situations.

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Strategies to Teach Young Children How to Solve Real Problems Kids Their Age May Have

These 8 Strategies come from a site called: The Atlas Mission - from the HOME page, The Atlas Mission is: an educational game for ages 3-7 that improves reading and writing skills, STEM and 21st Skills, and brings awareness to other cultures

To read more on each strategy AND to download a FREE copy of the game go HERE

STRATEGY 1: Talk it Out STRATEGY 5: Work in a Group

STRATEGY 2: ACT it OUT/ Role Play STRATEGY 6: Practice Trial and Error

STRATEGY 3: Draw it STRATEGY 7: Make a Model

STRATEGY 4: Use Manipulatives STRATEGY 8: GIve Your Little One

Jobs/ errands to do

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Pro and Con Real Life Problem Solving Graphic Organizer

Model and practice using the PRO and CON organizer as a way to brainstorm real life problems that young children may have:

To get this FREE organizer from All Kids Network, register here. (adapt as needed)

Make a poster size PRO /CON sheet so children can see it and interact with it as you write down their ideas.

TPT offers a FREE PRO and CON Graphic Organizer , click here (adapt as needed)

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SEL Learning Goal 5: Responsible and Ethical Decision-Making

MVSD Benchmark Skills and Strategies: Grade 3 & 4

Subgoal 5B: Engage in a reflective process to evaluate decision outcomes

Definition: Evaluate and reflect (strategies in red from MVSD SEL Curriculum)

Benchmark Skills

Strategies

  • I can reflect on my behaviors and choices and identify what was helpful vs harmful.
  • I can describe how my past experiences will influence my future choices.
  • I can take responsibility for my choices.
  • Provide time for reflection, both independent and as a whole group (journals, exit tickets, think-pair-share, closing circles).
  • Draw a scene (with speech bubbles) to represent what happened. After reflection, redraw the scene with changes for next time.
  • Use common language: “What happened?” “What would you do differently next time?” “Is there anything you need to do to make it right?”
  • Use positive reinforcement when students take responsibility rather than the negative situation.

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Teaching Young Children How to Self- Monitor Behavior- AKA- Self- Regulation

Learning how self- regulate and self- monitor one’s behavior is a part of the Executive Functions Family of Skills (EF). While EF skills come more naturally to some of us and we have learned by seeing others model self- regulating behaviors, EF skills are not inherent and need to be taught. How can we teach children to regulate their behaviors and reflect on whether their actions were helpful or harmful?

The OT Toolbox offers some helpful tips and strategies.

Author Colleen Beck shares that when children can self- monitor their actions and thoughts, many areas are developed: attention, behavior, problem-solving abilities, hindsight, foresight, persistence, shift

To read the entire article, go here.

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Student Self- Evaluations

Teachers Pay Teachers offers free behavior self assessment checklists. You can modify the checklist to meet the needs of your students.

Here’s another FREE self- evaluation checklist that covers many areas.

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Exit Tickets for Self-Reflection

The author of Primarily Speaking.com offers some helpful suggestions for using exit tickets for self-reflection. She shares the benefits:

  • They give students practice with higher order thinking and self-monitoring.
  • They help students think more deeply about their learning experiences.
  • They are an easy way to squeeze in a bit of extra writing.
  • They give students practice with communicating thoughts and ideas.
  • They can provide insight to your students' strengths and weaknesses from their perspective which can help drive your instruction/interactions with your students.

Get your students in the habit of self-reflecting with this easy tool!

Click here for FREE Exit Tickets!

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Whole Group Reflection

The Gifted Guru offers some whole group reflection questions to use with students. These can be adapted for any age group. Here is a small sampling:

  • How do you think you did working with this group compared with groups you’ve worked with in the past?
  • If you were to work with this same group again, what is one change the group could make to work together more effectively?
  • What was the greatest challenge you had as a group?
  • On a scale of 1 – 10, 10 being best, how well do you feel you demonstrated respect for the opinions of others in the group? (click here for many more)

Do you use whole group reflection activities with your students? If yes, what questions do you ask?f not, do you see some questions on the list that you might use?

Source: https://www.giftedguru.com/group-work-reflection-questions/

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Rings of Responsibility

Show your students this brief but powerful video from Common Sense Education on: Rings of Responsibility

After viewing it, have class discussion about the concept of a “ripple effect” and how our actions can lead to other actions and consequences that are not always positive.

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Taking Responsibility for Our Choices

Social Emotional Workshop offers some suggestions as to how making responsibility and choice is important for the classroom:

  • Students better understand their role as learners
  • It’s an opportunity for planning when there is struggle
  • Helps students stay engaged in their work

The author offers some strategies to implement in the classroom to support students in gaining responsibility and choice, but with some “guardrails”: Take a look here:

  • Development classroom norms
  • Event Planners- Classroom Community Events
  • Seating choice
  • Peer Tutoring
  • Homework Choice
  • Choice Boards
  • Celebrations
  • Test Questions

Source: https://www.socialemotionalworkshop.com/2018/03/responsibility-and-choice-in-the-classroom/

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Resources for Helping Students with Responsibility

Check out this FREE resource” from Teachers Pay Teachers:

“I take responsibility for my own actions.” - you could use it as an intro to Responsibility and Making Choices

Conflict Resolution Sheet - a self-reflection sheet that can help students identify what happened, how it made them feel, and owning their part of what happened

Character Education: Responsibility - this resource includes:

  • a pre-teaching section
  • books that support the topic of responsibility (by grade bands)
  • Responsibility activities and videos to share with students

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SEL Learning Goal 5: Responsible and Ethical Decision-Making

MVSD Benchmark Skills and Strategies: Grade 5 & 6

Subgoal 5B: Engage in a reflective process to evaluate decision outcomes

Definition: Evaluate and reflect (strategies in red from MVSD SEL Curriculum)

Benchmark Skills

Strategies

  • I can recognize when something may be getting in the way of responsible decision-making.
  • I can identify and actively seek adults for support to reflect on a decision.
  • I have learned from past experiences to help guide with future decision-making.
  • Students reflect on a previous decision and what they would change for the future.
  • Students make a list of trusted adults in their lives and note how they trust them.
  • Students create and fill out a pie chart or a table with three sections. Label each section: “detect” (identify), “reflect” (on the situation), “correct” (what you would do differently next time).

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Resources for Teachers:

Teaching Students How to Identify Trusted Adults

RMC Health Partners is an organization that provides “professional learning and capacity-building that helps prepare young people to be knowledgeable, capable, and effective.” Check out this resource for Identifying trusted adults- HEALTH SKILL: Access Valid & Reliable Resources- Although this is targeted for younger children, the info it contains within it can be easily modified to meet the needs of learners at any grade level.

Resource to Use With Students: How to Identify Trusted Adults

  • What to Look For in a Trusted Adult
  • Student Activity: Create a Trust Tree

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Adams12 Five Star Schools offers a teaching tool/resource for parents and educators on: Becoming a Trusted Adult for Youth.

This resource can support educators in “How to use trusted adult strategies to have conversations with youth about difficult subjects and navigate conversations as a family, from cleaning your room to resisting peer pressure.”- Adams12.org

Check out this amazing resource - it includes strategies such as reflective listening with a “TRY IT” slide that follows each strategy in the slide show.

Source of info for this slide: https://www.adams12.org/sites/default/files/uploads/documents/April%20BHC%20Trusted%20Adult%20Slides%20%281%29.pdf

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Teaching Students to Become Better Decision-Makers

VeryWell Mind offers: 9 Little Habits That Make You a Better Decision Maker: Although the focus in the article is on adults, for educational purposes, these Habits have been modified to look through the student lens at this age level. They can be used by teachers when working with their students on how to self- evaluate their decision-making skills in order to become more effective decision-makers:

HABIT 1: Take a look to see if you act in a way that is overconfident: especially when it comes to your time management- students may think they’ve got this and may procrastinate and then when assignment or project is due, they realize they didn’t give themselves enough time to do it well.

HABIT 2: Identify the risks you take: have students think about their daily habits and identify which ones are or could become unhealthy over time, and create a plan for healthier habits

Source: https://www.verywellmind.com/habits-for-better-decision-making-4153045

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Healthy Habits for Decision-making continued...

Habit 3: Frame Your Problems in a Different Way: teach students how to frame the issue and by changing the wording, it can help make a difference on hat decision they make (ex: you need surgery and the dr says “90% of people survive” vs looking through a negative lens “ 10% of the people don’t make it”)

Habit 4: Stop Thinking About the Problem: help students understand that over-thinking choices can be a problem- can increase stress levels and then it becomes hard to make any decision

Habit 5: Set aside time to Reflect on Mistakes: share with students that it is a good idea to reflect on the choices they made throughout the day- teach them to use the: “detect”, “reflect”, and “correct” strategy (next slide) * from MVSD’s SEL Guide

Source: https://www.verywellmind.com/habits-for-better-decision-making-4153045

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Detect, Reflect, and Correct: An Exercise and Guide for Future Decision-making

DETECT

(Identify the problem/ decision you made)

REFLECT

(look closely the decision)

CORRECT

(think about what you might do differently next time)

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Detect, Reflect, and Correct Pie Chart: An Exercise and Guide for Future Decision-making

Detect Reflect

Correct

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Healthy Habits for Decision-making continued...

Habit 6: Acknowledge Your Shortcuts: teach students that our brains create mental shortcuts to help us make quicker decisions- but sometimes, that can be more hurtful than helpful sometimes we make quick decisions based on info that comes to mind; info we see frequently can affect our decisions

Habit 7: Consider the Opposite: explain to students that once we decide something is true, we usually stick with that belief so to work on changing this is to argue the opposite- do exercises with students to practice this strategy: arguing the opposite (ex: if you think giving a speech in front of the class is uncomfortable and not possible, think about what can help make it possible and comfortable so you can do it)

Source: https://www.verywellmind.com/habits-for-better-decision-making-4153045

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Healthy Habits for Decision-making continued...

Habit 8: Label Your Emotions: for more details on labeling emotions go here - share with students that their feelings impact the decisions they make- labeling feelings can lead to better decisions-teach students to make it a daily habit to label how they are feeling!

Habit 9: Talk to Yourself Like a Trusted Friend: teach students that when they are dealing with a decision they need to make and are struggling, they can ask themselves: “What would I say to a friend who has this problem?”

Source: https://www.verywellmind.com/habits-for-better-decision-making-4153045

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Decision-Making Resources

Check out this resource- 5 Best Decision-Making Activities for Middle School

Decision-making worksheet and scenarios

Decision-making activities for the whole class - focuses on the importance of making informed decisions

Decision Making Wheel Activity- change the scenarios and/or come up with your own for the class to work through- break students into smaller groups

Wheel source from: https://www.dese.gov.au/

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You Did It!!!

You have completed SEL Learning Goal 5: Responsible and Ethical Decision-Making Subgoals A & B for Grade Bands Pre K-6!

For a final reflection, please reflect upon a new learning, strategy, idea, video, etc from this module- something that you hadn’t had any prior knowledge about and/or one takeaway that you will try and/or incorporate your teaching. Thank you for your participation!

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THANK YOU!

My hope is somewhere along in this process of all the new learning and discovery of ideas, strategies, tools, and resources for SEL Teaching Practices that you gained in these modules, you now feel excited, confident, and ready to infuse and embed these into your daily teaching, EVERYTHING you do makes a difference and as Maya Angelou once said: