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PRE-NUP�to ensure a better, lasting & loving marriage

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Themes

  • Creating a Pre-Nup through mediation to build a stronger and fairer foundation to increase the chance for a successful marriage instead of an adversarial, “sign it or leave” contract.
  • Save women from being left with nothing.
  • Protect from those who use marriage to provide for a luxurious lifestyle during and even afterwards.
  • Improve the Pre-Nup industry from its mostly negative public opinion
  • Improve the quality and length of marriages

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PRE-NUP – THE SHOW

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“Pre-Nup”the show �Steps to build a better marriage

  • 1) Opening
  • 2) Introduction of Couple
  • 3) Goals to Paper
  • 4) Create “win-win” agreement
  • 5) Consult with their lawyers
  • 6) Finalize decision
  • 7) Judicial Review – after 6 or throughout
  • 8) Results & Audience Vote
  • 9) Follow Up

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I. Opening

  • The institution of marriage is failing and is too risky and fast becoming less appealing for our society.
  • Pre-nups are seen as one-sided and adversarial and hurtful to many women
  • Utilizing the Gray Pre-Nup as the solution to building happy lasting marriages.

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II. Introduction of the Couple

  • Couple introduce selves “we are getting married”
  • How they met
  • How they proposed
  • What they love about each other
  • Describe their backgrounds
  • Describe their dream marriage

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III. Goals to Paper

  • Discussion with host:

- Goals

- Concerns

-What they bring to the table

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  • Prioritize their Goals

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IV. Create “win-win” agreement

  • Sit together to share their goals
  • Work together w/ Pre-Nup mediator to create a “win-win” agreement

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V. Consult with their Lawyers

  • Take agreement to their lawyers to evaluate
  • Decide to accept, reject or counter offer.
  • Exhaust counter offers until decision reached
  • Make a decision on final offer.

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VI. Finalize Decision

  • Share final choices
  • What were the compromises
  • What were remaining concerns
  • Who won according to audience
  • Audience favorability & feedback

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VII. Results

  • Break Up
  • Stay As Is
  • Get Married

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VIII. Follow up

  • 3 months afterwards get their status and feedback
  • At conclusion of future shows provide updates if anything changed with the status of passed couples such as having kids or divorced.

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ADDITIONAL

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Value to Law Firms

  • Valuable exposure by providing an avenue to make them the most famous lawyers & law firms in their market and even the country.
  • Attract new clients to their firm
  • Attract top legal talent applicants
  • Make $ as producers when the show is televised from advertisers & sponsors
  • Make ongoing $ on reruns & additional clients

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Partnering with Firms

  • Partnerships to offer:
    • Single Show
    • Multiple Show packages
    • Entire season
    • Exclusive in city just for that season
    • Exclusive territory rights for multiple years
    • If a large firm in multiple markets we can partner with them in other markets.
    • Listed on our web site for potential clients to contact

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Multiple Market Strategy

  • Large Firms in multiple markets
  • New city each season
  • Multiple cities each season to expand viewership

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Attracting Participants

  • Celebrity engaged couples
  • Engagements in NYT, Town & Country, and leading publications in the market
  • Law Firm compelling couples struggling with pre-nup
  • HNW couples struggling with Pre-nup
  • Diverse couples of mixed nationalities, religions, races and LGBTQ

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Top Pre-Nup Lawyers in Atlanta

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Links & Notes

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  • https://www.avvo.com/marriage-prenuptials-lawyer/ga/atlanta.html

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Locations for Show Production

  • Introductions of couple
  • Law Office board room
  • Wedding scene if successful

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The GRAY Pre-Nup System©

  • Mediate to a better and unifying marriage:

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  • BLACK – adversarial. Sign (get nothing) or break up.
  • WHITE – No Pre-Nup. Naïve or scared to protect yourself. 50% risk of losing half of your assets and even prison for the 70% false domestic abuse claims.
  • GRAY – co-operate & unify through mediation and Life Planning for stronger, honest, trusting, lasting & loving marriages with an agreement as protection.

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The GRAY PRE-NUP System Clauses

  • ABANDONMENT
  • ADULTRY
  • DNA TEST THE KIDS UPON BIRTH
  • LIE DETECTOR IF ABUSE EVER ACCUSED – false accusers get nothing.
  • WEIGHT – incentive to remain healthy and attractive
  • DRUG AND/OR ALCOHOL ABUSE
  • PRE-MARITAL ASSETS & DEBTS
  • POST MARITAL ASSETS & DEBTS: HOUSE, CAR
  • INHERITANCE
  • INSURANCE – HEALTH, CAR, LTC, LIFE
  • STEP KIDS - do not ever adopt them. Love them as own.
  • FAMILY ISSUES – not responsible for spouse’s family
  • CUSTODY OF PETS
  • LENGTH OF ALIMONY
  • HEALTH – to deter risky behavior and encourage treatment and liability
  • MENTAL HEALTH – encourage treatment and protect spouse

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Merchandise

  • “Marriage” Board Game – LIFE type game with divorce, issues, prison for false abuse & pre-nups to protect
  • “Marriage Planning” Card Game – soft way to help couples initiate conversation to create a pre-nup, especially if one party is opposed
  • Hats – promote show & legal partners
  • Shirts & Sweats - promote show & legal partners

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Post Nup

  • Offer similar Pre-Nup consultation to married couples especially if there is a windfall event such as inheritance, stock options, IPO, business buy out, patent, invention, sports & entertainment contract, lottery etc.

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Tools on Web Site

  • Law firms
  • Legal resources
  • Legal forms
  • Chat room
  • Books
  • Legal aid
  • FAQ’s and Legal tips
  • Match makers

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Pre-Nup Team

  • Creator – John Gray
  • Executive Producer – Judge JT Michael
  • Co-Producer & Co-Host – Samantha Bessudo-Drucker
  • Co-Producers: Yvonne Forbes & Dawn Mitchell
  • Co-Host: Hill Harper

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