SELF-ESTEEM

Student Support Services

Spring 2004

Workshop Overview

• Self-Esteem…What is it?
• Self-Esteem…What’s it made of?
• Types of Self-esteem
• The secret to improving Self-esteem

Self-Esteem…What is it?

• Self-esteem refers to the way we see and think about ourselves.

Self-Esteem…What’s it made of?

• Your self-esteem is made up of all the experiences and interpersonal relationships you’ve had in your life. Everyone you’ve ever met has added to or taken away from how you see yourself!

The Effects of High Self-Esteem

• People with high self-esteem possess the following characteristics:

-They like to meet new people.

-They don’t worry about how others will judge them.

-They have the courage to express themselves.

-Their lives are enriched with each new encounter.

-They are nicer to be around.

-Their ideas are met with interest because others want to hear what they have to say.

-They are magnets to positive opportunities!

People with high self-esteem have an “I think I can” attitude!

The Effects of Low Self-Esteem

• People with low self-esteem possess the following characteristics:

-They don’t believe in themselves.

-They see themselves failing before they begin.

-They have a hard time forgiving their mistakes and make themselves pay the price forever.

-They believe they can never be as good as they should be or as others.

-They are afraid to show their creativity because they will be ridiculed.

-They are dissatisfied with their lives.

-They spend most of their time alone.

-They complain and criticize.

-They worry about everything and do nothing.

People with low self-esteem have an “I can’t do it” attitude.

12 Steps to High Self-Esteem

• Step 1

-Forgive yourself for past mistakes.

• Step 2

-Focus on your positive attributes.

• Step 3

-Follow the example of successful people.

• Step 4

-Become a self talker.

Step 5

-Exhibit a good attitude.

Step 6

-Get plenty of rest.

Step 7

-Make your work skills your own

Step 8

-Practice your talents

Step 9

-Become physically fit.

Step 10

-Learn new things.

Step 11

-Improve your personal relationships.

Step 12

-Dress well!

Lets Review

• Self-esteem comes from every experience of your life.
• How you view yourself affects everything you do in life.
• High self-esteem gives you a GOOD feeling about yourself.
• Low self-esteem distorts your view of yourself.
• Self-esteem can me improved!

Final Thought

• You are a unique individual. No one else is like you in the whole world. This makes you special already!
• Our time in this world is limited. Make it happen for you so you leave your mark in history!

Thank you for Coming!

Student Support Services

Spring 2004

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