Lidership dhe Shërbim Ushtarak

Pete Peterson

14 Mars 2017

Familja e Pete dhe Pam Peterson

Pete dhe Pam Peterson
me nipërit dhe mbesat

Karriera në Forcat Ajrore

  • Akademia e Forcave Ajrore (Pranova Krishtin)
  • Pilot Mësues / Pilot i Transportit Ajror
  • Shkolla e lartë / Oficer shtabi
  • Komandanti i skuadrës së Transportit Ajror
  • Komandanti i grupit “Operacionet e Lëvizshmërisë së Ajrit”
  • Komandanti i grupit për trainimin “Lëvizshmëria e Ajrit”
  • Zëvendës Komandant, Forca Ajrore e Numëruar
  • Zyra Qendrore, Drejtuesi i Operacioneve

Çfarë është Lidershipi

Lidership / Fuqi që përdoret nëpërmjet…

  • Pozicionit
  • Aftësisë/Ekspertizës
  • I denjë / E drejta e Respektit

Lidershipi është Influencë...

  • Karakteri
  • Aftësitë
  • Veprat

Ji një Lider - Ji një Influencues

In 1959, French and Raven described five bases of power:

Legitimate – This comes from the belief that a person has the formal right to make demands, and to expect others to be compliant and obedient.

Reward – This results from one person's ability to compensate another for compliance.

Expert – This is based on a person's high levels of skill and knowledge.

Referent – This is the result of a person's perceived attractiveness, worthiness and right to others' respect.

Coercive – This comes from the belief that a person can punish others for noncompliance.

Six years later, Raven added an extra power base:

Informational – This results from a person's ability to control the information that others need to accomplish something.

Lidership -- Përgjegjës për

  • Kryerjen e Misionit

  • Kujdesu për NjerëzitDuke Siguruar
    • Burime
    • Njohje
    • Respekt

  • Kujdesu për ….
    • Veten
    • Familjen tënde
    • Skuadrën tënde

Ephesians 2:10

Ephesians 6:9 Holman Christian Standard Bible (HCSB)

And masters, treat your slaves the same way, without threatening them, because you know that both their Master and yours is in heaven, and there is no favoritism with Him.

Ephesians 6:5-7 Holman Christian Standard Bible (HCSB)

Slaves, obey your human[a] masters with fear and trembling, in the sincerity of your heart, as to Christ. Don’t work only while being watched, in order to please men, but as slaves of Christ, do God’s will from your heart.[b] Serve with a good attitude, as to the Lord and not to men,

1 Corinthians 6:20 Holman Christian Standard Bible (HCSB)

20 for you were bought at a price. Therefore glorify God in your body.[a]

Ephesians 5:25 Holman Christian Standard Bible (HCSB)

25 Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave Himself for her

Ephesians 6:4 Holman Christian Standard Bible (HCSB)

Fathers, don’t stir up anger in your children, but bring them up in the training and instruction of the Lord.

Lidership -- Përgjegjës për…

  • Kryerjen e Misionit

  • Kujdesu për Njerëzit…Duke Siguruar…
    • Burime
    • Njohje
    • Respekt

  • Kujdesu për ….
    • Veten
    • Familjen tënde
    • Skuadrën tënde

Efesianëve 6:9 Udhëheqësit

Efesianëve 6:5-7 Ndjekësit

Efesianëve 5:25, 6:4

Ji një Lider - Ji një Influencues

Ephesians 2:10

Ephesians 6:9 Holman Christian Standard Bible (HCSB)

And masters, treat your slaves the same way, without threatening them, because you know that both their Master and yours is in heaven, and there is no favoritism with Him.

Ephesians 6:5-7 Holman Christian Standard Bible (HCSB)

Slaves, obey your human[a] masters with fear and trembling, in the sincerity of your heart, as to Christ. Don’t work only while being watched, in order to please men, but as slaves of Christ, do God’s will from your heart.[b] Serve with a good attitude, as to the Lord and not to men,

1 Corinthians 6:20 Holman Christian Standard Bible (HCSB)

20 for you were bought at a price. Therefore glorify God in your body.[a]

Ephesians 5:25 Holman Christian Standard Bible (HCSB)

25 Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave Himself for her

Ephesians 6:4 Holman Christian Standard Bible (HCSB)

Fathers, don’t stir up anger in your children, but bring them up in the training and instruction of the Lord.

Çfarë është Mentorimi?

Mentori është …

    • Shembulli
    • Këshilltar i aftë

Mentori ndihmon të zhvillojë …

    • Urtësi
    • Vlerësim
    • Aftësi ripërtëritëse
    • Pavarësi

Wisdom – how things work, intended to work, how systems work

Judgment – understanding the consequences of decisions and actions

Resilience – learning from mistakes, coming back with renewed confidence, strength, determination

Independence – when one is ready to accept increasing challenges and reasonable risks, promoting self-reliance

The Art of Mentoring by Shirley Peddy (2001)

Çfarë është Mentorimi?

Mentori është …

    • Shembulli
    • Këshilltar i aftë

Mentori ndihmon të zhvillojë …

    • Urtësi
    • Vlerësim
    • Aftësi ripërtëritëse
    • Pavarësi

Ji një Mentor - Merr mentorim vetë

Ungjijtë

Jezusi dhe 12 dishepujt

Veprat e Apostujve 16:3

Pali -- Timoteu

Veprat 15:39 dhe

2 Timoteu 4:11

Barnaba – Gjon Marku

Wisdom – how things work, intended to work, how systems work

Judgment – understanding the consequences of decisions and actions

Resilience – learning from mistakes, coming back with renewed confidence, strength, determination

Independence – when one is ready to accept increasing challenges and reasonable risks, promoting self-reliance

The Art of Mentoring by Shirley Peddy (2001)

Çfarë bëjnë Udhëheqësit?

  • Drejtojnë me anë të shembullit (Modeli)
  • Demonstrojnë integritet

dhe besnikëri

  • Promovojnë bashkëpunim
  • Janë besnikë (ndaj udhëheqësve/ndaj ndjekësve)
  • Sigurojnë disiplinë

1 Timothy 4:12 Holman Christian Standard Bible (HCSB)

12 Let no one despise your youth; instead, you should be an example to the believers in speech, in conduct, in love,[a] in faith, in purity.

Matt 5:13, 16 Your are salt, you are light -- Let your light shine before men….

Psalm 78:72 NIV

And David shepherded them with integrity of heart; with skillful hands he led them.

GUIDANCE

• Teamwork is Critical

• Communicate/Communicate/Communicate

• Leadership Makes a Difference

• Integrity/Trustworthiness

Need to know the whole story (especially the ugly)

Need to see “the good, the bad, and the ugly”

Can’t do more with less, do less with less

• Be a mentor and Role Model

• Loyalty…up and down the chain of command

• Build and communicate your vision/focus

Important versus urgent (It is not in the “inbox”)

Priorities = 80% of value in top 20% of activities

Determine WHAT is really important -- WORK THAT!

Work your bosses’ problems

• Communicate recognizable goals/philosophy

• Goals provide guidance and direction

People know goal, know their role/contribution

• Honest and Open decision making

• Mistakes versus Crimes

• Discipline -- Timely, Proportionate, Fair, and Consistent

Don’t “dispense” military justice

A person (and a family) not a piece of paper

Çfarë bëjnë Udhëheqësit?

  • Drejtojnë me anë të shembullit (Modeli)
  • Demonstrojnë integritet

dhe besnikëri

  • Promovojnë bashkëpunim
  • Janë besnikë (ndaj udhëheqësve/ndaj ndjekësve)
  • Sigurojnë disiplinë
  • 1 Timoteu 4:12

Ji një shembull

  • Psalmet 78:72

Drejto me

integritet dhe

aftësi

1 Timothy 4:12 Holman Christian Standard Bible (HCSB)

12 Let no one despise your youth; instead, you should be an example to the believers in speech, in conduct, in love,[a] in faith, in purity.

Matt 5:13, 16 Your are salt, you are light -- Let your light shine before men….

Psalm 78:72 NIV

And David shepherded them with integrity of heart; with skillful hands he led them.

GUIDANCE

• Teamwork is Critical

• Communicate/Communicate/Communicate

• Leadership Makes a Difference

• Integrity/Trustworthiness

Need to know the whole story (especially the ugly)

Need to see “the good, the bad, and the ugly”

Can’t do more with less, do less with less

• Be a mentor and Role Model

• Loyalty…up and down the chain of command

• Build and communicate your vision/focus

Important versus urgent (It is not in the “inbox”)

Priorities = 80% of value in top 20% of activities

Determine WHAT is really important -- WORK THAT!

Work your bosses’ problems

• Communicate recognizable goals/philosophy

• Goals provide guidance and direction

People know goal, know their role/contribution

• Honest and Open decision making

• Mistakes versus Crimes

• Discipline -- Timely, Proportionate, Fair, and Consistent

Don’t “dispense” military justice

A person (and a family) not a piece of paper

Sfidat në Lidership

sfiduese...

    • Shefat
    • Rrethana të pafavorshme
      • që kam shkaktuar unë
      • që ka shkaktuar tjetri
    • Sukses dhe mësim
    • Marrja e vendimeve

Bosses and Circumstances

Prov 21:1 God is sovereign

Proverbs 21:1 Holman Christian Standard Bible (HCSB)

 A king’s heart is like streams of water in the Lord’s hand:
He directs it wherever He chooses.

Galatians 6:7 Holman Christian Standard Bible (HCSB)

Don’t be deceived: God is not mocked. For whatever a man sows he will also reap,

John 16: In the world you will have trouble

John 16:33 Holman Christian Standard Bible (HCSB)

33 I have told you these things so that in Me you may have peace. You will have suffering in this world. Be courageous! I have conquered the world.”

Philippians 4:6-7 Holman Christian Standard Bible (HCSB)

Don’t worry about anything, but in everything, through prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. 

And the peace of God, which surpasses every thought, will guard your hearts and minds in Christ Jesus.\

Rom 8:28-29 God is at work in all circumstances for my good

Romans 8:28-29New American Standard Bible (NASB)

28 And we know that [a]God causes all things to work together for good to those who love God, to those who are called according to His purpose29 For those whom He foreknew, He also predestined to become conformed to the image of His Son,

James 1:2-4 Count it all joy when you meet various trials (testing=>endurance=>maturity, completeness)

James 1:2-4 Holman Christian Standard Bible (HCSB) Trials and Maturity

Consider it a great joy, my brothers, whenever you experience various trials, knowing that the testing of your faith produces endurance. But endurance must do its complete work, so that you may be mature and complete, lacking nothing.

Isa 55:8-9 God’s ways are not our ways, lots I may never understand

Missions and Jobs

Prov 21:31 I am responsible, called to do my part, I will give God the glory for the results

Proverbs 21:31 Holman Christian Standard Bible (HCSB)

31 A horse is prepared for the day of battle, but victory comes from the Lord.

Romans 12:2

And do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, so that you may prove what the will of God is, that which is good and acceptable and perfect.

Psalm 84:10-12

10 For a day in Your courts is better than a thousand outside.
I would rather stand at the threshold of the house of my God
Than dwell in the tents of wickedness.

11 For the Lord God is a sun and shield;
The 
Lord gives grace and glory;
No good thing does He withhold from those who walk uprightly.

12 Lord of hosts,
How blessed is the man who trusts in You!

CHALLENGES

Enjoy your command…each and every day

Force yourself to do what is uncomfortable and what is not understood

See something wrong….Fix it! (don’t walk by)

Don’t use a shotgun when a rifle/scalpel is better

Know your weaknesses

Work on them, complement them with other teammates

Dealing with cultural (operation) differences/melding different communities

Dealing with criticism

Dealing with a lack of feedback

Dealing with (leading/authoring) change

Expect adversity

Sfidat në Lidership

sfiduese...

    • Shefat
    • Rrethana të pafavorshme
      • që kam shkaktuar unë
      • që ka shkaktuar tjetri
    • Sukses dhe mësim
    • Marrja e vendimeve

Çdo ditë është e bukur -
Por disa janë më të bukura

Fjalët e urta 21:1

Fjalët e urta 21:31

Romakëve 8:28-29

Filipianëve 4:6-7

1 i Mbretërve 3:9

Bosses and Circumstances

Prov 21:1 God is sovereign

Proverbs 21:1 Holman Christian Standard Bible (HCSB)

 A king’s heart is like streams of water in the Lord’s hand:
He directs it wherever He chooses.

Galatians 6:7 Holman Christian Standard Bible (HCSB)

Don’t be deceived: God is not mocked. For whatever a man sows he will also reap,

John 16: In the world you will have trouble

John 16:33 Holman Christian Standard Bible (HCSB)

33 I have told you these things so that in Me you may have peace. You will have suffering in this world. Be courageous! I have conquered the world.”

Philippians 4:6-7 Holman Christian Standard Bible (HCSB)

Don’t worry about anything, but in everything, through prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. 

And the peace of God, which surpasses every thought, will guard your hearts and minds in Christ Jesus.\

Rom 8:28-29 God is at work in all circumstances for my good

Romans 8:28-29New American Standard Bible (NASB)

28 And we know that [a]God causes all things to work together for good to those who love God, to those who are called according to His purpose29 For those whom He foreknew, He also predestined to become conformed to the image of His Son,

James 1:2-4 Count it all joy when you meet various trials (testing=>endurance=>maturity, completeness)

James 1:2-4 Holman Christian Standard Bible (HCSB) Trials and Maturity

Consider it a great joy, my brothers, whenever you experience various trials, knowing that the testing of your faith produces endurance. But endurance must do its complete work, so that you may be mature and complete, lacking nothing.

Isa 55:8-9 God’s ways are not our ways, lots I may never understand

Missions and Jobs

Prov 21:31 I am responsible, called to do my part, I will give God the glory for the results

Proverbs 21:31 Holman Christian Standard Bible (HCSB)

31 A horse is prepared for the day of battle, but victory comes from the Lord.

Romans 12:2

And do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, so that you may prove what the will of God is, that which is good and acceptable and perfect.

Psalm 84:10-12

10 For a day in Your courts is better than a thousand outside.
I would rather stand at the threshold of the house of my God
Than dwell in the tents of wickedness.

11 For the Lord God is a sun and shield;
The 
Lord gives grace and glory;
No good thing does He withhold from those who walk uprightly.

12 Lord of hosts,
How blessed is the man who trusts in You!

CHALLENGES

Enjoy your command…each and every day

Force yourself to do what is uncomfortable and what is not understood

See something wrong….Fix it! (don’t walk by)

Don’t use a shotgun when a rifle/scalpel is better

Know your weaknesses

Work on them, complement them with other teammates

Dealing with cultural (operation) differences/melding different communities

Dealing with criticism

Dealing with a lack of feedback

Dealing with (leading/authoring) change

Expect adversity

Marrja e Vendimeve

  • Dëgjo të dyja/të gjitha anët
    • Kush tjetër është përfshirë?
    • Të dyja… edhe...kundër Ose këtë ose…”
  • Bëj pyetje
  • Shko dhe zbulo vetë
  • Merr një Vendim/Menaxho tension

Fjalët e urta 18:17

- Kërko të dyja

anët

1 i Mbretërve 3:9

-Kuptim dhe

Mprehtësi

Proverbs 18:17 Holman Christian Standard Bible (HCSB)

17 The first to state his case seems right
until another comes and cross-examines him.

DECISION MAKING

• Fact-base decision making (not emotion)

• Trust your instincts

• Both…and…(instead of either…or…)

• Listen to both/all sides before deciding

Who else needs to coordinate on this issue

• Ask questions rather than make (judgmental) statements

• Go see for yourself, put eyes on the target

• Focus on output=results, not on input=activity

“Sukses”
Si e përkufizon ti? Çfarë po kërkon?

  • Gradë Ushtarake?
  • Fitim financiar?
  • Famë?
  • Status?
  • Familje?
  • Kohë të lirë

Askush nuk mund t’u shërbejë dy zotërinve…

(Mateu 6)

Të lumtë, shërbëtor i mirë dhe besnik... (Mateu 25)

Luftën e mirë e luftova, e përfundova vrapimin, e ruajta besimin. (2 Timoteut 4)

 I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith.

24 “No one can serve two masters;

Çfarë do të thotë të jesh “Besnik”? *

* From Stephen Covey

First Things First

Aftësi të forta

    • Teknik
    • Vizion i madh
    • Efektive në një ekip

Karakter i fortë

    • Integritet
    • Pjekuri
    • Bashkëpunues

Dhe çdo gjë që të bëni, ta bëni me dëshirë të mirë, si për Zotin dhe jo për njerëzit,

(Kolosianëve 3:23)

Duke soditur fytyrëzbuluar lavdinë e Zotit si në pasqyrë, transformohemi në të njëjtën shëmbëllim nga lavdia në lavdi

(2 Korintasve 3:18)

 adherence to a code of especially moral or artistic values

Pyetje?

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