SEL series Session 3: Self-Management/Self-Guidance: Responding to Emotions Wisely
Makenzie Dyer, Leiani Sherwin, Matt Dressen,
Alicia Erezim, and Dr. Bonnie McDaniel
Session will begin at 4:00 pm
Tuesday, January 17, 2023
WELCOME!
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PESB: ONE AGENCY, TWO BOARDS
We work to ensure Washington’s workforce is composed of equity-minded, professional educators who meet the diverse needs of students, schools, and communities. The Professional Educator Standards Board and the Paraeducator Board recognize that high standards for all educators are essential to student success and achievement.
MISSION
To strengthen the educator workforce through professional standards, policy, and innovation.
VISION
An equity-minded educator workforce that facilitates learning and growth for each and every student.
VALUES
LAND ACKNOWLEDGEMENT
We would like to acknowledge that no matter where each of us are physically, we are on the traditional land of Native Americans, whose ancestors were the original inhabitants. As we proceed with our work, let’s make sure that our deliberations and recommendations benefit their descendants equitably.
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A MOMENT OF SILENCE
We would like to acknowledge the history of this nation, one fraught with contradictions. For too long, this country has elevated a story of democracy and freedom while minimizing the impact of violence and oppression on marginalized communities, communities on whose backs this nation was built.
Today, members of our Black and Asian communities, and other communities of color, continue to experience racism through police brutality, mass incarceration, inequitable education and health services, deportation, and other forms of subjugation. We aim to disrupt the legacy of systemic racism by centering racial equity and justice in our work. This is how we stand with our communities of color.
Before we begin, we want to offer a moment of silence to consider these words and how you might join us in this work.
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MEET TODAY’S FACILITATOR
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SELF MANAGEMENT/ SELF GUIDANCE: Responding to emotions wisely
Understand how to regulate emotions to enhance personal and professional well being
Dr. Bonnie McDaniel
Bonnie McDaniel Ph.D.
EmotionWise Coaching LLC
SEL Professional Learning Series
Self-Management Self-Guidance: Responding to Emotions Wisely
You have ties to cultures and communities from around the world.
You have big hearts, generous spirits and beautiful gifts.
You are sisters, fathers, grandmothers and friends.
You want to understand yourselves better so you can give more to your students.
Relax and Breathe
What is your why?
Strategies and Tools
I can use with my students
Be there for students
without depleting myself
Learn about myself
Greater sense of
calm and peace
Compassionate Self-Awareness
In the present moment
reflecting on the past
Imagining the future
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What?
TURN THE LENS INWARD
Emotional Health
Immune Function
Attention
Self Understanding
Why?
HEALTH AND WELLBEING
Mindfulness
Journaling
Conversation
How?
PRACTICE
Compassion
Openness
Curiosity
Observer Stance
Acceptance
CULTURE: OUT OF BALANCE?
Left Mode:
Individual
Logical
Linear
Linguistic
Right Mode:
Big Picture
Images
Connected to body and emotions
Is it good or bad? What do I do? What are you going to do?
EMOTIONS
Is the event good for me or bad for me? Should approach or withdraw?
EVALUATE
What action am I moved to take in response to the event?
MOTIVATE
What am I signaling to others so they can respond in a helpful way?
COMMUNICATE
Emotion Regulation System: Stress/Threat
Purpose: Self-Protection
RED ZONE
FIGHT
FLIGHT
FREEZE
SNS Arousal
Stress hormones
inflexible
disconnected
Emotions in our threat system: strong and quickly activated
NAME IT
TO TAME IT
CONNECT
for responding wisely in the Red Zone
STRATEGIES
HIT THE PAUSE BUTTON
COPE AHEAD
SLOW DOWN AND BREATHE
MOVEMENT, MANTRA MOOD
REFRAME
IMAGINE YOUR BEST SELF
Emotion Regulation System: Soothing/Responsive
Purpose: Broaden and Build, Restore, Create, Connect
GREEN ZONE
SAFE
CONTENT
CONNECTED
Boosting the Green Zone
of positive to negative emotions. Aim for 3 -5 positive for every negative.
INCREASE THE RATIO
the little things that bring feelings of joy, contentment, delight.
NOTICE
Linger with those good feelings for a while.
Savor them.
SAVOR
Bring your presence and warmth to your relationships.
CONNECT
What will you plant
in your garden?
REFERENCES
Brackett, Marc
Permission to Feel (2020)
Damasio, Antonio
The Strange Order of Things (2018)
David, Susan
Emotional Agility (2016)
Gilbert, Paul
The Compassionate Mind (2009)
Hanson, Rick
Resilient (2020)
BOOKS
.
Immordino-Yang, Mary Helen
Emotions, Learning and the Brain (2016)
McGilchrist, Ian
The Master and His Emissary: The Making of the Western World (2009)
Perry, Dr. Bruce and Winfrey, Oprah
What Happened to You? Conversations on Trauma, Resilience and Healing (2021)
PESB CLOSING
INFORMATION
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This information is also addressed in our SEL series FAQ
OSPI SEL MODULES
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MORE INFO
CLOCK HOURS
Free clock hours are available for the modules
SELF PACED
Complete each segment at your own pace.
These online modules are designed to build knowledge and awareness for teachers, administrators, and school staff of what social-emotional learning (SEL) is and why it is important.
In addition, the module explains how to implement and integrate SEL into different contexts in a culturally responsive way.
SEL SERIES: FREE CLOCK HOURS
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Earn up to 38 FREE clock hours!!!
CLOCK HOURS FOR TODAY’S SESSION
1.Enroll for clock hours for the January 17 Session in pdEnroller
https://www.pdenroller.org/ospi/catalog/149729
AND
2a. Attend the live training
If you joined with someone else’s Zoom link or are logged into the same
Zoom, please email us with you first and last name, and email
OR
2b. View the recording of the training and submit the PESB Clock
Hours Attestation form
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SERIES OVERVIEW
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Date | Session Title |
Tuesday, September 27, 2022 4 - 5:30 pm | Series Kick-Off & PGP guidance (recording now available) |
Tuesday, October 18, 2022 4-6 pm | Self-Awareness: Turning the lens inward with compassion |
Monday, November 14, 2022 4:30-6:30 pm | Self-Awareness/ Consciousness: Diving into authentic self-evaluation and rediscovering my superpower |
Tuesday, January 17, 2023 4-6 pm | Self Management/Self Guidance: Responding to emotions wisely |
Monday, February 6, 2023 4:30-6:30 pm | Social Awareness / Self management/ Self Guidance: Community building using transformative strategies |
Tuesday, March 21, 2023 4-6 pm | Social Awareness: Growing empathy across differences |
Monday, April 17, 2023 4:30 -6:30 pm | Self Efficacy and Social Engagement/ Community: Activating my superpower in sustaining a healthy ecosystem |
WEBINAR & CLOCK HOUR LINKS
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To attend future sessions, register through the ZOOM link provided in the SEL Series Schedule.
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To earn clock hours for future sessions, register through the pdEnroller link provided in the SEL Series Schedule
CLOCK HOURS
WEBINAR ATTENDANCE
WEBINAR ATTENDANCE
Save your ZOOM registration confirmation in order to access the session each month.
PAST SESSIONS
Past session recordings, as well as past pdEnroller clock hour links are linked in the SEL Series Schedule
HOW TO EARN CLOCK HOURS
To earn clock hours for each training you attend:
AND
2a. Attend the live training
(if you are not using your pdEnroller email for zoom tonight, enter your pdEnroller email address in the chat)
OR
2b. View the recording of the training and submit the PESB Clock Hours Attestation form
Registration and recording links: https://bit.ly/SELSeriesSchedule
https://docs.google.com/document/d/156dRfL5dpr-MybaXZj8oGmrCMAR2wNdakpzvApMKbSw/edit?usp=sharing
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FOR ADDITIONAL CLOCK HOUR ASSISTANCE…
Refer to the FAQ to find answers to questions like…
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PROFESSIONAL GROWTH PLANS
PGPs are job-embedded, self-directed professional development
25 Clock hours at no cost
Only one PGP may be completed each year between July 1 and June 30.
AM I ELIGIBLE TO COMPLETE A PGP?
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Teachers
Administrators
Paraeducators
Educational Staff Associates (ESAs)
HOW CAN I GET HELP FOR COMPLETING A PGP?
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VISIT PESB’s WEBSITE FOR PGP INFO
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NEXT SESSION
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We will utilize self-awareness to learn to remove the distractions, remind ourselves of our purpose, restore healthy relationships, and authentically listen to collective wholeness. We will utilize social awareness to learn how to cultivate a collective community and to sustain wellness.
Presenters:
Dr. Marissa Winmill and Sui-Lan Ho’okano
Monday, February 6, 2023 4:30 - 6:30 pm
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SELF MANAGEMENT/ SELF GUIDANCE: Community building using transformative strategies
Understand how to develop your personal and professional identities in community with others
Questions?
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CONTACT INFORMATION
Leiani Sherwin, Program Manager
360-867-8020
Makenzie Dyer, Grant and Policy Specialist
360-764-0853
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