��Research and Studies into the Theory of EQ �or�Emotional Intelligence��
JOE DEUTSCH, PH.D.
PROFESSOR - NORTH DAKOTA STATE UNIVERSITY
ROMAN WALDERA, M.S.
DOCTORAL CANDIDATE – NORTH DAKOTA STATE UNIVERSIY
What is Emotional Intelligence?
What is Emotional Intelligence?
Similar to how an Intelligence Quotient ( your IQ) is a measure of one’s content knowledge (highly influenced by genetics and difficult to improve), an Emotional Quotient (EQ) is a measure of a person’s emotional strengths and weaknesses (emotional intelligence) and able to be developed and strengthened. The more you think, the more the path develops. Most people see a measurable change in 3 to 6 months.
The Four Components of Emotional Intelligence
Research on EQ Characteristics�
EQ and Academia�
Social-Emotional Learning
EQ and Success�
EQ and Development�
EQ on Perceptions and Well-being�
EQ and Deviancy/Problem Behavior�
EQ and Pro-social/Positive Behaviors�
EQ and Perceptions�
A range of studies has found that those with high levels of EI are actually perceived more positively by other people! (Mayer et al., 2008).
Developing EI or EQ
1. Lean into Discomfort. Rather than avoiding a feeling, your goal should be to move toward it, into it, and eventually through it.
2. Manage your tendencies. If you have self awareness you realize the behaviors that become your tendencies. I tend to get angry and say destructive things to my child when he doesn’t follow directions. I need to walk away and take a deep breathe before coming back and addressing it.
3. Listen so people will talk. Avoid distractions such as your phone or computer. Make eye contact so they know they have your attention and clear your thoughts of distractions.
4. Talk so others will listen. You must seek to benefit from every relationship, especially the challenging ones. If your emotions drive your words, you will make others uncomfortable and force them to become defensive, develop a rebuttal (while you are talking) or dismiss your thought. Staying calm, using non polarizing words and finding value in everyone. Addressing your own weaknesses and making light of them can help others relax and be willing to explore their own.
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