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South Bay Union School District:

United Against Bullying

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“Watch your thoughts; they become your words.

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Watch your words; they become your actions.

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Watch your actions; they become habits.

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Watch your habits; they become your character.

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Watch your character; it becomes your destiny.”

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-Lao-Tzu

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Be a Buddy

NOT A Bully

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What is Bullying?

Behavior that is done over and over again that is meant to hurt or scare another person.

      • Hitting, kicking, and pushing
      • Calling names, saying or writing mean things
      • Never Okay!

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A Bully is:

A person who does mean things over and over .

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A Target/Victim is:

A person who is the target of the bully—the person being bullied.

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Bystanders:

Contribute to bullying by:

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    • Laughing or giggling
    • Standing and watching
    • Not telling an adult
    • Doesn’t tell the bully to stop
    • Joins in

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A Buddy is:

A person who stands up for others. Buddies:

  • Tell the bully to stop in a kind way
  • Tell an adult
  • Become friends with the victim

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What can you do as a student leader to stop bullying ?

Turn and talk to a buddy sitting next to you.

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Mean Moment

Conflict

Bullying

  • One Time
  • On Purpose
  • Hurtful
  • One sided
  • Sometimes
  • On Purpose
  • Hurtful
  • Both students involved
  • Over and over again
  • On Purpose
  • Hurtful
  • One Sided

Is It Bullying?

Not everything that is mean is actually Bullying.

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Teasing is NOT Bullying

      • To make fun of someone in a playful way.
      • Teasing can be hurtful and lead to bullying.

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United

Against Bullying!

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South Bay Union School District:

United Against Bullying!

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“Watch your thoughts; they become your words.

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Watch your words; they become your actions.

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Watch your actions; they become habits.

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Watch your habits; they become your character.

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Watch your character; it becomes your destiny.”

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-Lao-Tzu

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Bullies, Bystanders, & Upstanders

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Bullying is:

Bullying is behavior that is done repeatedly with the intention to harm, annoy, intimidate, or embarrass another person.

  • Never Okay!

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Types

of

Bullying

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Verbal Bullying is saying or writing mean things.

Verbal Bullying includes:

    • Name-calling
    • Saying or writing Inappropriate, offensive, and or uncomfortable comments
    • Taunting
    • Threatening to cause harm

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Social Bullying is done with the intention to hurt somebody’s reputation, relationships, or social status. Social Bullying includes:

  • Leaving someone out on purpose
  • Telling other children not to be friends with someone
  • Spreading rumors about someone
  • Embarrassing someone in public

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Physical Bullying involves hurting a person’s body or belongings. Physical Bullying includes:

  • Hitting/kicking/pinching/spitting
  • Tripping/pushing
  • Taking or breaking someone’s things
  • Making mean or rude hand or facial gestures

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Cyber Bullying involves hurting or attacking someone’s character through means of an electronic act. Cyber Bullying includes:

  • Sending/posting negative comments that are harmful or false about someone through any means of social media ( i.e Facebook, text messages, Twitter, chat rooms, Instagram, email, and even online gaming)

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A Bully is:

A person who intends to harm another person either physically or emotionally.

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A Target/Victim is:

A person who is the target of the bully—the person being bullied.

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A person who sees or hears bullying but does nothing about it.

A Bystander is:

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A person who sees or hears bullying but does nothing about it.

A Bystander is:

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Bystanders contribute to bullying by:

  • Allowing it to happen
  • Sending the message that bullying is okay
  • Giving the bully power
  • Laughing

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An Upstander is:

A person who witnesses bullying and stands up for the target.

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Upstanders are Part of the Solution

Upstanders stand up for what is right by:

  • Making it clear that the bullying is not cool
  • Telling the bully to stop
  • Reporting the bullying to an adult
  • Being friendly with the target

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What can you do as a student leader to stop bullying ?

Turn and talk to a classmate sitting next to you.

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Mean Moment

Conflict

Bullying

  • One Time
  • On Purpose
  • Hurtful
  • One sided
  • Occasional
  • On Purpose
  • Hurtful
  • Both parties involved
  • Repeated
  • On Purpose
  • Hurtful
  • One Sided

Is It Bullying?

Not everything that is mean is actually Bullying.

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United

Against Bullying!

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South Bay Union School District:

United Against Bullying!

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“Watch your thoughts; they become your words.

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Watch your words; they become your actions.

​

Watch your actions; they become habits.

​

Watch your habits; they become your character.

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Watch your character; it becomes your destiny.”

​

-Lao-Tzu

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Bullies, Bystanders, & Upstanders

7th-8th

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Bullying is:

Bullying is behavior that is done repeatedly with the intention to harm, annoy, intimidate, coerce, or humiliate another person. (someone perceived as vulnerable).

  • Never Okay!

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Types

of

Bullying

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Verbal Bullying is saying or writing mean things.

Verbal Bullying includes:

    • Name-calling
    • Taunting
    • Saying or writing Inappropriate, offensive, and or uncomfortable comments
    • Threatening to cause harm

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Social Bullying is sometimes referred to as relational bullying, involves hurting someone’s reputation or relationships. Social Bullying includes:

  • Leaving someone out on purpose
  • Telling other children not to be friends with someone
  • Spreading rumors about someone
  • Embarrassing someone in public

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Physical Bullying involves hurting a person’s body or possessions. Physical bullying includes:

  • Hitting/kicking/pinching/Spitting
  • Tripping/pushing
  • Taking or breaking someone’s belongings
  • Making mean or rude hand and facial gestures

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Cyber bullying involves hurting or attacking someone’s character through means of an electronic act. Cyber bullying includes:

  • Sending/posting negative comments that are harmful or false about someone through any means of social media ( i.e Facebook, text messages, Twitter, chat rooms, Instagram, email, and even online gaming)

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A Bully is:

A person who intends to harm another person either physically or emotionally.

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A Target/Victim is:

A person who is the target of the bully—the person being bullied.

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A person who sees or hears bullying but does nothing about it.

A Bystander is:

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Bystanders contribute to bullying by:

    • Allowing it to happen
    • Sending the message that bullying is okay
    • Giving the bully power
    • Laughing

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An Upstander is:

A person who:

  • Stands up for his/her beliefs
  • Stands up for other people and their rights
  • Combats injustice, inequality, or unfairness
  • Sees something wrong and works to make it right even if they stand alone

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Upstanders are Part of the Solution

Upstanders stand up for targets by:

    • Making it clear that the bullying is not cool
    • Telling the bully to stop
    • Reporting the bullying to an adult
    • Being friendly with the target

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Mean Moment

Conflict

Bullying

  • One Time
  • On Purpose
  • Hurtful
  • One sided
  • Occasional
  • On Purpose
  • Hurtful
  • Both parties involved
  • Repeated
  • On Purpose
  • Hurtful
  • One Sided

Is It Bullying?

Not everything that is mean is actually Bullying.

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United

Against Bullying!

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