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Lucille Clifton

i bear witness to no thing

more human than hate

i bear witness to no thing

more human than love

apples and honey

apples and honey

what is not lost

is paradise

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Taking It Off

Ellie Schoenfeld

Some years are just

one hair shirt layered onto another,

each one doing its best

to fuse with skin.

Now is the time

I will finally peel them off,

a slow psychological striptease.

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Taking It Off

Ellie Schoenfeld

I examine each one only briefly

then throw it

onto an enormous fire,

that original bonfire

fueled by grace and forgiveness,

by the bones

of a thousand other troubles.

Its tongues of flame

sing torch songs and the blues, praises

for every dull, flawed, and disastrous

thing.

Its flames lick and illuminate wounds,

leave smoke and spark and new

mirrors.

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Taking It Off

Ellie Schoenfeld

Finally the last one comes off.

I stand here

naked and perfect,

just like you,

just like everyone.

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Let us bless the source of life, who shaped the human being with wisdom,

making for us all the openings and vessels of the body. It is revealed and known

before your Throne of Glory that if one of these passage-ways be open

when it should be closed, or blocked up when it should be free,

one could not stay alive or stand before you.

Blessed are You, Miraculous, the wondrous healer of all flesh.

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Dear you,

You who always have

so many things to do

so many places to be

your mind spinning like

fan blades at high speed

each moment always a blur

because you’re never still.

I know you’re tired.

I also know it’s not your fault.

The constant brain-buzz is like

a swarm of bees threatening

to sting if you close your eyes.

You’ve forgotten something again.

You need to prepare for that or else.

You should have done that differently.

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Dear You

Kaveri Patel

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What if you closed your eyes?

Would the world fall

apart without you?

Or would your mind

become the open sky

flock of thoughts

flying across the sunrise

as you just watched and smiled.

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Dear You

Kaveri Patel

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Breathe

Batya Levine

Breathe breathe breathe in �Breathe breathe out

Let it go, let it go, let it go

Trust in what's coming�Trust in your knowing�It's deeper and wider and holy

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You are a miracle walking.

I greet you with wonder, for in a world which seeks to own

Your joy and imagination

you have chosen to be free, every day, as a practice.

I can never know the struggles you went through to get there,

but I know you have swum upstream

and at times it has been lonely.

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Radical Gratitude Spell

adrienne maree brown

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I want you to know

I honor the choices you made in solitude

and I honor the work you have done to belong.

I honor your commitment to that which is

larger than yourself

and your journey to love the particular container

of life

that is you.

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You are enough.

Your work is enough.

You are needed.

Your work is sacred.

You are here

and I am grateful.

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adrienne maree brown

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We are enough.

Our work is enough.

We are needed.

Our work is sacred.

We are here

and we are grateful.

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I am enough.

My work here is enough.

I am needed.

My work is sacred.

I am here

and I am grateful.

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We begin wherever we can.

We begin in our thoughts, in our one-on-one interactions, in our choices about how we will use what privilege we have.

We begin by talking about it.

We begin with awareness.

We begin over and over and over.

We begin by listening, by hearing our grief, our rage, our arrogance, our ignorance, our brainwashing.

And beginning is no small thing.

Beginning is no small thing

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Pakistan, August 30, 2022.

1/3 of the country is under water.

Who by flood?

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The Qambar region of Pakistan, where 1.34 million people live

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Let them not say:   we did not see it.

We saw. 

Let them not say:   we did not hear it.

We heard. 

Let them not say:     they did not taste it.

We ate, we trembled. 

Let them not say:   it was not spoken, not written.

We spoke,

we witnessed with voices and hands. 

Let them not say:     they did nothing.

We did not-enough. 

Let them say, as they must say something:  

A kerosene beauty.

It burned.

Let Them Not Say

Jane Hirshfield

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I want to tell you

that the world is still beautiful.

I tell you that despite

children raped on city streets,

shot down in school rooms,

despite the slow poisons seeping

from old and hidden sins

into our air, soil, water,

despite the thinning film

that encloses our aching world.

Despite my own terror and despair.

I want you to look again and again,

to recognize the tender grasses,

curled like a baby's fine hairs

around your fingers, as a recurring

miracle, to see that the river rocks

shine like God, that the crisp

voices of the orange and gold

October leaves are laughing at death.

Testimony

Rebecca Baggett

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I want you to look beneath

the grass, to note

the fragile hieroglyphs

of ant, snail, beetle. I want

you to understand that you are

no more and no less necessary

than the brown recluse, the ruby-

throated hummingbird, the humpback

whale, the profligate mimosa.

I want to say, like Neruda,

that I am waiting for

"a great and common tenderness,"

that I still believe

we are capable of attention,

that anyone who notices the world

must want to save it.

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Rebecca Baggett

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What do you notice

about the world

that makes you know

you need to save it?

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It is my love I hold back

hide

not wanting to be seen

scrawl of hand

writing

don’t guess

don’t guess at my

passion

a wholly wild and raging

love for this world.

It is my love

Susan Griffin

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Put Your Roots Down

Molly Hartwell

Put your roots down

Put your feet on the ground

You can hear the earth sing if you listen

Cause the sound of the river as it

moves across the stones

Is the same sound as the

blood in your body as it moves

across your bones

Are you listening?

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August 2022, Spain – the 2nd largest amount of land burned on record, just behind Australia in 2020

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August 2022

Fire/Fire Risk in Western Europe

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We will be known as a culture that feared death

and adored power, that tried to vanquish insecurity

for the few and cared little for the penury of the

many. We will be known as a culture that taught

and rewarded the amassing of things, that spoke

little if at all about the quality of life for

people (other people), for dogs, for rivers. All

the world, in our eyes, they will say, was a

commodity. And they will say that this structure

was held together politically, which it was, and

they will say also that our politics was no more

than an apparatus to accommodate the feelings of

the heart, and that the heart, in those days,

was small, and hard, and full of meanness.

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Of The Empire

Mary Oliver

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Praise the world—

praise its fullness

and its longing,

its beauty and its grief.

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Kaddish: The Beauty of the World

Marcia Falk

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Praise stone and fire,

lilac and river,

and the solitary bird

at the window.

Praise the moment

when the whole

bursts through pain

and the moment

when the whole

bursts forth in joy.

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Praise the dying beauty

with all your breath,

and praising, see

the beauty of the world

is your own.

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You recall those times, I know you do, when the sun

lifted its weight over a small rise to warm your face,

when a parched day finally broke open, real rain

sluicing down the sidewalk, rattling city maples

and you so sure the end was here, life a house of cards

tipped over, falling, hope's last breath extinguished

in a bitter wind. Oh, friend, search your memory again-

beauty and relief are still there, only sleeping.

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Against Panic

Molly Fisk

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Fort Myers, FL 09/28/22

Who by wind?

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My heart is moved by all I can not save.

So much has been destroyed

I have to cast my lot with those

who age after age, perversely,

with no extraordinary power,

reconstitute the world.

--Adrienne Rich

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… I know nothing else but miracles,

Whether I walk the streets of Manhattan,

Or dart my sight over the roofs of houses toward the sky,

Or wade with naked feet along the beach just in the edge of the water,

Or stand under trees in the woods,

Or talk by day with any one I love, or sleep in bed at night with anyone I love,

Or sit at table at dinner with the rest,

Or look at strangers opposite me riding in the car,

Or watch honey-bees busy around the hive of a summer forenoon,

Or animals feeding in the fields,

Or birds, or the wonderfulness of insects in the air,

Or the exquisite delicate thin curve of the new moon in spring.

These with the rest, one and all, are to me miracles,

The whole referring, yet each distinct and in its place.

To me every hour of the light and dark is a miracle,

Every cubic inch of space is a miracle,

Every square yard of surface of the earth is spread with miracles,

Every foot of the interior swarms with miracles.

I know nothing else but miracles

Walt Whitman

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To feel sorrow is to float on the pulse of the Earth, the surge from living to dying, from coming into being to ceasing to exist.

from Wild Comfort

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I don’t know what despair is, if it’s something or nothing, a kind of filling up or an emptying out.

I don’t know what sorrow does to the world, what it adds or takes away.

What I think I do know now is that sorrow is part of the Earth’s great cycles, flowing into the night like cool air sinking down a river course.

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Kathleen Dean Moore

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Maybe this is why the Earth has the power over time to wash sorrow into a deeper pool, cold and shadowed.

And maybe this is why, even though sorrow never disappears, it can make a deeper connection to the currents of life and so connect, somehow, to sources of wonder and solace.

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What we do know is that sorrow is part of the Earth’s great cycles, flowing into the night like cool air sinking down a river course.

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from Wild Comfort

Kathleen Dean Moore

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If Not

Rabbi Hillel, Adrienne Rich, Dane Kuttler

If I am not for myself

who is for me?

If I am only for myself

what am I?

If not now

then when?

If not with others

then how?

If not here

then where?

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It is ours to praise

the beauty of the world

even as we discern

the torn world.

For nothing is whole

that is not first rent

and out of the torn

we make whole again.

May we live with promise

in creation’s lap,

redemption budding

in our hands.

It Is Ours to Praise

Marcia Falk

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I have come to believe that dam-breaching is not really about dams. It's probably not even about fish. Dam-breaching is America's own exercise in truth and reconciliation. For a hundred years we thought we could have it all -- cheap power, salmon, and alfalfa fields in the desert -- but we were wrong.

We thought we needed power and wealth, but we discovered to our sorrow that what we really need are health and beauty and a way of life that listens to the land.

What humans destroy, we often destroy forever.

But a river? A river has the power to forgive. To breach a dam is to admit mistakes, and so to release the power of the river to heal itself, to begin to heal the rift between human and nature, user and used.

Dam Breaching

Kathleen Dean Moore

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Gatherings / Elliott batTzedek

Gather our strengths

and gather our failures

Gather our kin

and gather our strangers

Gather what we love

and what we fear

Gather what we have lost

and what we are afraid to lose

Find the courage to proclaim

“All we gather is sacred”

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And you must love The One, your God, with your whole heart, with every breath, with all you have. Take these words that I command you now to heart. Teach them intently to your children. Speak them when you sit inside your house or walk upon the road, when you lie down and when you rise. And bind them as a sign upon your hand, and keep them visible before your eyes. Inscribe them on the doorposts of your house and on your gates.

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There was a moment

when shooting egrets for feathers became wrong.

There was a moment

when the Wilderness Act

changed the lives of billions of blades of grass.

I remember the moment when a river that used to catch fire

turned from flammable to swimmable.

A swerve smells astringent, like the wind off the sea;

it tastes red, the way Red Hot cinnamon mints

burn in your mouth;

it’s heavy, the way the weight of letters is heavy,

arriving in sacks at the Senate;

it sounds like the click of needles

as hundreds of thousands of women knit pink hats;

it looks like a coyote, crossing the freeway to go home.

At Any Moment, There Could Be a Swerve in a Different Direction

Ellery Akers

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Amidah / Seven Breath Meditation

Kohenet

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Breathing in, I take breath into myself.

Breathing out, I join the web of being.

Breathing in, I rest in the present.

Breathing out, I am part of past and future.

Breathing in, I honor the shrine of my body.

Breathing out, I honor the shrine of the cosmos.

Breathing in, Presence fills me.

Breathing out, Presence enfolds me.

Breathing in, I witness what is broken.

Breathing out, I bow to what is perfect.

Breathing in, I offer gratitude for what is.

Breathing out, I accept that all changes.

Breathing in, I pray for peace for myself.

Breathing out, I pray for peace for all beings.

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Joy & Hope As Resistance

From Rebecca Solnit, “Hope in the Dark”

It’s important to say what hope is not: it is not the belief that everything was, is, or will be fine. The evidence is all around us of tremendous suffering and tremendous destruction.

“Critical thinking without hope is cynicism, but hope without critical thinking is naïvete,” the Bulgarian emigre writer Maria Popova recently remarked.

And Patrisse Cullors, one of the founders of Black Lives Matter, early on described the movement’s mission as to “Provide hope and inspiration for collective action to build collective power to achieve collective transformation, rooted in grief and rage but pointed towards vision and dreams.”

It’s a statement that acknowledges that grief and hope can coexist.

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Joy & Hope As Resistance

To breach a dam is to admit mistakes, and so to release the power of the river to heal itself

When the Edwards Dam on Maine’s Kennebec River was breached in 1999, activists hoped some of the long-missing fish runs would return, and local residents hoped their town would benefit from cleaner water and more business. It was a hard-won fight: taking down a functioning hydroelectric dam for the benefit of fish had never been done before.

What actually happened over the next few years amazed everyone, and made the breaching of this dam a model for taking out other dams across Maine and then across the country.

Direct improvements included:

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Joy & Hope As Resistance

To breach a dam is to admit mistakes, and so to release the power of the river to heal itself

As soon as the dam came down, the river rebounded. Fish immediately had access to 18 more miles of habitat, up to the town of Waterville at the mouth of the Sebasticook River. Atlantic sturgeon began to swim past the former dam site, and alewife and shad soon returned. Within a year seals could be seen chasing alewives, a type of river herring, 40 miles upstream from the ocean.

And with alewives coming back, so did everything that eats them — river otters, bears, mink, bald eagles, osprey and blue herons.

The benefits spread to the community as well. A park and trails were built along the waterfront. “People are out on the water, mostly paddling a kayak or canoeists,” says Graber. “The downtown is starting to make use of the river more. The buildings that have been redeveloped are now using the river as an amenity.

After another dam was removed upstream, The number of alewives returning to spawn jumped from 78,000 in 1999 to 5.5 million last year.

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Joy & Hope As Resistance

from Tai: A Yom Kippur Sermon

Aurora Levins Morales

Joy[…] comes from being fully present, here and now, with what is. When I say joy, I don’t mean happiness, or optimism, or contentment.  You can turn your back on the world and find all those things.  

When I say that joy is the source my audacity, I am speaking the midst of heart wrenching grief and anger for my country, in the midst of my own struggles with depression and loneliness, anxiety and overwhelm.

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Joy & Hope As Resistance

from Tai: A Yom Kippur Sermon

Aurora Levins Morales

[This joy] needs to be rooted in the reality of here

and now, all of it.

This is how we turn trauma into light. Trauma is not the opposite of joy, it’s the husk around its seed.

The more we face into the world, the more we let ourselves know how other people live, the more we learn not only about their pain and rage, but also their love and resilience, their defiance and hope, and it’s from that full spectrum of knowing that we fill in the details and colors of the world we want.

There is a joy that rises from being with what’s true, even when that truth includes the terrible

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If we could,

like the trees,

practice dying,

do it every year

just as something we do—

like going on vacation

or celebrating birthdays,

it would become

as easy a part of us

as our hair or clothing.

Someone would show us how

to lie down and fade away

as if in deepest meditation,

and we would learn

about the fine dark emptiness,

both knowing it and not knowing it,

and coming back would be irrelevant.

Learning from Trees

Grace Butcher

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Whatever it is the trees know

when they stand undone,

surprisingly intricate,

we need to know also

so we can allow

that last thing

to happen to us

as if it were only

any ordinary thing,

leaves and lives

falling away,

the spirit, complex,

waiting in the fine darkness

to learn which way

it will go.

Learning from Trees

Grace Butcher

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Yitgadal veyitkadash shemey raba be’alma divra hiruty veyamlih malhutey behayeyhon uvyomeyhon uvhayey dehol beyt yisra’el ba’agala uvizman kariv ve’imru amen.

Yehey shemey raba mevarah le’alam ulalmey almaya.

Yitbarah veyistabah veyitpa’ar veyitromam veyitnasey veyit-hadar veyitaleh veyit-halal shemey dekudsha berih hu le’ela min kol birhata veshirata tushbehata venehemata da’amiran be’alma ve’imru amen.

Yehey shelama raba min shemaya vehayim Aleynu ve’al kol yisra’el ve’imru amen.

Oseh shalom bimromav hu ya’aseh shalom Aleynu ve’al kol yisra’el ve’al kol yishma’el ve’al kol yoshvey tevel ve’imru amen.

Fringes: a feminist, non-zionist havurah

6 Tishrei 5783 / 1 October 2022

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Mourner’s Kaddish / Elliott batTzedek

So often am I lost,

yet through the pall, yet through the tarnish, show me the way back,

through my betrayals, my dismay, my heart’s leak, my mind’s sway,

eyes’ broken glow, groan of the soul—which convey all that isn’t real,

for every soul to These Hands careen. And let us say, amen.

Say you will show me the way back, my Rock, my Alarm. Lead the way, Oh my Yah

And yet in shock and yet in shame and yet in awe and yet to roam and yet to stay and yet right here and yet away and yet —“Halleluyah!” my heartbeat speaks, for You live in all this murk and too in the clear and too in our wreckage.

You are the mirror of our souls, let us say: amen

Life may harm me, rob me, ream me raw, try me, even slay me

Over all You will prevail. And let us say: Amen

Say You shall loan me a tomorrow, Say You shall loan another day to all who are called Yisrael and all called Yishmael and all called We and They, and let us say, Amen

Fringes: a feminist, non-zionist havurah

6 Tishrei 5783 / 1 October 2022

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Adon Olam / She Carries Me by Jennifer Berezan

She is a boat, she is a light

High on a hill in dark of night.

She is a wave, she is the deep.

She is the dark where angels sleep.

When all is still and peace abides

She carries me to the other side.

She carries me, she carries me,

She carries me to the other side.

And though I walk through valleys deep,

And shadows chase me in my sleep,

On rocky cliffs I stand alone;

I have no name, I have no home.

With broken wings I reach to fly;

She carries me to the other side.

She carries me, she carries me,

She carries me to the other side.

A thousand arms, a thousand eyes,

A thousand ears to hear my cries.

She is the gate, she is the door;

She leads me through and back once more.

When day has dawned and death is nigh,

She carries me to the other side.

She carries me, she carries me,

She carries me to the other side.

She is the first, she is the last,

She is the future and the past.

Mother of all, of earth and sky,

She carries me to the other side.

She carries me, she carries me

She carries me to the other side.

She carries me, she carries me,

She carries me to the other side.

6 Tishrei 5783 / 1 October 2022