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LGBTQIA+ Media Library

Last Updated July 29, 2021

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This is a list of articles, books, videos, and other media that discuss different aspects of queer identity and history, with the goal of expanding our collective understanding and awareness of various LGBTQIA+ identities and communities. We prioritized personal experiences to uplift first-person narratives from queer people, who have the strongest and most intimate understanding of their own identities.

We are providing this resource library for free as we did not create the resources but rather compiled them. However, we put in a lot of labor into gathering these resources, and always appreciate donations (recommended: $20-100) to continue supporting SQSH’s work!

Introduction

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Intersex

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Intersex 101

What is Intersex?

Planned Parenthood

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Intersex 101

I’m Intersex: Here’s What That Means

Alex, Minus18

November 9, 2017

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Intersex 101 / History

What Does �Intersex Mean?

Maria Tridas, InQueery, them.

December 4, 2018

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Intersex 101 / Personal Experiences

What It’s Like �To Be Intersex

As/Is

March 28, 2015

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Intersex 101 / Personal Experiences

What I’ve learned �from having balls

Emily Quinn, TEDxProvidence

October 25, 2019

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Intersex Personal Experience

What’s It Like �To Be Intersex?

Roshaante Andersen, UNILAD

April 25, 2021

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Intersex Personal Experience

9 Young People on How They Found Out They Are Intersex

Hans Lindahl, TeenVogue

October 25, 2019

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Intersex 101

There Are More Than Two Human Sexes

Hank Green, SciShow

2020

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Intersex 201

Intersex: Gender Beyond Male and Female Expressions

Eduardo Aguirre, Medium

July 30, 2020

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Intersex 301

The Intersex Masterpost: �Everything You Could Ever Want to Know

LOCAH, Medium

December 31, 2018

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Beyond the Gender Binary

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Moving Beyond the Gender Binary

Not Another Gender Binary: A Call For Complexity Over Cis-Readability

National Center for Institutional Diversity, Medium

June 4, 2019

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Moving Beyond the Gender Binary

The Gender Spectrum: A Scientist Explains Why Gender Isn’t Binary

Cade Hildreth

April 22, 2021

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Moving Beyond the Gender Binary: Book

Beyond the �Gender Binary

Alok Viad-Menon

June 2, 2020

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Trans

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Trans 101

Trans 101 �(Youtube Series)

uppercaseCHASE1

2017

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Trans 101

Trans Etiquette 101: No Offense, But That’s Offensive

Sebastian Barr, �Everyday Feminism

January 2, 2013

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Trans 101 / History

Angelica Ross Explains the �History of the �Word ‘Transgender’

Angelica Ross, them.

September 7, 2018

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Trans Woman Personal Experience

The Assimilationist, or: On the unexpected cost of passing as a trans woman

Emily VanDerWerff, Vox

February 19, 2020

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Trans Masculine Personal Experience

Becoming Him

Chella Man, TEDxRanneySchool

May 9, 2018

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Trans: On Suicide Rates

Why is the trans suicide rate so high?

Riley J. Dennis

July 8, 2018

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Trans: On Passing

Do trans people �need to “pass”?

Riley J. Dennis

October 25, 2018

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Trans Personal Experience / Gender Dysphoria & Euphoria

gender euphoria.

Ash Hardell

September 12 2018

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Trans Medical Transition Personal Experiences

Comparing Transgender Surgeries

Stef Sanjati & Chase Ross

July 24, 2017

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Trans Documentary

Disclosure

2020

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Trans Documentary

The Death and Life of Marsha P. Johnson

2017

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Transitioning and Masculinity

Amateur: A True Story About What Makes a Man

Thomas Page McBee

2018

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Non-Binary

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Non-Binary 101 / Misconceptions

9 Things People Get Wrong About Being Non-Binary

Suzannah Weiss, TeenVogue

February 15, 2018

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Non-Binary 101

Things Not To Say To �A Non-Binary Person

BBC Three

June 27, 2017

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Non-Binary 101 / Pronouns

What People �Get Wrong About They/Them Pronouns

Wren Sanders, them.

October 11, 2019

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Non-Binary 101 / Personal Experiences

Struggles of Being �Non Binary

Pero Like

June 22, 2019

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Non-Binary, Genderqueeer, GNC 101

Coming Out �as Nonbinary, Genderqueer, �or Gender Non-Conforming

Lifehacker

June 23, 2018

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Non-Binary 101 / Personal Experiences / Dysphoria

Non binary �dysphoria explained

A. Wylde

August 1, 2016

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Non-Binary & Agender Personal Experience

A Non-binary Person Attempts to Explain Their Gender

Alix, Medium

August 18, 2018

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Non-Binary & Gender-Fluid Personal Experience

Life in between: Nonbinary adults, �in portrait

Annie Tritt, Vox

February 19, 2020

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Non-Binary Vs. Androgyny: Personal Experiences

Being Nonbinary Vs. Androgyny - What's �the difference?

Ash Hardell

December 11, 2017

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Non-Binary Short Film

They/Them �(Non-Binary �Short Film)

Bo Beaufill

January 14, 2020

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*Trigger Warning: This film was created by and with individuals who have experienced transphobia and violence and it includes realistic depictions that may be challenging to some viewers.

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Non-Binary Memoirs

Nonbinary: �Memoirs of Gender �and Identity

Edited by Micah Rajunov �& Scott Duane

April 2019

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Gender Fluid

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Gender Fluid Definition

queer undefined, a crowdsourced lgbtq+ dictionary: �“gender fluid”

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Gender Fluid 101

Everything You �Should Know About Being Gender Fluid

Cade Hildreth

February 28, 2021

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Gender Fluid 101 / Personal Experience

I’m Genderfluid and Here’s What I’d Like You To Know

Leah Peterson

February 5, 2020

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Gender Fluid 101 / Personal Experience

Answering your questions about �being Genderfluid!

Angel and Nicole

September 8, 2020

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Gender Non-Conforming

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Gender Non-Conforming 101

Trans 101: �Nonbinary Vs. Gender Non-Conforming

Theo Hendrie

September 11, 2019

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Gender Non-Conforming Personal Experience

Being Gender Nonconforming

Jax, The Carlos Watson Show

March 31, 2019

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Gender Non-Conforming Personal Experience

My Truth on �being Gender Non-Conforming

FlawlessKevin

March 20, 2020

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Agender, Neutrois, Genderfree

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Agender/Neutrois 101

Neutrois (website)

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Agender 101 / History

Shamir Explains the History of the Word ‘Agender’

Shamir, them.

August 7, 2018

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Agender Persona Experience / Dysphoria

My Agender �Dysphoria

rapidpeach

May 8, 2019

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Genderfree Personal Experience

What being genderfree means to me

Lenna Catrett, they/them

SQSH MSW Practicum Student 2022

May 28, 2022

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Two Spirit

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Two Spirit 101 / History

What Does �‘Two-Spirit’ Mean?

Geo Neptune, them.

December 11, 2018

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Two Spirit 101 / History

BESE Explains: �Two Spirit

BESE

April 17, 2019

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Two Spirit 101 / History

8 Things You �Should Know About Two Spirit People

Tony Enos, Indian Country Today

September 13, 2018

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Two Spirit 101 / Resources

Two Spirit and LGBTQ Identities: Today and Centuries Ago

HRC staff

November 23, 2020

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Two Spirit Personal Experiences

Indigenous Brilliance �& Two-Spirit Identities: An Interview with �Amelia Vigil

Lindley Mease, Medium

July 1, 2019

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Ace & Aro Spectrum

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Ace & Aro Spectrum Definitions

Ace & Aro Spectrum Definitions

Our LGBTQ+ Society

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Ace & Aro 101

Everything Asexual & Aromantic, pt. 1

Ash Hardell

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Quasiplatonic/Queerplatonic Relationship (QPR)

What is a quasiplatonic aka queerplatonic relationship?

Lydia Smith

April 18, 2018

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Asexual (Ace)

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Asexual 101

10 Things People Get Wrong About Asexual People

Psych2Go

April 8, 2021

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Asexual 101 / Allyship

Six Ways To Be an Ally to Asexual people

Leni Morris

April 6, 2021

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Asexual 101 / Personal Experiences

7 young people discuss their ace identities and what people get wrong about asexuality

Mackenzie Harte, GLAAD

October 29, 2020

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Asexual Personal Experiences

How (some) Asexuals… Have Sex 👍

Ash Hardell

May 30, 2018

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Asexuality: Book

Ace: What Asexuality Reveals About Desire, Society, and The Meaning of Sex

Angela Chen

September 15, 2020

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Aromantic (Aro)

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Aromantic 101

7 Facts You �Should Know About �Aromantic People

Logan Plonski

February 23, 2018

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Aromantic 101

Coming out as aromantic | Everything you need to know

PinkNews

February 23, 2020

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Aromantic 101 / Personal Experiences

What It Means To Be ‘Aromantic,’ According To Aromantic People

Kelsey Borresen, HuffPost

October 5, 2018

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Aromantic Personal Experience

‘I’m Aromantic, This is What It’s Like’

Kieran Hanks

November 27, 2020

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Allosexism

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Allosexism 101

What is allosexism?

Yu Sheng Teo

July 28, 2020

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Allosexism 101

“Allosexual is Homophobic!” And Other Lies People Tell About Ace Community Language

HistoricallyAce

August 18, 2016

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Demisexuality

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Demisexuality 101

Demisexuality

Psych2Go

June 23, 2019

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Demisexuality 101 / Personal Experience

4 Demisexual �People Explain What “Demisexuality” Means �To Them

Tinder

May 22, 2019

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Demisexuality 101 / Personal Experience

What is demisexuality?

Christi Kerr, PinkNews

June 16, 2019

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Demisexuality 101 / Personal Experience

Why Coming Out As Demisexual Matters

Elle Rose, Medium

November 15, 2020

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Demisexuality 101 / Personal Experience

What I’ve Figured Out About Being Demisexual

Justine L, Medium

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Split Attraction Models

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Definitions on Types of Attraction �(+ Ace & Aro Identities)

Asexuality, Attraction, �And Romantic Orientation

University of North Carolina

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Split Attraction Model 101

An Introduction to Attraction: It’s More �Than Sexual

M.AZE

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Critiques of the Split Attraction Model + History

Criticisms of the Split Attraction Model

Siggy, The Asexual Agenda�August 8, 2020

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QTPOC

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QTPOC 101

4 Unique Struggles That Queer and Trans People of Color Have to Deal With

Joamette Gil, Everyday Feminism

January 20, 2016

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QTPOC 301

Combahee River �Collective statement

A manifesto by Black Radical Lesbians

1977

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QTPOC Representation/Visibility

Texas Isaiah’s New Image Series Captures Black Trans Folks With a Loving Gaze

Michelle Kim, Them

March 31, 2020

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This section is currently �under construction :’)

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Pansexuality

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Polyamory

& Ethical Non-Monogamy

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Polyamory 101

Polyamory 101: Navigating Polyamory In Queer Culture

Corinne Werder, GOMAG

January 19, 2018

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Polyamory 101 / Personal Experiences

Queer Identity �and Polyamory

Alexis L Krohn, Medium

May 13, 2020

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Polyamory 201

3 Ways Polyamorous People Are Excluded in Queer Communities – And Why It’s Wrong

Sian Ferguson, Everyday Feminism

October 25, 2015

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Polyamory & Bisexual Personal Experiences

STOP Polyamory Shaming

Ash Hardell, Gaby Dunn

November 28, 2017

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Polyamory 301

Polyamory and Queer Anarchism: Infinite Possibilities for Resistance

Susan Song, The Anarchist Library

2012

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Polyamory 301

Living Outside �Protocol: Polyamorous Orientations, Bodies, and Queer Temporalities

Charlotta Carlström & Catrine Andersson

2019

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Toxic Monogamy Culture

aka Normative Monogamy or Amatonormativity

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Toxic Monogamy Culture 101

What is Toxic Monogamy?

Jae Lin, Allgo

November 28, 2017

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Toxic Monogamy Culture/Amatonormativity 101

Amatonormativity

Elizabeth Drake

2012

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