Are any of the Red Flag Statements below true for you? If so, this may not be the best time for you to invest in the lives of others. All marriages go through hurdles from time to time. We would encourage you to first, address the issue in your own marriage; and then use your story to mentor others. (1 Corinthians 1:4) Read through the statements, but you don't have to check the boxes, just reflect on them.