We do not know each other well yet, so this is short on purpose. It is not a screening and there are no right answers — it is me asking the things I would rather not guess at, and telling you mine first.

So I will go first — that is the deal.

I'm non-monogamous, kitchen-table style — curious what your setup is, if you're open to sharing. No worries at all if you'd rather not get into it here.

What I want this to be: a real connection, not a script I'm running. Where it goes is something we figure out together, not something I've already decided before you're in the room.

Health and clarity: I don't drink, and I don't do K, C, or MDMA. I do use cannabis — that's where my line is, and it's mine to define, not yours to debate. I take my own car to everything. If you're planning to use anything the night we meet, tell me beforehand so I can sort a safe way home for both of us — not once we're already in it.

My hard limits: Ice/cold play, edging without full discussion prior.

Last tested: 7/20/26

This is about a first meeting, not a scene. Nothing here assumes anything happens. Skip anything you do not want to answer yet — skipping is a full answer and I will not read it as a red flag.

These answers land in a private spreadsheet only I can see. I do not share them, and I will delete yours whenever you ask.