Is he thinking about me at all, or has he completely forgotten about me and gone on, while I can not stop thinking about him?
Is it possible to rekindle your relationship with him? Is it possible that I made a mistake by adhering to the no-contact rule?
Let me reassure you that the no contact rule was not a mistake; it was the best way to go.
All of these inquiries are unavoidable, and they stem from our wounded hearts and shattered hopes. They stem from our grief and our worry of never experiencing that sensation we had with a specific person again.
The phrase "out of sight, out of mind" is ringing in your thoughts, and you can not help but imagine the worst-case scenario.
That is why, when someone leaves, our initial reaction is to go after them, get them back, and prove that we are wonderful together and that our love is worth sticking for and fighting for.
But that is precisely what we should not do since it would just drive them further away.
Given that my female brain is built to detect deception, I realized he was only attempting to buy more time since he was undecided about getting back together. After a short time, I provided him my new job's address and advised him to contact me only if he truly missed me.
Whether it be sadness, a failed rebound relationship, or something else, some external element has to impact the male mind while there is no contact.
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